My husband of 20 years told me he got his own place: Advice?

He’s already moved on with his life and you probably would be better for you as well :blush: someone else can love you the way you deserve :heart:

Who does that??!!
A cheater, that’s who.

Wake up and smell the coffee
Sounds like he is leaving you
Pack his stuff in to garbage bags
Put them outside and change the locks

Move there with him if he only wants to be closer to work. Then he will have to tell you real reason.


Midlife crisis …. Don’t take him back. Men like that want to play and then take you back when they feel like it.

Tell him he made a covenant with God and he needs to honor it. Probally having an affair.

Give space but don’t let him dictate, this affects you both