This has to be a joke. Are you serious? Divorce??? Grow up!!!
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Just say you’re mad you were there.
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That man deserves a better partner.
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You divorcing over no phone calls for a weekend to the last place his parents went to before they died… girl you need to grow the fuck up. Some days me and my partner don’t even see eachother and we live in the same house and sleep in the same bed
Wow… yes you are wrong. This sounds like it was a bonding trip with his brother.
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My ex husband did that as well! He was cheating
You got to be kidding me. 
A divorce? When he actually did text you morning and night? Maybe next time why don’t you glue yourself together since you almost died because of no communication during the day.
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You want a divorce bc he didn’t call you… WOW! Let me answer your question… YES… YOU ARE OVER REACTING…
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This sounds irrational, I recommend therapy and some treatment for some postpartum mental health.
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He was gone for a weekend that’s a whole 2 days and he did check in, he was taking time with his brother reflecting on times with their now deceased parents, you are completely irrational and honestly it’s better for him if you do divorce seeing as you didn’t stop and even check if he was ok and made his grief somehow into a situation that’s all about you! 
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Omg!!! 
Hope he comes back with divorce papers! What an idiot thing to want a divorce over, you’ll really be crying if your divorce comes true.
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You’re asking for a divorce because he didn’t call you? Man I’d be leaving you too
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Wtf?!? You ARE being irrational!! Him and his brother went there to grieve that loss of their parents and you’re upset and butt hurt because he didn’t call you?!!! Maybe he will sign the divorce because that sounds like some serious controlling narcissistic behavior and super SUPER toxic.
Have you ever lost anyone close to you? Everyone grieves different. MAYBE he was just enjoying spending time with his brother and reminiscing on memories of there parents. You want a divorce over this? You sound selfish…. He sees you every day, so what he didn’t text you every min of the day. I mean this in the nicest way possible but I think you need to really sit back and think about how ridiculous you’re sounding.
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r U serious ? This is MY opinion. I think U r a childish
controlling brat ! He obviously needed that time to deal w/loss of his parents. Everyone is different and deals n different ways. He text u twice a day and if u had any emergency u could have called or text him. U told him u want a divorce, that looks to me like this maybe gave u the excuse that u needed to get what u wanted to begin with and if that’s wrong then U r being so selfish and should ask him to forgive U for being way out of line. If he loves u (more than u do him) and yor willing, U both can work things out. U need to understand that ANY relation ship takes MORE than just love to work. It’s like construction on I 95 it takes work daily for it to work at all. I’ll pray that God steps n for the both of you and yor child. But u need to kno this too, God gives us the freedom of choice and there r only 2 choices, the right one and the wrong one and there r always consequences to the choice we make, think and pray long and hard because the result you get may not be the one that you want. Prayers that it will work out for the best that God has for yor family. I think alot will depend upon U. 
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Texting is contact so he did contact you while he was on vacation. He said hello in the mornings and good night in the evening. You were the first thing he thought of in the morning and the last thing he thought of before bed. He still loves you. Sounds like this was a bonding trip for him and his brother. Yes you are in the wrong to be upset over no phone call
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Don’t listen to anyone sis,trust your gut feeling,it is never wrong,besides everyone here giving you advice or lashing at you aren’t living your life.
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What? A divorce for??? Okie… good luck???
You sound immature af. If he takes you up on that offer, remember you offered it over a tantrum you threw.
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How did you get all the way to divorce that fast? No talks about how it made you feel? No counselling? Something is missing from this story.
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Please leave and let that man live jesus
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A divorce because he didn’t call you…wow…
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yep! You are irrational
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BRO!!! You are the a-hole in this situation! He was with his brother celebrating/ remembering their DEAD parents! They weren’t boys night out/ bachelor partying with strippers, they were having a moment together! An entire weekend ain’t shit! “Our dogs and our toddler” mostly sounds like you both agreed on having both! Sometimes it falls on you sometimes it will fall on him and most times it falls on both of you!
This…this is a joke, right? He was visiting a place in remembrance of his dead parents, and then had to come home after a possibly emotional trip to nagging and divorce talk over not calling you? Have a little freakin sympathy. Seems to me like he’s better off going the divorce route.
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The way you’re acting I’m surprised he came home. He probably needed the vacation from your whiney needy butt.
If he’s giving you a reason to not trust him. Your not over reaction. But if he’s never done that. I think at least a phone call to check in is a respectful thing to do. But not something to throw the divorce word around.
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Was he grieving and needed time to himself
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I think you went Overbroad w telling him you waned a Divorce for not calling. Yes he should have called but this
My husband did thus some right before we got married. He went to a dinner w Co workers & the stayed out late. Didn’t have cells phones so I started calling people & he got mad. I told him people worry, it’s not just you. When got he got attitude I told him we didn’t have to get.married
We got married he did he couple times after we got married. He understands now. Married.37 yrs may together 40yrs
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Now he is not only lucky but a happy guy.
I would understand if it was a week. But two nights? Um yea. Little overboard. How long have y’all been married? If you don’t have trust in your marriage you have nothing. Be grateful for the texts. Yikes. Poor guy. Whoever said he probably had an emotional time and came home to divorce is right.
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Also. Hope you go through with the divorce now. Hubby will resent you and never want to go anywhere with his friends on fear that you might divorce him.
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Please come back and tell us what happened when he got back home
I really thought it was gonna say he’d been gone a month 
Nah, don’t divorce over that. Tell him you were just hurt you hadn’t heard from him, tell him you missed hearing from him, apologize for mentioning divorce. Ask him what you need from him in the future when he goes away.
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Uhmmm…is this a joke? Sad to say, that I really hope it is. But, honestly, if it was me, I would be happy that he got to spend time with his brother. And I’d be happy he came back home safely. Life is too danged short to get a divorce because he didn’t call. Talking to him calmly about how you feel, will go a very long way.
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Yes divorce him. You don’t know how to be married, and it sounds like you don’t want to be married. Let him go so he can find someone who actually deserves him.
A weekend away to a place in memory of his parents, and he texted you twice a day. He gets home happy to see his wife, but wifey wants a divorce over rubbish reasons… Nah, he deserves better.
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Did u try call him? 
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Over reaction I’m afraid. Marriage is a big thing, you had a text twice a day to say he was ok. By saying you want a divorce you’ve certainly set him free now! It was only 2 days.
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It was 2 nights - he don’t call and you want a divorce? - a bit dramatic!
He texted you, he was enjoying a weekend away with his brother… your going on like he didn’t contact you at all…
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The problem with todays relationships and why nothing ever works out anymore .
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Oh Jesus
You need to RELAX. You don’t know what he was dealing with emotionally over there. He text morning and night. A divorce… You sound very irrational
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He’d be the luckiest bloke alive if you divorced him… you self centred witch . Get over yourself or let him find a loving partner .
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obviously there is trust issues otherwise it wouldnt be such a big deal
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But he left without telling you or Did you know he is going? Coz If you knew than you are being suuuuper irrational and just trying to be controlling-he texted he is ok in morning and than rest of the day he was having fun. There were days people left for weeks when no phones and they were just fine, I am sure you will be just fine after two days of little contact-also tbh I will not be surprised he will sign the divorce paper as I am sure this is not the first thing you trying to control and he might just be done. But this is only based on what you wrote as we don’t know what else is behind close door to make you wan to divorce him after little weekend contact…
OP getting lightly sauteéd, seared on both sides and roasted at 350°
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If you get married again invest in 2 walkie talkies so you can stay in constant touch and bore the life out of each other
But did you call him?
Tia Smith no it’s social media. If that had been me and Chris. I would have been happy just for two texts a day. Even one. I go away with my friend a lot and I ring on arrival and when we are leaving. I would be the same with Chris. I think her problem was that she had to deal with the home life, whilst her husband was away.
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You sound like youre jealous that you didnt get a vacation.
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Um… I think I’m agreeing with your husband. He contacted you twice a day and you want a divorce?
Sounds like u have done him a favour.
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Total over reaction and I think you are using this as an excuse. Tbh sounds like he deserved the break
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Seriously… over reaction
So there’s a lot of background information missing. Is this the first time? Is there any reason to believe he wasn’t with his brother? Has he cheated before? And does he text and call you daily on any other occasion except this one? Otherwise, the decision was very rash with no communication as to why he didnt or if there wasn’t ideal service for phone calls to be made which is possible especially if there was no wifi or anything.
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I think u have a problem ,it’s u not him!!
Oh God what a terrible en egoistic person you are! I hope hè takes the divorce.
You thrive on connection and since he’s married to you, he should know that most of all. I am the same way, and my partner understands this and with that comes the understanding that I expect a certain level of contact. The fact that he didn’t maintain the contact you require is problematic, but not divorce worthy. It deserves come serious conversation regarding needs and expectations, but not divorce. I’m sure you’re rethinking that part anyway.
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Yea because he needs a wife not a nutcase… Because you’ve gone overboard… You talking what 48 hours🤦🏾♀️You never get over losing a parent… Did you even consider what he really endured on this trip🤔because it definitely wasn’t a vacation… Seems like he really needed a break from you as well as life… I’m praying for him… Divorce seems like a possible option that would work in his favor… If you acting like this over this, no telling how this man is treated on a daily basis… seek help
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now he won’t call you !!
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Lucky you posted this anonymous
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Wow some ppl don’t realize what time differentials are
Sounds like you need a vacay lmao
Yeah probably should divorce. So irrational 
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Wow. He dodged a bullet
Sorry but for once I’m.on the side of the husband. He was having time with his brother to be at a special place where their parents went before passing away. He did text you sometimes even spouse is allowed time alone cut him some slack
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Your right!!.. divorce is definitely the best thing for him!
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Are you kidding? He was with his brother and he didn’t call? Are you that needy, poor guy, I fed sorry for him!
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I hope that man reconsiders and divorces you, for his sake, look at asking for a divorce because he didn’t write to you the times you understood he should have.
There are crazy people in life my God.
Think u probably need t grow up a bit
Wow. You’re husband should run from the massive 
Oh your poor husband, he was with his brother, at a place that his parents went last before passing, that vacation was probably not a very good vacation, losing a parent is obviously not easy, and he needed time to mourn, like you are absolutely crazy, if you divorce him, he definitely dodged a bullet. Like what on earth is wrong with you?
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Ugh , okay yes you are wrong. He was on a special trip with his brother. Going to a place that symbolizes to them, their parents, to honour them. Just the two of them, bonding as brothers. Being with the ONLY other person who knows what went on in their home growing up and how it felt to lose those parents because they are siblings. Spouses, grandkids grieve that lose but NO ONE knows what it feels like to lose YOUR Mom or Dad like your siblings. He NEEDED that time away. Don’t begrudge him that little piece of time and be petty! So you had to deal with pets and kids. It’s called being a parent and a alls at the same time a supportive spouse! He at least checked I with you in the morning and I the evening! Why should HE call/ text YOU multiple times throughout the day? To make YOU feel better, while he is dealing with a stage of grief for HIS parents?!! Give me a break!
I volunteer as a Guide leader. I go on camping trips, and I don’t call or check in with my husband while I’m gone till well after the girls are in bed and I want to wish him goodnight. That’s it and that’s even a " maybe" situation" depending if I can get reception. That is our time away from each other. All couple need that. It’s healthy! My parents have been married 47yrs and counting. Dad hunted with my uncle and called when he got into the mountains at his sisters house to say he arrived safe. That’s it. No calls for 5 days and that was before cellphones. Since cell phones. He and my cousin go deep into the bush dry camping/ hunting in cold November in snow and whatnot and are gone for 6/7 days. No calls or texts. My mom doesn’t bug him. It’s his time away. She has other things to do, hobbies she likes that my dad isn’t a part of. My husband and I hav different hobbies as well. So maybe take a page from couples that have been doing that for awhile and don’t give up on marriage so quickly for something so minor as " he didn’t call or text me during the day while on special trip with his brother" because he DID send messages twice a day checking in with you. It wasn’t radio silence!!! I’m sure if you went a girls trip with your friends or female relatives for whatever reason, he wouldn’t be pouting in the corner throwing a temper tantrum fit and threatening divorce! Maybe get yourself a hobby or two while,your at it as well so you have something to do Reuther than stare at your phone waiting for his call!
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I’m sorry, but firstly, you got a message in the morning and before bed, that is contact, some people wouldn’t even do that, and secondly, you said he went to the last place his parents vacationed with his brother, it could of been a bit full on, full of emotions.
Asking for a divorce is a bit extreme, maybe speak to him about it.
I’m sorry but you have basically said that you have just broke your family up cos he didn’t call you
My partner is just back from a stag party of 26 men, I got about 3 texts in 2 days and it didn’t bother me one bit! I enjoyed the peace and quiet for the couple of days. And when he gets in I won’t be trying for a fight or a divorce I’ll be making his dinner and asking if he had a nice time… but I’m very secure in my relationship
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Wow…. Your husband was doing some time out revisiting what was probably a very emotional place with his brother for a couple of days, most likely sharing happy and sad memories with each other. Are you that needy you couldn’t allow him a bit of time to reflect upon his loss.
Then you throw the divorce card around like a spoiled brat. Poor guy.
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I really believe some people really post crazy questions on here just to get these kinds of reactions. On the other hand, with the way this world is heading, I believe this post is legit, but mind boggling.
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IF you or your husband cant go away not together and dont trust them and they dont trust you . ?
You’re so dramatic🙄 go smoke some weed and chill lady!
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I give trust like a rope, I’m not a jealous person at all, if I’m with someone they do their thing and I do mine and we join when we can, if the person breaks that trust then they hung themselves with that rope I set out, and I’m done
He’s better off without you tbh
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sounds fishy to me. I can handle being apart from mine. every time he is away he communicates with me every chance he gets. But only sending you a good morning and a goodnight and that’s it… I agree something is not right with that but doesn’t necessarily mean you need a divorce
Sounds like you’re looking for an excuse to get a divorce.
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Amanda Jacobs-Smith came here to say the exact thing !!! She found her out
What was wrong with you calling him 
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You’re not crazy. Your feelings are real and so is your hurt. People online are keyboard warriors but there are a few that care. He ABSOLUTELY should have called you. You have a toddler that he is also responsible for and I highly doubt he would be ok if you left him with a baby and left without contact. So if I were you I’d be planning my own trip without the child and no contact to teach him
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I would say depends on his past. Has he even been unfaithful or was shady and made things questionable? If you were gone for the weekend would HE expect more contact than what he gave? Your feelings of being hurt are valid. He should have called.
So you are clearly just an awful person that can’t handle her man going out and doing anything without you. People like you don’t deserve anything
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A sentimental vacation with his brother in the place his parents last visited before they died… no I don’t think I would be texting all day either.
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My husband only contacted me if it was an emergency, so almost no calls ever. We’d just talk when we saw each other. And your man DID contact you twice a day already. And what was keeping you from picking up the phone to call him?
I’m not saying you are, but this makes you sound needy, high maintenance and a drama queen. If this is the only info I had I’d say you’re the a-hole here.
Sounds like you’re getting all your emotional support from him & that’s not fair. Make more friends, talk to other moms, neighbors, other family members, older people whose opinions you value.
Get a hobby, learn new things from classes, You Tube, recorded TED talks, library books or DVDs, educational TV shows. Prepare for a better career starting now, and be a good example of being a lifelong learner for your family. Identify as more than just a wife & mother. Be the good cook, the one who knows how to work on the car, fix a plumbing leak. Be the one who knows about birds or gardening or nutrition or mushrooms or dinosaurs or can speak some of another language, or ice skate, or do karate, or has a motorcycle or commercial drivers license.
Have you looked into divorce? It’s a pretty drastic and expensive proposition for a REALLY petty squabble. Are you prepared for him to agree to divorce? You might get more than you bargained for with your ultimatums.
Get personal counseling for you to help you cope with what’s just life, marriage counseling for both of you. This behavior comes from somewhere—usually childhood experiences—& once you know that, you can both start to improve your reactions. Helps to clarify expectations instead of expecting people to read your minds, and there are better ways of asking for what you each need & want. You can build structure into your lives to head off disagreements and learn to disagree civilly. Withholding affection for lack of a phone call for two days is stupid. TWO DAYS. As long as you both know each other is safe, what more do you really need?
Have you ever lived on your own and had to support yourself?
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You might be the most ridiculous individual on the planet. You are literally looking for any reason to get a divorce if this story is true. How pathetic, looks like there can be Karen’s in marriages too!
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Divorce in this situation would cause unnecessary damage. Breathe sis
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Wtf? A divorce over that???! He contacted you,but not how you preferred. Calling him would have solved your problem. Sounds very immature and God forbid anything really serious happen. If you’re that dramatic, he may give you the divorce and find someone else who is adult enough to be in a marriage. I’d tell him that you’re sorry and get some counseling. I feel like you’ve got some issues that need to be addressed. Maybe get out yourself for a girlfriends weekend. We all need to destress sometimes. God luck!
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Is there proof he was actually with his brother? If so, then definitely overreacting. If not, then your gut is definitely trying to tell you something.
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I wouldn’t have called either if this is how you act on a normal basis, actually I probably wouldn’t have come home either
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Dear selfish person. Your husband went away to the place his parents last vacation that his parents vacationed before they died. He went with his brother to heal, pay respect, or just get closure. He texted you, was not in the mood to talk to you because he was dealing with an emotional tirade. You compare that pain to be left to the burden of you all by yourself having to take care of a child and pet. So you feel that your need for validation rises above his grief, so now you want a divorce? If I was him I would sign those papers so fast. You have some serious shit to work out. My advice is seek help before you fuck up your life any further.
Lol …Mine will text me or call me when he has a moment but as long as I know where he is / what he’s doing I’m never that bothered if I don’t hear from him …just having the communication about where he will be at to keep my mind at ease over panicking thinking something bad happened is really all I care for… Regardless I know he will come back home when he said he would be so why not take the time for myself to do what I want to do 
…some people are overly dependent in all the wrong ways if you ask me 
I mean yeahh, I’m dependent on mine for love loyalty and respect but everybody has boundaries and there is such a thing as overboard or taking things way out of proportion, making them into a much larger deal than it really to be!
To ask him for a divorce over something as small as this means you just don’t live him and you were looking for the first excuse to divorce him. You do not deserve him.
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He texted you blimey poor bloke give him a break u
Maybe try a councilor