Get a tubal , don’t have any more kids, enjoy your kids, they need you to be mommie and daddy, that was me, I’m divorced 40 years, PRAYERS
Have you considered adoption for the last baby? Ask your husband if he feels it is necessary.
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Did you ever think he may be gay and using you until he comes out. Take the kids and move on.
I feel sorry for you but if you have to ask a bunch of strangers as what to do ,you know yourself what to do get him out the door and look out for yourself and the kids there is more there then a bromance so get rid
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Sounds to me like he and the friend are together if you know what I mean
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Maybe u should stop having kids with him:joy:
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Stop having kids with him is one option. Doesnt sound like u need a 4th one
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Nobody cares. All I want is holiday pics
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Sounds like he is gay, but you should dress up and tell him he is babysitting while you go out by yourself and make him jealous.
And stop asking for advice because its gonna be 1 of 2 answers leave him , or stop getting pregnant
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Ummm first are you sure he is not gay? Just throwing that out there. Second, if he is not, hell no. So he thinks your ass is going to sit at home with the kids that you BOTH made while he screws off with his friend. What is he 16? Yeah no. Would be having that period. I mean there is a difference going out once in awhile to hang with your friend but you should get to also. But family first. You helped make the kids you both should be sharing those duties when not working.
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Definitely gay…maybe hes afraid to come out and say it. You and the kids need and deserve more of his time and attention…Stop beating yourself up …be beautiful for you and your babies
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I have a feeling your husband is
Maybe gay or it’s not the male friend he’s chatting it up with. He maybe cheating with a woman.
Take care of you!
You come 1st even before the kids because I’d your not mentally straight for you then your kids will feel it?
I’m assuming you don’t have a car and it’s a 1 car household… Put all them kids in somebody school. So you can find your sanity. Buy yourself a car… And start hauling ass and leaving the kids with him
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