Let’s play devil’s advocate…if the roles were flipped and it was you going away with your sister and giving him the same communication, would he have been mad that you only text him twice a day?
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Speaking as a man I think he probably got drunk with his brother and had some emotional talks well exploring there last vacay area. I’ve been with women who go away for work for a week we txt but only call once or twice the whole time if ur texting what really is the point of the phone call u know where he is and what hes doing we men think practically eh do I need to call if I’ve told her I love her every day and night sitting on a phone is frustrating for me especially if my wife is dealing with our toddler me having to keep repeating myself or her I’d rather txt anything that can be said on the phone can be said in txt it was 2 days I think if your ready for divorce because of this there is definitely other issues going on that maybe your not ready to admit
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I’m bet you’re glad you posted on here! 
Grow up! He was gone for a weekend, with his brother and you were left at home with your dog and toddler!! I can’t even believe you have written this 
if I was your husband I’d be signing those divorce papers asap and get out of there. !!!
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I think your overboard!!! You said he text in the morning and before bed??? That to me say’s he at least thought of you, your a grown woman you should have had plans to do your own thing while he was gone!! Seems like he and his brother just had some family time and you want a Divorce??? Really?? Did you ever stop to think they were out doing things and maybe had no service or maybe just caught up in the memories!!! I think your being selfish and a fool if that’s all it takes for you to want a Divorce!!
Just remember, guys, don’t think the same way we do, typically. He probably figured you’d call if you needed anything, and he was busy enjoying time with his brother. I would have been upset, too. Don’t get me wrong. The fact that he didn’t think to call to check on you and the toddler is upsetting, but honestly, he probably meant no harm at all by it. Just guys being guys. They don’t always think about that kind of stuff.
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Maybe you could’ve just talked to him? WAY too dramatic. Your poor husband
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If his parents recently passed away,
and he took a trip with his brother to process his grief,
you truly have no empathy for your spouse to request that what!?
He should have called you every 15 minutes!?
This is ridiculous.
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You’re being ridiculous! He contacted you through text! He was there for a reason! You’re in the wrong and need to apologize.
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I really hope this is a joke
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Is he not allowed to have fun? Xx
What’s the point of going on vacation if you’re always worried about staying in contact with the people you vacationed away from.
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Yes, my dear, you are out of line!!! Grow up!!!
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He was with his side bih That’s what you think anyway:rofl:
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Did you ask him to call you? If you didn’t specify that then you can’t expect it. If you did and he refused, then that’s a different story. However, there have been a few times when I’ve gone away for the weekend with my friends from high school and calling home was just not my priority. I see these people once every few years.
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If you are talking advice, there’s more here than meets the eye or someone is giving you bad advice. Why don’t you trust him? Marriage counseling should be considered!
Please give him the divorce he deserves! Poor guy sounds like he deals with alot! Your behavior is narcissistic and irrational. He cant mourn his parents without being up your butt? Get over yourself! Let that man be! If he knows whats good for him he will move on.
Honey it was his time with brother and memories of his parents… your time in now learn how to bend and compromise
Wow…is this for real…if so you are ridiculous
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Ok let me just say this … You ma’am are nuts … He was dealing with an emotional weekend that was meant for him and his brother … You don’t need to be treated like you’re 12 … He is counting on you to have things handled at home and atleast you got texts twice a day … I wouldn’t have texted you at all tbh … THEN when he came home wanting some comfort you throw a tantrum because of petty shit and threaten divorce … What kind of woman are you ? Who does that ? Find you a child to play with …
A weekend…. Like he was gone 2 days?! For an emotional weekend with his brother? And he texted twice a day and your mad that wasn’t enough?! I sure hope he divorces you. If you are the type of person that uses divorce as a threat when angry and that quickly over the dumbest thing then he deserves that divorce so he can actually find someone mature enough for marriage.
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Gosh lady, He’s gone for the W/E for an emotional event. Do you even hear yrself? A WEEKEND LADYYY. First world problem? I believe not.
You sound like a narcissist little girl.
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You should leave him, he deserves better
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That’s such a petty reason for a divorce. He was grieving his parents with his brother. Chill.
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So you want a divorce because he want away for the weekend, Nuts is all I can say
You don’t have a phone? Couldn’t remember his number? Just because you’re married to someone doesn’t mean you can’t have alone time, or need space or want privacy and your partner wanting any of those things doesn’t mean they’re doing something they shouldn’t. If you haven’t got trust maybe you should divorce him.
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Sounds like it was a difficult weekend for him.
You could’ve called him.
I think you are being very irrational.
You had to deal with your toddler and he had to deal with the death of his parents…with his bro.
They probably reminisced about their lives with their parents and laughed and cried.
Like someone else said…
It’s not always about you.
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I mean u didn’t have a discussion before leaving to call at least once? Him and his brother are in a place where his last memories had with parents.I think it’s a bit irrational to hip to divorce
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I think he should run! Take the divorce! People go through so many stages in their lives. If you want to throw your marriage out the window for one weekend of no ‘calls’ good luck! The world does not revolve around you! Grow up!
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My husband plays in pool tournaments a lot and they are a full weekend with non stop games from wake-up at 5 am to sometimes past midnight. He will text if he can which is rare during thoes times. He sometimes texts before he goes to bed but I’m usually asleep. We’ve been together 12 years and married 11 years I’ve NEVER said the word or threatened to leave him because he couldn’t/didn’t call. That’s very immature and childish especially if it’s the only thing you’re complaining about.
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Why didn’t you call him??
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You are making a mistake. Sounds like you are just !looking for an excuse to leave your husband.
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Is this post for real? Gone for the weekend to grieve the loss of his parents, with his brother… Only text twice a day… This is grounds for divorce? You have a lot of growing up to do and a severe lack of empathy.
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He should divorce your ass ASAP ! 
It’s not about you… but you’re cute though
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Lady your little spiel is as ridiculous as can be.
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What… At least he texted you?
Oh look. My ex has projected himself into female form 
I bet you get pissed if he doesn’t message you throughout the day too while he’s at work. Grow up.
Also, communication is a two way street. Your fingers aren’t broken.
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HUGE overreaction. Should have talked to him about it and shared your feelings. Definitely try marriage counseling. Clearly, there are trust issues…
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If you wanted a divorce clearly it’s not just about the weekend.
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Now you get to sit at home dealing with your dogs and toddler permanently.
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He was only gone for one weekend and he texted you in the morning and night and you are so upset because he didn’t call you that you told him you want a divorce even though you know where he was and that he’s with his brother? Man, I feel bad for him.
Personally, me and my husband never take trips separately and if he ever went anywhere without me… yeah, I’d be a little sad that I wasn’t going with him and I’d miss him but if he was just gone for one weekend with his brother for a really special trip like that, I’d support him. I’d let him have that time with his brother and I’d be thankful for any communication with him. And then I’d be so damn happy to have him back once the trip was over.
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Yes you do need a divorce because that man needs a woman who understands how a man grieves.
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Grow up woman. He texted you. You could’ve called him. The phone works both ways. You should divorce him, he deserves better and he knows it too. That’s why he left. You are being irrational and selfish. Has he given you a reason prior to this to not trust him? If so, I could understand. But if not, then you need to work on yourself. You sound bitter and immature.
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You ARE being irrational
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I think your being a bit dramatic but anyways you have every right to be upset that he didn’t call and check on you and your baby thats upsetting but for you saying you want a divorce because of it thats kind of being a bit petty I think you should’ve just told him how you felt or how he made you feel instead of just throwing oh I want a divorce in his face
Lol did you tell him you wanted him to call? Men have to have specific instructions or they truly don’t know what women want.
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You would actually break up a marriage with a toddler involved because of this? He texted you 2x a day on an emotional weekend to grieve his parents. There is more going on or you are a spoiled, selfish person.
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Honestly I understand where your coming from I just lost my father last week but if I were to leave my husband for the weekend I would call him throughout the day because he is my security blanket. Marriage is about communication and commitment and if he can’t make time for you at the end of the day you guys are the only ones you’ll have. So I’m my honest opinion if that’s what you think is best it’s your life and do what you think is right. But with that being g said why didn’t you and your toddler go with him?
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Wow how could you make this about YOU?? He needs you now more than ever! And you push him away and say you want a divorce?? Think of his feelings. Gone grieving, then come home to you while you’re upset bc he didn’t call?? Forbid something happen to someone you love and you escape for a little bit, want to come home to your husband just for him to tell you he’s mad bc you didn’t call and now wants a divorce…I can’t believe what I just read man.
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I hope he gives you a divorce! You sound controlling and crazy!
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Do him a favour and divorce him then… you sound like a real piece of work lol 
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He would have been reminiscing about his parents. Give the man a break! You have clearly never lost a parent.
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Slow down, let him grieve in a healthy way.
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He went to grieve his parents? If it was the last place they vacationed that may be what he was doing and in that case it’s not wrong!
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Selfish much?!?!?! Then you turned him away when he tried to love on you. He deserves someone who truly loves him
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This is a joke right…
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For a weekend? My man goes out of town a lot usually only for a few days at a time but up to 10 days and I’m totally ok with him only texting once he’s settled and ready for bed. I trust him and I know his life doesn’t revolve around me… wanting a divorce over him not contacting you “enough” especially during a sentimental trip just seems like there’s definitely some other things happening in the relationship… if not he should probably run
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You have done the poor bloke a favour.
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He text you
You’re really being too sensitive
You want all the attention
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I bet your not a bitch… Enter sarcasm…
wtaf how old are you
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Divorce? Come on. Is this real?
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Selfish is the only word for you that won’t get me a ban
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You are being irrational and selfish, he went to grieve his parents, obviously you’ve never lost anyone special.
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Wow! You must have never lost a parent. This trip was to help him grieve and heal. You should be supporting him!
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You ARE being irrational! Wow! He went to the last vacay spot his parents went before they died with his brother… from a perspective of both my parents being gone I wouldn’t call you either. Give him a minute to remember his parents with his brother for goodness sakes.
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I mean kick him out the house a few days if it bothers you that much, but, divorce? Really??? A bit much.
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I mean…did u try to call him???
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Hes grieving his parents and is with his brother so they are supporting each other through this rough time. He called u in the morning and again in the evening which is 2x a day each day he was gone. U can’t expect him to call u every hour or all day long he needs time to process things. Even after he came home he was showing u affection and all u did was push him away all because he didn’t call u more than those 2x a day. Im sorry but u are wrong in this situation and u should feel bad. If I were u I would make up for ur behavior towards him otherwise divorce him so he can find a woman willing to show him support during his grieving since obviously u don’t support him or his feelings.
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Wow… because your husband planned a weekend away with his brother, to an emotional spot for them, which you knew about… and he contacted you while there but didn’t call you… you want a divorce?? 
holy controlling
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Good for you. I’m guessing this was just the final straw.
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Yes you are being ridiculous!!! He was with his brother not somewhere that you didn’t know. Maybe you’ve never lost one or both of your parents it’s very emotional and he and his brother obviously needed this time together. You’re selfish. He should have your understanding not whining because he didn’t call you
Wow absolutely childish seriously. He’s better off without you. Your one selfish women especially knowing why an where he was going was important to him. That ring don’t belong on your finger
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Well!! I do think he should divorces you , selfish, dramatic , self centered and irrational, he can do better
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Babygirl. A big key to a successful marriage I think is being able to still be your own persons! Sounds like he was bonding with his brother and healing from their parents passing. You guys need to trust each other. Plan you a weekend getaway and let him stay with the kids. Space is an amazing thing in a relationship. Always make sure you guys don’t lose yourself as individuals. Sure he probably should have called more, but did you explain to him that you’d like him to call while he was there?
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Did you really say you want a divorce? My god. I hope he leaves you. He deserves better!
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You are totally being selfish. He just lost his parents and instead of being there for him you tell him you want a divorce because he didn’t call you while he was grieving his parents. I hope u do get a divorce so he can find someone better than you
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Hope this is a prank post. Cause you sound like a shit human being.
This is a joke hey? Has to be
I hope he divorces you for his own sake you’re not right in the head lmao
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A few texts a day is perfect when he’s away especially with family n friends if you don’t have trust you have nothing. Definitely freaking irrational.
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Maybe they were soaking up some brother time, that they probably hardly ever get, at the place that their parents spent time before they passed… maybe it was emotional? Maybe you didn’t even think to say, honey are you okay being there? How do you feel breathing in the last place your parents breathed before they passed? He should divorce you.
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That’s a little over the top just cause he didn’t call. He was rememsing with his brother over their parents death. Parents death is a hard thing to get past. When my mom’s date comes around my husband leaves me alone to do my things and when his mother’s comes around I leave him to do his. Nothing to divorce over
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These comments didn’t disappoint. Lol 
grow up. You are being very selfish.
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Take a chill pill. Let it go
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That’s probably the most selfish thing I’ve read. He was clearly having a great time with his brother & it probably was emotional.
Why didn’t you call him? If he texted you, he was thinking of you & I’m sure if you called he would have answered.
The fact you want a divorce over that is so so selfish.
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I feel like a divorce is a little far fetched. Is he in the wrong for not talking to you and contacting you I’d be a little pissed too and definitely have questions. Definitely need more key information to this story thought
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If you are going to tell our Divorce every time you get upset, then maybe you should divorce and not get married again. My spouse and I have been married for 22 years and never once mentioned divorce. We have had our share of arguments and fights but never mentioned divorce.
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I can’t wait to tell my husband this one
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Crazy why do some ladies do this to their spouse but yes it does go both ways but come on let ur man grieve don’t be selfish even if his parents didn’t pass let the man have time with family atleast he texted u in the morning and once at night men don’t like clingy women that can’t be independent
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I would expect the morning and night time texts…otherwise unless you really needed him for something he was entitled to his time away. This cant alone be why you want a divorce surely? Do you even want one or are you punishing him? Super extreme
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He did contact you… in the morning and at night. This is the extreme…a divorce!!!
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Ok
Isn’t a txt considered contacting you
I get that you are fraustrated
But it’s not worth a divorce
If that’s the only issue wrong in your marriage,
You are lucky
Sit down with hubby and discuss it with him
Besides this is a time for him and his brother to celebrate their family memories
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He text you morning and night. Last place his parents vacation place etc. Give the man some goddamn space ffs
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Go ahead with yo bad self lady
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Has this group become satire?! I mean, I’m truly confused by some of these posts lately.
This cannot be real.
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