Just open your own account and go on assistance who paid for the wedding this dont make any sense
Leaving is the best option for her it’s never gonna get better for her the mother will always be first not a good lesson for the kid to learn
You only married one member of the family, if mother can’t accept you she can have her son back
I see all these post saying go get a job, bullshit you have a job time to start charging him for it. Everytime you wash his clothes prepare his food heel even the childs food at half of coure because she is both your responsibility. And you clean the home call and find out how much merry maids charge for cleaning hoise then he pays you half that because you have to clean up after yourself. Ask him what gonna happen when child get sick and you habe no car to take to Dr ambulance is expensive and so is leaving his job. Also all of this should habe been talked about before marriage. Another option is to confront mother in law prob last option is to leave remember whatever he does to you you will be teaching that is ok to child and that is how the cycle is started. Also obviously MiL does not like wife. What kind of woman tries to keep another woman down!
Say goodbye now because trust me a mummas boy never Changes. I know I walk away after 20yrs and happier then I’ve ever been
This is kind of funny to me is I’ve been on both ends of this. I tried this with my first wife and she pissed away a lot of money. I tried again with my second wife and she got pissed because I was going to use 5k to invest and the return was 25k in 6 mth. She got mad about that so I said f*** it. We split the money and closed the account. She now knows better to even think of asking me for money.
Why do all of you think you should have access to the money when you dont earn any of it??
Go find your self a job.
First things first- if you are living in his mother’s house, why? Where is your house? Before you solve all your “money problem” you need a place to live.
You say you have known him for 5 years and been married to him for 1 year. At what point, before your marriage, did you become aware that the financial situation was what it is? Is the money in the bank his or is it his mother’s? Is the car his?
Domestic abuse comes it many forms. This is one of them. Coercive behaviour. Leave now. Its not going to get better