My husband wants a 3 some: Advice?

One:He needs to stop listening to his single friends
Two:He needs to realize that you’re the best women he ever had
Three:That threesome dream needs to go out of the door
And four:try something new like toys or role plays but threesome/group sex is a no-no

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If he’s not satisfied with just you then tell him to hit the road. Your worth more.

Seriously! ??? Why the HELL did you both Marry if you and he are EVEN Questioning this?:confused:

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The ball is in your court. If you want to do it, go for it. If you dont, say no and keep saying no. Realistically if he really loves you then it wont make a difference. If hes gonna leave you for the girl you have a threesome with, then he was probably gonna walk eventually anyway. If it’s something you think you’ll hang over his head, or something you’ll negatively think back to in the future then just say or no or try the safer option of doing it with a guy first. I’m personally not completely against threesomes. I’ve had them in past uncommitted relationships. When my husband and I talked about though we both realized that we are too jealous of people to do it. It would be great in the moment but we’d likely use it against each other later.

Any man showing interest in another woman, is just taking a sip from the devil’s cup. And he will just want to keep doing so once he gets the taste. I’d suggest marriage counseling or divorce. If someone loves you, there shouldn’t be an interest in any women on the side.

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any man or any woman that is married and wants to have sex with someone other than their spouse, IS NOT IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON THEY ARE MARRIED WITH !!! Period, anything said otherwise is total BULL CRAP

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Yikes… first of all that’s way too young to marry.
Second of all, leave him if you’re going to overthink this.
Thirdly, there is nothing wrong with sharing the bed, it’s just physical.

I think it’s most men’s fantasy to have a threesome. Me and mine have been together five years. He wants one. We’ve talked about it. He wants someone to be “used” as a “sex toy” a submissive to obey orders. I’ve thought about it but Idk if I could actually go thru with it. If you’re interested, set ground rules. You choose the person, you do all the communicating. If I were to actually go thru with it, I’d take a holiday somewhere and do it with a woman I know neither of us will ever see again.

Std testing before and after, fuck that. :100::heart:

Ive heard some couples trying this because of one pressuring the other to and then gotten a taste and broken up. But if he’s going to go…you should open that door and set him free. He was never ready to be married to begin with.

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Simple answer…HELL NO…he could also be testing her to see if she’d do it…this will seal their fate if she does it…he will want more…and it will be the beginning of the end.

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He is one sick o run don’t walk away from him

I wouldnt do it, and I dont think 22 is too young to get married, my husband and I got married at 21 were together since we were 17 and neither of us has ever felt thr need for another partner… be open and honest… talk about other ways of of sexual exploration that will not compromise your monogamy…marriage is about compromise and communication that is how we have made it work for 16 years together and 13 married at such a young age. Good luck❤

Way in the hell put this one facebook in the first place