You should have already been long gone!
1 Like
Eww. Let her have him!
4 Likes
You explain it by leaving. What a sleaze bag.
4 Likes
You can start by walking the hell away from this joke of a man. Seriously I canāt understand how people put up with stuff like this. You WILL find someone that will respect and love you. I would just walk away now before it gets worse because by the sounds of it it will.
7 Likes
This sounds familiarā¦just leave and be happy you dont have someone like that in your life anymore.
I think you need to have a long talk with him about his actions and tell him he is being toxic & overly jealous if heās going to blamb you for doing things you otherwise arenāt while talking to women himselfā¦ If you donāt want him talking to his ex then you very clearly need to stand up for yourself set boundaries & walk away if itās not working out ā¦ He needs to learn to either trust you or you leave ā¦
2 Likes
Girl find you a man who respects you. Period.
3 Likes
Stopped reading after his hand was on her. Leave and donāt look back
11 Likes
1st and foremost you are dumb as hell for not beating her ass and his at the bar 
With that being said you keep saying my husbandā¦ nahhh cause after that night I wouldāve been single.
Read what you just wrote. If I found my husbandās hand on someoneās ass ex wife or stranger it wouldnāt matter, heād be an ex husband 
Also if my husband disrespected me by allowing any female to be all over him and trying to kiss him, bye. He should have put a stop to it immediately.
Heās cheating and youāre blind.
2 Likes
Hes doing all those things heās telling you that you canāt do.
2 Likes
ā¦heās still fucking her, obviously
Lol he accuses you of cheating yep sure fire heās probably still having sex with her and 2-3 cartons a week thatās like 2-3 packs a day dang. Honey you can do better move on. This is not okay
Time for him to be ex husband if you ask me
7 Likes
Absolutely not. You should have left a long time agoā¦not sure if you have kids with him but remember your setting the example for thier future relationships. Do better.
1 Like
Question is why are you still with him 
8 Likes
I agree with the comments and itās easier said than done. But seriously if he has no respect and still would let an ex be all over him and him touch her. He doesnāt truly love you. Sounds like heās using you. And only married you cuz maybe you pushed to wanting it. Iād leave that mess behind ik its hard but thatās the truth. I donāt see any way of fixing a cheating man that has no respect for his wife.
7 Likes
He is cheating. I would leave his ass so fast.
Say goodbye, find someone better. Scum.
He sounds like heās playing up, or has beenā¦ Lol
1 Like
Sorry to be blunt, but he sounds like a 
Itās time to walk away
A old mate of mine ended up going like this an making out his partner was doing the dirty on him as heād met someone a week before there date for a hookup an became very paranoid that she could do better than him sent him off the rails big time sheād only need to move away from his view a few seconds and heād start clock watching an msg people to try an find out if she was talking to any of us if she was in another room if she was taking to longā¦
Heās a narcissistā¦ he knows what heās doing and doesnāt care. There is no explaining anything to this man! A narcissist never belives he does anything wrong.
Just. Leave.
Why are you guys going out with his ex anyway? Thatās weird and not normalā¦ there could definitely be something going on between the two.
9 Likes
No no no he gotto go
1 Like
If he always says youāre cheating most likely heās the one cheating
2 Likes
Narcissistā¦tell him goodbye!
Oh girl, straighten your crown and walk away! You deserve better.
3 Likes
Thereās a whole lot of do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do about this guy.
2 Likes
Biggest hypocrite and narcissist Iāve heard of lately. Leave him heās probably already cheated and still is
4 Likes
You are in the wrong relationship girl. Leave fast
2 Likes
get out while you can
2 Likes
What a complete asshole!
Leave. Sounds like a narcissist to me.
Read your own comment and pretend it is someone else saying these things. What would you say to a person who knows this guy is a sh/t ass who repeatedly embarrasses her?
Run. Heās a narcissist.
So yāall let him do as he pleases and donāt do anything about it 
I swear itās something many fish in the sea , why let a tilapia hold you back 
6 Likes
#1 I would of never agreed to go to the bar and it is not ok!!! Tell him by Feliciaā¦.
2 Likes
A mf will treat you however you allow them to.
If you donāt mind, then it donāt matter.
5 Likes
Where is her bf with all of this
3 Likes
Oh no no honey. He would immediately, right away know whatās up! I wouldnāt make a mess 
, I donāt like drama . But he would know :););). Good luck boo 
1 Like
Girl just leave. It will not get any better
1 Like
You canāt explain it to him because he aināt gonna listen. He donāt wanna hear it. That behavior is just a little bit of what is to come. Iāve been where you are and, trust me, itās only going to get worse. Look up the traits of a narcissist and see how much it fits! If I were in your shoes I would get out now!
1 Like
Please leave him babeā”
2 Likes
He sounds like a narcissistic douche honestly. Iād leave him. In my experience, the guilty dog barks first when it comes to cheating. Your husband sounds a lot like my ex who would accuse me of cheating just because he was. He was hooking up with his ex behind my back. I wouldnāt be surprised if you found out they were each otherās āsneaky linkā still. Something tells me youāve probably tried to express how you feel and I promise he hears it, he just doesnāt care.
6 Likes
What do you like about this man?! You have issues and are being mistreated horribly! Get out while you can!
3 Likes
Sad that you have to air your laundry out on FB. Iāll just say this if your stupid enough to put up with it then you deserve what you get!
4 Likes
You donāt explain anything, you move on. His actions are explanation enough.
2 Likes
Get out while
You can!
3 Likes
Leave him now. Red flags
5 Likes
Thatās a toxic situation. I would leave. Way too many red flags. Donāt waste your own time just to be miserable.
6 Likes
How can you love someone who treats you like that. I would have slapped a bitch right then and thereā¦run girl, run.
He is deflecting on to you what he does. I would bet he is cheating and to allow his ex to come on to him like that with her boyfriend there is horrible. As for the cigarettes that is around $49 a carton so anywhere from $100 to $150 a week adds up. Yes to many red flags.
4 Likes
If he respected you in any way he wouldnāt have let her say the things she said and not go off on her and yāall leave and him stand up for you and the disrespect she showed yāall. He must still want her too.
2 Likes
Leave now donāt waste your time or energy
2 Likes
You run. Run away as fast as you can! Men like this wonāt change and talking wonāt help. And typically the one pointing fingers is the one doing the things they are accusingā¦. Just sayinā¦
1 Like
You have to get rid of the is nothing but bad news he is controlling if you let this continue itās only going to get worse
1 Like
Run as fast as you can and never look backā¦
2 Likes
He is a grown man?? You canāt teach him.
2 Likes
Ew sis. Leave. Heās cheating. The accusations alone are enough to leave. Clearly he has no respect for you or your marriage.
3 Likes
He doesnāt need explained to. He knows it isnāt right he doesnāt care. He is a narcissist and he will never change . I agree with others that you need to leave. I pray you see you deserve better.
8 Likes
1st sentence was all I read before I stopped.
You donāt have any idea what love is.
1 Like
You cannot explain it to him like you did to all of us. Youāre basically gone. Just walk out the door.
2 Likes
Leave hunny heās still seeing her and youāre never going to be enough. Baby you deserve better much better
2 Likes
What do you love?
The disrespect or the disrespect?
5 Likes
Girl, Leave. It does not get better.
Sounds like a Narcissist to meā¦a lying cheating one to boot
2 Likes
Doesnāt seem the feeling is mutualā¦ you may love him but heās not truly in love with youā¦ itās a lust āgameā for him.
2 Likes
Girlā¦ 
you know you donāt deserve that, seriously!
Fact you defend him proves he aināt it. If you know that someone is shitty and you gotta defend their behavior because you know it isnāt good thatās when you excuse yourself from that relationship because all you will get is hurt and disrespected. You can love him but does he really love you?
Alright. Hereās a hard pill to swallow. He is looking for reasons to get out from your marriage in a way that he will appear as the victim. Sorry to say this but its time to leave.
3 Likes
Heās a cheater big time,He figures that youāll do the same as him,thatās why he makes a case of everything with you,also he does that to upset u so u wonāt notice what heās doing
1 Like
And youāre still around because ? Sh*g his dad
6 Likes
Sounds like a narcissist to me
1 Like
U shouldnāt have to explain
4 Likes
Let her have him back! Sounds like a narcissist
3 Likes
Sounds like he is still fucking his ex AND she is throwing it in your face
Wow smell the roses, he is not in love with you, you should leave him, he does not deserve you, he sounds like a narcissist and trust me they donāt change they just get worse, donāt ever let a man rule your life
3 Likes
Are you sure he isnāt cheating? In my experience with being accused and that type of insecurity from a man itās because heās secretly terrified of having something do unto him what he is doing.
4 Likes
Know your worth. Wake up pack his clothes and send him home to her. Its clear he wants her. Explains why she said she loves him and misses him. Start investigating them text messages. He clearly has ZERO respect for you. Kick his ass out!
You. Are. So. Dumb 
3 Likes
This has to be a joke
Take both of them to the back room and beat them with soap in a sock
1 Like
Id give him back to her. He doesnāt love you.
6 Likes
Watch him, heās the cheater
5 Likes
Give or take 785 comments telling you to leaveā¦ to should probably leave dude.
5 Likes
Curious to know what circumstances were when you first met him?
I would examine your relationship closely
RUN! This sounds toxic! No more to be said. I explanation needed as you gave us all the reasons.
2 Likes
Iād choose violence lmao Iām sorry
1 Like
Firstlyā¦ when your partner acts in way that makes you uncomfortable and says things that are not appropriateā¦ and doesnāt apologise or rectifyā¦ then your red flags are already waving ā¦ no one can tell you what to do ā¦ but if your having to ask ā¦ then somewhere in your mind ā¦ you already know x
4 Likes
Leave today. Just leave.
Leave. There is no fixing him
3 Likes
RUN, donāt walk, RUN AWAY FROM THIS. You only have one lifeā¦ choose wisely!
Explain nothing! Start packing!!!
This is toxic and you need to leave
2 Likes
You should not ever have to explain to him how this is not okay. I would definitely consider leaving. I would have been throwing hands if I saw any other woman all over my man. Definitely would have just turned around and left the moment she admitted to still being in love with him.
5 Likes