my partner would have been pissed. but i hear guys talk this way a bunch.
My husband would have beat his ass. That’s nasty.
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I guess stuff like that doesn’t bother me, I’d have a witty snappy comeback within seconds. But to some people it’s a bigger deal. 🤷
And I wouldn’t want my child hearing that talk either. So I would make a big deal out of that part. But did he know she could hear him?
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People are so petty sometimes.thus guy probably has always had a nasty mouth I’m sure if your husband thought anything bad of it he would have said something…its just a joke a nasty joke people are to sensitive why didn’t you tell him to blow it his self…stop whining
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It was a joke. Lighten up.
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I’ll help you with Court papers without inappropriate comments. 
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Lmao, and you didnt say anything?? Dang if you didnt like it stick up for yourself girl!
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First thing you should’ve said was “no way in hell”. You need to stop these vulgar comments as soon as he makes them. And slap the piss out of your husband for keeping quiet.
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Depends on who you ask I guess and what you’re comfortable with. Also unless he’s been exposed to it in his household the 5yr old doesn’t know what a blow job is or what it means 
don’t worry about him.
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Um. Why are you even asking for advice? Are you a cheap whore? If you are not then why are you hanging out with people that treat you like one. It’s not just his friend that is disrespecting you it’s him. Are you blind AND deaf? He doesn’t respect OR value you. Why would you even stay with someone that allows people to talk like that in front of your kid? Seriously what is wrong with you?
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I would have to stop my boyfriend from beating the shit out of him if I were you. I couldn’t be with someone who was ok with me being disrespected in any way, let alone like that.
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I don’t think you have reason to feel cheap and dirty! Those who are cheap and dirty are your husband and his friend, but they don’t feel it! As offensive as that language was to you, I’m more troubled by allowing a 5-year old to hear it! I question your judgment for choosing such a man as you hasband. He was probably raised on freebies!
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I’m sure it was a joke you shouldn’t take it to heart my goodness haven’t you read all the jokes about men on here
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It was a joke. He doesn’t want you. Get over it!
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lol it’s just a joke
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“Nah, it’s hubby’s paperwork so he can get on his knees for ya!”
You have just gotta smash the joke right back lol!
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None of us know this man or the dynamic between your husband, you or this guy. There’s no way anybody could give you advice for this. He probably doesn’t even remember saying it and neither does your husband. It sounds like it was a joke and he didn’t know who was listening in.
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Some of y’all never been in a mans locker room and it shows:smirk:
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1.) You should have punched him in the mouth.
2.) Now you know why he’s still single.
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Unless you have something more to go on than this one comment, I think you’re way over thinking this. Some people have a sense of humor! And just because the guy says he wants to be married and have kids, doesn’t mean he is talking or directing that comment towards you. It was a joke, lighten up! 
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Obviously you should rethink your marriage .
My husband would have not only went completely off the charts he’d a beat his ass
Maybe the husband has an issue I would think dump him in run girl frrfr
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LMAO get over it. Better shit to fucking worry about
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Some people (myself and my husband included), have a more sarcastic and sometimes crude sense of humor.
Most people like us usually know how to gauge other people’s levels of humor before dropping a bomb joke like the one you mentioned. Other’s have no filter, or forget their filter and sometimes come off as inappropriate and offensive to prudish people (we calls these people “squares”), like you.
Maybe your husband has mastered his filter when hes around you, and when alone without you, enjoys crude jokes (maybe has a few of his own up his sleeve) or excepts them from others as light humor, and the guy maybe figured that you could take a crude joke too.
Lighten up, roll down your turtleneck, stop being a tight-ass, and maybe watch a few stand-up comedies and learn to except crude homor for what it is meant to be taken as, and how to dish it right back in fun.
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Got some real sensitive Sally’s in this group! It’s a joke, I’ve made worse more “vulgar” jokes.
Some of you people, my goodness. Next you’ll want her to sue for emotional damages.
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Others way of saying things won’t ever be as we would do it,
I’ll never understand.
My husband has a friend who used to be my friend long time ago. We had a 6 month “relationship” that he just praises himself over. Fact is I was just lonely. An knew he wasnt it.
This rolled into a bitter future. He came over one day an we had friends over an I was cooking and he comes in grabbing at my waist like he’s my husband or some shit. Our friends seen it. When I called him out he wanted to throw me under the embarrassment bus with some shit ye knows zero about. I was livid and that mf was gone. Meanwhile my husband acted like it was nothing. I’m like dude seriously. This has happened numerous times and it’s that type of person that negative attention is better than no attention so he mentions my brother my mother anything he can to get under the skin. Recently he decides to bring up something to his girlfriend and her little brother about me of course. A dark sad time in my life that just wasnt good. So ya like he has any say at all to say shit about my life to anybody. Told my husband I didn’t want him around anymore an my husband says he doesn’t hear or see him do anything.
Well duh hes not gonna say anything in front of you and when he did you barely said anything I was there defending myself.
I could care less to have anybody like that around. Anybody who makes crude disgusting comments or acts like they can say anything about me and nothing will happen. Yea fuck them.
Most definitely get on your husband about that shit cause its crap. Anybody who can allow someone to disrespect your person like I questioned how much he even cares cause he makes it out like I just overreact and take things to seriously. Umm no I seen it I hear it your friend seen it and yet you dont believe your wife and this so called friend is basically more important. He finally told then they cant be coming around because he always has shit to say about me that isn’t any of his business.
Someone who cant have your back just isn’t worth it especially when you live in the same house and you dont want certain company and their ok with it. Just doesn’t work.
An the fact that he heard him say that and does nothing just shows the level of respect. Cant stand dudes like that. Grow the fuck up an stop letting your so called friends get at your wife like that.
There are some lines you dont cross this being one of them.
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I think it was a joke…if your husband believes otherwise than there’d be a problem. Do you think it’s a “come on”
… I think you need to take a joke! So what he wants a family what does that have to do with you ? If he was making sexual comments to you no infront of your husband or trying to touch on you then ok i can see why your mad. But just because he madea joke to your husband and didnt know he was in mixed company (the 5 year old) isnt a reason to be mad and the kid probably didnt even pick up on it. Dont make a big deal of nothing
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OHMYGOSH! I would have lost my cool (not swearing) and let him know right then and there with my kid hearing it that it was totally out of line what he said. I wouldnt have anything to do with him myself and make it clear to my hubs that he is not welcome in my home or invited to functions of ours. I would also not stop my hubs from having contact with him.
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Omg it’s banter!! Obviously he was joking… is this post really necessary??
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Even if you didn’t say anything about it it’s super crappy youre husband didnt stand up for you. I cannot imagine my husband Ed sitting back and acting like nothing happened
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Oh wow lol are youu 12?
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Honestly. Get over it. It was a joke and more of