No such thing as spoiled. Just alot of Love 
Don’t listen to your mom tell her your baby your rules
Newborns are safest in mamas arms because they were snug and tight in mommy and it’s all new and scary
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Tell your momma to get her damn hands off your child. Babies need to be touched and held and loved. Your mom is wrong
They need their mom at this age!
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Your mom is wrong! Don’t let her grab your baby from you & hold her as long as you want.
Sounds like a control freak
You can never spoil a baby. I was told by a lot of people don’t hold her because she will never let you put her down and honestly she’s my 1 and only so if I want to hold her I do! Plus it’s actually tummy time and very good for the baby to start building up neck and shoulder strength so tell your mom that! Enjoy that baby! It’s true when they say they grow so fast! So snuggle and love as much as you want! It only builds that bond
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Your baby to spoil. 
That’s your baby…so when she does that pick her back up and snuggle that baby as long as you want and as much as you want. Also you need to tell her to back off as she is coming to take the baby. I’d ask her what the real problem is.
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Your mom is stupid 
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You mom needs to mind her business
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Tell her to fuck right off and to never take your child out of your hands like that again. You are your child’s mom, she is not. Please Hold your baby. Love on your baby. Bond with your baby. You are all they have known for 9 months- they need and want you close. You cannot spoil a baby with love 
She wouldn’t have got away with it the first time if that were my mother… she’d be shown the door really fast…
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Don’t let anyone tell you what you are doing right or wrong all us moms learned as experience and follow our intuition and if you want to love they baby then that’s your baby momma! Xoxo could never love too much they kids grow too freaken fast! I grew up with not a lot of love and my mom didn’t raise me my aunt did was in and out of group homes and shelters etc but my kids changed my world and let me tell I promised I would always show them love and let them know they are loved they never have to question it, my family didn’t have affection!
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Whoa. Your mom needs to be sent home and not allowed anywhere near your child and don’t ever leave your child alone with her. Horrible
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Tell your mom to take a hike! You need to bond with your baby and they’re only small for a little while! Cuddles and love are the foundation for a thriving baby
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Babies cannot be spoiled. Let anyone rip my child out my arms especially that young and that’d be in a body bag 
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Immediately no - she is disrespecting you. You can’t spoil a infant with love.
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Tell her u love her but you ll do it as u please
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It’s your little one and in the early days you don’t want to put them down. But saying that they can become dependent on you to go to sleep. My son would only fall asleep while breast feeding and when I stopped breast feeding I had to hold him to fall asleep. Took me a long time to get the sleep routine down with him.
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I’m am grandma spoil your child if not I will
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Your mom is so wrong. Your child needs to feel your cuddles and affection. Sounds like your mom is jealous. You need to put her in her place.
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They don’t get spoiled from snuggles. This is toxic outdated thoughts from the Stone Age.
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Your mom raised her kids and now she needs to allow you to raise yours!
Stop allowing your mom this behavior or it will only get worse!
Set boundaries with everyone and make sure to hold, love and “spoil” that baby!!
Best of luck to you!!
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Babies are only babies for so long. Enjoy your baby as long as you want to even if your baby is spoiled it doesn’t matter. It took me almost 11 years to finally have my baby girl and she’s 1 and still sleeps with me. Tell your mom to get over it
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Your mom has a problem. You bonding with your baby will not spoil him. I hope you’re not living with her because she will disrupt yours and your child’s life. It is your child to raise as you want, as long as he’s feed, cared for, loved and at some point is taught boundaries; you are not spoiling him.
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My parents Did that to the 3 of us tell her to buzz off but good
Yeah let me not get into another group ban for violent comments. But id tell her your not gunna spoil her. Actually chest to chest is really good for babies. It helps regulate their hearts breathing body temp. All that. Tell her educate her self and stop taking your damn baby.
Your baby…you do what you want. I would 100% hold my 2 week old. And who cares if you "spoil " her. She is your baby!! They are only little for a little bit.
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I told my parents and my mil that they need to go do their research and to f off because it’s not the 80s and 90s anymore babies need cuddles and love. I don’t give a damn how anyone raised their kids these are mine and I will do as I please
I wouldn’t be around my mom anymore. That’s disgusting, how dare she 
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I held my daughter almost constantly. All it did was teach her trust and love. Every cry I’d be there and that’s how they gain trust. Hold your baby as much as you can. You can NOT spoil babies!
It’s not spoiling ,it’s love ,
get a grip grandma, you will spoil granbaby beyond believe lol,speaking as a grandma:blush:mumma your baby your body your rules ,enjoy mother n child time as you can:blush:
Your baby your choice. No such thing is spoiling her spesh a new born. Keep doing you tell her back off.
Tell your Mom take while you hug that infant as much as you want
She needs to take a step back. Do not allow that. At all.
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Your child your rules snuggle her!
Um, who gave birth to that baby?? Time to assert yourself your mom will have to adjust and she will I promise. I used to be that mom and I got my feelings hurt but it’s all good now and I have more respect for my daughtwe.
Snuggle all you can! You don’t get this time back! You are her safe place!
You can not spoil a baby with love … They need that affection
Stop allowing her to be in control
Two Words - YOUR CHILD!!
Oh hell no. YOU’RE the mother you do what YOU want. Babies need snuggles this young!! I would tell my mom to F off lol but that’s just me… she had her chance to raise her babies how she saw fit. It’s one thing to give advice but to rip your baby from you is uncalled for.
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You can’t spoil a baby.
I still cuddle ALL my kids. My oldest is 10
Babies do not spoil, If loving spoils then we all are.
Do NOT let your mother stop you from loving on that baby. You snuggle that baby all you want! Don’t ever let her “rip” that baby from you again!
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Tell your mom she had her chance to be a mom and now it’s your turn to back off!
You don’t spoil a baby by holding them, you create a safe place for your baby by having them close to you. My baby gets held a lot that he sometimes just wants to be put down by himself to play or sleep. I still cuddle my 6 year old daughter
Snuggle that baby as much as possible time flies by way to fast and soon enough you will be looking back missing those moments enjoy them while they last💜
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Babies absolutely NEED bonding!!
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…how old are you? Are you still living with your mother? Coz honey you need to limit how much she’s around.
Ummm no, it’s called loveing the baby not spoiling… I’d go off on anyone telling me how to care for my baby
Your letting her rip her from your hands?
Someone explain to me how you can spoil a two week old baby. I have never understood why people say this. Comfort and spoiling are two very different things. Cuddling and being close is not spoiling.
Holy crap…I held my daughter and son EVERY CHANCE I got…also both of them slept with me all the time…no spoiling just a super close bond and very confident and independent children!!! They are now 7 and 8.
…and to add…my mom has respect enough to let me do as I please with my own children…
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No offence your mom’s bring a b*tch. There is no such thing as spoiling a new born. Tell her to f off, skin to skin contact with the mother is vital.
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Snuggle her as often as possible. They grow too fast and soon don’t want to be held close.
Stop mom from controlling you . Your the mother of this child , Not her !!!
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hug hold kiss 24/7/365 they will let you know when the have had to much
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You let that baby sleep 
on u as long as u want tell your mother to back off 
You can’t spoil a baby by cuddling them. Shame on your mom. Tell her to back off!
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That’s crazy! You can’t spoil a two week old. Hold her as much as you can.
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She’s full of it. Don’t allow it.
Showing love to achild special a tiny one her age know such thing as spoiled
It not spoiled it love showing them love and safe
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They will want you to hold them, if they are used to being held a lot. But hey who cares , we packed them for 9 months. It’s hard not love on them, I say do it any way , before they won’t allow you to cuddle them. They grow fast . Take as much of it as you can get. Because before you know it they will be grown. 
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Do it anytime and for as long as you want. Just loving not spoiling. Your baby you do what you want.
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Id be telling my mom if she so much as touches my baby without my permission I’m going to lay her ass out on the floor and show her just how spoiled I could be. I don’t know why you allow anyone to touch your baby especially taking it out of your possession!
Tell your mom to kiss your azz !! Your child your rules !!
Wow your mother is a nut. There is no way you can spoil a baby at two weeks she needs to feel
Your warmth and your heart beat she needs all your love at the age maybe at 6 months you can limited a lot more so she doesn’t cry when u don’t pick her up but as of now it’s too soon!! You better put your foot down with your mother…
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Sorry no dis respect to your Mom but I would explain to her this is my baby and if I want to snuggle with my baby please don’t grab or as u say snatch my baby anymore wish u luck prayers for you and the baby 
Your mom tripping, she ain’t neva heard of nurturing and bonding with your baby, dont let her do that dumb crap, besides its YOUR BABY not HER’S
Your child your mom has no say.
You can not spoil a baby with love. They dont even think in a manner of being “spolied”. Denying them affection is almost dangerous because it could effect babies attachment styles well into life.
Putting baby down sometimes is also important, to an extent. If you always hold baby to put them to sleep, then you will always have to hold baby for them to go to sleep. I remember reading something about putting them in their crib when they are close to sleep, but I don’t remember what age but you could look into it. But baby is only two weeks old, she needs to be held.
You could try to set some boundaries with your Mom, although I don’t know how that would go for you. I hope that’s an option for you. I wish you and your baby the best. 
Cuddle her as much as you want. Put your foot down. Dont let her do that. Its your baby
No such thing as spoiling a baby. They need all the love and affection, she spent 9 months literally attached to you, you are her comfort and safety. I had the same issue with people butting in. I tell them to politely stay the f in their lane and dont come around until they’re comfortable with that 
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You cannot spoil a baby.
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holding a baby to you, especially skin to skin is amazing for your baby’s mental health and well being (and yours!). They have been with you for 9 months! yeesh. If you can have a civil conversation with your mom that your kid, your rules and maybe direct her to some evidence-based information (maybe via a post natal clinic /fam doc) regarding bonding with baby.
If she can’t respect you and your child’s well being, perhaps you will need some distance.
I held my newborns all day everyday the first months and they never were spoiled they are only tiny so long.
You can’t spoil an infant… especially a newborn… you should be able to bond how you want with your baby…
You’re not spoiling your newborn by holding her! They need that bond with their momma. I don’t know what your mom is doing but she shouldn’t be ripping her out of your arms EVER! She’s your daughter. I held my babies for as long as I could, anytime I could; now my son is 15, and my daughter is 7. I have very close relationship with both of them. If that were my mom, I would tell her to mind her own business or not come over anymore. You cuddle your baby momma!!
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Girl you need to put ur boundaries your doing awesome in wanting to build that bond
It’s not spoiling, it is developing trust with your baby. As a nurse we learn in school about Eriksons theory of trust vs mistrust in newborn to 1 years old. It’s you catering to your child’s needs. Not developing this trust can lead to other issues like anxiety and trust issues. If you can move, definitely move out on your own. If not, set some VERY CLEAR boundaries and start saving up to move.
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Its your baby id tell mum to back off!!!
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Baby will NOT BE SPOILED. Tell ya mom to mind her business. Ur baby still needs bonding time
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Wth!? 
Not cool. Loving your baby is not spoiling. I would never let her babysit.
Loving a child is not spoiling her it is giving the child the love she needs she is your child love her all you want and tell her to butt out
Hopefully you don’t live with her… tell her to leave!! Nobody would rip my baby from me like that!! Please stand up for yourself!! Babies at that age CANNOT be spoiled!! And even if they could, it’s your business!! If you want to spoil your baby, go right ahead, it’s your baby!
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The baby is yours do what you want you are the boss of that child not your mother and she shouldn’t be bossing you around either
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Bonding with your baby is so important the early days are so precious . It’s your baby she should leave you to do what you feel happy with Congratulations on the birth.
Cuddling and showing your baby love is not spoiling them.
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New baby cuddles are amazing
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Tell your mom to mind her business. Do you live with your mom? Time to get your own place if you. You need to get away from her energy.
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Tell her to back up! That’s your child and your mother is 100% over stepping the boundary. It’s not her place to interfere like that. Offering her opinion when asked sure but who rips a child from their mother?! Not okay.
The baby is yours not your Mothers. She had her choice at rearing, not it is your choice
My daughter is 18 Months and still sleeps on my chest most days. She’s not spoilt and loves playing on her own but, she also loves hugs. It’s just her personality, she is a hugger.
Also, you are the parent. Set boundaries and tell her to back off. She had her turn at raising kids and now it’s your turn.
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You do what you want to do she is your child tell your mum to step back and leave you to bring your own child up the way you want not the way she wants, babies want cuddles when they are newborn you cnt cuddle a newborn enough to spoil them lol
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Babies love the closeness and hearing ur heart beat of say do it when you want it’s ur baby and ur first who doesn’t want to just lay there snuggling a newborn
Every time I tried putting my daughter down at the new burn stage she’d only settle for 20 mins so I was better off holding her she’s ur baby remember that x
Think your mum Definately needs to back off you can’t spoil a newborn baby .and she needs to no it’s not her baby it’s yours tell your mum she has to leave you alone to bond with your baby .I would be so angry if my mum had an interfered with me and my baby .
You need to set boundaries and tell your mum to back off. Even if you sat there cuddling your baby every second of the day, you are not spoiling it, you will never get this time back again and noone has the right to rip your baby out of your arms.