Am I in the wrong? My husband we on vacation with his brother to the last place his parents vacationed before they passed away…the entire time he was gone he didn’t call me…he would text me once in the morning and once before bed but then I would hear nothing from him the rest of the time…he was gone for the entire weekend while I sat at home dealing with out dogs and toddler. and he couldnt even call me…when he got home he tried to love on me but I told him I wanted a divorce and he left…he thinks I am being irrational but I feel like you should at least contact your wife above anyone else.
You’re seriously fucked in the head.
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Dramatic…seemed like a sentimental trip for them…
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A divorce? That’s a rash jump 
this explains one weekend not your life so who knows if a divorce is right for y’all
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I’d be upset too a phone call while he was away from home is necessary
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A divorce? Lol that is a bit excessive… 
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Grow up! He was with his brother reminiscing! Good grief! Don’t be so needy!
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Holy crap lady.
Atleast you’ve done him a favour requesting a dicorce.
Imagine being stuck with your dramatic self forever
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Divorce ? That’s awful soon.
But, I would be pissed if my husband went away for the weekend and didn’t answer his phone to me.
Did he have good cell service very possibly not at a lake
OMG! Thank goodness you were never a military wife. Just gone for the weekend and he texted a couple times a day is great.
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Holy crap. Did you try to call him at all? He went on a vacation to memorialize his parents with his brother. When he comes back you tell him you want a divorce?! No trying to work anything out or talk it out? Is your marriage really worth losing over this?
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Wow… you had to make it about you? I’d divorce you for being a pos…
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He did contact you. Did you try and call him?
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Dramatic asf
You want a divorce because he didnt call you on his vacay over the weekend. I mean that was pretty ugly on his part. But a divorce??!?!!
Dang. He could of at least called once a day or something.
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You told him you wanted a divorce bc he didn’t call you but did text you to check in?! Lady you are insane 
maybe HE should divorce YOUR dramatic ass bc you are ridiculous 
Though it was insensitive he didn’t call I feel divorce is extremely irrational
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I’d be upset too, but to ask for a divorce?? 
If you were that close to a divorce in your mind then there is more to the story. Cause In my opinion if you loved him you would find a way to work in your marriage and don’t just decide you never want to be with him again.
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I personally wouldn’t be asking for a divorce. I’d be upset also, sit him down & talk about it.
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If I went away for the weekend without my husband I would do the same thing. Check in AM & PM. That’s it.
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I think you’ve done him a favour requesting one if this is what you’re like
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Is their other underlying issues?
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Please give that man a divorce so he can get out of this relationship with ridiculous ass expectations. Grow up.
I would think that two texts a day would be enough… he’s spending time with his brother… let them enjoy their time together…sounds like you may have trust issues?
If you don’t have trust issues,then let it go…
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I would be upset anyone who is talking crap right now have no right to tell you that your shouldn’t be upset for feeling disrespected and shut out
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Everyone saying grow up….so it’s not a courtesy for her husband to keep her I’m in communication during the day? He didn’t even call to see his kid. I’d be pissed too and have had somewhat of this happen before
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Self-centered much? Wow you must be really insecure I say go ahead and get a divorce because I feel sorry for your husband having to put up with that simply because he went away for a weekend with his brother and he didn’t call you or speak to you repeatedly sounds to me like you feel some kind of way because you were stuck at home it’s really sad you’re willing to ruin your marriage over a weekend away from you because you didn’t get enough attention from him while he was gone
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Wow how selfish are you.
Sounds like you’re irrational
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Mine was just gone a week. A few texts and we were good. It seems it was a trip for the brothers and their grief together. So if you go out of town and don’t call him I wonder if he acts the same way… not always about you
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you are being 100% irrational lol
a freaking divorce 
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At least he contacted you during the day period. My boyfriend was in a whole different country and I didn’t know where he was for a while 24 hours. That’s real panic. Thinking someone you love is dead. I would take the morning and night text.
You are being irrational. Nothing wrong with wanting time alone, including no contact. He did actually text you in the morning and at night. If you can’t live without speaking to someone then you need to inflect on why you feel that way.
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Whoa… Imagine going weeks or months on end without talking with him.
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I think you should be divorced, you don’t need to be married
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It was probably a very emotional time for them both. Could he have called, yes of course he could have but I’m wondering if that trip was emotionally draining…
He came home to be consoled by his wife to not only be turned away but asking for a divorce…
You’re excessive
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Give him a break ffs or talk to him rather than fb.
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Y so insecure… you need to mature lil more
You’re being irrational. I don’t call my wife much when I’m on vacation alone with my friends. She gets it. We need time away from you. Sorry but it’s true. Sometimes we need time to be…guys…
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Sounds like maybe there is a bigger issue in your relationship. I think he went away to be with his family and remember his parents and maybe catch up on old memories. It’s one weekend so personally it wouldn’t bother me at all. He may have needed some time with this brother. I hope you can work out what’s really bothering you.
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You said he contacted you twice a day.
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Woah Lord that was dramatic. Probably a tough trip with a lot of sentiment in it and you found a way to make it a bad thing and potentially end your marriage? Damn 🤦🏻……well it sounds like he’s better off
What else is going on that you want a divorce? I wouldnt divorce my husband over this.
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If you’re willing to end your marriage over something this simple, maybe you should of already had a divorce 
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He was on a sentimental vacation. And you still needed and wanted attention from him knowing he was busy ???
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Wow! Grow up! He would be better off
You knew where he was, who he was with, and the purpose of the trip. He contacted you twice a day, and you want a divorce I hope he’s smart and gives you that divorce 
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Well by these comments I don’t think you were expecting it to go this way.
He was with his brother reminiscing on his parents and the times he had at that lake house probably growing up, and you want a divorce?? My god I’d hate to be married to you
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Haha way too dramatic. Poor guy.
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My god, divorce over that? Either there’s more to this story, or you’re irrational as hell.
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there’s has to be more to it than the one weekend for wanting a divorce. although i’d be extremely pissed and suspicious.
He needs to be happy he’s getting away from such a selfish childish immature girl.
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You sound very irrational.
Sometimes people need space and they are on a journey you know nothing about apparently bc you weren’t invited to begin with…then to top it off you act like that …smh he might divorce you…show some compassion
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Be careful what you wish for… He may take you up on the offer to he ser FREE 
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Yeah that’s weird for sure a husband that loves u would stay in touch and out of curiosity why wasn’t u and the toddler included on that vacation.? I would follow through with the divorce since he up and left abruptly after you spoke up …trust me it’s not going to get better
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Ummm wait read what you wrote.
What would we do without these phones! He texted you. Was there bad cell service? Divorce seems rash. You can tell him about being upset you wanted actual calls instead of texts. You know he was with his brother and where he was.
Whoa. Yep HE does need a divorce.
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Is this for real! You want a divorce for this. I don’t think you want to be married
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So I definitely agree that he should have called to check in but I don’t think it warrants for a divorce……you said they went to the last place they went with their parents so maybe it was super emotional and he didn’t want to put that on you….
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Definitely dramatic. A divorce over him going away with family for tge weekend?? People deal with being apart the whole week ir longer not to mention military wives left at home without any contact during deployment. You sound insecure selfish and immature. Hopefully he gives you another shot. I wouldn’t we to old for all that
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All it takes is a phone call 
what’s so hard about that? I see why you’re mad, but a divorce is a little extreme. Just take a vacation for yourself and let him deal with the baby for a week.
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Did you try to call him? Cant get mad if you didnt try and reach out. Men clam up in emotional times. Place likely made him miss his folks.
He did contact u. That seems controlling. U would have left too. He was on vacation. He called twice a day…what more do u want?
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You’re childish. He contacted you twice. It was a weekend away for something MEANINGFUL for him. And as soon as he comes back you instantly push a divorce? I’ve been this way and still currently am but working on myself and trying to become better. I think you should try to do the same, it’s very helpful. Trust me I like hearing from my man too, but I also understand more now. Time to overcome your issues.
Sounds to me like you have been wanting a divorce and you’re using this lame excuse to ask for it.
Sounds like you’re doing him a favor. You’re an ass.
That’s irrational to be asking for a divorce just because he wouldn’t call you. At least he checked in with a text in the morning and afternoon but his phone doesnt need to be stuck to him with you knowing his every move. My husband and I barely ever text or call each other. Over dramatic much
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I’d say if he texted you am and pm… then it should be ok. He’s obviously thinking of you. Let him have fun with his brother
This has to be a joke
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I understand wanting to be contacted a little bit more but to throw divorce out as a option for this, come on now?!
A divorce because he didn’t call but still texted morning and night time??? You sound like you need to grow up.Thats obnoxious on your part to even say that to him.
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That’s something out should of discussed before he left . I get he’s on vacation but my husbands always there emotionally even if he’s alway 
and I’m the same. Different types of relationships for everyone. The divorce thing is a bit much for me but I see why you would be upset. Talk things over so things won’t happen again
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Sounds needy he was with his brother at a place that was special to his parents and them. He texted you everyday in the morning and at night. If he’s smart he will give you your divorce since its a control issue.
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You’re irrational good leave him he deserves better you’re doing him a favor.
If this is how you operate I wouldn’t have called you either
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You’re way overreacting. He was with his BROTHER. Where his parents last were before they died. Cut the dude some slack.
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A divorce because he didn’t call you? Damn I would’ve been divorced many many times over. I don’t call my husband and he doesn’t call me. It sounds like someone is a bit insecure. Did you try to call him? The phone does go both ways. I’m so glad I’m secure in my marriage. My husband went to AZ when my daughter was a new born and didn’t call me.
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Sitina Lee Manu crazy bitches everywhere
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Get a life and grow up
You’re acting like a child, he was out with his brother for a weekend away in remembrance of his parents, you need to grow up and get over it
Wow… Severe overreaction. You can’t go one weekend without having him call you? He texted you!!!
I’m assuming this was planned ahead of time and you agreed he could go. If you had expectations that he needed to contact you a certain number of times while he was gone you should have communicated and agreed upon that before he left.
You sound childish and controlling
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I hope he gives it to you because who would want to be with someone that controlling and insecure?
Wow… That’s crazy. You really want a divorce? Definitely irrational and extreme. Sounds like you’re insecure and maybe your husband should give you exactly what you want.
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Sounds like he’s better off lol
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Wow a divorce over that? Do him the favor
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Petty and irrational
Yup, you’re wrong this time.
Do you have a half porch too?
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Good on you, he deserves better anyway. You’re being immature, you’re overreacting. He’s not a child, he doesn’t need to check in every day. I haven’t heard from my husband in 2 years, you don’t see me bitching
You could have called him??
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so you’re Telling me that till death do you part and all those other vows are gonna be thrown away like trash over a weekend with his family?!? Yet he didn’t text 🤦 smh
Wow…divorce? Yeah, you are being dramatic.
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You’re being irrational. He deserves sometime away without having to call you. A text is sufficient. Hopefully you didn’t just ruin your marriage.
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You are acting like a baby.
I have to agree with him, you are being irrational asking for a divorce. Unless, there is more than your not telling.
He went away with his brother to remember his parents. He texted you twice a day. Maybe cell service wasn’t that good were he was at. Did you ask him in the text, why he wasn’t calling? Did you try to call him?
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Did you have a bunny in a pot on the stove as well for him when he got home? Give the guy a break and don’t be so needy. He was away with his brother. Would you like to be called constantly and checked up on? He obviously trusts you to be alone while he is away so why can’t you trust him. Personally I think your husband should accept the divorce it would be the wiser option for him I’d that’s how you are
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