This is simple as sad as it is but he doesn’t love you, not even in the slightest and has 0.0000000000% respect for you aswell.
He is the one cheating, this doesn’t end well for you. You have a choice to make. I’m so sorry.
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why are you still with him? Are you at least taking steps to leave him if you can’t just leave outright? Do y’all have kids together? I mean you know what he is doing. You honestly do not need anyone to tell you what to do, because you already know.
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You don’t have a marriage, you are Abused.It’s not worth it, Life is short , kick him out and don’t look back
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Girl run out of that nonrelationship. God is giving you sings and your not seeing it. 
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He is controlling, emotionally abusive and probably cheating. RUN! Leave! You deserve better! This relationship is headed down a very bad path and you need to jump ship before the fiery explosion that’s going to happen. If you really want to try and make it work, you need to seek counseling as a couple, but I would bet he is unwilling to do that for your relationship
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Take your money and leave
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It is defiantly time to move on from your husband. This one screams he’s a cheater and what sounds like, always has been. As soon as he starts checking everything you’re doing I guarantee next he will accuse you of cheating. I’m not even married yet, my fiancé and I share everything together and we will be together for 5 years in June. You deserve so much better!
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It sounds like the marriage is over , but I maybe wrong. Be firm tell him he either bucks his ideas up or your leaving. His choice he either does a complete turn around and fights for you or he’ll let you go. At least you’ll know no one can live like you are for long before it has long term effects on your health wealth and self esteem.
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That’s not healthy. You need to get out now!!
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Leave take your shit hell leave your shit just get out before it’s to late been there done that never again
Time for a good lawyer wise up and move on. This one is not for you
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He sounds like a narcissistic cheater. Get out a way from him. My ex used to do that I couldn’t speak to any man… not even his own dad without getting accused. But he done exactly what he wanted and talked to whomever he wanted. Get our before you waste anymore of your life on him.
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I would honest leave he is a controlling, emotional abusive pos in my opinion and most likely cheating… You definitely deserve better!
I’ve been through something similar and it’s just not worth the stress and living a miserable life…You don’t need the stress of this either.
Wishing you all the best and I really hope you make a good choice and if you need someone to talk to your more than welcome to message me 
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Put the tool in the shed and run, run, run away. He is abusive. Be better, do better. Good luck.
You don’t really need anyone’s advice, you’re the one that knows if you’re unhappy. What I was told when I went to counseling is the decision is yours, If you can find a way to live in this situation and find happiness knowing he will always be like this then stay, The question will always be , are you happy , answer honestly from your heart. Both choices will be difficult, trust me , in the end you will be happiest changing yourself, and fighting for what makes you happy. GOD Bless , and good luck
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You already know the answer
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Sounds like a narcissist. You don’t need anyone’s advice. You know what to do.
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Get out, if you think you love him, you’re in love with the man you wish he was because you do not love this narcissistic cheating jerk. I ve been there and was beat down emotionally over 40 years. I left, am now remarried to a wonderful man.
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Ppack your stuff & run. You have a serial cheaper. HE’S NOT GONA STOP
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You’ve put up with that shiz for too long, he sounds shady to me
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Good advice commentors.
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You know exactly what to do … why are you asking …
It’s up to you what you do and how you will let people treat you
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Run before he brings you back something you can’t get rid of!
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He’s prob still banging his ex, amongst everyone else. He’s a narcissist and deflecting what he’s doing onto you. Get out while you can, and never look back
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You’re not confused you know exactly what’s going on you just yet haven’t found the strength to leave
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Omg get out of there. His ex made advances and he didn’t even stop her? Wow. Plus all the controlling behaviour too.
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You’re getting played, and should run far far away, FAST…
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Drop his sorry ass all he’s doing is running around behind your back it’s obvious
He’s trash period. Get out now. Life is very short don’t waste your time with garbage
Usually the accuser is doing exactly what they are causing you of. He’s a center and control freak. You deserve the best and he isn’t it.
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Get out now. He’s not worth the angst.
Divorce!!! He’s cheating and deflecting on you. He’s not worth that heartache.
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Get a divorce. The accuser is always the cheater. It’s not gonna get better. You deserve to be happy
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How tf do some of yall women put up with this shit i couldn’t even read the whole thing cus wtf??? I would of told his a** OFF like tf!!! I would told him bout himself so fast AND you put up with this for 11 years? I wouldn’t deal with that shit for a DAY He is clear as day cheating on you leave his gross a**
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Stay there cause if u are that dumb to ask for advice u can’t make it on ur own
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He will cheat if he hasn’t already. Sorry
The one cheating is usually the one accusing the other one or looking for ways to see if your cheating so their behaviour can be justified. I feel like you venting here you already have your answer. You need to leave. It will not get better only worse and if you continue to turn a blind eye you’ll only hurt yourself worse in the end. He doesn’t even care that you need heart surgery?? That alone says it all.
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Girl, move on. He is still hung up on his ex and you deserve a man who only has eyes for you.
Sounds like you know what’s going on…
Get out of there
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And you’re still there because? I bet you thought all this was cute in the beginning
Because he is the one doing wrong. Your right. He is disrespecting you… get out of there
Sounds like a d@uche
He accuses you because he is guilty of something AND take him off of your account
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This man is shadey and you deserve better. You deserve someone who loves only you.Who tells YOU that you’re beautiful. Who is there with you when you are ill etc. Save up your money and then dump him.
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He’s projecting what he’s doing on you.
I smell a cheater. Was cheating the reason for his divorce???
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That man cheating on you mama.
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Guilty dog barks first.
I feel like you women already know the answer to these ridiculous spills. Good Lord.
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These comments are mean and cruel! Advice can be given without the insults. I’m quite sure she is hurt enough. Young lady whoever you are, YOU deserve better and its evident you wont get it from him. You will only go through more pain and heartache by staying. Choose YOU‼️
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Leave him . I know that’s easier said then done , been there . But that doesn’t change the fact that he is very insecure and controlling you deserve better
The only thing confusing to me is why you are still with this person.
Why are you with this heartless loser!? Girl he is an idiot. RUN! Find a man who deserves you.
You need to find someone new
No thank you 
Time to make things clear about you’re relationship
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What exactly are you confused about??? 
Even If he’s NOT cheating… are you okay with they way he acts ?? And the way he treats & the accusations ??? Alittle hint… he’s not going to change.
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He’s doing all the things he’s accused you of doing
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It will only get worse.
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Please for the love of yourself and kids if you have any leave leave leave
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Kick him to the curb…
Don’t leave first from the marital home, that’s abandonment from the marriage.
File first for a divorce…big red flags all in your face.
Good luck
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Throw the whole husband away because he is definitely for the streets
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If he’s accusing you of cheating, he IS cheating. Been there don’t that. He was engaged to the chic three weeks after I kicked him out and hadn’t even consulted a lawyer about a divorce from me. Save yourself from years of being controlled and mentally abused and just leave. I did.
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Sounds like unfortunately he is a narcissistic user & is cheating on you. Let the ex wife have him back . Someone somewhere will treat you like the queen you are
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Leave he is cheating
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Morgan Greenwell i swear some people are born with permanent Rose colored contacts
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You’ll never be happy with him. I lived that life. There’s someone out there who will put u first.
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I hope that nightmare has ended.
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Leave this cheating POS
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The fact that you married that piece of crap🤯fuck that i’d be on his accounts too; matter fact all his accounts… all his social media accounts, bank accounts, random accounts too !!! I’ll be on everything! Like how are you gonna be married for five years and not have access to anything??? He’s got a guilt oozing out his pours !!!
Girl LEAVE!! Sadly I grew up watching my dad do this EXACT same stuff to my mom & im not even kidding but after my mom finally left she found out that my dad had been cheating on her & we don’t know for how long! Your best bet is to get out of that toxic environment!
Edited to add: it’s only gonna get worse it’s not gonna get any better cause the more he gets by with the more he thinks he can get by with anything!
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Leave him . He’s cheating on you . You deserve better . I can’t say it enough leave run away from him
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Divorce, you deserve better. Plan it out first.
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Nother day,Another fuck head
l get paid over $110 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $16542 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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Get rid of him. It will get worse.
He doesn’t love you, leave now, disavow, mr. Phelps, he has already accepted the mission, cheat, lie, boss you around,drop his azz now
Confused by what to think!?! Seriously! Go back and read what you wrote…I think it’s very clear what to think!
And you are still there??? SMH
I don’t even understand why this is a question. I’d have been gone a long time ago.
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There are red flags all over the place
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Disrespect in every way. He should have put his ex in her place. Clearly there is unfinished business. Leave while you still have some dignity left
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Sweetie I think you have your own answer cut your losses an move on girl. No man should control you if he is out there making you look like an ass
In the back of your mind you know exactly what needs to be done.
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Oh baby girl, run! Leave this man in the dust, you deserve so much better.
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You should KNOW the answer to this question girl. Your husband is showing you right up front who he is and his motives. It is pretty much a crystal clear picture he’s painting and he hasn’t changed or strayed from that either. He is a narcissist, insecure, ignorant and jealous. You deserve to know your worth and it isn’t with a man like that!
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RUN,as fast as you can
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I hope you don’t have kids with him.
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He’s garbage, leave him. No matter who he is with he won’t change. He’s a narcissist and they will never see issues with their behaviour
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For the love of God don’t get pregnant by this man. I think you know what you need to do. There’s nothing you can say, do, or behave like that will change who he is or prevent this from getting even worse.
He’s literally projecting onto you because he’s done nothing but cheat and wants to control you.
Leave him.
You already know what you have to do leave that pile of crap 
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Do not gave kids with this manchild
Everything about this says leave.
He is trash. Leave him asap.
He is showing signs of narcissism. You should run far away, they don’t change.
Honey you already know the real answer. Run as fast as you can in the other direction and give a real man the chance to sweep you off his feet!
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You need to run from this guys fast. He is controlling you and most likely cheating himself. Get out now, I’m serious!
He knows you know all of this and yet still treat you like crap when you should know you deserve way better than him he thinks he is God’s gift to women when I bet he is uglier than God’s knows what inside and out women leave it will hurt but then you will feel so much better and have the freedom and treat yourself the way yiu should put you first.