Bruh I got literally nothing. Not even a happy mother’s day. I’d take the sloth pjs
Sounds like she has depression…but let’s just go ahead and make her feel even shittier
Your kid probably chose them
complain and never see another gift choose your battles…this isn’t one
Still be happy he took the time to buy you anything
Be happy you got something and someone to spend it with.
Clean your house and be grateful.
Wow, you’re overreacting and being ungrateful! Not cool.
You sound miserable. Atleast he did something for you.
Communication is key, just ask…and appreciate what you received…
I don’t know I think sloths are soft and cuddly maybe he does too
You say thank you to your son and on.the quiet you thank your hubby
I’d LOVE Sloth PJs!
Sounds like a damned if he does, damned if he doesn’t…
I believe it’s a lose lose situation with you he’s doomed…
How are sloths lazy? You sound like an ungrateful little thing. Go clean the house and get off fb.
Ummm or just be grateful he thought of you… wow…
Stop being so sensitive. Men don’t think that deeply😁
That’s why I told my kids what I wanted.
I would put them sloth pj’s on & move even slower…lol
I don’t think he meant anything mean by it.
Maybe he took your son shopping and your son picked out the sloth pj’s cause he thought you’d like them?
At least you got a gift
How about greatful you got something
You’re thinking way too much into it. Just enjoy your gift
I would be over the moon if I got sloth pjs, probably because that’s one of my favorite animals. Lol. I’m sure he didn’t mean anything by it.
I guess he won’t mind a tube of hemorrhoid cream on father’s day for being a pain in the ass.
Just curious, is that maybe the way you see yourself and that’s why you resonated with it…not being mean but maybe?
AT LEAST YOU GOT SoMeTHIng!!!
I got nothing on mothers day or my birthday sooo just be greatfull u got anything
Hell mine didn’t even say happy mothers day
You are making this such bigger deal then it needs to be. Think about this…for the past few years you got nothing for Mothers Day but this year he decides to buy you something …regardless of what it is it was something. You were unhappy when you didn’t get something and still unhappy when you do get something …I think you two need to have a good conversation,
Personally …those gifts are all very sweet to me.
The movie you watched together…a memory. The plush hedgehog reminds you of your child’s personality…very sweet.
The sloth pj’s are soft you said …nice and comfy for you to sleep well. All very thoughtful gifts if you ask me
Wow… this is a really triggered response to getting a gift. This definetly isn’t about the pjamas or the movie, it’s some other underlying issue you have with your partner you should probably work out…
I think your are reaching and just not happy with what you got.
Keeping up with the house isn’t a huge insult. It’s just common things that ppl mention during marriage at some point.
Just tell him what you think of the gifts and see where it goes….
And again they pjs…you just sleep in them…sorry but you don’t seem happy…should of just been vocal and said his gifts
Father’s Day is coming
I’d just ask him straight out!
Don’t overthink it, as we sometimes tend to do. It could be all fun & games love
It may bother you so much bc you probably feel there may be some truth about that laziness.
Be happy he thought of you and showed your kid to
It was probably on sale
I am feeling im the only one who likes sloths lol
Hey, I think we just solved the mystery of why he hasn’t gotten you stuff for mother’s day in the past!
Men generally don’t put underlying thoughts into gifts like that. He bought you things he thought you would like. Quit whining and say thank you
Marvel and DC are different, no worries there and sloths are sooo ugly they’re absolutely adorable. Don’t over think it , he tried. Especially if he has never got you anything before.
It may be that your son liked the sloth. Sloths are a big thing right now. Yes they are slow moving creatures. But I don’t believe they represent laziness. They a peaceful animals. Could they not represent peace? You mentioned a movie and he remembered. Give him credit for it. He doesn’t normally give you gifts so be grateful instead of picking things apart.
You are really reaching for that one.
Am I like the only one who won’t beat around the bush?! I’d striaght up ask my husband
Sounds like you guys need to communicate more
Girl that’s my baby spirit animal … I bought my baby almost everything sloth … sloths are intelligent amazing animals
Your totally over thinking it. Mens brains don’t operate like that
Mine got me sloth slippers lol I have to ask if that was his intentions now and he just thought it was a nice gift!
I think the sloth pjs mean he wants you to take it easy and relax. I’ll take them.
Everything he did sounds very sweet and thoughtful to me. I got called names and threatened with divorce on the weekend of my anniversary and Mother’s Day combined over stuff that wouldn’t have mattered in 24 hours or definitely could have been addressed another day. And that goes along with being treated like crap every birthday and holiday. A gift and a hug would have been nice, even if it’s not the gift I had in mind.
I can tell you you are over thinking this…
Omg sounds like your just ungreatful
Jeez… my kids usually pick out gifts and he buys whatever they pick out. Maybe that’s what happened. Honestly, just stop thinking so much. Say thank you and be happy you got anything… Also, who the hell doesn’t like sloths?!
Be greatful you got anything at all. It’s the thought that counts
People are on this post telling this woman that they like sloths. Like wtf cares!? She doesn’t… so wtf are people telling her to be grateful for something she does not like… jeez…I swear some people just accept any ol thing.
OAN: guys do put thought into the people they care about. I dunno what types of relationships y’all having
I think your issue is deeper than sloth pajamas. Consider having a conversation with your husband.
Lighten up! Sloths are cute and popular now. Be glad you have a husband that cares enough to buy you a Mother’s Day gift! I feel your issues with your husband go deeper than PJs.
Lol be happy he got you something instead complaining
Tell me you’re an ungrateful person without telling me you’re an ungrateful person. Your husband sounds sweet. Wanna know what I got? Nothing! And I was completely fine with it.
1: I feel like you are reading into this too much
2: Usually of someone goes out of thier way to buy you gifts its because they are trying to make you happy
3: first you were unhappy he didnt get you anything without bugging him and now you are mad because he got you something?
And4: this is a YOU problem. How do i know? I have anxiety and this is the exact same things i used to think every time people bought me gifts or gave me compliments. You need to take things at face value. You, and i cannot stress this enough, CANNOT READ EVERYONE ELSES MIND
I would love those pajamas
I don’t think he meant anything by it. Sloths are VERY popular right now, and they’re cute. As for the movie, at least he knew it was one you said you wanted to watch, even if it’s not one you really wanted to own. I think he’s just a man who didn’t have a clue what to get you and tried to be thoughtful.
Y’all are seriously calling someone ungrateful? Smh no wonder so many men do the bare minimum and treat women any kind of way. I personally wouldn’t worry about a meaning behind the sloth pj’s, (most men don’t put enough thought in it to even correlate a sloth meaning you’re lazy)if you don’t like em, don’t wear em.
At least you got something. This year was my first mothers day ever and expected the typical loving things. Didn’t get crap other than disappointed
Just remember… Father’s Day is coming up:woman_shrugging:t2:
Give me pjs all day!
You seem ungrateful IMO.
Did your son pick out the pajamas? Be thankful you got anything. That was a long stretch to get to him seeing you as lazy, or maybe it was a jump there because that’s how you see yourself.
Wow, some of these comments. Yikes… I get where some of you are coming from. Maybe it could be the way you guys are assuming, or maybe this is just another incident where he’s being a butt. Either way, this is just a tiny view into someone else’s whole life. There isn’t any need to be rude and hurtful whatsoever. If you wouldn’t say it to a family member/friend, don’t say it to a stranger. Kindness goes a long way.
Maybe your kids picked it out? My daughter picked me out a bunch of random things for mother’s day. I think you are reaching and turning nothing into something.
Buy him matching pajamas maybe he will get the messsge
Maybe the kid(s) picked it out
YTA, wrong group but it fits
If you you’re that ungrateful for the gifts I can see why he doesn’t bother. Not worth the effort on his part.
I’m just here to say that Marvel is not related to Suicide Squad.
That is DC.
Welcome to my Ted Talk.
I think you have some bitter feelings. And maybe rightfully so, but your on a dangerous path. You either start talking about your issues, and working them out, or your marriage will not make it the rest of your life. If you don’t see yourself growing old with him, then your marriage is all ready over. You could just ask him about the PJ’s, but you obviously you don’t feel you can. I hope you can find a way to be happy.
Sounds as if you need to stop being a B! He obviously was listening! Maybe you should’ve been more clear in your discussion!
Guys just aren’t good shoppers
You’re reading way too much into it and if he normally doesn’t get you anything and this year he did even remembering a movie you said you wanted to see why nit just be happy?
I got some candy from the gas station … so. And sloths are awesome.
Some trust issues between u 2
If you didn’t expect anything, why not enjoy a comfy pair of new pajamas? I would be thrilled.
I highly doubt he put that much thought into it. Maybe your kid picked them out?
A sloth is cute. It could be his way of calling you cute…or his way of saying “Your pajamas are old. Sleep comfortably, now, Baby.” Men don’t usually think that deep.
Most likely, he saw them in your size and said, “Now she can’t say I didn’t get her anything.” Don’t overthink stuff. It’s no fun.
Shew wee, I’d have kept this to myself probably. He probably hasn’t bought you anything for years, because you might be a tad difficult to please. I hope he didn’t see this reaction or you’ll be back to no gifts from now on probably. I understand being disappointed- I think we’ve all probably been there at some point. But it sounded like he tried. Missed the mark obviously, but it’s SUPPOSED to be the thought that counts. Btw, I love sloths and I’m not lazy. Lol
A guy a dated bought me the movie Blow for my birthday because he said it he was favorite movie. It was HIS favorite movie.
Take it at face value, I feel there’s some projecting going on here. YOUR biggest fear is being called lazy. Why would anybody invest that much time into getting a gift just to call you lazy? If that’s how you really feel about your husband it’s a bit telling about how you feel about your relationship and in that case why are you with him or not addressing the real issues at hand?
Men do not think like we do.
He bought you pjs leave it
Take them back and get ones you do like.
Maybe he received input on the jammies and plushie from the child? Like- did he think that they were cool looking? And at least he remembered the movie. That you only mentioned once. I never got anything for Mother’s Day after my kids got out of elementary school. And never anything from their dad. lol
I think its a way for you to stupidly complain for no reason
Ask him what made him buy you stuff if he doesn’t usually. Be thankful but say I wasn’t expecting anything. What changed?
They pjs get over it
Be greatly he got you something.
O.o That’s a lot to breath in. Ok… So he got you a movie YOU asked to watch with him even though he clearly stated it wasn’t something he wanted to watch. Which is thoughtful. He did something he thought you wanted and ignored his own wants. So you like the hedgehog plush. That’s great… But that’s a real far reach on the PJs. Sloths are popular and I doubt he got them with hidden meanings. If he actually did, why are you here asking? Leave already. That level of passive aggression is toxic af. If you’re just anxiety ridden and internally toxic to yourself… Then might I suggest therapy? I say that kindly. That level of self hate requires help that no one on the internet can provide.
Wow you really don’t deserve anything you just got… be happy with what was given … I wouldn’t buy you anything lol