My husband wants to leave my for a girl in another country that he met online, what do I do?

Let him go. Who needs that shit.

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Little that mf toodle pip outta here :airplane: and rebuild you!

You deserve better, let him leave.

Pack his shit and let him go

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Donā€™t let his ass come back

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Let him go!!! You and yours kids donā€™t NEED or deserve that shit

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Let him go. She is probably a he scamming him.

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Heā€™s a fucking idiot. Most likely isnā€™t even a woman and someoneā€™s playing his ass. Watch karma gonna get him. Focus on yourself and your kids

ā€œGO BACK TO HIM!! YOU GUYS LOVE EACHOTHER! STAY WITH HIM. SO WHAT IF HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN!ā€ Pamela Moar Kita Laz Kayy Wabano Victoria Goodwin :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Let his ass go! You and your kids deserve a man, not a boy.

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Fuck him. If he wants to be done than you can be MORE DONE.

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Send him packing!!! Take care of yourself and your babies!

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Leave him and clear out the bank account before he does

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You pack his sh*t and get a good lawyer.

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Leave his a$$ and I hope heā€™s being catfished!

Pack his :poop: GF and send him packinā€™!!!

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Hit him up with child support and send him on his wayā€¦Sounds like he may be doing you a favorā€¦

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This happens alot , someone his never met isnā€™t going to nag him to do something around the house ,they are never going to be seen at their worst , he canā€™t taste her cooking, or knows if she showers ,he knows nothing about her except what she tells him ,she could even be married and playing him along
Let the fool go ,your heart will heal, but not if you continue to be a door mat

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Sheā€™s probably some weird guy :joy:

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He wants to find out if the grass is greener,on the other side. So you shouldnā€™t wear your heart on your sleeve, show him the door, or do you really want to be with a man like that ,arenā€™t you sick of feeling miserable? Only you can make your life a happy one donā€™t rely on a male with wandering eyes as you will never be truly happy

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Let him go. Focus on you and your children. Get a good lawyer immediately. DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK when he finds out the grass isnā€™t greener on the other side of the world!!

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Go to court, fight for sole custody, put him on child support and let him go ā€¦ clearly his kids arenā€™t important or he wouldnā€™t want to move to another country ā€¦ I could NEVER live in another country far from my kids ā€¦ especially for someone Iā€™ve never met ā€¦

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You let him leave. You donā€™t deserve to be second choice nor do you deserve for someone you love to say they hate you.

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Pack his bag and send him on his way.

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Kick his ass to the curb

Let him. And when he comes crawling back when it inevitably goes wrong for him, slam the door in his face. Easy enough. :man_shrugging:

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I hope when he gets there it ends up being a man! But at the same time he is showing you his true colours you donā€™t need or want him he is just going to bring you down and your kids too!

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Let him go hes no good

Let him go! Why do you want to hold on to someone who clearly doesnā€™t want to be there??

Sounds like a new upcoming 90Day Fiance. Seriously though. Obviously make your feelings and concerns known. Afterwards thereā€™s nothing you can do. :person_shrugging:

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Let him leave. But not before getting him to give up custody of the kids and getting all you can in the divorce.

Then laugh in his face when he tries coming back later

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What a complete jackass! Heā€™s obviously just a piece of trash and was never good enough for you. Just be happy the trash is taking itself out.

What do you do? Nothing. Heā€™s already gone emotionally. Let him leave physically.

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Get divorced first make sure your money is separate. He cannot have access to your share of checking/ savings.

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Heā€™s in for a rude awakeningā€¦Let him go

Boot him out, get your assets safe, and wait for the moment he realises ā€œbabyā€ is a middle aged man in Nigeria

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let him goā€¦ move on and be happy with your kidsā€¦

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He would be out the front door or back which ever is closer.The fact that he has 3 kids and a grown man playing games on the computer long enough to develop a relationship would be enough

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Give him directions to your foot which you will use to then employ the ancient art of kickus arsicus right out the door before dancing your way to the solicitors to ensure you get everything possible.

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Make sure you get a child support order and let his ass go.

Let him go he is not worth it but make sure you tell him he is choosing her over his kidā€™s and when it doesnā€™t work out you wonā€™t be waiting for him and he wonā€™t be welcome back

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Why would you want him. Heā€™s a looser playing video games. Apparently ducks at being a dad

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Move on.dont waste ur time

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Take everything in the divorcešŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

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Let him go, wait and see how long it takes for him to come crawling back and then smile and wave when you hand him those divorce papers

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Let him go move on you will be fine and trust me it will save you a lot of pain and torture

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Let him goā€¦ Online and real life are two different things. He will learn that sooner or later. Find someone who wouldnā€™t do that to you!

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Get a good lawyer for custody and support.

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LET HIM GO. Absolute garbage.

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Immediately take stock of all money and investment. Encourage him to persue this person to get him out the door. Focus on the big picture and protect you and the children. Happy labor day!

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Let him go because itā€™s not going to work out and when he tries to come back to you change your number walkway and pretend you guys never existed just like heā€™s going to do to you

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Let him go. And donā€™t let him come crawling back.

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Let him go. Itā€™s very likely a scam and heā€™s screwing himself here

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Heā€™s doing you a favor. Put his ass out now. Donā€™t let him decide.

Let the trash take itself out

Tell him to go but get an agreement for the kids and custody first. :woman_shrugging:

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Livingo it could be a scam I have a friend that was $8,000 sending money to a woman overseas so she could get a plane ticket to come to America she never showed up. It could be a man posing as a woman then what you going to do

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Let him go and donā€™t ever take him back! Forget the Custody agreement and divorce, once he leaves file for it and tell the courts you donā€™t know where the POS is so then they put an announcement in the local paper and he wonā€™t be in the country to read it so therefore in 60 days you will have a no judgment divorce & custody cuz he doesnā€™t show up lol :joy: sock it to him!!! Be smart about it, you donā€™t need that looser disrespectful piece of ā€”ā€”-!

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Then file for child support with enforcement so while heā€™s being Mr Lover Boy, his child support adding up & if he ever comes back to the states, files taxes or gets a stimulus that will go to your children and you will still have sole legal custody of them.

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Take your kids and run heā€™s a jerk

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Go get legal advise like everyoneā€™s telling you divorcing get the money do it while heā€™s overseas told you he hates you donā€™t worry love you have your children that love you heā€™s not worth fighting for your kids are worth everything to you go get custody of them straight away when he leaves hopefully the house and everything will be yours so you can bring up your lovely kids good luck :100:

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let him go he is not rational . run away as fast as your legs can carry you

Donā€™t let the door hit him on his way out and when it donā€™t work out for him donā€™t let him back in live yourself first

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LET HIM GO and when he comes back make sure all locks r changed and no room for his sorry a***

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You let him go! Get you a lawyer file for custody of your kids and supportā€¦ Then you LET HIM GO!!

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As a mother u have to fight your kids are depending on u. Seek legal advise and let this person u have share your life with for d last seven years make his decision. Sometimes in life u have to let go and let God take control u cannot make him stay if this is what he wants, cry, bawl if u have to and start to think your victory is ahead of u your best is yet to come. Your kids will be fine itā€™s easier said than done but donā€™t let no man make u feel lesser of yourself. U are a queen time to put on your crown

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Let him go.No great loss.

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Take half of whatever money is in your bank account and let him go. Then laugh at him when he comes running back because he finds out heā€™s being catfished from someone overseas.

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Hes in lala land is all. šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ Hell realize. Theyll pay anyone attention that give them attention its nothin more than an ego trip . im sorry youā€™re dealing with this

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Let him go, that she is probably a heā€‹:joy::rofl:

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Sorry let him go asap get custody of kids too.

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Leave his stuff on the front lawn scattered everywhere. Good riddance to him you deserve better momma!

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Toss his sorry ass out! If he is stupid enough to fall for her he deserves what he get!

Get all the help you can thruvyhe law from this fool! Then be brave and live your life.

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Get a good attorney and make sure you get plenty in child support and alimony.

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Let him go. Heā€™ll come back to you once he realizes how good he had it. Find someone who appreciates you :smiling_face::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

Next time take screenshots and send them to yourself so you have proof go to court and live your life with you and your kids

Leave him hes an idiot whoā€™s been fished

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Reallyā€¦and you are wondering what to doā€¦unbelievable that you would ask peopleā€™s opinion

Reallyā€¦and you are wondering what to doā€¦unbelievable that you would ask peopleā€™s opinion

Your husband is looking for someone that can relate to.

There is a lot more to this than just talking to girl.

Thing have to start slowly. He didnā€™t hate you from one day to the next.

I recommend doing a self assessment and realize that you have some faults in this relationship going bad.

Donā€™t leave him. You promised to death!

Why quit now? Cause he talked to somebody and maybe grew feelings?

You are not going to find much better in the single space!

Work it out and get your man back.

Not all issues should end in divorce!

Be the women he needs during this tough time. The woman he married

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Kick his ass to the curb! :fu::v:

Help him pack. I would. Than go to court get a divorce and spousal/child support.

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She wonā€™t want him when heā€™s broke.

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Heā€™s in for a big surprise. Close out your account at bank , put it in your name , see how far he can get .!!

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I would make sure you are financially secure b4 you kick him to the curb.
You have to be firm in your actions to get what you & the kids deserveā€¦ Itā€™s a hard road but it will get better. Good luck to you

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Itā€™s probably a man. File for divorce. And donā€™t take him back. He sounds insane and very stupid.

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Open the door and let him go.

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Kick him to the curb. The sooner, the better! Take everything you can.

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Sounds like someone who has vilified you and instead of talking to you about problems has painted you as a monster. Secure your self financially get a lawyer. Include emotional damages for spousal neglect.

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I would get rid of him quick or that person will will talk him out of every thing you own. When he runs out of money he will start selling everything you own.

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Probably being cat fished by some middle aged dude who lives in his moms basement. :joy::joy:

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Throw his stuff outside get rid of him get a divorce take him off your bank account

First off get sn attorney,make him pay child support which u have the courts arrange this be taken out if his chsck, second you make him provide a home,pay half your bills. And make sure he isnā€™t living there when u go get an attorney. No matter what he want be true to you,heā€™ll do it again. Lethim go, cause he want be true to any woman,heā€™s the type that thinks its always better on the other side.however this is your decision to make, pick the right one.

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Get a divorce and live your best life with ur children. Itā€™ll be hard but you will get through it.

Let him go. It may hurt but get a revenge body, new wardrobe and find you some adorable lumber jack that loves you so much he thinks the sun shines out of your booty :heart::heart::heart: and when his online girl flakes, bails, or doesnā€™t work out tell him to get fā€™ed

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Leave him it will never be the same again Iā€™m living it now and I canā€™t get the thought out of my head because he can take time to talk to her but canā€™t take the time to fixes the one he is in

Help him pack and let him leavešŸ’ā€ā™€ļø
He obviously dont love you so why would you want to keep him

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Let sleeping dog be.