Sorry these people are vile trash. Go back and get your husband’s ashes and teddy bear show the threats to the police. Threaten to sue them.
I just wanna know what kinda trip you took that cost $65,000?! I’ve been on some expensive trips but nothing like that 
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I dont know what trip costs 65k or 3k speaker and if you can afford that you should’ve been able to afford a shipping company for your things. It sounds like theres alot more to this story. Since its in another country anyway, there’s no way to know how they handle things. In america, you could at least try small claims court. But that’s only up to 5k i believe. You def wouldn’t have any criminal case tho. Next time take your stuff with you. But don’t be so shocked that someone who leeches off their daughter won’t keep up their part of a deal.
Who takes a 65 thousand dollar trip? 
I would either cut your loss and never speak to them again, or go over there yourself and get your things and leave (hopefully without anyone being there and don’t tel them your coming), then don’t ever speak to them again
I can understand, but at the same time, she is your mother, You lived with her, she took care of you until you left, You KNEW how she was, yet you left all your stuff in her care, As for your brother, at least he could have said he wasn’t aware that those stuff was your sons. Which I am sure your son doesn’t fit in anymore, nor does he really need them anymore, Yes, I understand they are keepsakes when your son was little, but just maybe he wouldn’t mind his nephews having them. Pictures drawings I could understand you really wanting. Basically either fly back, go thru everything you want & mail them to yourself, because it doesn’t sound you are going to get anything else back
For personal stuff you may be out of luck but for ashes you can contact authorities for sure if it’s illegal to withhold someone ashes in your country. Sorry for all your loss