My mother in law and her "buddy" are LOUD when they have adult time, what can I do?

You should definitely get your own place to live immediately….you know, because you’re an adult living in her house. Geez.

It’s her house. if don’t dont like it, then you should consider moving. I’d be doing whatever I wanted to if it was my house too.

Its her house if she wants to have loud sex she can. You cant tell her what she can and cant do in her house. If you dont like it move out or leave while she is having sex or put ear plugs in.

It’s really disrespectful of you to live with her son in his MOMMA’s house ! Her son is a looser if he cant get a place of his own to bring a woman to. Lololol. Lil boy playing big boy games sorry.

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This post sure backfired :laughing:

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It’s her house… :joy: don’t like it, get out lol

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Sorry, but if it’s her house she can be as loud as she wants!

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I agree get ur own place if you don’t like what’s happening in HER house

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I feel like this post isn’t what OP imagined! :joy::joy:

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Sounds like you probably need to get yourself a job and start saving up for your on place so you don’t have to feel disrespected and annoyed by her bedroom sounds in her on house.

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Leave if you don’t like it

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You live in HER house. If it bothers you that much move out.

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Um… is this real? :rofl::rofl:

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Yeah. Get your own house!

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“Move out if you don’t like it”
Geez don’t y’all think maybe she’s already thought of that and can’t hence why they are there? Lol.
OP - I would just do it 10 times louder and then maybe she will stop. Lol.

Move out and quit hating🤷🏾‍♀️

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It’s disrespectful that you even had the conversation about what she does in her own home. If you don’t want to hear it then go somewhere when he’s there. Or find a new place to live. She’s doing you both a favor letting you stay.

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My advice? Move out.
She’s a grown ass woman and it’s her house… or get some headphones

Get over it! Let her have fun while she can lol sounds like ur a bit jealous.

POV: her buddy is doing her a favor by helping her get you out of her house :laughing:

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Like Mother, like Son???

I wish the hell one of my grown kids living in my house would have the audacity…. I’d start making y’all stand outside each and everytime

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It’s HER house. Get over it. Move out!

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So either move out or have sex with your man. I guess you don’t moan or as loud as them?

You probably should move out of her house or go outside until he leaves

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Prob jealous too granny getting more action in bed than her😄

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How is she being disrespectfull? Its you being disrespectful presuming to tell her what she can do in her own home. Save up move out or just buy ear plugs, turn the tv up or go have have adult time with your fella. Seems like your more involved in her live life than you should be

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Ask if u can sit and take notes👩‍💻

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I have 2 suggestions. 1. Ear plugs&2. Move out its a good thing im not your mil id be getting loud into a microphone hooked up to the biggest speakers I could find right up against the wall of the room you stay in. Id be everywhere in that house maybe over a pa system

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noise cancelling headphones.

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You said it yourself, it’s only once a week. Go out during that time! Or find your own place to live. :woman_shrugging:t2: it’s her home and she can do as she pleases.

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You’re in her home by her grace, nobody has to like him only her

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You’re in her house. Leave if you don’t like it :joy:

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It’s time you find ur own place……good luck i mean i’m sure it makes you sick to hear your mother having sex :face_vomiting:

Disgusting. Start walking past the room while they do it making monkey noises or just moan obnoxiously back at them. Lmao

Maybe you should get your own place instead of disrespecting someone else in there own home

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Couldn’t be me… after you had the nerve to tell me what I’m doing in MY home is bothersome? I’d be doing it on the couch, in the kitchen, on the table, etc. Yell out every few strokes “CAN YA HEAR ME NOW!?!” :sneezing_face:

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Move out of her house :rofl:

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Move. It’s her house

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Sounds like he’s married

Put on some music or move tf out

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Find somewhere to go when they’re having pleasure time since you live in her house. It’s also none of your business what she does or whom with in her own house. Be careful if you’re not already looking for another place to live, she may give you walking papers for getting too personal with her and her buddy.

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Move out! Leave her alone. She deserves good d. Sounds like you are a hater

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Yep agree with everyone else. Sorry, but yep it’s her home. And maybe she’s in it for the sex too. :person_shrugging:t2:

Yeah move into your own house…problem solved.

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Move, it is your mother’s house and it sounds like your old enough to live by yourself with a fiancé :woman_shrugging:

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Sorry, but if I opened my doors to someone they would have to put up with my big mouth too. I’m not quiet, and if you’re in my home, you’ll hear me. Don’t like it? You can walk out the same door that you walked in.

I don’t know what your situation is, but you’re in HER HOME. Buy yourself some noise canceling earbuds and find a “sexy time” show to binge on her sexy nights. Or, leave until her “buddy” does his job and leaves. It’s really not any of your business.

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Buy ear plugs or leave for a while when he shows up.

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When she walks out give her a high five. Thats what we do in our house when we have people live with us😂 or just be louder than her and do it every night

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Move out of her home!

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Get out of her damn house if you don’t like what she’s doing in it

Wait a second. You live with her in HER house, and are upset that she’s being loud during adult time? Girl please. Get your own place if you want peace and quiet. When you live with somebody else you don’t set the rules. I bet you thought you’d have people on your side did you?

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Move out. Sounds like she’s pleased with what’s happening so…

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Well until you own the own home you can’t really say she is disrespecting you. You are disrespecting her for even bringing it up… Put some earplugs in and go on.

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Move out ! Get your own place

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I like how all the people saying move know the situation. I live with my parents because I’m a single disabled mom living on SSI after my estranged spouse had an affair and left and I can’t afford anywhere that’s not ghetto boarded up crack house where my son and I would not be safe

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Move to your own place?!

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move into your own house if you don’t like it

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Ear plugs or listen to music or a book with head phones.

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It’s her house :woman_shrugging: sorry… doubt anything is going to change since you already brought it to her attention and she didn’t stop…

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Her house, her rules.

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Are you mad its not THAT good for you orrrr? It sounds like a jealousy thing :rofl:

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It’s her house, let that woman enjoy herself. You guys can get your own place if it’s that bothersome to you.

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Do it louder :woman_shrugging: :thinking::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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Get your own house? I wish someone who lived in my house would ask me to tone down my sex :rofl::rofl::rofl:

Girl it’s HER house!!! You don’t wanna listen to her sex life? move out :person_shrugging::rofl:

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It is once a week maybe you can leave when he comes to visit so they can get their freak on.

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It is her house. If it bothers you that much maybe you and your fiancé should find a place or buy some good earbuds or earplugs.

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Get ur own place? :man_shrugging:t5:

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Move tf out​:joy::rofl: it’s not disrespect unless it’s happening in YOUR HOUSE against YOUR RULES.

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I would just ignore it watch tv or listen to music. Im sure its awkward but sometimes just pretending its not happening is the best solution

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Her house. Her rules. She can have loud sex in HER home. Put earbuds in. Go for a walk. You live in her home. Not the other way around

My advice is move your grown butt out of your mommas home. What ans who she does is non of your business. She’s a grown woman allowed to enjoy what she wants.

If I was here and it being my house, I’d get loud as hell. Get ear plugs or play music

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Loud music, headphones, play the tv or go out for a walk…Sorry but it’s her house and if she chooses to be loud it’s her choice…even if you talk to her about it… if she knows and doesn’t care then all you can do is find a way around it…or save up to get your own place.

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Move out, you’re in her home.

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Girl what?! First, I feel disrespected by all the misspelled words you included in this post. Second, it’s HER house. You can always leave :unamused:

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It’s her home. She’s entitled to loud s@x in her own home. Your options are to move out, grin and bear it, use ear plugs or go out when he comes over.

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It’s her house so maybe you should take a walk or something.

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Her house she got to have fun too not just you get your own place wouldn’t have to worry about it :smirk:

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I mean… she could walk around naked if she wanted to. Her roof, her rules.

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See at my house since I live in a apartment complex and someone is under me. I cannot be loud or she complains and bangs on my door which is hard to do since this man fucking has me SCREAMING. So I get smothered with a pillow.

However, at his house I can be as LOUD as I want to and don’t have to get smothered with a pillow.

See the difference. It’s not your house. If you want to not hear it get your own place.

Leave for the night. Go to a friends or your momma’s or a hotel or get another place. Put ear buds in if you can’t do any of those

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Mind ur business… let the big woman live her life as she please… u and ur fiance should move on allu own… I think parents wait for when their kids move out so they can have their sexual escapades as loud as they want… let momma move her waistline eh…

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Your house? Your rules. Her house, go fund/find your own place.

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Her house…. Find your own place?

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Headphones? Earplugs? :person_shrugging:

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Unfortunately it’s her house and she can do that if she’d like lol. If there was kids there then it could change the story but if not your both adults and both do “it” so I’d just slap some headphones on lol. But maybe talk to her about the other things and tell her from your point of view you don’t like how he treats her and it’s not right how he treats her. That’s all you can really do in this case

Her house, and if she likes this guy, she can do as she pleases. And it sounds like she has her crap together alot better than y’all do. I really don’t think she needs your permission or your advice. She is in charge of her life.

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Well first thing first…if you dont like what she does in her house then gtfo🤦 Secondly how would you know anything about this man or what his intentions are.You need to respect her in her home.Repect whatever type of relationship she chooses to have with who she chooses to be with and mind your own business🤷

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Move out! It’s her house!

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I agree move out but that is very disrespectful. Common courtesy to keep quiet with other people in the home. Doesn’t seem like she has much respect for herself let alone anyone else. Get your own place ASAP

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Way to to Mom in law! I’m sorry that her sex life is bothering you in her house but let’s be honest. It’s her house. There’s a reason why living with in laws isn’t comfortable… it isn’t supposed to be. Move out get your own place… and then maybe you can see that a single woman having a f#$% buddy is actually something to celebrate at her age. She probably knows damn well he is just a for now thing but getting some at her age is awesome. Good for her. Good on you for knowing it’s time to leave

It’s her house. Don’t like it, move out.

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First move out. Second find a new man to not have u live with his mommy. Don’t get mad. U got married. No excuses. Move out.
Do u pay the rent/mortgage? Yes - then u can say something - no - then move out or shut up.

Uh did I miss something…it’s her house!!!

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Really, you say the man is using her and you and boyfriend lives with her Wow get a job or a 2nd job and move out

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Mind your business lmdao

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Lol ummm it’s not your home no matter how you feel :woman_shrugging:t2:

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But…it’s her house? :eyes::woman_shrugging:t2:

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