There’s no way I would have agreed to that setup 
Tell her to keep her rent money and get out your house
Since she pays you rent that means she has some type of income. I highly recommend she GET HER OWN PLACE unless you guys NEED her money to afford the house. But me personally I REFUSE to be MISERABLE in MY HOME
kick the bitch out. or evict
Ummm…she lives there.
Next time she threatens to move out tell go ahead if hubby takes her side tell him it is either her or you that will move out. Make a plan to pack and go before it is said and record the conversation. File for divorce he will have to sell the house split the money with you plus pay child support and alimony. Restrictions on visitation. You need a man who stands with you not in front of you telling you in your own house to shut up and do as his mommy wants.
First get a belt and whoop ya husbands ass. Then you sit him down and have a long talk. If that doesn’t work, walk out butt naked while company is over 
I don’t know why people have to be so ignorant when answering questions. This a jacked up situation. First of all, just because she pays rent doesn’t mean she can do whatever she wants. She’s just being an inconsiderate bitch. Secondly, it’s f*cked up that her husband isn’t supporting her. He obviously lacks the spine to check his mom or he just doesn’t care.
I would try to have a discussion with the 2 of them one last time and if it’s not successful, you need to look into your legal options.
A group where we all tell you to leave them
If she pays rent she should be aloud to have whom ever she wants over…she pays rent! She shouldnt have to ask to have company over, thats crazy talk…if u dont want her to treat it like her home. Dont take rent money!
I’m sorry but, wtf. She told you to leave your own home. Right then and there I would have kicked her out. The level of disrespect she has for you to tell you to leave your own home.
I would tell you husband that you are giving he’s mum 1 month to move out. If he doesn’t like it then he can move out with he’s mum as well. A man is supposed to leave he’s father and mother and starts he’s own family with he’s wife. Not be attached to he’s parents and allow he’s wife to be disrespected.
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She pays rent then she has the right to have people over when ever she wants to.
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She pays you rent to live there she’s not freeloading! She can have guests over or she’s right she should have the right to move out!
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She gotta go, and you and hubs need to go to marriage counseling, imo. He should be your teammate, not hers. Yall should be united, and you should be able to talk about this rationally when it’s just the two of you.
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If it’s your house and you aren’t happy tell her she needs to find somewhere else to live. Assuming you don’t rely on the rent? I wouldn’t want people there all the time either and I most certainly wouldn’t be happy being told to go to my room in my own house. I would be having one last chance to make her understand and if it
Doesn’t work let her know that the situation isn’t working for you anymore xx
If she pays rent, then she can have people over to HER designated living space. If she rents a room…then they all go in there.
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If she pays rent, she’s entitled to have visitors in common areas during reasonable hours. I would have something written up that she can have visitors on X days during set hours and both sign it. Otherwise your only other option is to evict her.
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Tell her if she can’t respect your and your husbands rules then she needs to find another place to live
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Hols on. Is it people or her other grandkids she is seeing??
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Start packing yours and your daughters stuff. And do what she said (leave). If the husband starts let him know that she told you to and you know he will agree with her like always and that you and your daughter deserve better. Yall deserve a real man with a spine and not some little bitch with mommy issues
Unlike everyone that’s telling you that you should leave because she pays rent… or saying she pays rent so she has thw right to have people over. First off, its YOUR house. Therefore she needs to obey by your rules in order to stay. Honestly, if I was in this situation… she would have been gone a long time ago. I can not stand my boyfriends mom nor will I ever. Thankfully I don’t have to deal with her. But if your husband is going to back up his mom then he needs to leave as well.
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To be fair, you should draft a rental agreement.
Discuss terms for visits and compromise.
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She moved in with YOU and she should be communicating to ensure your ok. Tell your husband that he and his mommy can find a new home if your right as owner of this house is not respected.
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Stop hating on her relationship with the other kids ffs
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Two hens in one chook house. The renter is ruling the nest. Not fair :0( all the best
Tell your husband exactly what you told us… if he doesn’t see a issue… I would pack and leave…
We dont have all the facts …is she renting a room or is it room and board ? Does she pay 1/3 of all expenses in your home ? Those are some things you, her and your husband need to come to agreement on …if 1/3 of all expenses is paid by her ( water electric cable and food just to name a few ) then she has a say otherwise this is your home and your rules …you must try to work out a comprise that is gonna make all of you where you can still live together …Now HUSBAND needs to find his BALLS and back his WIFE not MAMA AFTER ALL YOU ARE HIS LIFE MATE NOT HER… God Bless and Good Luck …
Lol it doesn’t matter if she pays rent. She is acting overly entitled and like it is you that is living in her house. Monster in law needs to get to stepping.
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Sooo let her move out l ol
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Considering she constantly threatens to move out…take her up on the threat; tell her she needs to find her own place as she is the renter, not the owner.
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Throw them both out!
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You mentioned that you guys own your home and she pays rent. Are you guys able to get her a one bedroom apartment not too far away and assist with the balance of the rent? Peace of mind is most important. Your MIL feels empowered everytime your husband agrees with her which puts her in a position to disrespect you. It is also a hard place for your husband. Mom vs Wife. Speak with him from the angle of resolving and not anger. Sad reality, this is destroying your marriage…whether you leave or not. You will grow to resent MIL and lose respect for your husband. Your babies will take it for granted that you have no voice in your home. Good luck with all.
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Let her move then:joy:
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Set aside part of your home for her with separate doors coming and going. Lock your part. Other than just get rid of his mother, he should get rid of you. Selfish…just thinking of reasons to make her leave. She wants to see her family.
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Bye Felicia!! It’s your house!! This is why living with family never works after becoming a adult. She is just taking advantage of the hole situation!!
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If I’m paying rent, I’m going to have whatever company I want to 
if it’s an issue, “let” her move out. You can set boundaries like no company after a certain time, but if that it her legal residence that she is paying rent for…she’s not a child and you really can’t restrict who she has over. Sounds kinda controlling fr.
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Discuss with your husband two visit free days. Then the two of you sit down with MIL and tell her the two days that are visit free. She is Welcome to go visit people those days if she wants to
Tell your husband he can sleep in his mother’s bed, she can do his laundry, cook his meals, clean the house and babysit (?) When you want to get away from the extra company! The longer she’s there the harder it is to get rid of her. How old is she and how does she get her income? Find her a retirement community. Does the visitors know you feel this way? Maybe you should let them know. There’s more than one way to skin a 
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Girl her ass needs to move out this will forever create an issue
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I’d tell her to gtfo
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And take her rent elsewhere
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Kick her ass to the curb… she can visit her grandchildren like every other grandparent.
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Tell her to kick rocks maaaan
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Wow. I’d let you leave. Treating his mother that way
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No one wants to have people inside their home all the time. You shouldnt have to hide you your room in a house you own to get piece. Get her an RV. Or leave.
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First thing’s first, you and your husband need to have a conversation. He shouldn’t be taking his mother’s side every time and telling you that you are wrong. Once you guys address that, see if the three of you can come up with a solution everyone benefits from. While I agree if she’s paying rent, she should be allowed to invite people over, at the same time, paying rent or not, it isn’t ONLY her home. Everyone should be comfortable in their own home. The three of you are adults and should talk it over like adults. However I think you and your husband need to discuss his priorities before talking with the MIL.
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Get her out of your home.
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Get real loud in the bedroom
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If you can and are able too build a guess house or add addition to the house were she has her own area like inlaw suit and own entrance so that your area is clear of the disruption this way you have private time for your family?? Make a solution
Yes they need to pick up grandma for the days she visits. Can get loud.
Throat punch is out then???
She should move out. Never rent somewhere that you cannot live as if it’s your home. It’s a horrible feeling and if you don’t want her there, tell her find another place. This 100% lands on you. “She threatens to move out” uh, yeah. No one should live that way. It’s not working for you landlord, so make a change.
She pays rent, it’s her house too. She is your tenant. She has rights. You need to talk to her and figure out a fair happy medium.
This feels like a roommate situation. Yes she pays rent but she also has to respect her Roommate wishes. Offer Fridays , Saturdays and Sundays. Or does she watch the grandkids during the week ? My mother does. If so let her have the weekdays . But yes having someone over every day is exhausting especially kids. Yall need to sit down and come to an agreement that everyone is OK with. If I lived with my mother in law I wouldn’t invite people over all the time. I would go to there house. It’s about respect. And it’s never ok so speak badly towards each other infron the the kids. Idk how you handled it this long.
Why don’t you let her move out? She seems to have a lot of friends, she can stay with them! (She can take her wee son with her)!!! 
Its her house too. Its called comprising
Kick her out if she doesnt follow ur house rules
Tell your husband you’ve had enough. Either she goes or you walk out.
Leave both of them there. Its her and her son’s house now Sis. This has more to do with ur husband being a shitty husband more than the old lady. Leave and let them buy u out and then they keep that mf. Problem solved.