Wow… I wish mine would leave for 2 days and let me be. 
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I’d be happy lol, I’d get a fair amount of knitting and reading done. Don’t get me wrong, I’d be fretting over if he was OK or not. But, he was enjoying himself.
Man. If I’m off with my brother on an emotional weekend I would feel great if I remembered to contact you. I spend 3 days at a music festival and am lucky if I even think about taking out my phone. Calm down girl
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Wow… sounds like you’re controlling and clingy and he’s better off with the divorce.
Seriously…he’s not allowed to have a weekend with his brother without reporting to you morning and night? And he texted you which means that you were on his mind, even tho he was out with his brother…
Poor guy, I feel bad for him.
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Wow! Are you 10? Because this sounds like a childish tantrum. He texted me and you morning and night. Give him a break.
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He texted you in the morning and in the night before bed, at least he text you!!! I am sorry sounds like your insecure and kinda selfish in my opinion, it should like he went on a vacation and was too busy to text u thru out the day but had enough time in the morning before he got busy and he texted you before he went to bed!! Girl I’d be greatful he even texted you most men go on vacation and 100% totally forget about there spouse and family!!
You are very self centered.
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So if you wanted to talk vs texting, why not call him? The only way I could be on your side with this is if you specifically said “please call me, I would really love to hear your voice” and then he didn’t call. Otherwise this is one of the very few times I would take his side
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That’s crazy more too it them that he texted you twice a day morning and night lol
He could of called once to check in…. Baby involved here.
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My husband and I have been together for 8 years. When he goes up north with the guys I rarely hear from him. Maybe a phone call but no real communication. Not for one second would I have ended our relationship over that.
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Doesn’t look like he put up too much of a fight before he left. Probably a blessing in disguise for him.
Hes better off without you!!!
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At least he sent a text🤷🏻♀️ let him enjoy his vacation with his brother. Silly thing to get a divorce over.
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I personally hate having to try and talk to people on the phone when I am supposed to work doing something else. He did call. Just apparently not as much as you want. So unless you have reasons to think he did something more serious than not calling you are overreacting.
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He’s not dating you. You’re married. My husband doesn’t call me when he’s on his golf vacations
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Yes, you are in the wrong. He did contact you, twice a day. You told him you want a divorce because he only contacted you twice a day on vacation with his brother at the last place his parents vacationed before they passed.
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Sounds like he was grieving the loss of his parents with his brother. Support is needed.
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He should grant you a divorce and probably better off. You sound controlling and manipulative
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He did contact you…. In the morning & at night.
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How immature for your future ex husband, he was with his family at least he contacted you in the morning and at night. Come on get off your high horse and maybe kindly talk to him express your feelings and let him know you didn’t like him not contacting you. Shrugs…
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He did contact you. He texted in the morning at at night each day. You ARE being irrational. Apologize and get over it. If you’re lucky, he won’t have lready started the divorce process.
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So them not calling is grounds? Huh my husband NEVER calls. We have gone whole week without speaking
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Ummm if you are calling for a divorce after a weekend away of mourning his parents with his brother then either you seriously have some issues you need to work through with a therapist or your marriage was already on its last thread…
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Be thankful he at least contacted you twice a day, when really he didn’t have to at all. Him and his brother were more than likely grieving the loss of their parents and it didn’t cross his mind to contact you throughout the whole days
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You sound like a very young and jealous girl!!
He text you 2times a day!!
Why didn’t you call him?
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I am glad he left and hope he doesn’t return.
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Hmmm I wonder if there’s more to this story lol
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Crazy!!! He was on vacation with his brother… at a place his parents vacationed. He was probably trying to connect with them and his brother. And it was a weekend. Not an entire week!
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Wow if your considering divorce over that then your marriage wasn’t strong before he left clearly. Your being irrational very irrational.
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Get a grip he should just move on
That’s a little much wanting a divorce, because he didn’t call.
He did contact U via text. Maybe not how U wanted, but contact non the less. He should have been present with his brothers during their grieving process and U should be a bit more understanding.
Maybe U need to seek counseling to work on your issues.
Leave that man alone. If I was him I’d think long and hard about continuing being married if that how U act with him gone for just the weekend.
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He was gone for a WEEKEND! With his BROTHER!! To the last place they vacationed with their parents before their passing.
He didn’t go on vacation. He went away for a weekend.
He texted 2x a day. At most he was gone 3.5 days.
Maybe the WEEKEND was about reminiscing about his PARENTS with his brother.
Amazing that completely flew over your head!!!
I would have walked out on you, too.
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As someone who lost her mother this is so wrong on so many levels. You should be supporting him not wanting a divorce because he didn’t call you
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I would suggest counseling for you to help on understanding healthy relationships and self-esteem. Your husband contacted you twice a day. If you expected something different then you should have explained. He cannot read your mind. You were way out of line in saying you wanted a divorce. You just might get one. So sad.
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Kinda jumping to extreme
I think the contacting you in the morning and night is enough to show you respect and ease your worrying. He was on vacation and sounds like an important and sentimental one with his brother, I wouldn’t be on my phone either or expect him to be. Divorce is 10000% an over reaction. 
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He did contact you… it was one weekend he was spending with his siblings… if yoy really want a divorce there’s got to be more to the story
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Just becasue he didnt call u while his away for a while u wanted a devorce right away? Funny bwah.so.immature you are my dear…ur going to ruin your family with ur attitude
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Omg. Surely this is a joke……when I leave for a girls weekend, my hubs texts me good morning. He does that every morning anyway. Then I FaceTime him at night to say goodnight. Other than that, we don’t talk. He knows I need the girl time. And I do the same for him. Grow up!
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I don’t think you’re wrong for feeling neglected during that time. Or possibly smell something fishy- if he normally contacts you more frequently. If you sense something unusual, in a healthy relationship you should be able to bring these things up. However- that was a big jump asking for a divorce and probably emotionally based. Which it’s always bad to make decisions when emotional. And your anger and hurt sounds like it’s coming from a place of wanting him to contact you more. Wanting to feel important or desired even long distance. Have you tried expressing that to him? How his lack of contact made you feel? Start there if you haven’t. And don’t throw divorce out there unless you’re super serious.
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All I got to say REALLY . No love there if you divorce someone for that.MORE TO THIS STOREY
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Grieving the loss of his parents I would let my husband have his time. Women now on days are so insecure it’s ridiculous!
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WOW! A divorce because he didn’t call you yet he texted you twice a day and this for only a weekend? You have much growing up to do.
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? Is there more to the story. Did you call him,??
While yes I comprehend,that because u would have called him ,you expect the same… however he is not you… does he call you normally? 
. Do u have any reason to suspect him of doing dirty while he was gone?
If u have no reason to doubt this man then maybe past trauma is being triggered.
It seems maybe you may also have some insecurities issues because of this relationship or past… I am sorry so many people felt it is ok be disrespectful toward you in here answers we all get emotional and react, and I think k you brave to come here and take this poll, hope your skin thick enough to let most these comment roll right on thru…
Maybe try talking with him .
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Enjoy your toddler and your dog. Let it go!
This cannot be a serious post. If so, you are incredibly selfish and self absorbed. He contacted you. The man is grieving.
You should have went with him but I don’t call my husband all day long when I go on vacation with my best friend I call once in the morning and once at night and I’m not cheating.is there more to this story
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You know people he could have been with another girl there’s no reason why he could not have talk to his wife over the weekend
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I understand being frustrated but divorce?That seems cold to me considering he was going with his brother to mourn their parents.
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Yep he was with a women if you called him and he didn’t answer …
This. Can’t. Be. Real
I think your over reacting. He texted you in the morning and at night. That should have been enough. He was on a vacation with his brother to a sentimental place. Give him a break
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You realize if you want a divorce, you’ll have the toddler and the dog all on your own! Is that what you want?
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Let me get this right…
He goes away for the wk end with his brother to the last place his parents vacationed at, texts you in the morning & at nite & your pissed and want a divorce because he didn’t verbally speak to you??
Grow the hell up & stop with your freaken insecurities!!!
This was a weekend not a week or a mth without any verbal contact.
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You are a sick puppy. At least he texted you. Men do this all the time and wife’s are usually happy to let them go.
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You’re being irrational.
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If this is real, because this sounds nuts, I think you should get some counseling.
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Listen losing your parents is tough. Give him a break unless you think there’s something going on
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Lmfao a divorce damn…
Uh yeah. You’re being VERY irrational. And selfish. Sounds like you did him a favor.
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Sounds like you have been waiting for a reason to divorce him and to justify something you may be doing…
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Mine used to go fishing with his " buddies". Much later a group of us were together and one of the wives thanked him and someone else for the money he gave the wives for cooking for them. I was shocked. Did not know any wives went along. Never did find out how many wives were there a d who wS “his” partner there. No one would ever talk about it. Unfortunately that was my life until i got out of it.
Waaaaaow I wish my husband would go on vacation and didn’t call me all weekend…that would make me want him even more when he got back.
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What I see won’t here and would raise huge red flags for me is your cashed and he didn’t answer or at least call back I would wonder why he could only text was he with someone else other then his brother I wouldn’t have jumped to divorce but I would definitely be finding out
Sorry girly you’re wrong. Twice a day?? Totally sufficient if he’s away. Where’s the trust & support for him to have a good time. It must have been pretty emotional for them
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He should have atleast called and talked to you, instead of just texting
I think you are over reacting. I have been on a sister trip with my sisters and we were having so much fun being together, I had to remind myself to call my hubby everynight. I don’t love him any less and when I got home, I was so much more in love with him because he was happy that I got the time with my sisters while he stayed home and cared for the pets. It meant so much to me.
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That’s exactly what’s wrong with this generation and why marriage’s don’t last. You can’t throw in the towel or whatever the saying is bc your husband didn’t call you while he was grieving the loss of his parents smh
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Wow!! Straight to divorce?? At least he was with his parents
You’re totally irrational, CTFD! If you “needed” to talk to him you could have called HIM🤷🏻♀️ I think him texting you was sufficient enough. He didn’t ghost you he was just having some “brother” time and maybe they needed to grieve alone and reminisce? It’s okay! It’s also okay to get away for a weekend with friends or family and not have to feel like you need to follow some special check in time with your significant other. I’d be pretty bothered and insulted if my husband expected me to call him even though we were text communicating while I was gone, then threaten to divorce me if I just needed some time away to regroup. We have 2 kids and eight animals. People need breaks with out guilt or threats. Go do something fun with your kid and don’t sweat the small stuff.
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I feel like you’re overreacting, especially the gone all weekend part when today is Saturday
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Probably deeper issues already going on if you’re bringing up divorce
Oh my goodness get over you’re self 
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Well, if this is the only issue yes I’d agree to the irrational. Did you ever call him? Did you communicate with him you wanted calls or check ins?
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If she’s looking for a divorce after that, she might as well get one as she obviously wants out of the marriage!
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Maybe he was in his feelings!
Men are never allowed that anymore he went to the last place his parents vacationed before they died he was bound to be in his feelings!
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Umm definitely overreacting… I can understand being upset, but to jump right to divorce?
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He offered you love and u want a divorce. Should’ve took the love dummy. This is stupid
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You are overreacting!!! He was with his brother visiting a place that had memories of his parents. Get over it!
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I think maybe he should want the divorce. This sounds like pretty controlling behavior. It sounds like this was an emotional trip for him and his brother, and maybe needed some space, and he was reaching out to twice a day. And instead of you trying to help with what is going on emotionally with him, you make it all about you and how you are feeling. Very selfish.
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It’s your relationship, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. It matters how you feel, if you think he overstepped your boundaries and went too far. You were entitled to a divorce, I am assuming that if you went away with a sibling you would have kept in contact more. If you would have done the same thing he did in the same situation then you did overreact. However from what I understand you would have never done that, don’t apologize for your boundaries you set. After all it could be the beginning of him doing more of this and for longer, except what you want to live with and what you don’t.
I have a feeling this isn’t the first time you cried divorce
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A divorce over that was way uncalled for. It’s hard to tell cause it’s an emotional time. Not everything should revolve around technology like that. Maybe he needed his space and time for something that meant so much to him (and yes I’m this case this is more important than how you feel over n it getting enough texts/calls)
I’m assuming his parents passed away recently since they went on a special trip? This may have been a really emotional time and he may have just needed the alone time to process. I do understand the frustration and I would just speak to him, but divorce seems extreme. There may be a totally innocent reason for him to not speak to you, but I also don’t know if there were other things in your relationship that made you not trust him or anything else that had happened. If he’s been a good partner, I think you should be more understanding of the situation. Sometimes one partner has to be the weight of difficult things for the grieving or sick one…
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Get a grip for fucks sake
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A divorce because he didn’t call?! That seems a little extreme. Was he busy during the day? He called in the morning and again at night… did you want him to spend his time contact you or reminiscing with his brother. Was this trip emotionally taxiing on him?
I cannot imagine divorcing my husband for not calling me one a weekend getaway with his brother. Are there bigger issues that are not mentioned? Are you insecure? Jealous?
Ummm hold up…… do you have actual reasoning for wanting a divorce or is his only offense because he went on vacation with his brother to where his parents went before they passed and he didn’t call? But you did hear from him…. But didn’t call.
You have some issues. He should divorce you. I’m seeing red flags. Yes you’re wrong there ya go I’ll say it. Maybe one day you will open your eyes stop being selfish and get your head out your butt to realize your mistake.
It was clearly an emotional trip for him
And perhaps he needed the time to not be connected to technology. You’re wrong. Plan and simple.
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Let him grieve and get away without distractions
This is a joke right?
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You are acti g like a spoiled child he should be able to have His time and not think or worry about YOU
Sounds like he wasn’t with his brother for the weekend and came home and is trying to act all nice hoping she wouldn’t figure out what he was up to…
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Would I be upset? Yes, but the phone works both ways.
Would I tell my husband we are getting a divorce? Hell no marriage is for the good times and the bad, that sounds like an emotional trip he was on. I think a divorce is a little much 
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Some remote places only texting works in spots (like where I live). Maybe he needed to process the loss of parents so he could move on…
He was probably mourning with his brother, as well as having quality time and once he got home he wanted you to comfort him and give love. Your being selfish.
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Be thankful you are not married to me. OMG ! Stop Wining like a Toddler. He was with Siblings involved with family memories & issues. You knew that. Phones go both ways unless there are poor signals or outages. Maybe he needed time away from you to concentrate on his Blood Family issues. You keep this up I would Highly recommend a quick DIVORCE from you.
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Before he went on this vacation did you communicate that you needed him to call you and why? If not, did you text him while he was gone asking for him to call you?
Divorce for his lack of calling you seems irrational.
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You sound immature and needy …seriously grow up
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Forgive me but you sound needy and controlling in this situation.
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You’re overreacting!! That’s the last place his parents died! You think he’s not gunna spend his days with family reminiscing of the old days and memories of them! If he sent you texts then he was thinking of you when he woke up and before he went to bed… you just sound ridiculous tbh
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