My husband treats his female best friend better than me and has been talking badly about me to her: Advice?

Lose him.
He’s dumping you, you just haven’t figured it out yet.

Why do you want him?

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First tip off is your husband best friend should be you…flush that pos and move on.

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Get rid of the cheating pos… Been there done that. You’re only hurting yourself!!

Leave it takes two to make things work …sounds like its all one sided

cut him loose like a FART!!

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Kick his ass to the curb!!

Been there- divorced that

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Oh baby, NEVER BEG A MAN FOR HIS ATTENTION. If he can’t acknowledge you, he isn’t worth it.

Divorce the cheater.

You’ve already lost him. Let go.

Sounds like to me that he is probably gay.

Hello I know I’m your heart you your self has to be the one to accept what is happening no everyone can give you all the advice I’m the world but the real question here is “are you ready” your comment tell me your not your just seeking justification for staying please note you are within your right to be angry,upset and everything that goes along with a man that does this. Trust your heart and let it be your guide and when and if you ever get ready Only you will know- hope this helps good luck :+1:

Talk to the girlfriend

go to Darwin and keep going

Don’t waste the pretty… move on!!!

Not post this on FB for starters

Kick his ass to the curb… simple

This is a lose lose situation. Sucks.

Kick his ass to the curb! You deserve better even if you don’t think so!

She needs to be gone

Narcissism manipulation

Get real and get ready

Martha Neal Lyons yep

Dump his ass! No more crap!

Get a life and tell him to go to hell .

Ever hear of gas lighting?

Leave he doesn’t deserve you

It’s not your fault. The way he behaves is his fault, not yours. Stop letting him blame you.

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He’s having an affair. Cut em loose

Follow him or hire a detective

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Get NADKED and tie him up

Run!! You deserve better!!

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If it smells like and looks like. Go with your gut always.

Bye bye, don’t let me keep you, off you go now,

Red flags everywhere

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Shut up and pay attention. :wave:t4:

Wow! Run girl…RUN!!!

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Dump him you can do better

Emotional affair contact an attorney for whats coming down the road

He wont change he’s cheating

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Obviously you married a little boy.
Dump it and never settle for less than you deserve

Kick him to the curb

You can do better.
Run…

The only female best friend should be you his wife.
If not get out of this pigs life.

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I think you might have allready losst hm.

You need to pack up your own stuff leave

Get a new best friend and make sure it’s a male

Bloody hell girl take a breather. Go out with your mates. Have fun. Smile and chill. Its intoxicating for a man to see a happy confident woman. Fake it. He’ll become very curious about you if you do.

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You are worthy of so much more!:heart:

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There’s lots of Curbs out there🤷‍♀️

Leave his sorry ass…

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Once they go bad it’s done.

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It’s time to break up

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He is a dick… dump him🤮

Kick him to the curb. Now.

Go to that best friend n sort her out done n dusted .Life is to short .Go for counselling n try to work it out .Go to a Pastor for help .Pray n fast for him to change .God can do miracles. I pray Psalms 91 over u n ur family .

Kick his ass to the curb

Sounds toxic & unhealthy

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Lose him. The trust is gone!!!

Better learn to love your self more than him. Run :man_running: :running_woman: :man_running: :running_woman:

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Google “gaslighting”. He’s a POS.

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Time to go girl move out move on or him move out one he’s no longer interested in you there’s nothing you can do anymore to keep his interest I have been here it absolutely sucks but it’s time to go I’m not gonna sugar coat it bc that’s giving you false hope I hope you all the best

Dump his ass and move on

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Sounds narcissistic.

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Divorce papers he will just be more careful

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If he acts like you is horrible, he thinks that. Cheating aside from it all, which can be forgiven in my heart.

He always saw me as amazing in his eyes, even when I was undeserving of that. That meant a lot more to me than any indiscretions he ever made in front of or behind me.

I hope that helps with some insight and wish you the best of luck.

You should ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who treats you so badly. He’s not a nice man.

It’s emotional cheating at the very least. If there isn’t something going on yet, there could be in the future or he has a crush on her. There’s no way I’d be with a man who prioritizes a “friend” over me

Marriage is a covenant and a commitment, so kudos to you for your patience through this - it must be difficult to navigate. I suggest counseling, or scheduling regular date nights… whether in or out of the house… so you can reconnect with each other :heart::heart:

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leave find someone who appreciates you. love never bad mouths loved ones.

If YOUR best friend was a man and you were acting the same way he is, he would be upset.