I think you need a hobby boo. Because my husband did the same thing. But he went to his home state with our children and he didn’t call me either. I did majority of the calling. Because I missed them. But I think you need to re-evaluate or something.
Wow, way to overreact
Wowwww… he was with his brother in remembrance of their parents… yall live together… you heard from him in the AM and pm no need to hear from him any other time
Divorce? Over that?? If you can’t communicate and work it out, then you probably shouldn’t be married anyway. Marriage takes work…. Divorce shouldn’t even be an option unless he has done something unforgivable. If you go to court, i guarantee the judge will NOT grant an “at fault” divorce for not calling his wife while on a trip.
Hope he doesn’t hesitate to sign the dotted line
You are right he should call you. But you are wrong to say you want a divorce. Throwing that around isn’t nice.
Sounds like him and the brother were probably missing their parents and were having some sibling time.He called you. Give the man a break. Sounds like you have trust issues
If you keep behaving this way, you will most likely lose him.
Something is wrong in your thought process, him bonding with family shouldn’t be threatening to you. Seek counseling before it destroys your marriage.
Poor guy. He deserves better.
Lmao!! You must be young. Us older woman would love our husbands not calling us or texting us. Most men are worse than the children. I’d a loved the piece & quite. Plus it’s your fault you stayed home & did nothing while he was on vacation. You could of took off & went & did something with the kids. It works both ways. If you didn’t do anything then that’s your fault.
He is better off without you,just because he didn’t call you,he texted you grow up,you’re so ridiculous to want a divorce he went there to be where his parents last were get over it.
Why are you making it about you? Feeling left out? This weekend wasn’t about you. It was about his parents and his brother. JC.
Divorce sounds like you overdoing it unless you know something we don’t. Idk but communication does exist .
Oh come on Give the guy a break for goodness sake. He was with his brother reminiscing and celebrating their parents who they probably miss terribly. Maybe he needed that bonding time with his brother. He texted you checking in twice a day why isn’t that enough! Why can’t the poor guy have a little alone time without you nagging about it. Maybe that’s why he didn’t call. He probably didn’t want to ruin a good time by listening to you complaining about one thing or another. You sound selfish and self centered to me and yeah in my opinion you’re wrong.
I don’t agree with wanting a divorce bc he didn’t call you like you wanted or expected him to. Sounds like co-dependency. I would have used that time apart to have a sleepover with my friends and their kids, hangout with my family, or just cherished that little time apart to really miss one another and have some I really missed you sexy time💁🏼♀️
You are psycho he should take you up on that offer of divorce
Ummmmmm . No comment
Good grief … are you pmsing or jealous?
You need to quit be so needy. He was with his brothers. Probably morning Gus parent. Self lady.
You don’t really care . at least text morning and night . Grow up. Are you sure he was with his family.hahahah
From what im getting he went on a grief holiday with his brother probably to air out stuff and work through some mental health stuff from the passing and YOU only YOU have made this about YOU, he made sure you knew he was ok by checking in. God i wonder how my husband is going to live with out me for 3 weeks when i go to Vietnam………oh ye like a grown ass adult.
A divorce??? What am i missing?
I think you are over-reacting. He did contact you while he was gone. It had to be an emotional time for both him and his brother. Unless you have reason to believe, and I don’t see where you do, that he wasn’t where he said he was, you are out of line.
I literally REQUIRE this to be satire
You are being irrational geez at least he was in contact with you . Give him some space .
Don’t think she got what she wanted out of this.
I understand you are married but that is a place that is special to him and his brother. A freaking weekend. A WEEKEND with no call but you got the good morning and good night texts. Then he came home to love on you and you said you want a divorce. I hope he does because honestly that sounds so disrespectful to him and he needs to get out before it gets worse! Grow up lady! Holy cow!!
JFC, he was busy. This wasn’t about you and he probably didn’t have the emotional energy to play nice on the phone with you while he and his brother are saying goodbye to their parents. You’re not only being irrational, but outright selfish.
Oh Lord… He should maybe sign those papers if you are serious about a divorce because that is so childish. Come on. Please tell me you are under the age of I don’t know 20…
Honestly… These can’t be real
Wow, just wow!! One weekend away with his brother. Atleast you got some texts. I would sign the divorce papers to get away from you
I love how every person calling her crazy are old
He should’ve contacted you, that juts sounds weird if your suspecting something I understand why you would want a divorce but it’s a bit too soon for something like that
Just asked my husband this and we both came to the sane conclusion. He should have perhaps called you once a day instead of a text but you are being slightly OTT stating divorce for 2 days , if it was a week then I would probably be pissed
I think you weren’t happy before the vacation or think he mighted of cheated and that is why you asked for the divorce. He should of placed a phone call or two for that week. My ex husband went to part of Mexico where it’s harder to make calls but he still did about every day or on the 3rd day. They weren’t long but just to say hi and check in and make sure everything is okay
Youre an absolute lunatic if you think that. He was trying to spend time with his brother without being on his phone. He spends every day with you. Youre most definetly in the wrong and if youre like this all the time I wouldnt blame him for signing
U was so in the wrong
You were spoiled as a child huh? Lol understandable to be upset, divorce worthy? I guess for you, but in reality no.
He was probably hurt. His parents are gone? Selfish and self centered.
A whole weekend as in only 2 days ?
damn lmao you’re gonna ask him for a divorce when he DID contact you during a vacation just not the way you’d wanted him to? sheesh
A divorce, pretty harsh. I would have got a sitter and went with my girlfriend’s to dinner.
He was with his brother bonding at the place his parents last went before they died…. He checked in morning and night. Are you that insecure that you can’t handle a little independence while he spends time with his brother while mourning the loss of their parents? You’re nuts.
Blaa blaaa blaaaa. Shut up
Maybe HE should be asking for a divorce…oof and I thought I was dramatic.
My fiance went to Georgia with his brother to see their dad for the last time as he is on his last days my fiance was always texting me if I didnt get a text or call i would call him or text him. why couldn’t u take a step to call ur husband instead of complaining about it.
Tell me you’re selfish without TELLING me you’re selfish. The dude was away with his brother for an emotional weekend, wtf…
You’re really gonna get a divorce over that? Or was that an emotionally abusive idle threat as a means to at least attempt to control him?
He was so totally in the wrong
Sounds like you wanted a divorce before this. My husband works out of town alot and sometimes that’s all i get. And also when he goes riding /fishing/hunting etc. you are being unreasonable! And that is YOUR child also, if you want a divorce you’ll have that child more then him so yes you’re being unreasonable
I think it’s ok to be upset but also think a divorce is an over reaction.
Imagine trying to do something special with your sibling to help heal the wounds of dead parents and you come home to a husband/wife that wants a divorce.
Haha he did texted in the am and before bed… so he did reach out and give you opportunity to talk to him if there was something u needed. To divorce over this seems harsh … its just my OPINION tho.
You are being irrational. You should apologize.
I mean I wouldn’t have asked for a divorce but I definitely would have thrown a fit lol
Its nice to be able to go on vacation and put the phone aside other than short texts to immediate family. Thats normal. He went on vacation to spend time with his brother and bond over their parents and past. He’s allowed to have sibling bonding time. Why would you need to interrupt that process with a lengthy phone call. Texting you morning and evening is plenty of an i love you. You should of taken the time to enjoy your independence and freedom too. Try some more self love and independence, dont look for everyone else to provide you with your necessary affection. Having a romantic relationship with someone else is a blessing and a bonus but first both you AND HIM…need self love and independence. He has other loved ones too that need his attention. Giving all your time and energy over to one person is extremely unhealthy.
Is this for real???
This has to be a joke???
Give that poor man a divorce! It’s the least you can do…
Is this a legit post? Get over yourself …. He was spending time with. His brother probably reminiscing amour their dead parents ….
As long as he’s alive you shouldn’t care
If you were so worried why didn’t you call him? Honestly I don’t think it processes in men’s mind to call. He text you. If you wanted to talk on the phone you could have easily called him. You are Def going way overboard.
I feel like you’re being irrational. He was doing something meaningful with his brother. He texted you. My husband was a commercial fisherman and was gone for months and never got to call home. It’s a bit controlling of you to demand he call you.
I think maybe you are codependent…not crazy. I recognize the overreacting as something I’ve probably done. Luckily though, my husband knows I am an extremely sensitive person and highly damaged due to past abuse from my parents to exes. I’d suggest reaching out to him to apologize and just explain how you felt, and then I would look into going to a therapist. I mean that in all sincerity and am not judging one bit. It helps immensely.
Is this a joke? Please be a joke…
I used to go out of town for work on weekends…and I didn’t always call. I’d text. I was working. I was exhausted. Usually I fell asleep before I’d even text.
He went somewhere to be with his brother and mourn his parents and you couldn’t give him that grace??
I hope you never ruin another man. He should find a better wife.
So you’re jumping straight to wanting a divorce??? I mean. Yes he should have called but that’s something you guys need to talk about. You are taking it to a whole nother level. Communicate how you feel, why you feel that way and what you expected to happen and how it made you feel not to see that happen. You guys should be able to communicate during disagreements, arguments, difference of opinions or when something is done that shouldn’t be done. That’s part of a marriage. You can’t just jump right into wanting a divorce.
Uhhh except he did contact you. It was one fkn weekend. I’m fkn glad he left
Uh, a divorce is pretty irrational. All because he didn’t call you while on a trip with his brother to honor their dead parents? Yeah you have a right to be a little upset but Jesus…
It’s him who should be asking for divorce from your toxic ass
Ok I understand being upset, but damn… that’s a bit extreme.
You sound jealous and overwhelmed.
He should happily give you one. Imagine going with your sibling to enjoy the last trip your parents enjoyed before passing, and someone giving you crap because you didn’t call them. I’d say the trip was to help with grief and closure for him and his brother. You sound like a narcissist.
You are overly dramatic. Give the man space; from someone that’s been married 30 years.
He didn’t contact you (except twice a day. The first thing when waking up, and the last thing before going to bed) he went with his brother to a place that is bittersweet, and you wanted him to focus everything on you? Yea you need a divorce, but not bc of him.
That’s a little much. Sure you can be upset but a divorce?? That’s too much
Are you asking for a divorce just cause he didn’t call you?
He needs to run. You are a red flag!
I hope he takes you up on that offer!
Wow. I think u r being absurd. I would leave you.
Grow up
Both of you.
You’re insane and I hope he divorces your crazy ass!
The dramatics in you is sad. A divorce because he didn’t stay talking to you while he was away with his brother? That’s his brother, that vacation was for them. He did contact you in the morning and at night but that’s not enough for you. Maybe you should so that he can find someone that doesn’t act like this when it’s not all about them. I feel bad for him.
Hope he goes for full custody and wins you don’t deserve him or his child selfish as
Why does he need to call you? He sent a couple of texts. He was with family.
People need space. Especially if they’re grieving. Jeez.
I think you both need to grow up… both over reacting and unreasonable
Wait, you asked for a divorce because he didn’t call you as many times as you wanted? Who’s being irrational?
Obviously it was a trip meant for something. Brother time. At least he texted you. Stop being selfish.
He contacted you twice a day I think you’re overreacting a bit. He was on vacation I’m sure if you go on vacation you could do the same.
divorce? you did too much
He’s was gone for a weekend and you are divorcing him. He contacted you morning and night. He was somewhere with his family on a vacation. Hr should be the one leaving. That is absolutely crazy.
You’re taking this to a whole another level, he contacts you in the morning and before he goes to bed. Obviously he’s in contact with you and he’s thinking about you. Maybe he just needs time with his brother. A divorce yeah you’re overreacting way too much. I understand you’d be upset if he didn’t contact you the whole weekend at all. Sounds a bit like you are jealous!
Irrational for sure this obviously meant something to him and his brother maybe they just needed that time, everyone deals with stuff differently wanting a divorce after that honestly makes you sound crazy
Yes, he should have called or something…but that is not grounds for a divorce if he doesn’t. Sounds like more going on here, than we know.
Lawt, I go away for a week with no contact. This sounds like you need to work on you.
This woman is ridiculous!
Tell me we are being punked right now! If that’s how you act just because he’s spending time with his brother reliving memories, then he should welcome that divorce.
He should have asked for the divorce if you are that petty. I mean he was spending time with family he doesn’t need to be bothered every second. Sometimes people need space to grieve.
Holy shyt I hope this is a joke post.
Um when my husband goes on vacation I don’t expect a phone call. Just a text in the morning and at night to say goodnight to our daughters. That’s a bit extreme to just ask for a divorce
It was a trip with his brother so they could go down memory lane . You need to grow up. He did text you they should have been enough. This was something both brothers needed
Wow, think about what you just wrote. He went on vacation with his brother to the last place they vacationed with their parents. It was probably very emotional for them. The fact that you want a divorce over that is insane.
I’d get your insecurities in check before you try to join the adult dating pool in the future.
I feel sorry for your husband
He literally did contact you, per your own words. He kept in touch so that yall knew that eachother was safe. What’s the issue?
If he turned his phone off or blocked your number for the weekend, that’s one thing. You need to be able to reach him in case of an emergency with you or your child.
But he didn’t do that…and he checked in twice a day for the like 48 hours he was gone. There is nothing wrong with that.
You are being completely irrational and probably way to immature to even be married
If my husband is on vacation with his brother or family he doesn’t need to call me. Get a grip. So many control issues these days. Let me guess you went through his phone as well.
I think you should re read what you wrote. People fight for marriage even when it’s bad because you want to make it work. He was spending time with his brother and it was probably emotional. He texted you to let you know he was okay. Over 2 days you want a divorce. Sounds like you already wanted that divorce before he left and are now using this as an excuse