If your parents ask you to do something because they need it then you either need to accept and do it or say no. They are however reminding you that they have done things for you in your adult life that they may have not liked or may have been inconvenient or a burden to them. But they did it anyway. You can’t have it both ways. However,
I would set a time limit on it, you cannot be expected to have a kid living with you indefinitely. This is why In future it’s good to talk about expectations and the conditions.
Call Child Protective Services and report them.
Ask for child support. They will come get him, you"ll see. 
Talk with the child and try to find out what’s going on. How old is the child. I understand that you do not want he/her there sooohh much… Something is missing from your question… alot more info
So whats the problem?
Think about it really hard.
Too much missing info. Do you live with them? Someone needs to love that child.
Return the child to there door and let them deal! Their children r not ur responsibility. Looks like they r using u and trying to guilt u into raising THEIR child.
It depends on what they do for you. Are you living in one of their houses? Do they help a lot with Bills?
What do you mean a younger child living with you? Is it there child? Do you all live in the same house? I can’t tell from your post what you’re asking!
There has to be a lot more to the story
Move out of their territory and don’t give them the address.
Go to court and file for custody and child support…or at least threaten them with that and see if that helps
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If you rather not keep the child call family services. Since the people are manipulating you, I encourage counseling.
Obviously the child isn’t missed over there. Maybe look for along term suction bc the poor kid will be in a horrible and ugly household with parents that don’t want him…what’s more important your siblings well being or your perceived need for privacy? Not trying to be rude but how can you NOT find time for yourselves? Get a sitter. Do adult things when the kids are asleepor at sleepovers. As adults we learn ways to have a life around raising our children and their needs. Again this youngsters needs you two. Step up and make it permanent so everyone is back to a routine.
As long as you allow it they will manipulate and misuse you. Put your foot down NOW. There will be folks upset, but that is there problem and not yours.
Is the child scared of them? Is something untoward happening? If not, drop the child off and be unavailable
Nothing like making your sibling feel like shit
Drop off the kid at their place. Your spouse’s sibling? NOT your responsibility. Throwing it in your face is obnoxious. Controlling & manipulative. I’d pack up that kid’s suitcase and take them out to the car so fast the kid would get whip lash.
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Stay in you room . They will notice .
Poor unwanted
Child.
Margaret Maurer pa be
Not enough information!
Pack there shit and put it on the club
Wtf… People are horrid, smh
Get professional help
Move out
I’m confused. Whose house is it?
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Need more information
Maybe its ur stepchild😂
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No one can take advantage of you unless you let them. Set a date, let them know the child is coming home, then do it. You might make them mad but would you rather be miserable or they be mad? If you get there and they aren’t home, do the next step. File for guardianship and ask for child support. This is not a situation that’s going to end well so just put on big girl panties and do what’s right for you and husband and marriage. (In Georgia there is zero cost to get guardianship if they agree. You might get a stipend also. Look into your state. Good luck.
Drop said child off and tell them I’ll get said child after, we rest, close door and go home
Shits in the past. We in the now. Come get yours fam
Id be raising hell but thats me. Id for sure sit them down and try to explain it but the second they throw excuses id be done bein nice
Tell them it’s not your kid to raise and you aren’t gonna do their job for them but it doesn’t change the fact that you love them and appreciate them.
Take that child back to the parents
Take their children back to them and leave. Simple.
Men like with their wives and gf , they just go with the flow , save the fuss and the atmosphere that is why any issues with his side of family , he can’t say nothing or control anything but instead turn between her wife and families
I feel sorry for the poor kid. All the adults in that child’s life want to throw him away and can only think about themselves. How about you let your ego go and try to put yourself in that child’s shoes? Step up and be a better person by being there and not getting so caught up in what you want.
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How old is this child?
Is the child special needs? Does your wife have other adult sisblings? What about your self fathers family? Either adopt the child or call chiderns protective services.
Don’t be a parent if you don’t want to take care of your kids 
some people I swear! That child is probably better off with you. Go to court, get custody, file for child support.
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Just call the social that they’ve neglected their child.
If they don’t want to rase there kid then file for custody and child support from them.
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Why don’t you move. ???
Give them a bill for babysitting - $5.00 an hour x 24/7 - – - - -
Could request from your in-laws child support for taking care of the child that they decided to leave with the two of you with out talking to either one of you
They should be paying support for the child with how you and your spouse are caring for the child and you have lost your privacy though that happens when you have a child of your own but what your in-laws need to take into consideration is how you and your spouse need time for each other
Look into the laws regarding child support and a child being left at your home
Good luck and please keep in mind that the child needs to be shown love and not resentment for the child is innocent in all of this they did nothing wrong and deserves to be shown love, caring and understanding
I’ve never accepted help in a monetary way . Even when I didn’t have a slice of bread to eat. No one knew.That is why… No one had anything to hold over me. Any time spent I gave was of my own freewill
You MUST DEMAND respect…as well as give it. Sounds as though you owe them a debt of gratitude and they intend to collect. Suggest you sit down with in-laws and your husband and get the problem resolved before another day. Let them know how serious you are in ending the arrangement that exists between you. It may end the distress…but, yet again…you risk losing the inlaws. Good luck!
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“Yes?”
“Bring the chickens into your home.”
A week passes. The man returns. Rabbi, please! We are over run! Wife and kids and in laws and chickens! What do I do?"
The Rabbi smiles “You have a goat or two over there. Bring the goats into the house.”
A week passes. The man returns. “Rabbi, I beg of you, tell me what to do! Goats and kids and chickens and family and, oy!!! What am I to do?”
“Bring in the pigs.”
A week passes. The man returns. The Rabbi insists that the cow myst come.into the home and join the family.
A week passes. The man retrns in tears. “Rabbi! Rabbi! What am I to do? Chickens and childrens and pigs and cows and so many people all in my house all day every day! Tell me, please!”
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Im confused? Are all living with you? Or their kid is there so much it feels like kid is?
I get it.
The kid.
Yeah. My mom and my younger bro and sisters.
Guilt trips you into keeping their kid while they live their lives and you have become Auntie Mommy and Uncle Daddy to this innocent one. Always remember Innocent Child.
NOW…
if part time bios arent interested in keeping their part time bio kid with them THIS IS YOUR NEXT STEP.
Seriously.
Which ever one of you is bio related to this kids parent make a call to that parent. Tell that parent.
We want legal guardianship, support pay, Medical guardianship, and all of this child’s belongings so the child feels completely at home with us. You have 30 days to comply with this we will be seeking legal custody.
You are going to start off with parts of this to see what reaction you get. Its will be Okay or are you crazy? Explain childs name is with us more than than you 2. Rolls are changing here. We are more like parents and you two aunt uncle. They are guilt tripping you with ALL THEY HAVE DONE FOR YOU. we thought it was out of love not we own you and they do not. Make it clear. Dont allow the guilt. You feeding and providing for Jr. Adds up fast.
Its either what we are asking for? Or come get your kid and be mommy and daddy. If they cant for any reason? Seek out custody and think of fostering to adopt of ask court for dirct adoption. Better with you than a stranger. The child being yours in this way will forget in time unless someone pops off that someone else was parents prior. But I would place a GAG Order on it and if anyone says anything Law Suits Fly and it will be Stiff.
I know you probably dont want this. But it would give you peace and the child. Just avoid holidays where those 2 will be for a year. Do seperate with Grandparents.
Treat that child as your own once that child is happy and loves you they will want her back
Move out on your own…
My advice, take a hike!