I don’t see what he did wrong. He was with his brother on a trip it was about their parents. He text you 2 times a day what should he been on his phone every minute of the day with you. He should be the one asking for a divorce from you. Grow up and get over it. You act like he didn’t talk to you at all when he did.
1 Like
This account has to be making shit up… no one is that heartless. He lost his parents??? What?
Lots of factors to consider if you’re overreacting. And none included in the post.
1 Like
How to say I’m not ready for marriage and have zero empathy without actually saying it…
2 Likes
Wow you said you wanted a divorce because he was with his brother for a couple of days - he texted you morning and night why wasn’t that enough - if he had been gone for like a week or two I might of understood it a bit but not for just a weekend jeez…are you a bit jealous or what? Totally irrational in my opinion.
3 Likes
t least he texted u. It’s not like u didn’t hear from him at all
He did contact you so I don’t see the issue here. He’s a grown man, he shouldn’t have to keep in constant contact with you 24/7. If you don’t trust him, just say so 
3 Likes
Nah, you two should divorce. He needs someone less insecure. Work on yourself. Threatening divorce on the guy during a super emotional time is pretty immature.
3 Likes
With all due respect Get A Life Lady
4 Likes
It was the last special place that his parents went tto and now are no longer living. It would have been a very hard time for him and he went with his Brother, he would have had so many emotions going through him. You have NO compassion for him, So if I was him I would be divorcing You. Now go get some help as you sure as hell need it.
3 Likes
You cannot even let him grieve the loss of his parents with his brother, for a weekend? He did text you twice a day, you knew who he was with and where he was, so why need a phone call? Your actions show that you are insecure and it comes across as childish and controlling, a few things that no one wants to deal with in a relationship.
4 Likes
You’re overreacting. He was somewhere that was probably causing him a lot of emotion, and he wanted the alone time to process and grieve. Then, you selfishly turn around and ask for a divorce because you didn’t get a phone call every day. You are in the wrong.
4 Likes
This is a troll post hey? Lol
1 Like
So he went somewhere highly emotional to him and his brother and you made it all about you? Then you asked for a divorce? I honestly have no words for this one… Other then he thought of you when he woke and before he slept, think about it.
He texted you twice a day, let him greive the loss of his parents. Even if they died a long time ago, it was still the last place they went. Dont get me wrong I can be jealous and if im being honest my mind would be racing too but thats due to MY past issues
You’re very insecure, telling him you want a divorce just because you have trust issues is unfair. It was only a weekend. I think HE needs to think about divorcing or leaving you. Give your head a wobble
2 Likes
lol you ruining things
Yes your wrong, divorce cos he wanted to grieve his parents he text you wasn’t that enough?
2 Likes
Why are you being over needy and over reacting? They went to the last place his parents went. That very emotional trip. He texted you. Not once but twice. Maybe he should divorce you and marry a adult.
2 Likes
Ummm he texted you every morning n night that is contacting you. You are being completely unreasonable
You want a divorce because he didn’t talk to you constantly?
Being alone in life will suck alot more than just for a weekend… just go have you a girls day next weekend, I think you need it.
The world doesn’t revolve around you
1 Like
You’re a self centered small minded high strung neurotic. Too bad you have a kid that your bad energy is going to affect.
2 Likes
Do you even have a thought of how hard it is to be a single parent, and for your child to lose his/her father in the home? You need to get some counseling as to WHY you would jump to divorce as an immediate option. I don’t think you have understood the assignment.
3 Likes
You’re a crazy lady 
You’re ready to throw your whole man away because he needed to clear his head and grieve his parents… a bit fuckt if you ask me.
3 Likes
Sis don’t listen to these needy hens 
you know what his tail was doing gone about your business and let him be 
because the next post you’ll be making is you found out your husband was on vacation with his misses 
1 Like
I know all y’all lying how does she know where he was just because he said that’s where he was going to be? I’m sorry but your not over reacting would I ask more questions yes but even then who is to know because I would lie for my brother.
Divorce over him not ringing when you expected, despite you not informing him you wanted him to AND him texting you daily?
Are you serious?
Wow. Just wow. You are being irrational. You are being attention seeking. And so what he “only” texted at night and in the morning?!!? Wtf is your problem? Guess what?! I have a husband and full house too. My hubby went to a different state with his uncle for a weekend. He texted in the morning and at night. I have a toddler, 4 dogs, 2 cats, and a yard full of poultry to tend to. Im not threatening divorce over it. Why? Because thats IRRATIONAL AND IDIOTIC. He had a weekend away with a family member. You know ehat? I hope he divorces you and finds someone less crazy for him. Thats ridiculous girl 
grow up
wth did I just read?
2 Likes
He did contact you as he woke up and before he closed his eyes and this was a highly emotional trip for himself and his brother so maybe he needed you to be more understanding and less needy. And just maybe he needed to be loved by you when he returned home and you acted like a spoiled cold instead.
5 Likes
He went to the last place his parents went before they passed. I’m sure that brought on some big emotions. Calm down damn. Men distance when they are emotional. Men Are from Mars Women are From Venus
You want a divorce because he only called you twice a day while he was with his brother on an emotional trip and then didn’t give him love back when he got home? Lol seems irrational or there’s more to the story we aren’t hearing.
1 Like
I think he’d be better off without you.
1 Like
Ur a selfish immature child u need to grow up this was not about u or the child it was about him grieving his parents he was hurting then u just hurt him some more when he got home u don’t deserve a husband girls like u make my blood boil (let throw a tantrum cos I didn’t get what I want) u needy child this was about his family not about u so grow the hell up
3 Likes
Yes very self centered n selfish
1 Like
Not grounds for divorce… Geeze
2 Likes
I feel like a conversation about what you expect would be appropriate.
If this causes you to ask for a divorce then I assume there are alot of other issue going on and this is just the straw.
But honestly a phone works both way you could have called him or messaged him more. If you needed that communication/reassurancd from him you should be clear.
I’ve gone away a handful of times without my hubby and we don’t call everyday. It’s not been an issue.
1 Like
So, he went with his brother to honor their parents. That is beautiful. He was distracted by honoring his parents, and you are jealous of that? Why?
2 Likes
He texted you every morning and every night. You mentioned he went to the last place his parents went on vacation, correct? And he went with his brother? Ffs stop reading into it more than what it is. Stop letting your insecurities get in the way. Maybe try understanding that this could have been a bonding and emotional trip between his brother and him. It was a weekend! You said it was okay to go…and now you want to throw a fit…also consider how your interactions shape and mold your toddler. Work the crap out! It’s simple. Stop being petty and maybe talk to him. I can’t even with this.
4 Likes
You’re not over reacting. If he was actually on vacation with his brother he would’ve texted you and called more. Maybe every other hour? My man does when he’s at work or out of town for work. Always remember a man can never be to busy to talk to his woman. Divorce him and one day you’ll find a man that’ll check in on you from time to time thru out the day 
7 Likes
Divorce:rofl:
for just a weekend of not calling u… u didn’t love him na… if that little thing push u to the edge…
4 Likes
You are not over reacting he should have called any other husband or wife would have called that’s just something you do period don’t listen to all these ignorant naive individuals… something is ip and what’s in the dark will eventually come to light…
4 Likes
Hes getting away for a min. If he messages you atleast once than I dont see a problem. Its hard for him to enjoy being there if hes just messaging you or on the phone with you all day. I would want him to worry about nothing and have his little get away. Nothing wrong with it. If you were on a get away with him you wouldnt want him on the phone the whole time worrying about whats going on at his brothers. Let him have his time. Was it this weekend? Its only Saturday. Just let him be.
1 Like
And this is why so many marriages end in divorce. What happened to trusting your husband? What happened to fighting for your marriage? Why get married if y’all have all these trust issues and quick to divorce?
5 Likes
Wtf is wrong with you. A time away to feel his parents memory with his brother, a special weekend and you shit on it with your selfish ways. I hope he divorces you tbh
He goes away for a memorial weekend with his brother to celebrate his parents lives and you want a divorce because he didn’t call you ?
I’m guessing you didn’t want him to go. You probably argued about it before he left. Resented he was going away without you spending money you thought should be spent on you and your child…hence the reason he text instead of calling because he didn’t want to listen to you moaning about it ?
Grow up . Hes better off without you.
7 Likes
Divorce word was a bit quick but still he should be called.
Good Lord. Some people are so needy. Texting you in the morning and at night was enough. You could have rung him if you missed him so much over one lousy weekend.
2 Likes
You’re nuts. Good lord.
2 Likes
Wow your a control freak. Run dude RUN
5 Likes
Oh that sounds like a dream!
He contacted you via message.
You’re over reacting
1 Like
Divorce? That’s a little extreme. Should he have called? Yes. But to throw a fit and throw divorce out there over it…no way.
I hope he gives you the divorce asap because holy crow I cannot imagine needing to be the center of attention so badly. I hope dude runs as far away as he possibly can after he signs those divorce papers 
4 Likes
Personally , he did check in morning and night. He was spending time with his brother , on a memory journey about their parents. I feel there is a trust issue on your part.
4 Likes
I went on vacation with my friends it was a girls trip 4 days i called my hubby and kiddo in the morning and at night that was it. I was on a much needed vacation and my hubby was more than ok with it. If he told me he wanted a divorce over something so petty I would have granted him that wish but he was not like that at all he was happy i went and took time for me
5 Likes
You are to foolish to be married, I feel sorry for your husband
4 Likes
Really. Lol. Divorce the man cause he took a vacation and you didn’t. Smh. Hes a man. Youre damn lucky you got a morning and night text lol.
If you didn’t like being home for the weekend without him then you may not want to push the divorce because then you’ll be alone 24/7 
if I ever got away, I wouldn’t be calling either!
3 Likes
Lol. You can’t be serious 
4 Likes
This is a joke right?
3 Likes
God let him be. He texted. You expect way too much.
5 Likes
wow , you are so in the wrong on this . He needed time to heal with his brother over his parents . to me this post makes you heartless and selfish . at least you got a morning and a night message . He should run with those divorce papers , for the whole marriage must revolve around you .
3 Likes
My husband went hunt every fall for a week with his brothers, texted me 2x a day. Difference we trusted each other.
3 Likes
It was just a weekend and he texted you in the morning and night. Overreacting for sure. Seems you’re just looking for a reason to divorce him.
3 Likes
If you want a divorce over this, the problems run a tad deeper than the weekend.
6 Likes
So many questions! Has something like this ever happened before? Has he ever gone away like that before? Were yall having issues in your relationship before he left? Has he ever given you a reason to question his fidelity to you?
This seemly being a “vacation” that he took as a tribute to his parents I think he could have possibly just been being in the moment with his brother, I mean he did still message you in the morning and at night BUT it would definitely make me feel a little off without the phone calls… I don’t know that I would go as far as saying I want a divorce BUT that’s also why I said I had so many questions…
If yall didn’t have any fidelity issues prior, no I don’t think it would have really bothered me and shouldn’t bother you either, but if yall have been having issues then I “myself” would definitely question it
You must be young and need lots of attention. Address or confront your insecurities.
2 Likes
He went away to the last place his parents vacationed before there death…did you once stop to think he was going through it a bit? This wasnt about you. This was about him. I think your being ridiculous. He texted you…quite frankly I’m not surprised he needed to get away for a minute your a bit oo much hun
2 Likes
Didn’t the guy text morning and night? omg talk about controlling you have to have trust in a marriage
2 Likes
Oh good lord, you obviously are very high maintenance and he needs to kick you to the curb.
2 Likes
Your over reacting by a heck of a lot.
Like come on. Your expectations are unreasonable. 
2 Likes
In my case, I’d be more upset if he messaged or called more than twice a day. It was a special trip with his brother, probably to have time to remember and honor their parents. I am perfectly capable of holding down the fort without him…and would want him to focus on doing things that would help him deal with the grief of losing his parents.
4 Likes
I think you need to chill
Very thankful for my better half right about now. Cant even imagine.
2 Likes
You should have called him
1 Like
Listen most of us enjoy a weekend away from our mans at this point lol it’s fine to miss each other
I’m 53 n been there done that, if ya gotta ask… leave cuz nothing will change
I think you’re overreacting. My husband travels for work and this is fairly typical. He’s busy with whichever kid travels with him and his work.
My friend described it this way.
men seem to have a mind that’s similar to a jewelry box- lots of small drawers that they can only open one drawer at a time. They’re single minded which helps them at work.
Ladies are more like a hope chest. One drawer that holds it all. Women generally multitask more easily. We’re made to juggle our children, house and other things simultaneously.
Don’t be upset when he’s focused 
2 Likes
Wow I hope he agrees to the divorce
1 Like
Did you call him? If so, did he answer? If not, did he return your call?
If you didn’t call him, why didn’t you? A FaceTime with Bub Saturday night or something. He might’ve appreciated the support.
Do you have any genuine reason not to trust that he was away with his brother? Does he lie a lot? If you don’t have any reason not to trust him and you accept he was with his brother, I would think that you’re being unfair here.
Try and put yourself in his shoes… how would you feel if that were you grieving the loss of your parents and all your husband was worried about was the fact you had only texted and not called in 2 days so now he wants a divorce.
Probably for the best… for your husband.
5 Likes
Wow , girl he was with his brother at a very emotional place. Smh how selfish are you ? I truly hope you never have to heal from losing a parent.
2 Likes
Maybe some things aren’t always about you! Give him that divorce because he deserves better. If he wanted to talk to you while he was gone, he would have carried you with him. Give him some space and stop giving ultimatums when you don’t get your way!
Little clingy are you? Oh my God it was one weekend he did text you in the morning and again at night I feel as though you’re wrong
1 Like
Calling works both ways and sounds like you did him a favor
Lady he got somebody, let him go,an don’t turn back. Wake up.
You sound like an attention starved toddler, not a married woman & mother. Grow up!
1 Like
I think you’re overreaction, but if you want that divorce go get it! Why you on here asking for advice?
1 Like
Also I hope you get that divorce and he goes on to find someone who isn’t so selfish and self involved. I can’t even believe you had the audacity 
3 Likes
Not everything is about you ffs
3 Likes
For all you know, he didn’t contact anyone at all. I mean, this trip was obviously important to him. It was just him and his brother, going to the last place their parents visited before they died… did you ever think maybe it was an emotional weekend for him and instead of calling you a hundred times he was spending time and reminiscing with his brother? And to immediately go to “I want a divorce” when he gets back? Yeah, I’d say you’re being irrational!
7 Likes
Wow, you are being ridiculous
3 Likes
This is a question for all the ones in here thinking that there needs to be constant contact between their significant other: do you sit on the phone all the time with them when you need your time?
Every healthy relationships needs some time apart as well. You cannot be us us us 24/7, that will burn a relationship out really quick. And he came home wanting to love on her… If he was screwing around he probably would have showered straight away. He went with his brother. Do you, who need constant contact, trust your person? To me it’s looking a lot like keeping tabs because of relationship insecurities.
3 Likes
Let me know if he needs a good lawyer.
3 Likes
Maybe you need to find something else to do then obsess over him? Like do you have friends? Or hobbies? Seek self help to occupy your time. He cannot be your entire world.
And you’re a little irrational and needy sounding……that can turn anyone off……
Hopefully things work out for you inside and out side your marriage.
4 Likes
Put his shit outside. You don’t get to just get up and vanish bc you’re a dude. Fuck that.
She doesn’t need advice, if she’s made up her mind. She just wants to have approval and be “right”
4 Likes
I was in a relationship and this happened the guy was cheating the entire time I was gone 
except I was the one out of town and he was home
1 Like