My mother in law and her "buddy" are LOUD when they have adult time, what can I do?

Youre an adult living in her house trying to tell her how to have sex, I dont see how shes the disrespectful one here lmfao

It is her house and she is obviously aware of his commitment so maybe they are mutual sex buddies and you are in the way.

I love the energy in these comments :joy::heart:

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Maybe sheā€™s trying to tell you to fund your own place lol

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I mean, if you are living in her house, Iā€™m guessing she can get it in on the kitchen counter if thatā€™s what she wants to do :joy:
Stay in your room, get some ear plugs, grow up, and let her enjoy her ā€œbuddyā€

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Step up and get your own place, that is her privacy and yā€™all should give her respect and go outside or just leave when she has buddyā€™s overā€‹:flushed::roll_eyes::wink::thinking: food for thought :thought_balloon:

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Who cares if you feel disrespected. Itā€™s not your house. Itā€™s hers. Get over it or leave :woman_shrugging:

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Its her house. She can be roudy as she wants. If you know heā€™s there and its gonna happen go get icecream or something. I understand you may be in a position where you canā€™t just up and leave. But you canā€™t tell a grown woman how to behave in her own house. Sheā€™s not hurting you, herself, or putting anyone in danger.

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Move outā€¦ like be an adult and be grown, instead of living in her house and asking her to change her routineā€¦
Also out of respect yā€™all should leave the house to give them that alone time

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I meanā€¦.do you pay bills there? Is it her house?? Let her have her adult time. Are you quiet as a mouse when you and hubby do the deed? :rofl:

Itā€™s her home :laughing: move out

That isnā€™t disrespecting you, you putting demands on her in her house is disrespectful. Sounds like youā€™re just jealous bc she gets banged better than her son gives it to you.

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Get some ear plugs or headphones :sweat_smile:

Her house, so she can do what she wants. Youā€™re free to leave at anytime. She does not have to cater to guests in HER home. You, maā€™am are a guest, like it or not.
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Whatā€™s RUDE, is you trying to tell her what to do in her home. The first time you got rude, I woulda been like WELL BY ALL MEANS JUST LEAVE.

Turn on some loud music and let her do her own thing in her house, or move the F out. Come on. No brainer there.

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Itā€™s her f#cking house. She can f#ck as loud as she wants to.

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Leave on that one day he comes over :woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2:

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Youre lucky its not in front of you or next to a wimdowā€¦ shes enjoying herself & doesnā€™t need to monitor herself under her own roofā€¦

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Girl if you need to move out, itā€™s her house.

Get your own place? Lol. Itā€™s her house, she can be as loud as she wants. Sheā€™s not disrespecting you.

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Move out. Thatā€™s my advice. Itā€™s her home. She lives there.

Haha itā€™s her house! She can be as loud as she likes , I canā€™t believe you think you have the right to complain.
If youā€™ve got a problem with it move out. :woman_shrugging:

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Lmao itā€™s her house. If you donā€™t like it, move. Itā€™s not disrespectful because itā€™s her damn house lol

Sorry that this sex buddy can actually please her.

Lol :joy::joy::joy: I would laugh in your face!! Itā€™s her house!!!

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Turn up Alexa to your favorite song. :joy:

Suck it up buttercupā€¦ you live with her. Period

You canā€™t complain. Itā€™s not your house. Donā€™t be entitled

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I agree. If you donā€™t like it move out. Or maybe sheā€™s trying to get you to move out. If you donā€™t like it thereā€™s the door. And as far as the buddyā€¦mind youā€™re own business.

Her house her rules. Donā€™t like it move out. Why do you even live with her.

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Maybe sheā€™s doing it so yā€™all could move out

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Came for the comments and they didnā€™t disappoint. Hahaha

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Get out you wont hear a sound

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Do you think sheā€™s trying to get rid of you

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So, the comments section isnā€™t going the way you planned :woman_shrugging:

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Put some headphones on. Her house

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Her house so she can get loud as she wantsā€¦I would just leave

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Chile let Stella get her one day a week groove on - you are in her house and what she chooses to do in it is her choice :woman_shrugging:t5: When you get a house or an apartment thatā€™s when you can dictate and lay rules down :tipping_hand_woman:t5:

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Leave the house when he is there tell her to call you when he has left .

Lol simple. Move out, itā€™s not your house itā€™s hers. I would laugh out loud if someone told me something in my own home.

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Her home. If heā€™s over and it bothers you leave go shopping or for a walk visit a friend

Sheā€™s a grown woman who has raised her children. If she wants to have a different partner a week, itā€™s not your business. Why would you feel like you have any rights to condemn her choices in her own home? As a divorced woman of two grown kids, itā€™s my time to live my life. Iā€™m sure she feels the same way. You need to grow up and be happy that sheā€™s living her best life or move out. If one of my kids and especially their boyfriend/ girlfriend said something like this to me, I would laugh in their face while kicking them to the curb.

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Yeahā€¦are you ready?..clears throat.
GET. YOUR. OWN. F*CKING. PLACE !!!

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Itā€™s her house sorry

Move out of HER house lol sheā€™s an adult and you live with herā€¦

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Headphones and loud music? It is her house.

Sheā€™s being disrespectful for having loud sex in her own home? ooh girl u should of kept that redicoulus statement to urself cuz ur not looking to bright right about nowšŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø

Its her houseā€¦ sheā€™s not disrespecting you.

If you didnā€™t live with her it wouldnā€™t be a problem :woman_shrugging:t2: at least sheā€™s getting good sex out of it

Why are we bleeping out the word ā€œsexā€? Maybe sheā€™s just using him for SEX too. :woman_shrugging:t3:

Find your own place.

Itā€™s her house, she can scream loud as she wants, if you donā€™t like it then leave when he comes over.

Your in her houseā€¦ Deal with it or be a adult and get your own place

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Move out :joy: itā€™s her house!

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Maybe she is trying to tell you to leave?

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When he comes over go for a walk or do some shopping :woman_shrugging:t2:. Itā€™s once a week. Let the lady get some!!!

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If you canā€™t move out then I suggest getting some noise cancelling ear buds and reading. Or regular ear buds and listen to music. Some people are just loud during sex. I am with my husband. :woman_shrugging:t3: I try to be quiet and am still loud so she probably is trying. If they arenā€™t very long you can also take a walk around the neighborhood even with the kiddos if they are home. You can also use that one day a week to do your errands and leave when it gets there. But ultimately it is her house and she is enjoying herself. Plus itā€™s only one day a week you have to hear it. Nothing wrong with it.

Simple solutionā€¦.Grow up and MOVE!!!

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Ever think that maybe she is fine with just having a once a week f*$k friend? You say sheā€™s a grown woman who can do what she wants, so let her. Maybe she is doing it on purpose because she knows it bothers you and she wants your ass out of her damn house.

follow him afterward and take you camera and see where he goes.

My kids play music loud when Iā€™m busy kneading bread. Sometimes it gives their unco father the rythm I desire to get that bread right :rofl::rofl:

P.s respect your elders and get your own house.

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Uhh get your guys own place !!

My advice is to move out of her house.

Get your own house. Its her house and she can have sex in it when and how she pleases

Move out, youā€™re in HER HOUSE, GTFOH

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If I let someone live in my house and I want my bones jumped Iā€™ll do as I please :woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2:

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You live in her house

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Itā€™s her house and sheā€™s a grown women. Move out

Turn up the volume on the TV or go outside :woman_shrugging:t4: let her have her good timeā€¦which must be realllllyyyyy good if she is that loud :rofl:

Your "MOTHER INLAW":thinking:
Is the husband late or she is a single mother? Please have your fiance talk to her about it. Besides, you talking to her means, invading her privacy :grinning::grinning:since itā€™s her houseā€‹:woman_shrugging:. What happened to you both moving out ? Even if itā€™s a SELF CONTAINED houseā€¦ITā€™S BETTER OF.

Let her move in with her so called boy toy see how fast that ends itā€™s your house.

So us old folks cant hear so well any more lol she prob dont realize shes as loud as she is until u say something lol all besides the fact that hearing is ur prob not theres lol do something so u cant hear themā€¦u obviously know what it is why dont u be respectful and give her some alone time with her man friend ā€¦leaveā€¦ like in old days roommates put a sock on the door knob so u knew u couldnā€™t come in.

Play something loud and akward. Kill the mood

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U said so urself itā€™s only once a weekā€¦

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You feel disrespected by her having sex in her own home?

Move out go do soy when he there let her get some she old not dead & it her house

Unfortunately, we donā€™t always like what the people we live with do. Sex is normal, even loud obnoxious sex. Get your affairs in order so you can move out ASAP. In the mean time, noise canceling headphones may be helpful or just go for a walk when her buddy shows up.

Move out. Her house, she can do what she wants. Or leave for the night when he is coming over

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Ahh do it to herā€¦ Whats good for the goose is good for the gander lol

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Get your own place :ok_hand:

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Thatā€™s HER home!!! Girl let me tell you right now, I ainā€™t stopping for NO ONE when they live with me. Get the fuck out, then! If you donā€™t like it, get out. Iā€™ll let ya know when so you can leave and come back later on byeeeee.

It is her house when he comes over you leave if you donā€™t want to hear it

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You need to move out from her house, since sheā€™s the owner of that house she can do whatever she want with out your permission.

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Sheā€™s a grown woman! Let her have her fun! My very realistic and honest advice isā€¦ MOVE OUT of the womanā€™s house! We all have to grow up sometime! :woman_shrugging:

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Play gospel music loudly :joy:

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Iā€™d be damned if someone is gonna come into MY house and complain about my dick appointments. I am quiet AF when someone is home though :joy:

You live in HER house. Shes also a grown woman she can do as she pleases. Dont want to hear her? Move out. Im sure there has been times where she has heard you with her son. We are not as quiet as we think we are at times. Only difference is she doesnt try to embarace you by telling you to be quiet.

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Sounds like youā€™re the disrespectful one. Get some ear plugs and let the woman liveā€¦

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Sheā€™s grown itā€™s her house, you honestly have a lot of nerve to mention to her how loud she is in HER HOUSE! P.S you honestly sound jealous. Js

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Just put on salt and peppers ā€œpush it ā€œ and listen for the laughing lol

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I would understand if it was your house and she was doing this but itā€™s HER house. Honestly as inappropriate as you may think it is she is allowed to do what she wants in her home

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Ummm :thinking: move out of her house so she can have even louder sex :woman_shrugging:t4: :woman_facepalming:

It is her home!! I understand it may be a little uncomfortable to hear but try drowning out the noises with tv or radio. Or move out!!

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Get your own place or deal w it. Buy headphones.

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Get your own place :person_shrugging:
And stop being jealous :older_woman: us old people like sex tooā€¦but we say the word and spell it out. :joy:

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Well first off, you could get your own place, secondly, you could mind your own business or thirdly accept that sheā€™s a grown adult and you rightfully so have zero input on her life choices

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Move out. Itā€™s her house. She can have as much nasty loud fun time as she wants.

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Itā€™s her damn house if you donā€™t like it move out into your own place

Her house her choices

Get your own place
Problem solved!

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Itā€™s HER house!! YOU feel disrespected??? You are being disrespectful as hell! Move out if you donā€™t like!!

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