My husband told me he wasn't allowed to wear his wedding ring to work

It depends what kind of industry he’s in. My man is a steel worker so it would actually be dangerous for him to wear a traditional metal ring to work. But many of them wear silicone replacements,so they will squish if something should come into contact with it.

With you having additional evidence though, I don’t know… that’s a red flag :triangular_flag_on_post:

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Your being played period!!!

No doubt! Something’s off!

Get a good lawyer fast.

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My job we can’t wear anything with stones just a plain band

I personally dont like to wear rings. Thats me. I dont need a ring to know who im with for 32 years. But I dodnt need to lie about it.

Why does he need to call on breaks or lunch…if you are at work why should you be taking phone calls unless it’s important…

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Though my husband can wear his ring it’s dangerous in his line of work… We bought him the silicone bands to wear instead…

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The fact that you’re on Facebook asking if you should be suspicious means your relationship has failed

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In our local manufacturing companies you can’t wear rings, necklaces or hoodies for safety of getting caught on or in a machine. Rules came about after several incidents and even death from a hoodie. Not always in manual and office personnel are exempt

Once worked in a steel mill where it was a written rule that no rings were to be worn … most of us still wore our wedding rings … some of those who didn’t were observing the safety dictate, but most who easily shed their rings weren’t and (surprise) eventually “lost” (or pawned) them … yeah, you should definitely be concerned/suspicious!

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i would keep a close eye on this , i would be suspicious

That would be the day anyones tells me I can’t wear my jewelry…. ESPECIALLY my wedding rings. I once was told that I needed to take out my tiny little nose ring and cover up my tattoos, months after I started at said job. I told them you hired me this way, you can fire me if it bothers you that much. I didn’t get fired.

Honestly though, sounds like trouble your way… some companies do not allow jewelry/wedding rings especially because rings can get caught and you can lose your finger! Happened to someone I know.

BUT if he lost his ring and he is not allowed to wear one, what about a different idea. My husband has lost his wedding ring countless times and at certain jobs didn’t wear one because he could’ve lost his finger if it got caught so we have thought about tattoos on our fingers. Just an idea….

Depends on what he does, if he uses machines where he could lose a finger of the ring gets caught. Would be helpful if you told us his industry. For example construction or my dad works in a machine shop making parts, his ring could get cause and he could lose a finger, so he doesn’t wear his ring to work.

We were not allowed to wear rings , ear rings or neck chains for safety reasons it was a factory I seen a guy loose his fingers because his ring got caught in The machine and the machine was injection moulding A girl got her neck chain caught in the drill press a girl got her hair ripped off on a drill press the fan blew her hair into the drill press , no hairnet I mean have some trust eh when you work you don’t have time for hanky panky

Even if they have a no wedding ring policy (understandable for metals and diamonds) he could still wear a silicone ring. They aren’t very pretty but they serve the purpose.

If your gut is telling you something is wrong…keep looking.

Couldn’t this bloke just not tell you he is not wearing his wedding ring? It doesn’t make sense.

My husband works with his hands and although they don’t require them to leave their rings in their lockers, he does because he could get his finger stuck easily while working. His coworker never wore his ring because outside of work he did farming and other things with his hands. Doesn’t mean he wasn’t faithful but sounds to me like you are worried beyond the fact he doesn’t have a ring on while out in a private workplace. My husband rarely calls me when he is at work because he has short lunches and would rather relax and eat then be stressed out trying to hurry

And honestly depends on where he works like at my job I can’t wear a ring due to the fact that I could lose my finger doing what I’m doing

YES and NO.
I never expected my husband to call at lunch or breaks …
Maybe make a surprise visit to work and check out the guys’ fingers …
(there’s often a reason a guy cheats, sadly it is a wife who has let herself go or she is a nag …) I feel I can safely say that without you being offended because we don’t know one another -

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You should always be concerned if your mate is lying to you.

Maybe you could call someone to find out if that is true.

If you have to ask ………….

no definitely not it was dangerous to wear in my job or even driving trucks I know of a case where a truck driver ripped his finger of he reached into the glove box as he jumped out of the truck and caught it on the lip around the edgier you opperate machinery it’s a no no

U know that answer be careful

not married but i never wear my rings to work because they’d cause to many issues and most workplaces don’t give really good breaks so the time that we do get we usually just kick back and relax after we finish eating

My husband wears a silicone one so if something gets stuck on it, itll just snap. Instead of losing a finger or hand. You just lose the ring.

I would suggest using one of those if he’s concerned about safety. Thats why they make silicone rings.

Depends on his job… for example mine is a helicopter mechanic and he will either leave his at home
Or wear a rubber one because he can’t wear jewelry just incase anything happens and his hands end up stuck somewhere in the helicopter … it can be dangerous for him… so he won’t wear his sometimes but I occasionally show up unannounced to bring him lunch or he’ll call me on his lunch sometimes so I’m not worried :face_holding_back_tears: