Wow,yeah you’d think.
The second hand embarrassment i feel for you sis 
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You’re doing him a favor tbh. If you’re this quick to divorce, or throw that threat around, he’s better off.
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So you want a divorce because your husband didn’t call you? At least he thought of you when he woke up and before he went to bed. You made mention it was the same place that his parents took their last vacation; did you ever think maybe he was emotionally distressed or having a hard time coping. Do him a favor and go ahead and go through with the divorce. So you can “deal with the dogs” and toddler some more. You sound selfish.
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Seriously? This can’t be a real question. If it is a question…perhaps you should change your diaper because I can’t see an adult acting like this and actually feeling as if it is justified. It was a weekend…so MAYBE 3 days. He was with family, at the last vacation spot before his parents died…I’m sure his weekend was filled with memories. You absolutely should divorce him and save him years of changing your diapers, cleaning up after your hissy fits, and mopping up your dramatic tears…
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Your being selfish and supper needy and the divorce comment was going too far unless you have some kind of evidence he was cheating and that’s why he didn’t call. You act like he didn’t contact you at all he made sure he talking to you first thing and last thing
Sounds like he and his brother spent time grieving their parents.
Divorce was an irrational move.
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Um ya… it was vacation. Maybe he felt the time away was needed to reset. He doesn’t have to live on the phone with you. Divorce was way to harsh. You’re wrong and overreacting. I’d be upset yes but I would also look at a possible reason.
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WOW! That was a bit of a drastic response. It seems you just need to talk with him and explain how his lack of calling etc. made you feel and what you would appreciate going forward. You may also want to be sure he is okay emotionally because it may have been emotionally taxing for him to visit the last place his parents were alive. He needs more of your empathy NOT threats of a divorce.
You are being selfish. He needs to to himself. You do to. At least he was with family and not cheating. My husband would go on hunting and fishing trips an I would only talk to him maybe 2x in the week
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You want a divorce because he didn’t call you for 2 days but he texted you…there has to be more to this story
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I think ur being dramatic, he took a vaca with his brother for 1 weekend, so now it’s ur turn, make some weekend plans for u and ur friends, I’m sure he’ll take care of everything while ur gone
Absolutely give him that divorce. He deserves better
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You must be really young 
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This sounds like you needed a reason to leave
Umm, you did hear from him twice a day for a whole weekend. His parents are gone and he and his brother are still grieving. You sound petty and needy.
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Unless this is abnormal behavior than ya you should ease up on him I agree. If he usually texts you a lot when he’s away though then I could see why you’re upset.
There is a lot of room for compromise though if you both stop focusing on who’s right. It’s you 2 vs the problem not you 2 vs each other.
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The word “Marriage” is losing its meaning and significance. 
If something so petty can cause you to divorce him, you shouldn’t have married him in the first place.
Trust is part of the foundation of marriage. An important part. I’m so sorry for him as well as you.
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If I was him and came home to that dbag move of yours, I’d file for divorce myself. You’re more than the ahole here. You’re a selfish self centered one. You don’t deserve him.
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Omg get over yourself. He at least text you!
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you are overreacting… so what, he went the weekend without talking or texting you all weekend…he deserves space just as much as you do, even if you don’t want it for yourself… you talked to him 2xs a day per day he was gone… most partners don’t even get that…
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Maybe he was reflecting on his parents and taking the time to remember them , but should have called u at least once a day for sure …but he did text u two times a day . If u dint trust him you shouldn’t be married to him. It’s Was his and his brothers time …together …d be upset if u had no text or nothing but he did that …it’s kinda selfish of u , don’t you think???.He’s with his brother at a shared place his parents were last …A DIVORCE ARE YOU KIDDING ???
Even in texting and calling he could still be doing something dirty
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Wow! Is all I can say
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Pick me pick me pick me
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a divorce is completely justified 
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What is your problem?
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I agree with your husband. He was spending time away from home with his brother, alone time. It sounds like you need some girlfriends. Also you need to learn to relax and enjoy some time in his absence. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. He contacted you every morning and every night. Obviously, you were the first and last thing he thought about. You are coming across as dramatic and needy. Not a good look. Much peace and love ☆
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Wait what is this for real?
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Sometimes people need their time and sibling time with out their S.O. They don’t revolve around you always, chill . . You live together. Let him have some time, and maybe you can go have your time and leave with family and breathe.
If he won’t allow that. Then divorce him. Lol
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I think a divorce is the best route. He would be much happier without you.
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Okay so he went to the last place his parents vacationed before they passed away. Obviously he’s mourning still and you’re gonna be immature and upset because he didn’t give you enough attention. You definitely shouldn’t be married you don’t know what it takes to be in a loving relationship and this proves that.
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If thats all it take for you to spew the divorce word around you need to rethink what a marriage is to you…
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Either there’s more to the story. You have trust issues. Or you didn’t want to be married in the first place.
Wow!!! I hope this is a joke otherwise this is definitely a you issue. Unless he has a past of cheating or abuse this is ridiculous. He was with his brother at the last place their parents vacationed at and he texted you. Grow up. How many calls from you did he ignore? If it was me I’d give you the divorce and move on.
Yeah you’re treating him like he isn’t a whole human himself. You walked him out the door, bud. Poor guy.
Wow… no further words but you might need to get a grip
So text you but because he didn’t call , you want a divorce?
I think divorce is a great idea. For him, to get away from your petty arse. 
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It’s not that big of a deal. My husband has done that & I’ve done it also. It’s ok to not talk for 2 days.
You are being irrational .
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U need to grow up u are not a teenager
A divorce over that? Come on!
That’s stupid in my opinion
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Try doing the same to him. That might be your answer
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He was on vacation with his brother. Stop acting like a toddler. You’re wanting a divorce because he didn’t call you? He did contact you in the morning and evening 
. Maybe he should divorce you honestly for he doesn’t have to stay with such an irrational childish woman who thinks that’s she needs to be the center of attention at all times.
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You want a divorce because he went on vacation with his brother, to greive their parents? Was he close with his parents?
He still texted you. You knew he was going. Do you demand he call you when he’s out with friends? Do you even let him go out with friends? How short is his leash?
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Yes, you need a divorce…he should leave you and allow you just that for throwing that around. You’re toxic, needy, and controlling AF
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I can’t believe this my husband would go stay the weekend with his son and he barely called me, he was spending quality time with his son because I worked so much, he would come home on Sunday and I knew he overdone himself he was sick and was trying to spend time with them, I miss him he has been gone 10 years now and I would give anything to have him back with me
Yes. Since you asked, I’m gonna tell you: You are wrong.
There’s so much more I would say, but it just boils down to you putting your pride aside and apologizing for your reaction. I can’t believe you feel a divorce is the answer. Maybe some time in therapy will be beneficial.
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Sometimes they are so consumed by the many people that love him, when he thinks of you he knows you are asleep. That’s the way he is, he doesn’t want to disturb you. I think it possibly happens to many. I think what you met him with was crazy!
Everyone needs time alone and that was a special time for him and his brother to bond. You need to chill out. If I was him I would leave your ass for being so insensitive. 
I do think he could have called you. Did you try to call him? A divorce seems a little drastic unless this isn’t the only reason.
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Don’t ever threaten divorce unless you’re absolutely serious. It’s nothing to be thrown around because you’re angry. You are definitely in the wrong. Did you ask him to call? He did contact you, he didn’t ignore you. He was probably trying to have bonding time with his brother and disconnect so he could be completely present in the moment. This may be a very emotional vacation for him and his brother.
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You’re being irrational. lol
I mean if ur secure in ur marriage and he did nothing wrong and u have no trust issues he shouldn’t have to report in like a child
My husband went to Afghanistan and sometimes I could only talk to him 1 x a week and that’s ok
When I’m with my family I don’t want to report in doesn’t mean I’m doing anything wrong just aim not a child and shouldn’t have to be treated like one
Marriage w trust is a wonderful thing and just because someone doesn’t text u and call and have their phone 24/7 doesn’t mean they r doing wrong
My husband has no social media nothing and I do we don’t check each other’s phones and if he goes w his brother for a weekend I don’t expect him to call and report every couple hours
Besides even if someone calls or reports in and makes u feel better doesn’t mean they can’t cheat and call u too!
If this is all it takes maybe u should reconsider being married
UNLESS he has given u a reason not to trust him
Lemme tell you something
You’re lucky to have a husband
You’re lucky he’s alive
Stop acting like a child honestly
He was with his brother and you’re like I want a divorce
I feel sorry for your husband
Sincerely every widowed person out there that looks at their front door wishing their spouse would walk in 
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You’re a piece of trash, and that’s just me putting it lightly. It I came home to a controlling wife who would divorce me over something is trivial as this, I’d leave. Boo hoo. God forbid he go to work and leave you to care for the child and dog. You’re a real piece of work. You got women like me who care for their husbands waiting on a ring, but then dumb b*tches like you somehow managed to trap a man.
Oh wow… the i want a divorce is extreme.
I am only commenting bc about 5yrs ago this EXACT thing happened to me.
My husband came back from a trip on Valentine’s Day & he had barely spoke a word for an entire week, no text… nothing. I was home and had prepared a super fun Valentine’s Day dinner, gifts for him & our kids . He handed me a box of chocolate and I started balling. I TOLD him he was making me lonely & sad. I don’t want that, I want to be in constant communication with someone. I want you to text me when you see something funny, or pretty , or interesting. I want you to never go to bed without telling me good night.
And you what…. He’s never done that again.
You don’t just throw in the towel, you communicate your feelings & see if there’s a response.
If you try & there’s not then file that divorce!
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You want a divorce because he didn’t call you?
The phone works both ways…
Please follow through
HE deserves better 
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There are some days my husband is at work and we only text. I’m busy at work, he’s busy at work. You seem super needy or super insecure.
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If the loss of his parents is new it could’ve been a grief thing and you are for sure over reacting especially if he never gave you a reason to doubt him before. If you had a reason to question him before then that would be one thing but you didn’t explain that. You sound like you were looking for an out don’t use his grief as an excuse just take the out and admit it
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Everything about this seems toxic.
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Divorce for not calling…
Better have a solid reason besides that…
My husband works 15+ hours a day. I don’t expect a call, I get annoyed if he knows I’m busy at certain times because I have a life.
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uhm, he called you morning and night. For the love of all that’s holy, get yourself some therapy. for you. The problem isn’t your husband
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You are being way too irrational…. You heard from him…. It’s good to have some time apart and it was only two days…. Sounds like you need to grow up…
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Leave him don’t leave him, doesn’t sound like there’s much love and respect there anyway and clearly this is the icing on the cake!
He texted you in the morning and at night…technically that’s him contacting you. You’re most definitely being irrational and he’d be better off without you
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Maybe he was trying to live in the moment and make some of the memories his parents did? I think ur in the rong here trying to divorce him over not getting a phone call. It’s a bit extreme
If you want a divorce over one bad weekend then yeah you need the divorce
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Yikes. I feel bad for him.
Unless other things have occurred you are leaving out it does seem a bit irrational to say you want a divorce. If you expect him to call you when you are apart you need to make sure he realizes that prior to the event.
Did you try to call him? I do think he should have called you to at least check in and see how you were. But I’m not a big phone talker myself.
You need help. Jealous much
I think you are being irrational since you asked. He texted you every morning and every night before bed–alot of women would give anything to have their husband do that if he went away for a few days. AND on top of that he came home loving on you!!! Couldn’t ask for anything better then that!
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He should have called out of respect
Sounds like he should be thankful. You sound like a nightmare…
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Sooo… you didn’t ask him to call you? Or you know… call him? You waited for him to be home to ask or address about the lack of communication for what reason? And to want a divorce over it? That seems like an insecurities and you issue to me
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Maybe he should divorce you for your toxicity. Yikes…
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Wowwwwwww. This is sad. For your husband lol. He was clearly having a special weekend, I wouldn’t be on my phone either.
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He texted you. If you wanted a phone call you should have just asked. Drama queen.
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This is crazy he texted you morning and at night . Sounds like he needs more of these breaks
Yes divorce so you both can do better
Didn’t read all the comments… your husband went away with i
His brother to the place where they vacation with their deceased parents… Ummmm, could it have been an emotional weekend for them both? First thing in the morning and last in the evening. What’s wrong with that? To ask for a divorce over this is quite extreme. Who else do you think he was contacting?
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You are outrageous!! Wow I wish my ex husband put that much effort into texting you twice a day. Definitely divorce him so he can find someone who appreciates him. Unreal!!
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You are irrational. Completely!
You want a divorce because your husband didn’t call you while he was gone for the weekend with his brother ? Mmmk
I think you should stop sulking and check see how the weekend went for him. It couldnt been an easy one.
Unles you know differently for 100%.
Poor guy just didnt think. Hes a man and was with his brother
Uhm you do realize the phone works both ways… You are acting the age of the child you have. Please, get over yourself for the sake of your child and marriage. Either that or go ahead and divorce him because then he wouldn’t have to deal with the irrational person you are.
You are very irrational
U wanted a divorce over him not calling u while he’s on vacation. Lol wow
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He went to spend time with his family at the place his parents where before they died… you have issues.
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So you asked for a divorce because he didn’t call you for an entire weekend? That’s kind of childish.
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And as for your comment about dealing with YOUR dogs and kids… You better get used to that if you want a divorce. Smh. You sound too childish to be in a marriage.
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Ok. A divorce is a little dramatic. I would be upset too. Between you saying you wanted a divorce ans him leaving si easily after telling him you want one, sounds like maybe there were already some marital issues going on and this was just the icing on the cake.
Also, have you lost a parent? The greif can be soul sucking. Depending on how close he was w his parents and how long ago he lost them etc it may be taking everything he has to talk tj anyone , at all, ever.
You are being irrational. He was with his brother to remember their parents
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Are you actually serious. U have problems
He went with his brother to the last place his parent went before they died. He was spending quality time with his brother and reminiscing times spent with his parents and stuff. So what if he didn’t call maybe he is still grieving the loss of his parents and was upset and didn’t want you to worry. Atleast he texted though.
Grow up.
I hope this man sees how toxic you are and divorces you first
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Yes you are irrational who the hell says they want a divorce over that. 
Yes he’s disrespectful for not calling all weekend. Did you reach out to him at all? Things go both ways.
Silly argument. Pick your battles honestly…this one isn’t worth picking…you are being extremely irrational.
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Wtf are you 12? He’s probably happy you want a divorce
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You are being irrational, he was with family, probably reminiscing of the last vacation with their parents. It’s not like he didn’t communicate at all. We’re men, we will talk about cars, solve world hunger, or not talk are all. Sometimes we just shut completely off. Talking has to be"organic"or it feels weird… My wife sleeps an extra hour every morning because nothing happened during the night that i need to talk about, men are ok with silence sometimes
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