I was on my husbands phone because mine died…i was sending money to his mom who we owe for a phone billl…i noticed that he has been sending money to one of our mutual friends that i did not know about so i went to their texts and there was only one that said “coming over tomorrow at 6”…the rest were deleted…so not only has he been sending her money she has also been coming over when I am at work and i didnt even know abouy it…how should i confront ithis?
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Turn up at 6 too, let them know you ain’t stupid…
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call out of work but don’t tell him. leave out and swing back about an hour later or so & catch them 
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Kick his butt to the curb and move on. If he loved or cared about you this wouldn’t be happening.
I will handle it in a very illegal way so ima just 
!!!
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Show up at 6:05… cameras are cheap and small these days… js
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Actually call out, make him think you want to work, hide in your house somewhere and figure it out for it yourself, that way there’s no misunderstanding
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Don’t tell him, surprise them
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Definitely show up to their little meeting and confront them both at the same time
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hmmm I would leave work early, but park around side where they cant see you if they leave, if they dont, after a little bit walk in house and hopefully you don’t catch them doing anything, if they leave follow them see where they go
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Too true surprise attack mother fuuuu*ersss
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Yea… id call out, go back home. Park a lil ways away and sneak in. See what’s up.
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Don’t let on you know and let them dig themselves in deeper, more evidence you’ve got the better
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First empty the bank! Then show up 
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Call off work but leave like your going to work show up at like 615 maybe even park down the block so he doesn’t see or hear you pull up. See whats going on because he could just make something up if you ask
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Download a texting ap and say hey text me here instead! Then tell her to meet you somewhere!!
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Ya I’d def call out of work and go and see around 6 ish
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First I’d Set some hidden cameras… $30 on Amazon will save you a life time of bullshit💯
Then I’d do a suprise pop up after I got the footage.
I wouldn’t say a damn thing. I would pack up his stuff and take it to her house and change the locks.
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Idk why dudes cheat… Women like y’all are somethin else lol I’m afraid for this man’s life!
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Get your evidence first… record them get copies of the text messages and copies of the money he has sent her that way when you get a divorce every will be in your favor.
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Aww hope they ain’t Upto something 
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I’d be waiting at 6:01 with a can of whoop ass 
Hell confront him th
Always consider the consequences, know it could be life changing!
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Any kind of way you want to. Why is he sneaking and creeping behind your back? They’re 150% wrong.
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Just walk up.to him amd ask him
Are there ever updates? I need to know what happens!
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Hell no… I probably shouldn’t give my advice on this one because that will land you in jail.
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How do you know they not orgsnising a nice surprise for you and he sending her money to buy you something special 
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Get another mobil phone n text him lol play games
Leave!!! One lie brings on a next lie… Just cut it all the way off
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If I were you, I’d clean out the bank account, then sneak up on them when she’s at your house. Find out what’s going on. If he’s doing what you think he’s doing, you’ll catch him with his pants down… or off. Then you can leave the louse.
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I personally would leave like I was going to work.
Call into work.
Drive and get myself a coffee and come back home.
Set up a deer camera on the porch facing your driveway or front door.
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We’ll the sneaking around is enough for me to pop off.
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Take time off work, make our your going to work etc leave it sometime and go back home about 630 saying you forgot your purse or bank card etc see what they are doing
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I just wanna know how this story ends cause I’d be hiding in that mfr with cameras rolling ready to pop out the cupboard like “oh hey, did y’all wants some snacks?”.
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I would be a nanny cam up.
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Does he know your bills and wants or needs?
You know the shady shit is up if the messages are deleted. Show up at 6, make it known your not tolerating their crap, they are treating you for a fool. Confront your husband and ask him why he is going over and about the deleted messages if he lies to you stand your ground. You’ll find out you deserve better then that.
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Sounds like a favour for $$. 
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I really really hope there is a surprise he is planning or y’all have kids and he is lazy and paying her to watch them so he can do his own thing (which is kind of bad, but not near as bad as it could be). But this is super suspicious… I’d try to get evidence. Like act like you’re going to work but put in a personal day or something and show up out of the blue at home in the middle of your shift.
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Sooooo we’re all gonna need a part 2 once you’ve done something please ma’am we’re looking for season 1 episode 2, feel free to tag me once you make a move😂 but I 100% agree with all the act like you’re going to work comments and just showing up. Just remember to slash 3 out of 4 tires
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I’d call into work saying I’m coming in late or sick. Get ready for work park down the road catch them in the act, play it off you forgot something etc, jk call him out
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My phone keep kicking me off so mind have more then one comment but honestly that’s some sneaky shit and you’d probably won’t have to pay his mom back cause that’s where the money going witch is sad instead of paying bills and paying someone else.
Don’t, just pretend you work one night she usually is free and act casual and catch them lol.
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Defo need an update to this! Hope it isn’t as you think. Sending wishes! X
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Well it doesn’t mean he has been. But she certainly did ask if he was going over. Ermmmm
Clean out the account and then be there at 6
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This is what u should do call off work tomorrow act like ur going then come home after 20 minutes when she gets there then asked that B**** what she is doing in ur home when ur not there and why didn’t they tell you if nothing wasn’t going on
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Petition for future updates! Episode 2!
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Whatever you do, be safe, be smart. Too many in your situation end you on Dateline.
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Yeah he’s cheating on you…
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If you have an old phone, set it up as an ip camera (there are apps & you only need wifi on the old phone) that you can view remotely from your current phone and record everything as evidence.
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We need an update on how this turns out when it turns out. I really need to know what is going on too 
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Pretend to go to go ans watch ur house. Wait for her to show up ans confront them both
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Withdrawal your money (trust me) then say you’re going to work and come back home and see what the deal is
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I would confront her
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I would empty out the account, get all my ducks in a row and surprise them at my house. Record it for my own safety and kick his cheating ass out. Me and the kids would be staying. Oh and dispute those charges or maybe they can stop the last transaction.
Call & report his card lost
Or stolen, like as you leave the house or right before. So when he gets ready to send the $ he won’t be able to transfer it.
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You need to plan a late night working but not really work. Or call in and wait…
Men like this will tell you your crazy and your so called friend needs a reality check. I would love to see what these people look like
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Transfer all the money to you and leave but seriously 
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Oh girl!!! I’d come home to find them
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Definitely suspicious. Could be innocent, could be for sexual favors or could have an intimate relationship. Either way it’s being hidden for a reason and that is a problem. I’d get the evidence first ask questions later 🤷
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Ma’am we’re gonna need you to video this or go live and hell yes confront him. With a frying pan 
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Go to work as usual, but dont really go, park down the street, then walk back and either wait to see if she arrives or wait and go in a few minutes after her and see what is going on…but I think you already know what is going on…I am sorry you are going through this 
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20 dollar camera at walmart connects to wifi and you can watch through your phone
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Bastard, just have it out! xx
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Set the trap and snap them out…
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Show up, tomorrow at 6
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Confront him let us know what happens
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Record it for divorce records
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Listen… you have an ARMY of support here sis. We are the FBI, Dr. Phil, Oprah, and all the ninjas you’ll ever need. You know what to do now.
But, my good friend installed cameras that looked like a phone charger and even an ink pen into her house.
I need updates soon please.
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Someone’s being super naughty.
Sure hope ur the fighting kind cause i would be beating both there asseeesssss take that money &runn ,###,once a sniffer always a licker###
I would send her a message from his phone to come over then when she did kick the crap out of her, his bags would be in the yard also
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Trust your gut instinct x
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Set a trap wait for them to take the bait then confront with irrefutable proof
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Connect his imessages to another device so you can read. Hidden camera. Start putting away money n prepare yourself leave. Say nothing until your out!!
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Pretend to leave for work and park around the corner
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Go over to visit her… At 5:45…
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Well seems like we all have a date tomorrow at 6
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Get there after he is there and look in the damn windows. Video it. Don’t let them give you a story. Catch them in the act.
I think there is an app where you can recover deleted messages.
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This popped up in my feed right after your question
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Already deleting txt and hiding money/ giving yalls money away no need to ask questions better handle yours 
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Take that day off of work and don’t tell him.
Do everything like you’re still going to work and circle the block. If you have find my iPhone turn your location off cuz he could be using it to know when you’re on the way. Catch that mofo red handed.
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Plan it out. Get proof. Save money. Get important paper work and get it somewhere safe. Talk to a lawyer asap. I’m so sorry.
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Ok so what time zone is this 
so we all know when we gonna pull up? 
spy cam, see what else he’s hiding like bank accts or in pockets under his car the trunk, garage etc. And plot his new gender reveal cause he a 
bish.
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With all this messages, she knows what to do… And im here waiting for updates…
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They fucking for sure
I’d set up a trap. Pretend to go too work but park up were they can’t see you but you can see them. Poss buy a small spy camera for the house.
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Can we get an update plz…
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Invite her over. Confront them both.
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Guess you should head home early.
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Ooooohhhh… not good…
Ask straight up.
Thats about it… if you have reasons to believe otherwise… actual proof… then it might be time to speak to family and friends for help.
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My mom had to get our neighbours to pay for a present for my dad because she didn’t want him to know where it came from. It could be innocent.
It could be your birthday, anniversary, engagement, or just because present… Or some other surprise. Use your own 6th sense! On one hand not all stories have a true villain, on the other hand a lot of people suck … Go within! You already know the answer 