I mean the guy didn’t even try on his suit before the wedding. this shows you just how much he cares. sounds like he gives literally no f***s about you or the relationship. good thing is you can still annul this if it’s not consummated. good luck!
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You paid … for EVERYTHING?! Girl pack your ‘ish and get gone.
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Leave, this is ridiculous.
Have you had a conversation about this with him? Could be a logical reason
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I would definitely get this marriage reversed girl… you don’t want to live with a man like this for the rest of your life… he’s already shown you what matters to him….
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At least he was there!! Mine was with his parents and I was with my friends.
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Do you pay for everything all the time??? If so, major red flag
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So, my husband and I had both been married twice before we met. We knew early on that this was it. We had exactly what we needed in one another. We had no intention of ever “getting married”. It was something we had had both done twice before it just wasn’t necessary. We had found our soul mates and forever didn’t need a piece of paper that didn’t guarantee forever anyways. Fast forward a couple of years and I found out I was no longer going to be able to afford to keep my health coverage; being diabetic made that a huge problem. My husband suggested we get married and I could go on his insurance. He wore a long sleeve button downplaid shirt and I wore a light blue dress. We had my kids and his mom meet us at the courthouse the day before Thanksgiving and we were married by a judge. My ring was silver with white sapphires. It was, aside from the births of my children, the happiest and most perfect day of my life. There was no cake. We stopped in to Power’s (in Fort Wayne, IN) for a stack of sliders and then stopped at and bought a Christmas Tree to decorate that weekend. Every single day since then has been exactly what I have always dreamed my life would be like with the man of my dreams.
The point is, none of the things you have put emphasis on are the things that matter. You have fantasy expectations. Is he the same man he was BEFORE you married him? Were you expecting him to change? Were you trying to make him fit into your idea of what you wanted in a husband? If that’s what you wanted, then you weren’t marrying the man you loved, because you didn’t love him just how he was. That is a marriage that isn’t going to last. Hopefully, next time, you will find a man that IS your fantasy without ever having to change a thing about him.
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Ummm return the man and marriage certificate lol I’m so sorry sweetie
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I def would lower expectations with him. Or maybe u had them too low before the wedding.
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A good indicator of how someone’s behaviour will be is how it has been. Just saying 
Was this typical before the wedding? 1 romantic day out that cost a bunch of money won’t change the type of person someone is …
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Get it annulled. I’m soooo sorry he treated you that way. He ruined a special day without explanation. Maybe ask him about it and see if it can be rectified. If not, precede with an annulment. There’s no reason to live unhappy and feeling like you aren’t worthy or worth it, because YOU ARE WORTH IT.
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I’d be gettin that annulled real quick! Escape him and his family!
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Y’all are so quick to run away from anything and everything. There’s a hiccup? Leave. Something small that’s totally fixable? Nope, you gotta leave. Like no. This is why the divorce rates keep going up because no one is willing to work and fix the problems.
Talk to him, exhaust every other possible option before just throwing in the towel and giving up. You both agreed to marriage, so obviously there’s something there. And as far as his ex goes, maybe he wants to do things differently this time in hopes this marriage will last. Anyone think of that? He clearly went out of his way to break certain traditions, maybe he had a reason. Talk to him before listening to these women who’d rather run and hide than fix the problem.
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Yes I would cry too.
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You should ask him why he really married you. Sounds like he went thru the motions cuz it’s something YOU wanted and YOU paid for.
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Get it annulled. He doesn’t deserve you.
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Damn girl. I’m sorry 
. He sounds like a dick.
Dr. Ruth says “you don’t have to have second your wedding night You have the rest of your lives to do that.” Maybe he was tired, or embarrassed that his uniform didn’t fit. Also did you plan all of this without including him in the process? Maybe he was feeling left out. Sounds like he didn’t even get a chance to express his thoughts on the ceremony. It’s not just YOUR day it’s his as well. TALK to him. DON’T make it argumentative. Just find out what’s on his mind.
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I don’t think you married a man, I think you married a child! Or your thinking you can change him. Good luck
I don’t blame you for feeling hurt, no need to feel embarrassed, it should be him feeling that way.
Honestly he sounds like a dick and you deserve better.
No sorry he sounds like a loser she paid for everything she needs to get an annulment if it’s recent hopefully or sorry but you may be paying for a divorce
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He sounds like an ass 
. A hoodie and slacks to his own wedding that mind you he didn’t pay for. Seems like he was just going with the motions. Address it. If he seems to not care or show any emotions for yours definitely weigh ur options to leave.