My husband wants to leave my for a girl in another country that he met online, what do I do?

Let his ass go find out the hard way! Pray for him and your family. Pack his shit and move forward with the divorce process. YOU DESERVE BETTER! TF he think he is?!

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Let him go file for divorce and get him out of the house u deserve someone better. Let him learn his lesson

Let him go to her and dont allow him back

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Pack his stuff and wave him goodbye.

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let his ass go. I know that has to be extremely painful, but you deserve so much better.

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Help him pack!:v: No matter the history or how difficult it might be, you donā€™t want to continue a life with someone like that.

Move on!!! Iā€™m sorry this has happened to you . Send him on his way! Donā€™t let the door hit him in the ass.

While he thinks u are sitting back letting him get away with treating u like a door mat, quietly be getting your ducks in a row take as much joint finesses as u possibly can talk to an attorney bc in the state of Alabama adultery is a felony let that sink in itā€™s an old law most donā€™t even know about but what ever u do donā€™t let him get away with treating u & ur kids this way heā€™s nothing but a piece of shit that no matter what u do he will never change & if u let him stay HE WILL DO IT AGAIN I promise u that but I also promise u that u are stronger than u think I know I had 3 kids & a cheating husband & I made it & now I am married to the most wonderful man theyā€™re still some good ones out there good luck but u got this

If he does leave eventually he will regret it

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Let him leave and donā€™t let him come back!!

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Heā€™ll find the grass over on the side ainā€™t all that

Heā€™ll be back might be a man .but you can do better .

Let him go but make sure he isgoing to take care of his children

With sadness in your heart for the end of your marriage.
Let. Him. Leave! Now!
Be sure he pays- ON TIME child supportā€¦ but cut your conversations with him- to only speak of the kids. (if he asks-- then answer.)
If he doesnā€™t ask. DO NOT volunteer info about you, your family, the car, the relatives, the neighbors, your friends/ workā€¦
or anything about the kids.
If he wants a relationshipā€¦ he NEEDS to build that relationship. His own relationship.

It is NOT your job anymoreā€“to keep him involved with his children!

Never, speak ill of him-especially in front of the kids. They ALL will be sad- of course, yet, as they grow up, they will see him for what he is.
Hopefully, heā€™ll keep up with themā€¦ if not, youā€™re there yo guide them in life (sports, scouts, school, etc.)

Do not beg him! Do not care for him. Do not include him. Never call him for anything!!!heā€™s goneā€“you figure it out now. Build a new network of friends to help: babysit, car repair, house repair: everything! Do NOT CALL HIM. Do not rely on him anymore.

He made his bedā€“let his new life play out.
You will go through, your griefā€¦ but you WILL COME OUT BETTER ON THE OTHER SIDE!!!
He doesnā€™t desearve a dedication, loving, wife & mother.
You can not ā€˜makeā€™ someone love you.
You can not ā€˜convienceā€™ him to chose you over her.
Let. Him. Go! The sooner the better.
He already shared his feelings. You donā€™t need counseling.

Itā€™s okay: to (quietly) snicker at him, when karma dishes him back: a dose of his negative attitude!
:slight_smile:
Be Strong Momma!
You can make it on your own, with your kids!
Be a great example of positive leadership!
Girls club rules!
Oxox

You will get over it and be stronger and happier than ever.

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Let him go and take him for everything he got in court :v:t5:

Let him leave. Say so long. Once a cheater always a cheater. Donā€™t ever second guess yourself.

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Let him lay in the bed he made. :heart: Better things for you will come.

Let him go! Then laugh when it turns out to be a dude and not a girl :joy:

Donā€™t let the door hit you on the ass on the way out!
Let him go!
And you pick yourself up & get strong real quick! Be a mom to your kids & make that $$$ and do it without him! Eff him!! She can have him!
And when, bc yes he will come back asking for another chance you tell him to go to hell! He had it & he traded up. You guys are better now without him.

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let him go an donā€™t let him back girl

Whatā€™s the question? Fuck him! Donā€™t look back!

You should be happy he is leaving

You let him leave!! Donā€™t try to convince him he has to stay.

Alimony and child support. I think you can get both. You deserve so much better

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Let him go and heā€™ll see the grass will not be greener on the other sideā€¦

Let him go itā€™s probably all a scam and all she wants is money or to come over here if she even exists!!

Heā€™s probably being catfished

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Let him go and donā€™t look back u r worth more than that!!

Let him. She only wants him to get out of her own country. Not trying to be rude. Heā€™ll find out soon enough.

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LET THAT MAN BELIEVE IT. :joy:

Thatā€™s so pitiful, men really believe there are these beautiful women in other countries who want them. Yes, they want his money lol. He will come begging for you back when he realized he was scammed, (donā€™t take him back).

Let that man goo.

Clean out the bank account. Hire a good divorce attorney. He is dead weight. Shed that dead weight.

Itā€™s your lucky day, get rid of him and move on.

So sorry he has done that to you.

Let the trash take itself out? The trash belongs in the dumpster.

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Buy him a plane ticketā€¦ONE WAY

Throw all his shit in a pile outside, light it up, get a lawn chair and watch it burn baby!! :fire: Oh and you might need a bottle of wine while you watchā€¦ Tell him hope his gamer friend likes paying child support!

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Video games ruin marriages. Run. You deserve better

If he has never met her she probably is a scam

Cut your losses and say BYE. He is cheating on you

Take him for everything heā€™s worth and donā€™t look back

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Just let him leave and laugh when heā€™s calling you cause they stole one of his kidneys

Get plenty of child support.

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Say goodbye and move on without him! X

Pack his stuff, get hin out. Or, you move out.
Get to moving on!
Why live miserably, you deserve better.

:wave: have a nice trip. Donā€™t let the door hit you on the way out.

Dump the creep and love yourself.

Let him goā€¦you never deserve to be someoneā€™s second choice.
Shes probably a dude anyways :rofl:

Throw his crap out the door and change the lock

You let him go and focus on yourself and your babies.

Kick him out and tell him to watch 90 day fiance, he will figure it out. donā€™t take him back lol

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Let him get on with it. Heā€™s a fucking fool. You and your children deserve someone so much better than a selfish prick like that! Who puts some girl heā€™s never met as a priority over his wife and kids :rage::rage::rage::rage:

Pack his crap and file for divorce. Have him served before you do anything. Let him find out the hard way he was being scammed. My friend fell for this but me being like a detective found out it was an old man in Vegas saying he was a single dad in Australia using fake pics. Then laugh at him for being so dumb! He ainā€™t worth it. Good luck and be strong.

The greatest revenge is showing you donā€™t care. Donā€™t even cry in front of him. Offer to help pack and wish him well. When it doesnā€™t work out & he comes running back donā€™t let him. Why would you even want to be a mans second choice anyways? Find someone who wouldnā€™t do that to their wife & children. Heā€™s disgusting.

Heā€™s a dam foolā€¦ sucker born every dayā€¦ let the fool go and find out for himself that heā€™s being playedā€¦

This guy was messaging me once ā€¦ telling me Iā€™m beautifulā€¦i said thanks, Iā€™m marriedā€¦ he wanted me to move, i think to Florida(or overseasā€¦ thatā€™s how interested i was, Lol) and marry himā€¦i said Iā€™m married, i donā€™t know youā€¦ scam all over it.

Let him leave but first take him for what heā€™s got then 100% custody and donā€™t let that motherfucker back!

What an idiot! When novelty turns to reality, heā€™s so gonna regret his stupid actions.
At this point, do what it takes to get what ever money you can take from him n leave him.

Itā€™ll only be misery for you to hang on to him.

Haha let his ass go. Then when he realizes it is some ugly chick and misses you and the kids. Tell him to fuck off.

I only laugh react, coz what an idiot! (Him, not you) for all he knows heā€™s getting catfished by some big old hairy Russian man :laughing: he is the one giving everything up and losing it all, not you, so hold your head up high, and show your kids you got this. Coz you do, mama x

Let him go. He is a fool and you will be better off. File for divorce tomorrow!

Let him see the grass isnā€™t always greener on the other side. Take your kids and live your life

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Let him go, because itā€™s probably some 160 pound 5ā€™8 guy with an accent thatā€™s looking to take all his money. Empty the account first, and tell him ā€œgood luck and Bon voyageā€.

Heā€™s and idiot falling for someone he hasnā€™t even met, it could be a man for all he knows, the Internet is full of lies, let him go, you donā€™t need an idiot like that in your life, you deserve someone whoā€™s loyal to you, not someone who falls in love with someone else in a video game :woman_facepalming:, do you really want someone like that in your life or your kids lives?

Let him go empty the bank account before he sends it to her or takes a long expensive trip with ur money as well as ur kids. Itā€™s over already. And heā€™ll just do it again and again.

Help him pack his bags to go wherever she is, he will never find her. TELL EVERYONE.

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Leave him,ā€¦for all he knows, it could be some gross old man creep. :joy: hopefully it is, because you donā€™t deserve this mama. #dumphisass

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Let his nasty ass go. I know your hurting and everything I swear to everything on this earth throw thst trash the fuck out.

You move on and let him go

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Let him gošŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø heā€™s not worth the time of day

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Let him ruin his life and go start a new adventure with your kids

Move on and hope with all your heart an ugly man is catfishing him

He could be talking to a man and being catfished ā€¦ so long dumb ass !

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Let him go, thereā€™s nothing you can do to stop him. He will be sorry but donā€™t let him back in your life. He is not worth a sh** or he wouldnā€™t trash his family.

Itā€™s probably a man. Let him go. :rofl::rofl:

Cut him off from everything.

Imagine he goes over there supposedly for this new girl n find is a man lol :rofl::rofl:

Let his dumb ass leaveā€¦tell him hope the door hits you on the ass on the way out. Screw him

Lock up the legaksā€¦ secure your money and kuck him out.

Hold the door open for him

Seriouslyā€¦let him go and when he turns up and shes the ugly troll he wasnā€™t expecting laugh your head off and change the locks.

Wtf!! This is weird especially since so many people get scammed with things like this. SMH!!

Send a photo of yourself and your three children to the girlfriend on his phone and sign your name

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Donā€™t even question it, what a pig! Honestly i hope heā€™s getting trolled and she just wants money :joy::skull_and_crossbones::pray:t2:

Let him go!! Donā€™t ever beg. F him

Zachery Sanders certified king moments

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Girl??? What do you do?? You kick his ass out thatā€™s what stand up toughen up

Let him go girl not worth the pain

Help him pack his bags :school_satchel:

Hope itā€™s a dude let him go

Kick his ass out! Keep your house and tell him he can have her ass!

Leave him itā€™s a phishing schemeā€¦ Good luck brah

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Le him leave but do not take him back

Let him go, you donā€™t need a man dishonest person around you or those kids, show him the door

He is stupid. He deserves what ever happens to him.

Wipe your hands of him.

What country? Itā€™s probably some big fat old guy in Nigeria trying to scam him.

I hope his ass is being catfished

Buy his plane ticket and change the locks

Let him go. You deserve better.

God I hope he gets catfished