Offer him a BJ after intercouse so he can have an orgazm. I am sure he knows what’s wrong but not telling you. He will appreciate your efforts and may open up to you more.
He should see a Dr , it may be related to a medication he is taking or low in a vitamin. Better safe than sorry. Could also be a prostate problem.
Just a thought. My husband is 52 now and was diagnosed with low testosterone at 43. WHEN WE WERE NEWLYWEDS 
Yours sounds like mine …wasn’t even bothered by it. Does he have low energy? Moody? Husband takes his weekly testosterone injections and his mood improves significantly
I’m having the same problem with mine, he always have problem getting off all time, it dont matter if it’s BJ, HJ or intercourse, he always takes a long, ever since our relationship, we been together for 4 years and I can say he only get off in me 3 or 4 times while having intercourse. He is only 30 years old now. He play a lot and watches porn a lot, what do y’all think? Any help?
So nobody else’s spider sense’s or tingling. Although everybody has a point I could be wrong but I wouldn’t put it off
With his age he needs to see a dr. If he’s having issues with his prostate that will cause some of these issues. My husband (40) was having some similar issues and after he went to dr they gave him medicine (flomax) and it’s helped tremendously. Ask him if he is having trouble peeing, does he feel like he can’t fully empty his bladder or takes longer even when the urge is strong. It could become a serious issue get him to see a dr
Is he circumcised? That can be a complication of circumcision. Very common. Sever nerve damage from being cut as a baby. Infant circumcision is abuse. He could try restoring. NORM.ORG has info.
My ex would get high blood pressure and it would cause him to not stay hard and also make it impossible to orgasm. Might get that checked. Like, a BJ or something where he isnt active, his blood pressure would not get super high but actually having $ex, it would cause blood pressure to rise and cause those issues
He has issues and I think you should keep your personal sex life to yourself
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Have him check his testosterone levels!
Diabetes does that too.
They DIY too much…
It happens. This used to upset me when we first got married. We’ve talked about it and he’s let me know it’s in no way my fault and I’m not doing anything wrong. Sometimes it can take him a really long time to get off, especially if he’s already orgasumed that day. He’ll stop if he thinks it might hurt one of us to continue, if he has a asthma attack or he’s just tired.
I just don’t take it personally. There are some days that I’m really sensitive and can get off quickly and others that I am way less sensitive and it takes a while, and some that as excited as I am I just can quit get there. It’s the same for men.
This man have orgasms with hand jobs and blow jobs so he has No problem getting off. Somewhere he is not into tune or turned on by her. Somewhere in the middle of sex his focus or interest goes somewhere else.
This happens with my husband too sometimes. When it does, of course it bothers me as I feel like there is something wrong with me. He always assures me that it is NOT me. A few years ago I started being able to notice, or “feel” it when he was distracted by something else. When that happens I stop, make him make eye contact and ask him “Where are you right now? I can tell you’re not all here”. Sometimes this ends intercourse and leads to a conversation. Other times it’s like he “rallys” and is able to get back in the moment with me…
IT IS NOT YOU
He’s getting older. It’s normal. Maybe low testosterone? He ignores it because it’s emasculating. Talk to him and encourage him to seek medical advice.
There are several physical reasons this could be happening. Is he on BP meds? That can cause issues. Should he be on BP meds? Also, can cause issues. Is he low testosterone? ED? Should he be on viagra? He’s about at “that age” and there’s no shame in it.
He should see his pcp.
My husband said kegels would fix the problem…A man’s opinion might be more accurate.
Sweetie your boyfriends on percocets 
real shot he really is trust me when I tell you you’ll thank me later
Get him to go to a urologist, there MAY be a physical problem.
He coild just be low on testosterone with his age have him speak to his doctor
I can relate, we have bomb sex and he can go on forever and not cum. He only cums when he jacks off and I’m on top of him while that happens, he slides it in and cums inside me! I know it’s not me, doesn’t make me feel bad or anything. He’s a great husband and step father to my daughter. I just think he might be used to being too rough on his dick.
Haha , says her “husband” doesn’t finish , but this is all about her BOYFRIEND. … AHAHA must be you honey
Maybe u should talk about it…
He should see a doctor.
Stick your pinkie in his ass. He’ll blow when you hit his prostate. Trust.