My daughter wants those too…she wears them at home, not at school or any functions. She’s 7. My husband and I let her express herself how she wants but within reason. She also usually wears highrise jeans with them.
Pedophiles will love your daughter in that crop top. Keep letting her wear it. Forget about what her dad thinks.
He’s a good dad. He’s protecting his daughter.
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Crop tops aren’t for kids. If my daughter wanted to wear one it would be at the house only. I get letting kids express themselves, but in public no. People are creepy!
Personally, it doesn’t sound inappropriate for her age unless her body is very mature for an 8 year old. That being said, rules you make now will carry on into the future when she is older and her body more grown up so if this is a big deal to him, I would try to get on the same page as parents so you can set and enforce rules together. You don’t want to be telling her different things or not appearing as a united front.
Keep up the body shaming, Dad! Your daughters will love you for it! she’s a little girl for Gods sake!
I don’t blame your husband. Little girls should not be in crop tops. Are you oblivious to the world we live in today?? I’m with your husband. Sorry
Meet half way, could be something she just wears at home
if it isn’t a big deal that she wears it, then it shouldn’t be a big deal if she doesn’t…
Tank top underneath.
She is 8 and has no business wearing anything that even resembles a crop top, they are very impressionable at this age.
What’s the difference between that and a 2 piece swim suit
My husband won’t allow belly shirts, short shorts and dresses, 2 piece swim suits etc and My daughter will be 2 in December.
Definitely not age appropriate
I’m a mother who doesn’t sexualise kids in any way and my daughter will never own a crop top… their too revealing and tacky.
Dads are going to be dads. Let him have this…
Have her wear a shirt over it like a jacket.
Put a tank top or something under it so it doesn’t show her belly. I agree with you 100% on letting her get it. As long as she’s with a parent when wearing it
Me too. Your daughter has lots of years to wear a crop top.
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She is a little young for a crop top I am on your husband side
I have a 9 yr old and am teaching her to be modest. No tummy/midrif, no low cut tops, no shorts or skirts above tip of middle finger when arms/ hands straight down. Too many girls and many boys let too much show and it gets worse as they get older unless they are taught. Yes, it may see sexist but many guys do treat girls by not just mannerism, language/lewidness, but how much skin shows. More important to teach girls to be lady like.
Just put a tanktop under it
My daughter is 11 and crop tops are banned without a tank top underneath. “Booty” shorts are only allowed under dresses and shirts. Light makeup can be applied for school but if I catch her looking a mess things will be taken and given away.
I’m with your husband. I would’ve lost my shit if I came home and seen my daughter in a crop top. No belly showing. Everyone is different, but that’s a hard NO for me. No bikinis either. My girls are 8 as well.
Why would you buy it???
It’s not a man’s place to comment on what the women in his household wear. Period. Especially no reason to lose it on an 8 year old. I probably bought my 8 yr old that same crop top from Walmart. If an 8 yr old wearing a crop top makes you uncomfortable then you need to check yourself.
Maybe the issue isn’t an 8 year old wearing a shirt that barely shows her stomach and is instead people who try and sexualize a child.
In reality as your daughter gets older she will get unwanted attention regardless of how she behaves and dresses. One thing you do have control over is whether she feels ashamed and guilt over it and her body.
My daughter is 9 and I have her wear camis under her crop tops it’s our compromise.
I feel like everyone saw “crop top” and decided you’re a criminal but failed to see the part where you said you got it in a bigger size so it doesn’t show her belly unless she lifts up her arms. I think that you did the right thing and dad should get over it kids play and a regular shirt in her size could show a bit of her belly while she’s playing anyway. Teach her to fix her shirt and let her go. Stop teaching little girls to cover all of their skin and be ashamed of their bodies and teach boys and men not to sexualize children and teach little girls to protect themselves against those who could harm her. I’m sure no one would have anything to say about a boy her age running around to play with no shirt on
I agree with him I’m so picky with that stuff
Just my opinion maybe He’s just trying to protect her from weirdos in the world….maybe let her wear it around the house maybe not in public🤷🏻♀️
Have her wear a tanktop under it that’s what my mom had me do when I was younger that way my stomach was fully covered but I didn’t have to miss out on cute shorter shirts that I liked.
Shes a child! She shouldnt be wearing that stuff.
The problem is not with girls and women exposing skin…it’s with grown people sexualizing them. It may not be intentional but it is problematic. I’m sure he has good intentions of course…he’s probably trying to protect her but I’d suggest you and him come together and communicate on it.
The fact of the matter is that it is your job to protect your children. Is she doing anything wrong by wearing a crop top? No, and she needs to understand that. Just as it’s our job to raise little boys that it shouldn’t matter if a girl is half dressed or conservatively dressed, they deserve the same amount of respect. The problem you are going to have is child predation is at an all time high. These are people that no amount of teaching can help and that is who you are protecting your daughter from. There is nothing wrong with wearing a cami under a crop top if you are 8 years old.
Let me say I’ve let my kiddos wear what they like as long as it wasn’t trashy and depending if appropriate for the occasion. It’s good for kids to express themselves… now Looking from his perspective which some fail to see here….that’s his daughter and as a man he wants to protect her. That’s his job and for him she likely too young. I’m sure he’s very aware of people even young kids nowadays sexualizing children and to have someone do that with his daughter I’m sure angers him. That’s typically their first reaction. It’s natural for a man to want to protect his family especially women….now did he go overboard here yes he definitely did but it’s something y’all should discuss and agree on, maybe she pairs them with high waisted jeans ext. and perhaps he could learn better emotional management.
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Put a tank top under it. It’s his kid too. I won’t let my 9 yr old only in the home not outside my house . Nope
My girls are 9, and I don’t let them wear crop tops, they’ve asked.
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To each their own, but no crop tops, booty shorts or bikinis for my daughter.
I see both sides. I won’t let my 7 yo ware a bikini or short shorts and I buy her boys tshirt cos the sizes are better…
Talk to him ask why he feels that way… Your both her parents and both should listen to each other…
There’s a lot of things my husband won’t let our daughter do that I’m ok with.
She wanted to dye her hair my husband was against it… we talked compromised and I’ll be dying just the ends of her hair my daughter was happy and both my husband and I got what we wanted.
I think when men have little girls they realise just how much protection they need or they remember all the stuff they did as young boys and panic…
Good luck I hope you both can see eye to eye and come to a compromise
I tell my husband, who comes from a conservative family, that if it isn’t his body then it isn’t his business. If all the private parts are covered, then that’s all that matters.
Schools need to enforce a better dress code. They are there to learn not participate in a beauty pagent or popularity contest!
Good for an attentive dad.
I would flip too honestly shes 8 not 18
U have to think of the perverts in this world who look
Women know how women think, but men know how men think. I live fathers who protect their daughters.
Yeah I have a 10 year old and a 7 year old and thats a hell no from me. Little girls shouldnt be showing their body.
Kids need to be dressed like kids not like adults. I 100% agree with dad. Not only that, but unfortunately todays world isn’t what it used to be and there’s people out there who are WAY too comfortable with they’re mental illness called being a pervert/child predator.
Tank top will solve this. I see his point unfortunately for girls or women our choice of clothing will always matter and your husband understands that and doesn’t want anyone looking at his daughter that way. It’s protection mode
Everybody is over reacting I think. She’s 8. No big deal
It’s just a top, honestly. But if it causes that much of a rift, just have her wear it at home, and/or as a cover when she goes swimming? But really, if anyone is sexualizing an 8 year olds stomach, that’s on them, not you or your daughter.
don’t dress kids like they’re adults. that’s just my opinion. there are predators and he’s being protective and RIGHTFULLY so
I think it’s fine if it’s not showing too much belly I see nothing wrong with it perfect for beach wear
If your child wears a bikini I’m not sure what the problem is . My daughter is free to express herself even at 8 yrs old .We use traing bras,tanks under crop tops and i have her wear high waist leggings or othe high cut bottoms .It’s how he approaches things now that will dictate the rest of their relationship . It’s easy to say hey children shouldn’t wear this or that when they literal just want to do what they’ve seen their peers doing. I understand being cautious, but there’s also taking it tad to far and making her feel self conscious. Like you said she’s 8 .She doesn’t understand why adults oversexualize children .
Please don’t do that to your child
No little kids should be wearing anything that shows off their bodies IMO, that’s why I’m glad I never had a girl cuz NOPE I wouldn’t allow it either
An 8 yr old shouldn’t be wearing it. Period
If your husband got mad about this, you have to ask why. Does he sexualise 8 year old girls? Is he projecting?
The problem is your husband. Not the fact that your daughter wore a crop top.
Growing up, my father lost it every time he saw me in tight fitting or “revealing” clothes (his definition of revealing was sleeveless or shorts). Regardless of me age.
I then found out that it was because he used to sexualise women who wore skin baring clothes and was projecting. He didn’t want men sexualising me like he did with other women.
If his mindset wasn’t what it was, he wouldn’t have had a problem with the way I dressed.
I agree with Dad. Be happy that he is that way it will pay off in years to come.
Listen to dad . He’s right
She a kid a she needs to learn not be ashamed of her body, a little belly showing isn’t bad IMHO.
He should stop sexualizing your daughter and realize why it matters so much if an 8 year old’s tummy shows a little bit. Because men make it sexual. My 2, 10 and 13 year old daughters all wear crop tops and they feel cute. We live in a hot area. Why should they be forced to wear bras, shirts that cover completely, etc but boys and men can walk around topless if they so choose? Screw that. Be comfortable. Feel cute. Wear what makes you happy.