As much as it sucks, this all means one thing - the love is not real. He’s not ready to love a real woman authentically.
Hypocrisy is not okay.
Don’t explain he’s a grown ass man and he knows that isn’t okay!! He’s not toxic he’s poisonous!!! You need to fly not run fly your ass out while you can this whole post is nothing but red flags! He is a self centered narcissistic egomaniac and a cheater. You need to call it quits and run because if he’s doing all of this and allowing all of this right in your face it shows how little he cares for you and baby you’re a Queen and deserve nothing but the best, but you can’t have the best and be treated like a Queen if you’re laying down with a fool!
You can’t fix it he doesn’t respect you time to pack
He’s a mess. Run don’t walk
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Leave. Let his ex have him and find you someone else. You deserve better!
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Girl leave! He’s blatantly disrespectful to you, and to invite you to his shit show to witness his sleezy actions in person!!! Damn hunny not to be rude but you may as well just lay down and call yourself a doormat if you’re going to continue that kind of enablement. If they don’t share a child an ex is an ex for a REASON. You don’t rekindle old times with ex’s with your new partner present or absent…ypu just don’t do it!
Sounds like he’s a complete douche to me. He doesn’t take you seriously, or have any consideration for you. Sounds to me like you’re the only one putting the percentage into the relationship.
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First off–why in hell were you going out with his ex and her boyfriend??? Right there is a red flag!!!
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Leave
Not worth shit tbh
Leave hun don’t stay where you aren’t being respected. He sounds toxic af .
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You deserve better… 
I was thinking leave before I even got to the hand on the ass part. Girl, no. They both sound like pieces of shit, to do that in front of their partners and child is answer enough isn’t it!?
I understand people don’t wAnt to be alone. But these kind of people make u more miserable when you keep them in your life. Get your life back! Coz u livin his!
Can’t even have a cigarette. Sheesh. If he were a good man who didn’t smoke, and meant that with your best interest at heart. Sure. But this man is controlling you. These situations do not get better. They get worse.
I wish you the strength to leave & never return. 
Bang her boyfriend 
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Any time a woman’s bf/husband is irrationally jealous it usually means he’s already cheating or has cheated
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I’d start smoking so he’d leave 
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My ex did that, he was cheating over half of our marriage, but said and did same thing’s accusing me when he was the one doing it. RUN
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where do the smokes come in 
Any Hoo LEAVE HIS PUNK ASS
Sounds like a sexist pig who can do whatever he wants without repercussions
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Run, Run as fast you can!!
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Leave him he’s a cunt won’t change they never do once over 30
You don’t. After a certain point, you just leave. It sounds like you know your worth. Just stop letting him take advantage of you, babe.
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He’s still sleeping with her leave
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You don’t explain. You wave buhbye 
and get the hell out of that.
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And you’re still there?
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2-3 CARTONS a week?!
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LEAVE and don’t look back
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Sounds like a full on narcissist to me!
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You lost me at “he had his hand on her ass” wtfffff
Sounds like a cheater that is projecting his his affairs on you, in a way to gaslight you .
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You might not realize you are in an emotionally abusive marriage.
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Get out, girl. Get. Out.
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Girl, bye. You are 
as a box of rocks.
You really need to take a step back and clear your head so you can see how crazy this is. Sometimes when we are right in the middle of the craziness its hard for us to see what is really going on or how toxic things have become. Believe me ive been there. Really though none of this is healthy
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Get the fcuk out…!
What a total narcissistic flapdrol 