It’s “normal” for some people and that’s ok. But it may not be normal to you and that’s also ok. It depends on what you are ok with and what you arnt ok with. Nobody can tell you how to feel or what is ok in a relationship cause everyone is different
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Ask him if he’s okay with you posting provocative videos/pictures. Hell, don’t even ask him if you don’t want to, just do it, show a little cleavage in your selfies more often, if he has an issue with that stuff then throw the double standard right in his face and ask him why he’s okay with watching other girls (who might be underage because Uhh tik tok) but why you can’t feel sexy? Why does he need sexual gratification from other bodies when he has a wife at home? Ask him straight up if he’s bored with you, talk about if you need to have sex more often or if he desires to see more than one body all the time (which isn’t okay with many relationships). There could be many reasons to things like this but often times some men are just animals and don’t get satisfaction from their intimate life at home and always want more more more. Open up about it. 
Everyone’s “normal” is different. It is normal to be attracted to attractive people. It’s normal to watch corn. However, it seems this is a boundary for you. Which means you need to talk to your husband and get that across to him. If he continues the behavior, you know where he stands.
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If it upsets you then I would sit him down and talk to him and explain that it bothers you. He should respect you enough to stop.
Leave him. You’ll feel better. Why should you have to feel bad about yourself over someone else’s inconsiderate, unfaithful actions. Leave him
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I don’t think it’s wrong at all. I have a TikTok crush my husband knows and thinks it’s funny lol. But if it bothers you, he needs to respect that.
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Not normal & very disrespectful to a marriage. Sadly our usually leads to worse things
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You dont have to “be ok” with anything… As a person.
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It’s normal… it’s when he touches that it’s not…
Went through the same with my ex! Why he’s my ex! Oh hell no! It is absolutely not normal for older adult men to be attracted to young girls flaunting their bodies! It’s mental illness, pedophilia!
Gurl bye, bye felisha…if that’s all that man doing , then u need to grow up and put ur big gurl panties on…leave that man alone and hv a bigger fish to fry yo or u go be divorced yo
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As long as it’s eyes only and be open about your feelings
I am in the same boat. I am not comfortable with my husband looking at porn or googling girls/women on tiktok bc not too long ago it led to him subscribing to their only fans page. If he wants to look at a naked body, he has mine. He’s known how I’ve felt about it since day one tho so I think that’s the difference. Be open with how you feel and set appropriate boundaries.
It’s fine as long as he’s single
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He’s hiding it. He knows it isn’t ok. He knows you are not ok with it or that you would be hurt by it. Are you financially and emotionally able to do something now that you know? It is interesting to me that you are not able to make a decision. We don’t know either of you personally. It might be time for you to get some counseling and then see if counseling with your husband can be the next step.
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If hes doing it knowing its hurting you or upsetting you thats not on he needs 2 respect u n your boundaries if he wont then look 4a man who will n wave the selfish loser bye bye
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It’s normal but I did talk to my man about the same thing and he Chilled out looking at certain things out of respect
Men be like that. It’s wrong but normal. Hate to say it even the best man in the world shady when it comes to that. If he didn’t tell u than he feels it’s wrong and does it anyway.
What I threatened to do. He seen my point afterwards. 
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It’s normal not healthy but normal I don’t say anything it doesn’t bother me unless it was like only fans and local girls woo wee he a dead man lol
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It’s human nature to be attracted to other people. Doesn’t mean anything unless he goes a step further to talk to or see other women.
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Was going through the same thing except about the p*rn part. I turned the tables and he didn’t like it
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Normal. My man looks at porn so what. U can learn things off of it lol at least he’s not having another female in real life. Looking is one thing actually cheating is another. They r gonna look and your jealousy will push him away from u.which u probably don’t want.
Definitely leave because he maybe cheating and its not ok to be looking at stuff like that when your in an relationship
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It is NOT ok no matter what society says !
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I mean, all of these people saying “that’s just men, it’s normal” is true to some extent. Is it just that he is “following these pages/people” or is he messaging with them? Because there is a huge difference between (watching porn/or looking at pictures of attractive women. && actually talking to other women) I know a lot of people are not okay with their significant other (watching/looking at porn) if that’s the situation for you guys, does he know that your not okay with it or is this the first incident like this?
Not normal. If Christian or other clean belief system, when something like that is found, the individual should remove it immediately.
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It’s normal as long as he not messaging the woman
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No this is not normal.
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Oh boy seriously people stop living in the old days and I don’t know a single man married or in a relationship that don’t still watch porn occasionally and tik tok seriously it’s an app for girls and guys to be hoes or get advice. My husband has more chicks on his Facebook Instagram and tik tok then I do. And he gets free stuff from them all the time. Stop telling her to run for hills when all she needs to do is communicate with him.
How would he feel if situation was reversed? You deserve same respect.
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Yup it’s normal my kids father does too I found porn In his phone too I don’t even care because it’s normal
If you go looking for something, chances are you’ll find it.
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Just tell.him one time delete now or you send him packing if u can copy his junk u can use it in court
Its definitely normal. But that doesn’t make it right. Tell him how it makes you feel and if you want him to stop. If he doesn’t take your feelings into consideration… 
make of his actions what you will.
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Show me 1 guy who doesn’t watch porn
I can wait…
It’s not normal if you’ve told he before it hurts your feelings also pr×n turns your brain into mush it’s literally not good for us.
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It’s not about if it’s normal or not. It’s whatever you’re comfortable or uncomfortable with. Everybody has boundaries.
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It’s normal for sure I follow a lot of good looking men on tiktok as well it’s in our nature but I do understand the hurt from u finding porn he should tell u