Stand Strong. You are right. Don’t waste your breath with them. Just move on. Any family who does those types of things ain’t family.
Your mother, (sorry) is a psycho, NO WAY IN HELL WOULD I EVER LET THOSE THREE ANYWHERE NEAR MY CHILD!!! GET AN ORDER OF PROTECTION AGAINST ALL THREE…STICK TO YOUR GUNS!!!
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You have every right to say who can and can’t be around your child. Don’t back down.
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Why would your mother want a man like that around and dating your sister?? Best thing for you to do is stay away from all of them.
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Wow it’s so crazy how people actually believe they “KNOW” why your kid was taken. They “DON’T EVEN HAVE TO KNOW YOU” huh people kill me with this crap. “Oh why didn’t you just leave him?” “Why would you stick around if he abused yall?” Victim blaming at its finest. I would just find a new sitter and let your mom know that your daughter can not come around if he will be around. If he has abused once he will abuse again. Be careful doll and best of luck.
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They are all beyond toxic. Your moms loss, she’s the selfish one. Your child should not be around none of that
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Nope protect that baby!
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You’re not crazy. Stick to your guns on them not seeing YOUR child as long as he’s in the picture. She can worry about her other kid while you focus on yours.
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No your not crazy or in the wrong in my opinion
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You are the mom. Period. What you say goes.
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They sound like peas in a pod I would never even speak to any of them ever again run for the hills girl
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It’s fckn wild how your mom is calling you crazy and selfish, meanwhile she see’s NOTHING wrong with your sister dating your ex? Even inviting him into her home? That’s just completely normal to her?? Girl, get your baby and ghost all those weird mfs. Because that shit sounds toxic asf!
That’s some straight b.s! Take ur kid and cut ur mom and sister out of ur lives. They sound like extremely toxic people. Sending up prayers for u and ur baby!
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your family sounds like trash hahahaha
Your not crazy love they all too toxic
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All i can say is YOUR CHILD,YOUR RULES. Every1 else’s opinion doesn’t count or matter when u do what’s best for her
You are wrong for so many things but not about your daughter…when he caused you to loose your oldest child why didnt you walk the hell away from him, you chose him over your own child! Why did you continue to stay with him!!! You dont deserve her or this daughter! But by all means blame someone else! Be glad you are rid of him and even though its your sister be happy he is someone else’s problem. Stay away from them all and be done, be the Mom you need to be for the daughter you do have.
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U did good mama protect your baby first and foremost. Forget wth mama says cause at the end of the day if something was to happen and u knew those peeps was at your mama’s and she was leaving them alone with said guy and sister it would hit u like a ton of bricks.
If your mama really wants to see her grand kid she from this point on should come to your house alone my opinion.
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Oh gosh… sticky situation. I’m glad you cut him off. I’m sorry he caused you to lose your oldest. Continue sticking it… it’s hard I know but it’ll shall pass. If your mom won’t respect your wishes then she don’t deserve to be around your kid.
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Your sister and mother have no morals, nor loyalty
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You are right ! Good for u for standing up an protecting your child !!!
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I don’t think you are in the wrong. He already hurt your life terribly. He will surely hurt hers too. I’m surprised your mom doesn’t see that. I am sure she and your sister will someday, in the meantime I think you are doing the right thing.
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Nope you are not crazy. Didn’t your sister pay attention when you were with him? She’s got a lot to learn. Stand your ground.
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Block all of them out of yours and your daughters lives and go forward. If your mum can’t see where your coming from then she’s being an egg.
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Im sorry but how did HE cause you to lose custody?
That’s weird my sister would never:face_with_raised_eyebrow:
Nothing like keeping it all in the family ewwwww any more sisters left for him to get together with…wow…
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Wow bad enough there was issues with this grub and your babies custody my sister would be black and blue if that was me especially her knowing of the circumstances that happened between you 2 same with mum would be telling them all to get effed clearly has no respect for you and him wanting to keep it in the family throw them all in the bin
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Your mother should be worried about all of her babies’ safety, you, your sister and grandchildren !! Something wrong with her… good for you 
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Can’t she find any other man? My god help her!
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Don’t date the exs of siblings
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You definitely aren’t wrong here! He shouldn’t be around any child, let alone yours when he played a role in your losing your first.
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No! Stand your ground!
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You’re not wrong. Cut them out of your life.
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As much as I loved my mom… if this had happened we would have issues. No matter how much we love our parents our children come first
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First of all girl code!! Second how can you date someone or even have sex with someone you’re sister has!! She’s lucky know ones beating her ass honestly you’re mom being one of them 
Zero morals.
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The best thing to do is block all of them out of your lives. You can that is toxic. The fact that he hurt u and your mother and sister allows him in their lives says alot. You don’t need that. You are not crazy. Do what is best for you and your child’s peace and safety. Sending you love and hugs. You got this.
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Good on you, sounds like you need to throw the mother & sister away
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If you do not advocate for your child, who will?
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You are all (acting) crazy but no you are not in the wrong! So he is the father of the oldest daughter? That you lost custody or gave up for adoption? Doesn’t matter. You’re right for doing what you did. They’re wrong for siding with him.
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Your not wrong and ur sister is a Bit** sounds like ur ex is dating her to get back at u also
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This is so fucked up! Omged 
your Sister & Aunty to your children is so messed up! Why, why, why! So many Men out there. Why choose him.
Also your Mum 
Good on you for finding someone else to mind your daughter.
All the best. I wouldn’t cope if this was my situation.
You got this Mumma. Do you and your babies.
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Please run away from that whole damn family. Your sister should never date one of your ex’s. How trashy could she be 
. Cut off every single one of them. Protect your baby and go live your life without toxic people
That is just gross. How can your sister be with someone you’ve already had. YUUUCK. And I think your mum is being ignorant to the fact, he was the reason you almost lost your daughter. You do you mama
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First of all, your sister is wrong for being with him. Keep your child safe.
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Your sister is fcked. Mom is fcked as well for accepting this. I’d be done w all of them. Keep your kiddos far away from that toxic mess. How’d a man make YOU lose custody your kid tho? Doesn’t make sense.
First off wtf is wrong with siblings these days. Do none of u have boundaries. Did u not see the bull shit these people put ur siblings through and now u want to take it on. Is kinda fucked right up if u asked me. Ur sister has the mental problems and ur mom is enabling her to be doing it. I think ur making the right choice on this one because u don’t want ur kids probably raised to steal or go after your significant other
Im with you on this your sister and mum are disrespectful. If I was you cut them out of your life for christ sake you were engaged to him.
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your child your rules end of
Your not in the wrong at all!
You are so right for protecting your child. That’s all you need to keep doing. Stay on this hard path.
Totally agree with you💯
Your child must come 1st. Stick to your guns. You are right
Toxic situation. You did the right thing. Take care of you & yours.
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Good for u it is about ur daughter and her safety so u absolutely did the right thing
you are not wrong at all–and your sister must be the crazy one for dating a guy that was abusive to you.
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Your sister is trash for being with him and your mom is actually disgusting for allowing and supporting this in her own home. I’d cut them all off immediately and live a happy toxic free life, and never look back! The fact that he was abusive to you makes this situation 100X worse. Don’t let them guilt you into thinking you’re overreacting. What they’re doing is awful.
No you’re doing great! Stick to your guns
You are absolutely not crazy. What is crazy is that your sister is dating your abuser and your mom is okay with it. First off, as a mother, I would never let that man close to my children and my grandkids again. They’d have to put me in jail everytime I saw him. Second, as a sister, I would never date someone who abused them. Ever. More than likely, he’s doing this to bother you and have some kind of control over you. You have been betrayed and I don’t blame you for taking your daughter elsewhere. Protect her first, because they made their bed
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You protect your child at all costs.
Your not crazy stick to your shit mama
Your not crazy and your not wrong. You can’t take chances with your child’s safety. Cut them all out of you n your daughter lives
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They don’t take custody for no reason…
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What I don’t understand is why is your sister dating your abusive ex never mind the fact that you have a child/children with ?! What kind of person does that? What an absolute puke. Also you are not wrong at all if your mom wishes to keep a relationship with her granddaughter she can visit outside the home where the other two or not. That’s not how family is supposed to work, I’m sorry. Good for you for doing what is best for yours keep your head up mama you are strong.
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You’re absolutely right.
Abusers groom not just the victim, but everyone around them. It’s no coincidence he ended up with your sister. You need to cut him off and protect your child, and that means cutting off his enablers as well. Even if it means your own family. They will see it one day. From listening to the stories of hundreds of other women I can tell you You’re not alone, a lot of people experience similar things and alienation from their families.
Of course they will echo him and make out you’re the problem because they are complicit and part of it now. You will recognise things they say to you as his voice
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That’s fuckedddd. I’d be pissed.
Are. You. Serious ! No. Your. Not. Wrong. You. Have. Every. Right. To. Protect. Your. Child. Screw. Both. Those B"s. And. The. Ahole. Why. Would. She. Date. A. Guy. Who. Beats. Woman?
Stick to your guns, momma!! Don’t you ever let them make you feel wrong or crazy for protecting your babies. Although he’s your ex, I’m sure there’s some feelings of betrayal there too. Your sister totally betrayed you, your kids and your trust. And your mother is just as bad for encouraging them and attacking you.
Toxic as hell. I’d never speak to any of them again move and cut off all communication
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Too toxic. Follow your mom heart. You are absolutely correct. Do what you have to do to keep your child safe. BTW, your sister’s a traitor and a two-faced bitch! My sister would never do that to me nor I to her.
You are right, your child’s safety comes first, be strong
Stick to ur guns…
And do u really want ur child around someone that doesn’t have their best interest!!!..
That bloke should not be around ur child…end of…
Ur mothers first priority should be that child…
Not some messed up daughter that thinks it’s ok to date someone that damaged her familys life…
Ur sister and ur mother do not sound like very nice people …
Walk away from that negative sht…
… u don’t need people like that in ur life that betray u and ur child.
I would cut them out my life forever if they did that shady sht to me… u deserve more. Their loss
For those making comments about the reason the first child was taken, it don’t matter why they took her other child bcz that’s not the subject of her post. She is doing the right thing now for her second child by keeping her away from anyone that threatens her safety and well being. Her family is clearly wrong for thinking it’s okay to have this man in this child’s life. And her sister’s dumb for dating the man who abused her sister and her mom’s no better thinking it’s acceptable for her to do so.
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You are doing right! Kick the mom and sister out of your life…that is toxic drama on repeat and you deserve better.
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Wow not to be rude but your sister is a POS. And your mom is being ridiculous. To me that is breaking the cardinal rule. No dating anyone your friends have dated, especially your SISTER! You did the right thing! Separate yourself, you already know there was nothing but abuse there an that is a place you have left! Don’t go back! Sending you blessings and prayers and love
Protect your children, you are not wrong
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If I was the mom in this situation, there is a 0% chance I would ever let that man in my house! He went to jail for abusing you, possibly your child and you lost your child. Now he could be doing the same to your sister and she’s just ok with it!? No chance. Honestly, they sound like a part of your life you could, unfortunately, do without.
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Cut both those heiffers outta your life.
Your not wrong and your not crazy. Your sister and mother are being very stupid and ignorant about the whole thing. It’s a good thing you removed your youngest from the situation and don’t let her back there until they agree to get rid of your ex.
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Your mom and sister have betrayed you. Get away from these people.
Get a good theripst and don’t let these two anywhere near you and or your daughter.
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Jesus that’s dysfunctional. You aren’t wrong. At all. Also not entirely sure I wouldn’t slap my sister up for crossing that line.
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Your mother is wrong as hell for that
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is their last name Parker? It’s Parker, isn’t it?
Wow. Some sister that girl is! And yikes I’m so so sorry you have to go through this! If you’re strong enough, dump the lot of them and move on with your life with your kids. It’s hard at first but it gets easier and eventually you’ll be wondering why you hadn’t done so sooner
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That’s not right,its sick o.
Your right and who crosses the line and dates a sister ugh
Fun times at Holiday get-togethers…
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I’m with you on the second half, but you signed your oldest out for adoption so that’s on you. Not him
You’re not crazy
Your mom is wrong
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Your sister broke code by dating your ex first and foremost, avoid them all and do what’s right by your child
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This sounds like a whole bunch of trailer trash.
Ewww cut them all off
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Sometimes family can be your worst enemies.
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You are her mother it is your job to protect your child
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Shut your mouth your full of shit it’s very much about you don’t say it’s about your daughter. Your sisters a scab mole motherfcker and your mothers got no brains. Tell them all to go and get farked they sound like their all on mushrooms for even thinking it’s ok to have that scumbag around after you kicked his arse out. Leave them all to rot in his shit but you move on without none of them the dirtfuckrs
Your whole damn family SUCKS. Your daughter doesn’t need people like that in her life.
Good call mama. Chin up. You’re doing right by your daughter.