My advice. Unfollow her. She seems like the kind of person that won’t see the good in you. So save yourself the annoyance and the hurt that she apparently won’t ever accept you and unfollow her. I had to unfollow one of my husbands family members because of bs they were posting and I saved myself the anger and bitterness. And it’s made me so happy.
That is weird and it sounds to me like she has an issue and maybe needs a hug from her son.
Ignore it, she is looking for attention from him/you regardless of whether it’s negative or positive. You will feel better for ignoring it I promise-it’s a different kind of power.
If you react you are feeding in to what she wants.
I would tell her how you feel and then remove her from your friends list. That’s just rude and ignorant of her. You guys are good and that’s all that matters.
Then you have nothing to worry about if she doesn’t have a great relationship with your husband. Just block the crazy old lady and move on. She clearly lacks maturity. So cut her off. Don’t let her get under your skin
Maybe she’s doing it to get a reaction out of him so he’ll speak to her. It’s a terrible way to do it but maybe she doesn’t know how to do it any other way
I would absolutely ignore her. She isn’t a kind person and it’s obvious That she just wants to cause problems. I would totally ignore her and pretend I never even noticed.
“If you thought we was happy then should see how happy he is when I insert dirty comment”
Try not to let it bother you…I know, it’s easier said then done. She is not worth it, block her. All that matters is he’s yours. Just think of it this way, he had to kiss a lot of toads to find HIS PRINCESS!!!
Not normal. Is she drunk?
My mother in law would tell my husband ex when we were coming over and have come over before we got there so she would there be when we got there. Acting like it’s no big deal we shouldn’t be upset or mad we dealt with it for a few years then said enough is enough we haven’t seen or spoken to her 15 years now.
Just look at is as the past is in the past. You and him are MARRIED!! Theres a reason you’re together. Everyone has pictures and memories from their past. It’s what you do in the present and future what matters.
Ignore her …she wants it to bother you I would block her and forget it
I’m thinking comment or react but my petty level is not to be tested I would block her or snooze on her post. If you not petty that’s is the best options.
Be direct.
Call her up and give yourself permission to give feedback when someone disrespect you.
Tell her how you feel.
Definitely not over reacting it would well annoy me, what’s the point, they’re in the past for a reason x
Mama is childish and I wouldn’t feed into it.
I’ve seen this in 4 posts on different groups tonight!
She’s clearly doing that on purpose
Sounds like you have a b*tch in law instead of a mother in law
I’d keep posting a bunch of memes with passive aggressive message. But I’m petty. Lol
Just remove her from social media.
Yes you are overreacting get over it. People get way to offended. You allowed her to upset you. N
Blocking her will cause friction. I would just unfollow her and forget about it. Out of sight out of mind.
Be kind to her no matter what.
I would be pissed! Yes definitely have him say something! That’s so disrespectful to you and your husband!
She does not like you plain and simple that’s disrespectful
It sounds like she has a mental illness and it trying to cause problems. Block her.
I wouldn’t pay no attention to her because she knows it bothers you so she will keep doing it so I would kill her with kindness and don’t pay attention to her!
She doesn’t Ike you, bottom line. Why does it bother you, what she puts on her page? Block her
I can’t stop laughing at how pathetic she is. Who even does something like that? That is not normal at all. I’d definitely delete her and block her out totally. Clearly she’s still living in a different Era
They do that to try to get to you. She’s disrespectful and immature. You should block her and move on.
She sounds immature. Ur better than that… Dont deal with her… Shes empty space.
block her and don’t bother, she will get the hint pretty quick.
You and him and the kids needs to stay away from her cause by the way your talking about her sounds like she’s trying to bust you all up…Honey it’s sounds to me shes jea lous homewrecker that loves doing bad stuff to you and your family its very disrespecting and no family should do that to you and your husband…
Shes being a douche its disrespectful, I’d delete her and move on
Post a picture of the 2 of you in the comments and say hes even happier now.
Ignore her childish antics.
Thats disrespectful fr
It’s totally disrespectful
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FUCK HER! I would post pics of myself and my ex and say don’t we look happy. I’M PETTY AS HELL
That’s very sick of her to do that.
My ex mother in law was the same exact way I would call her out every time and she’d get pissed cuz she thought I wouldn’t say anything but then she’d delete me and block me n not talk to me for a few years then unblocks me n starts her shit all over again I got so fed up with her crap I totally dropped her out of my life it’s been 5 years now and we have not spoke yet. Best thing I ever did.
She sounds like a weirdo
Seriously I would block her and not entertain that kind of drama. Let her be miserable on her own.
She’s not right in the head leave it alone she’s trying to get under your skin. Let your husband stop making the effort and let her destroy herself.
Yuck. Definitely toxic. I would just block her, she knows what she’s doing. You can rest easy knowing that he’s not sucked in by her B.S.
I’m pretty, I’d comment on social media and say things like oh well guess he is happier now or look how cute he was before he new what love was… I mean I’d be pissed, but like I said I’m petty
Underneath it all she is threatened by you and wasn’t by his exes. She struggles letting go and she knows if her son is at his happiest then he might not run to her with things. If they did not have a great relationship I take it she was too controlling of his life or she was not supportive and always their for him as a parent. She is obviously looking back on a time in her life where she felt she was a part of her sons life, but at the same time now regrets how things have turned for their relationship. She can’t bring herself to terms with the fact that he has a family now and will be there for his wife but it can also include his mother.
She sounds like a crappy person and mother all rolled into one, block her if it bothers you too much to ignore and wash your hands of her. She doesn’t deserve a reaction.
She sounds petty and a bit jealous. Some Moms cannot let go of their grown sons, and others have boundary issues. It literally has NOTHING to do with you; it has everything to do with her issues. What’s awesome to hear was his line about finding his princess. Sounds like he loves you mucho, and that’s what matters. Good luck, hon.
That my dear is called baiting. She’s trying to bait you guys into a fight with her. Don’t take it. There is NOTHING that will infuriate her more than silence. Unfollow her, not unfriend. YOU have already won. Don’t give it up over that narcissist.
This is selfish.
But also, she can post all she wants, cause you are the one with him not those girls that she’s posting, that’s his past. YOU are HIS PRESENT, not those girls.
It obviously ended for a reason, and you two started for a reason. Don’t fuel the fire, just ignore her. Your obviously doing something right, I mean you married the guy.
Let it go your not there to impress his mother he loves you and her bitterness says more about her and less about y’all as a couple. Embrace the fact you have a healthy loving relationship and avoid unnecessary drama. Remember misery loves company and your giving her the reaction she wants if you get angry or something is said. Enjoy the man that loves you and the rest will work itself out
Good relationships are built with good boundaries. She is over stepping her boundaries with you but unless you bring it up you a not establishing boundaries with her. We teach people how to treat you… so either teach her our ditch her. Your call🤷♀️ good luck
I agree block her and you don’t have to worry about her toxic butt living in the past self
That’s terrible of her to do! It would tick me off too. I would use your husbands saying under the photo and post a photo of you and him happily together! But at the same time if it continues I would block her on social media. Let her live life in the past, one day she will have a toad kiss her butt (karma)
You didn’t marry her. I’d block her honey.
Tell you what will make her stop. Compliment the photo, tell her how handsom her son was/is then tell her how cute they looked. You already know that he had other girl friends but you won and have the prize and acknowledging those photos will not harm anything and might just shut her up if she thinks you aren’t upset by then. Don’t give her the satisfaction of being angry or upset.
LOL I thought you meant it was his ex that wouldn’t answer the door if he tried to go over and spend time with her…
No reaction is the best & most powerful reaction sometimes… this is the case with ur scenario here
Meh. Sounds like your husband isn’t even involved with that. Who is really seeing this and thinking anything other than…“is she crazy? Dude grew up and has been with someone else for years now”
She has problems and you should just unfriend her
Definitely something needs to be said! My in laws wouldn’t even dream of doing this…
This sounds like sumthn my ex mother in law would do. She even tried to ruin our marriage by lying and kept saying her son had another child before he was with me. She was very immature and scandalous
Toxic for sure but best to leave alone! Don’t fuel the fire.
F her!!! She’s just trying to be vindictive. Ignore the hateful hag. You win.
Just delete and block her her and be done with it
She’s crazy, put her on Facebook mute. Ignore the lady. She’s only embarrassing herself. If anyone asks, tell them she’s weird.
Omg don’t worry about it. It’s pictures from when he was a teenager.
Cut her off and block her. Shes looking for a reaction. Don’t give her 1
Comment and say you should see how happy he is now💁
Im sorry…but your mil…is a BITCH…POINT BLANK…PERIOD
Absolutely ignore it!
How rude. Best to cut ties with the mother in law. She doesn’t respect boundaries.
I could easily see that happening with my MIL. Keep in mind that when he was with his ex in those teenage years, he probably still lived at home and his mom probably still felt like he was hers. Now that he’s a grown man and married to you, he’s not her little boy that dotes on her anymore. It’s disrespectful AF but she may just be missing a time where his perceived happiness also included her.
Snooze her on Facebook. She’ll run out of photos. The fact she’s doing it whilst not talking to your husband speaks volumes. If she was just sharing the photos I wouldn’t have an issue with it at all. It’s the look how happy they were that stings. But honestly, he doesn’t care, you shouldn’t either, let her get on with it, with no reaction.
My Siri is just ignore her if you put up a fight she just going to do it more because it aggravates you she must not like you too well and maybe blames you for The Break-Up and maybe she likes the other girl better just ignore her don’t let it bother you it’s just her way of getting under your skin if she does that then she’s going to just do it more that’s what I would do but it’s your life
Hubby needs to stop that by talking to mom. This is so disrespectful to not only you but your husband and family. This is not a loving, caring or trust worthy MIL. Distance yourself, she is not liking what you have. You could play with her a bit, for every past post she posts, post a present one of you both. “Happiness in it’s finest” “The beauty of maturity” Post away of the two of you.
No biggie.
Just let her do her thing…
No reaction is the best reaction. .
Just carry on.
My husband has passed but my mother in law did the same. For years. My husbands parents and I really don’t have a relationship except for our kids. To this day they despises me. I guess I can say the feeling is mutual.
Don’t bother with her she seems like a trouble maker. You and your husband are happy so just live your lives without her she will find out what she has lost some day.
I would make sure your husband knows what’s going on. And then that it’s effecting you (it definitely would be effecting me) and that your going to block her on Facebook and whatever else as she is making it clear how she feels. If it wants sorting, she can either bring it up with you or your hubby can sort it. X
Maybe comment.
“Well if you were actually a positive part of our lives you’d have more recent photos of him to share with his now, WIFE. He sure has moved up and has higher standards now. We don’t talk about the past, we don’t live there anymore”
Just because she is the mother in law doesn’t mean you need to have her in your life. Why not just delete her from fb? Or block her post? If your husband doesn’t even have a great relationships to begin with then maybe it’s best not to put too much energy into this. She’s obviously wanting to get a raise from you and it seems to be working. Try to focus on your marriage otherwise this can hinder your relationship in the long run.
That’s not nice she shouldn’t be doing that. She obviously has no respect for you or your marriage to her son. And for your husband, he should be speaking to his mother about it. He should be caring about your feelings about this.
Id be bloody raging!!!
Your husband needs to step up and get her to quit it. Youre his wife. He should be protecting you! Block the boot as well. You don’t need that level of poison in your life!!
I would block her, then your not seeing the posts. It’s such a disrespectful thing to do x
Some people are unusual. I’m pretty petty with things like that, I’d probably emoji it
Try ignore it lovely. You can’t control some one else’s behaviour especially when it’s a tad creepy and they can’t see any wrong doing. So you and your husband keep doing you and try just leave her to her own silliness. She likely looks like a bit of an idiot to any one seeing the posts anyways, because who actually does things like that hugs don’t let her actions ruin how you feel, it is what it is, you can’t change her and how she’s being but you can help yourself by taking yourself away from seeing these things or respectfully asking mutual people not to talk about them x
I’d be fuming definitely! She’s doing it for a reaction by the sound of it x
Social media can be a strange place, I’d unfollow her and put it out of your mind. If he isn’t close with her anyway there’s no point bringing it up. You can’t control people’s actions but you can control how you respond to them and no response can send the strongest message.
Post pics of your husband with your mom and caption it, “he says she’s his best mom ever!” Or “look how close they are, best MIL he could ask her!” Give her a taste of her own medicine. #teampetty.
I’d just let her get on with it at the end of the day he was with other people before you and it’s his past. I’d just focus on the fact your the one married to him so fuck her basically lol xx
I would block her ass.
I am wondering how the ex’s feel. They have obviously moved on and may be married themselves. Just be up front and ask her to stop. Xx
She sounds bat shit cràzy block her on social media and cut all ties
Stop following her. Don’t think about her. Take your energy away.
She doesn’t like you, or she’s gone senile
Block her and don’t allow her in your house ever again
Sounds like she’s doing it for a reaction!