It can be a safety hazard. If he gets it caught on something and his finger swells that leads to it being cut off, so there’s that🤷
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Why does he have to call you on his breaks?
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definitely; concern or why he lied to you about not being able to wear wedding rings at work when you discovered thru research it was not true.
Yip! I would be concerned alright!
You aren’t allowed to wear rings at many different types of jobs
My grandfather had his ring finger ripped off because of his wedding ring. Me nor my husband wear one
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If you don’t trust him, YOU shouldn’t be there.
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Yes he is lying to you. He is probably cheating on you. Get out!
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Concerned or suspicious?? He’d already been out my house!!
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Sounds like you need to do a little work on yourself and stop blaming your husband for your insecurities. jealousy is a evil beast and can get the best of people. instead of the accusations be positive & proud that he found a new job and he’s working hard to make a living for your family. Raise him up and support him in a positive manner. Love wins every time!
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So, what you’re saying is you don’t trust him? Ring or no ring, you’re married, you need to trust him… or leave.
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When I worked we also couldn’t wear a band or any jewelery , in food industry , could if we taped finger up but it is uncomfortable , for safety reason’s ,biggest thing
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he worked at an all mens place. and wasnt allowed to wear his ring.
are u saying he’s into men and lying. or could it just be true ? most people dont wear rings becuase accidents can happen
Some men are all into the job and take short breaks or work through, I did. Also he may have just gotten used to not from his previous job. I think the main cause of alarm would be if he changed while with you.
Major red flags coming in for me. Sounds like a bunch of bullshit.
Get him a silicone one. They are approved in manufacturing and warehouse jobs
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My husband used to work with machinery. He removed his ring before work, but always wore it away from work. Now he works a desk job and wears his wedding ring daily.
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You already know the answer to that question. Your gut is speaking to you…listen to it. And you don’t need his permission to end things.
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You should include job description, there’s a lot of jobs that don’t allow jewelry for various reasons.
He calls on breaks??? Married 25 yrs never call each other from work bc it’s work and only in emergencies
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Actually in many work places
You can’t wear any jewelry or body peacings or display tats
Maybe he doesn’t wanna talk to you and needs his peace too 
If he’s in some type of job where he works with his hands wedding bands can be very dangerous
My husband rarely wears his wedding ring 
my dad almost ripped his finger off after getting his wedding ring stuck in a machine at work. I don’t think it’s that big of a deal it’s not really a natural thing for a lot of men to wear jewellery. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and we never ring each other on breaks. Text or call if we really have to otherwise talk when we both get home.
Does he work in construction or with tools/machinery? Metal rings aren’t recommended because they can cause degloving injuries.
I also don’t see why he would tell you lol if he wanted to be sneaky why tell you? Why not take it off while he’s there and put it back on when he got home? I think you’re reading into it WAY too much. My husband doesn’t wear a ring. He’s not cheating.
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The question is why he is lying? The rules say one can wear their wedding band. So yes, I’d say he has his personal (suspicious) reasons. Here comes the hate for me but at that point I’d go through his phone. O_o
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My husband has two wedding rings; one he wears to work and one he wears for everyday.
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I don’t understand why some of yall keep commenting about your personal experience with your partner not being able to wear it. Did you just not read where she says she read the rules for this job and asked a coworker and found out he is lying. Lol like I’m sorry but once she said she knows he is lying those comments are completely irrelevant and moot points.
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If it’s any kind of construction he probably can’t wear a ring so he doesn’t get his fingers ripped off 
We really need to know what kind of work he does…a lot of jobs may unofficially ban them due to safety issues around machines
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Get a tattoo ring on his finger
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If their gonna cheat they are gonna do with or with out a ring on trust me🙄
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1 place ok maybe I’d believe it but 2
Would his job be more efficient Without it ?? I mean my husband works in a dangerous factory and he still wears his but I could see a guy doing rhe same job not wanting to …
Then again why would he even bother with the lie he could wear it take it off in the car put it back on before he gets home idk ask yourself if that makes sense his work not allowing it 
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It depends on what he is doing. A desk job that’s probably a lie. Stuff with machines. It’s legit.
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Tha fact is if you are having to question and turn to fb their is obviously something needed addressing in the relationship on a mutual level. Lack of trust
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Depending on what type of work it is … but even that is rare! I second the other suggestion of getting a tattoo wedding band. Or call his boss and ask the boss to tell him he can wear a ring 
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I think he is sneaky and wants to be single. Speaking from experience I’d keep a close eye on him
My husband is a roofer and he wears a silicone band bc he’s almost lost his finger dozens of times with his original wedding band. He started taking it off when he got in the truck in the morning but then he would lose it and after buying multiple wedding bands he eventually just went and bought the silicone ones. We also aren’t the type to fight if we don’t wear them either. I’m in the medical field and rings earrings etc are unsanitary. My ring rips through my gloves at work so I take it off before I leave for work and alot of times I forget to put it back on. It doesn’t mean I’m not married
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Yes be very concerned go to his work and surprise with lunch
Pay attention to all the females and speak to them and tell them who you are
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Maybe he doesn’t want to wear it so he doesn’t ruin it or hurt himself, no big deal! He is at work, let him work. Maybe the last thing he wants to do is talk to anyone on his break or maybe he has developed good mates at work and doesn’t need to call you. Just talk to him.
My husband literally lost his ring saving my nana from drowning ( she can’t swim) and the raft tipped over ( she did have a life vest but being older she couldn’t turn over in water), he spent hours diving trying to find it and literally asked me everyday when the new one would be there… he works at a club as security and is a mechanic…so my thing is if it’s important to you…speak to him…I honestly didn’t care but it was important to my husband so I replaced it quicker than I would have because it bothered him not wearing it …I take mine off alot because my hands hurt so he bought me a silicone ring to wear.
Wait…you expect him to call you on breaks and lunch? I would be concerned if he did.
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I wear mine on a necklace under my workshirt due to working with machinery… perhaps this is an option
Don’t wear yours either. I would def not put up with that
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Certain mechanical and medical jobs don’t allow for rings. Just sayin’
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Men at my uncles hardwood business aren’t allowed too. There are machines that have grabbed onto the rings and has taken off fingers. My step father had this happen to him. He got to keep his finger however bcuz it was still hanging on enough by the bottom side of the skin but he’s never worn his ring again while there and my mother didn’t want for him too.
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A lot of factories and industrial jobs don’t allow any metal jewelry at all. Get him a silicone ring. I can’t wear mine at work and I even have to wear gloves. I don’t always call/text on my breaks either. I eat, smoke my cigs, and sometimes nap. My man does the same thing only he has a shorter lunch than me so I never expect him to call. He will if he wants to. You need to communicate with him and figure out what’s really going on but I wouldn’t just assume he’s cheating and treat him as such.
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You’re already suspicious or you wouldn’t be asking strangers on social media.
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liar liar pants on fire
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Depends on what he does, anything with electronic, or electricity don’t wear or he can die, is that worth it?
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Time for counseling… time for a sit down Come to Jesus meeting. Ask him if he wants to stay married ?? OR would he rather pay ali.ony AND child support??? I smell a cheater ???
My husband doesn’t wear a ring at all but I trust him. I don’t remember the last time he called me on one of his breaks or lunch . We call or text if it’s necessary, he drives a tractor or is running other farm equipment or he’s usually just busy doing his job and has to eat when he can and probably couldn’t hear the phone ringing. I have never questioned him not wearing a ring but I have never felt the need to.
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What exactly is your husband’s job??
It depends on the job 100% this whole post. I’ve worn my ring along with my spouse doing jobs but certainly there’s been times he can’t wear it. Labor jobs etc. even at a warehouse I had to be more careful, sometimes I wouldn’t at all. Either way no job will say a silcone band is not allowed. So that’s the compromise. If he won’t wear that then I would be suspicious. They break under any pressure and are slick and tighter so don’t get caught easy. Btw I always would call and talk to my husband on breaks and he does the same. We miss each other sometimes and just text through the day as we can, and idk why I’m seeing people hating on that? Lol like people would rather have zero communication all day? Unless they don’t have the time or they are eating etc.,It sounds like those people are not happy in their own relationships so they use husband /SO working as a break. Which is fine, I’ve been there where work is my escape. With a toddler it sometimes is easier being a working mom.
Again it depends on the job. I saw a man lose his finger during a block party while he was working on his roof. He still has no ring finger, just a nub. No job is just men or just women in reality. I’ve worked where’s there’s been only women but there’s also been dudes that worked there too at some point. Same with an “all male workplace”
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What is he a pole dancer, a cook, bartender?
My husband is a contractor, we went to silicone when he’s at work and wears his wedding band any other time. Some jobs do not let you where metal bands because it is hazardous. My husband and I rarely communicate during work days unless it’s important, it’s normally just hey have a good day I love you, or how’s your day ( we both keep it good, bad, etc) and explain why later.
So, I’d open conversation with him. To see how he reacts, what he says etc
I didn’t allow my hubby to wear his at work. I saw a man’s finger get ripped off getting caught on something. I saw a welders finger burned because the sparks hit his ring and those splatters got caught under the ring. It was bad enough when it got in his socks. Now he works in a clean room, and can’t wear it. He has never been one to call on his breaks. We’ve been married 37 years, and he has never cheated on me. Never even entered my mind. Could be we are soulmates, with unconditionally love
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Get him a silicone ring. Those can be worn at any job because they can snap off.
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My husband has worked warehouse jobs for years and they require silicone, not metal bands because of potential accidents
Umm! Sounds like you are already concerned and suspicious!
My husband doesn’t wear his ring, bc it’s not safe if you work with any type of machinery. A ring doesn’t mean anything. If he’s going to cheat, then he’ll do it with or without the ring
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I don’t wear my ring. I don’t call my husband during work hours or lunch or breaks. Unless needed.
I don’t cheat. I love my husband.
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Why don’t you trust him?
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I would be concerned and I’d definitely keep my eyes open. I see a lot of comments from people who say they don’t text during the day. My boyfriend and I have been together almost three years. He is retired but for about a year, he had a part time job. He always texted me good morning and we both texted at random times during the day. I couldn’t imagine going all day without communicating to him in some way. That’s just how we roll. It’s not for everyone, obviously. Everyone should do what works for them.
What does your gut tell you? Go with that.
Depending on the job I’d say. I worked in a sawmill with my fella, he never wears his engagement ring for safety, I wasn’t sure on believing that so I wore mine. My hand got jammed with a piece of wood and my ring is now bent and stuck on. If it’s safety I totally understand. This stuff wasn’t written either, it was learnt the hard way through loosing a finger or hand…
It does sound paranoid checking up on him and that stuff can really play on the mind. I’d ask him straight out.
Be outright
“I checked and you’re lying. Either come up with a good excuse in the next 10 seconds or pack your shot and get out”
Simple 
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Red flag 
Girl, go up there on lunch
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My husband isn’t allowed to wear any type of wedding band where he works not even silicone/rubber.
Depends on the job. Rings are hazardous in some jobs. Depending on the position, rings or jewelry of any kind may not be allowed.
However, if the job is not one where he’s doing physical labor… thats your answer.
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I can’t wear a wedding ring… bare below the elbows for infection control and safety of patients who are prone to skin tears
I’m a welder and can wear a ring if I choose to take the risks and do so… I have rubber rings for work though so I’m never actually without one!
Cosmetologist and Auto Mechanic.
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My choice on both. I know a lot of companies strongly object in the automotive field. I saw another poster mention a silicon band. I’d definitely ask about that. My husband was a commercial printer; jewelry not allowed (if it catches in machinery, it can mean a finger, hand, arm).
However, if he’s wearing it otherwise, I would ask if the ring is what’s tripping your trigger. Honestly, I’ve found I seem to get “hit on” more while I have any kind of commitment jewelry on - I know a lot of men are the same. It’s the whole, “forbidden fruit,” syndrome, I think.
I’m guessing you have other reasons to distrust him. In which case, the ring isn’t the issue and I’d figure out the core problem and approach him. If you’re just interested in making sure your fire hydrant is wet, that’s a “you problem”, not a “him problem”.
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My husband is a fitter and I won’t let him wear his to work it’s too dangerous…
My father no longer has a ring finger due to wearing his
If another co worker is telling you that, that isn’t true then I’d believe them. Some jobs do not allow them but it’s kinda odd that every job he’s had said no rings.
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Learn to trust ….if your partner is behaving differently towards you then tell him what you know about rules. And he’s to be up front with you about wearing his ring is he embarrassed about it or what
Wearing a wedding ring does not stop infedelity… Calling on breaks does not prove fidelity…Why is a co-worker’s word being trusted over husband’s word? Why is something like calling on breaks be so crucial to a marriage?? A union requires trust. If trust is absent or being questioned over such insignificant matters then there is a control issue and a fabrication issue. Maybe both of you need to take a step back and really discuss the issues causing insecurities. One thing is sure… without trust there is no union of marriage or commitment of any kind. He not wearing a wedding band to work “the symbol of marriage” seems to cause suspicions on your part, as well as your belief that if the wedding ring must be worn at work especially if women are working there too causes feelings of being controlled on his part. There are so many possible scenarios in the post. Wife could be insecure and jealous, or, the husband could be cheating, interested in cheating, or, intentionally causing wife to feel insecure with actions of not calling on breaks, wearing wedding band, lying etc… because he is feeling controled; it’s all about trust, honesty, and our own securities and insecurities. Communication and compromise is definitely in order for you both. Wishing you both the best.
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The fact that you don’t trust him enough to go all day without talking to him speaks volumes. I don’t need for my husband to call or text on his break or lunch. We’ll talk after work.
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Trust your gut …
Probably rarely wrong
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My husband very rarely if ever contacts me when he’s at work and he often doesn’t acknowledge my texts. On top of that his work doesn’t allow wedding rings or any jewellery 
should I be worried?
I know my husband is very busy and under a lot of pressure at work, jewellery is a safety issue.
I think you need to have a conversation with your husband about your concerns.
yes, be very suspicious.
My husband works for the biggest rental company in the USA that deal in big construction equipment . He is a mechanic for said company . He is not ALLOWED to wear his ring to work for safety issues . But some can like salesman , front counter . But mechanics and drivers can not . So your hubby probably can’t but the guy you talked to can .
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Yes! Sound like your starting to learn about Narcissistic traits.
Find a support group, your NOT CRAZY.
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I would be suspicious but, unfortunately that will not stop an affair.
As a matter of fact, some women prefer them married.
Sad but true
so all of us nurses who were told, not to wear jewelry, or fake nails, should continue to wear them, have those nails done every 2 wks, because it is not written anywhere??? So I am guess all of their love ones, are guessing they are cheating on them !!! If someone is going to cheat, they will whether they wear a wedding band or not !!! And you weren’t worried before because all of the people he worked with before were all men, Hate to say, men do have affairs with other men, …just saying !!!
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My husband is a Mason, and the work he does he can get hurt wearing his ring. So we ordered the rubber groove rings for him to wear and honestly he only wears those now lol. But it doesn’t bother me. Maybe get him one of those and see how he reacts?
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Depends what his job is. There are some jobs where having a wedding band on could be dangerous, like if they’re working with machinery. I knew someone that got their hand stuck in a machine because of their wedding band. It got snagged on something and they weren’t able to pull their hand out and almost lost their hand because of it.
That ring won’t keep him from cheating if that’s his intentions. Follow your gut instinct, it’s usually never wrong. Why don’t you confront him and just ask?
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I mean if your man don’t want to wear his wedding ring so others can see he is married, there is an issue.
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