I would post a pic of u and him with caption “look how happy he is now with me” xx
Best advise would be to cut social media ties. Quit letting her live rent free in your head. Unfriend and unfollow her on everything and put it out of your mind. You and your husband are happy, let the old woman sit in her pettiness alone.
Be happy that you have him and that everyone in his past has led him to you. His mother is proud of her son. She probably feels that since her son is so happy, that she feels she lost him to you. Even like the photo, with a photo comment of your picture together. Feel the love, not the hate.
Be the better person& ignore the bitter old woman.
How rude of her. Ild certainly cut ties! Unreal that is c
Why dont you delete her from your Facebook and then you wouldn’t have to see them x some people just get joy out off making other people unhappy. Rise about if your better than that.
Unfollow her on social media… you won’t have to see all the crap she posts unless you search for her. She won’t even know…
Or be a bitch right back an unfriend her entirely. Then, if she reacts asking why, that’s a great opportunity for you an your partner to get your point across ???
Playground tactics but it’s sometimes needed
My MIL talks openly about her ‘boy’ being so happy before, I sit quite smug an simply say
‘ yes your boy, he’s my MAN now’
So childish but very affective
That’s weird. She needs a life.
tell her to shut the f/up
She clearly dont like you lol
My petty ass would love heart the photo
I’d go absolutely mental lol
This is disrespectful!
Ignore her and unfollow her posts or better still delete her as a friend
She sounds very insecure. I think she’s jealous of you and your happiness with her son. Could it be that she feels you have stolen her boy.
By posting these pictures she knows it will ruffle your feathers and hopefully cause drama.
I would be the bigger person and just unfollow her on FB. What you can’t see can’t hurt you.
Also just keep reaching out, maybe she just feels discarded…if that still fails at least you’ll know you tried xx
She is trifling…I know women who do this mess. They are evil and push their sons to cheat. Block her immediately and do not respond. The minute you add gasoline to that fire…she will escalate…
I will tell her,‘yes, I totally agree with u that they look so happy together but your son made a wiser decision to stick to me as he knows that only me can make him a happier man forever. Everything happens for a reason’. Lol
Honestly unfollow her on Facebook so you can’t see.
Remember you maybe taking what she’s saying on them as an insult but it may not be intended that way.
It’s not about you but her son. I post my teenage daughters prom pics all the time. I love her and her husband, bit I love her memories as well.
Ugh, in-laws can be toxic. Defriend immediately, sounds like she is doing this stuff on purpose to maybe get a reaction from you. Don’t keep watching. It’s not worth it. My mother in law, and sister in law, are very manipulative, selfish, and always have an ‘agenda.’. Took some long hurtful lessons for me to realize life is too short to put up with toxic.
I personally think it’s disrespectal … he should say something. Yr his wife now and should be defending and standing by you on this point … to me … its not a matter whether it bothered you or yr husband … to me …its lack of respect towards the marriage get son has …
I agree with Amanda Doonan . I think she is being very disrespectful, I would ignore her silly behaviour and show her how a mature adult deals with juvenile actions such as this
Its totally disrespectful. Its his wife. Husband should take care of it or totally ignore her until she’s ready to listen.
Tell her it’s time to move on! Ur son did! Dont put up with that! Post pics of how happy he is now! If that doesn’t work remove toxic things n ppl from your life. Lifes too short.
Definitely overreacting.Who cares?He’s with you now.We all have a past.Sounds like it’s the Monster Mother in laws problem.Don’t let her know it bothers you.I’d be more concerned with why their relationship(mother in law and your husband’s) relationship is strained.You should’t feel insecure tho.
Tell her if he was that happy with anyone of them he wouldn’t be married to you now he would have stayed with one of them.
Just keep posting pictures of how in love you two are. Family photos. He married you.
Your husband really should be handling this.
That’s a sign of insecurity! Why would a mother do this? It’s good her son supports you it shows his mum can not ruffle your feathers as Amanda said!
I’d tell him to tell her it makes you uncomfortable and if his mother loves him she will be understanding!
She sounds creepy AF! Forget that asshole!
Apply for a room for her in of the nice nursing homes and wash your hands of that shit!
if they don’t have a great relationship to begin with then don’t even bother. Just unfriend or unmute her on social media. isn’t worth it
You are letting your ego get in the way. If there is friction speak up directly she may be unaware. She may not. If you do not get a decent response, she does not enter your mind again until you have a gathering or if she is in your circle. Then be genuine and kind. Shields up to block negative energy. You are giving your power away to ego and distorted perception on both sides.
She is trying to piss you guys off n get attention. Ignore.
Why is this popping up on my timeline
Just block her if she bothers you. Sounds like that’s the only reason she’s doing it. If it bothers your husband, he can do it as well. Don’t waste your minutes with pettiness
Ignore her. She sounds like she has a personality disorder with that type of behaviour.
Tell her you saw he was happy so you had to do something about it
You need to address it as well as your husband. This is one of those “doesnt matter if they’re family if their toxic kick em to the curb” scenarios.
Mom is jealous and wants to put that energy on you, which by the way has NOTHING to do with you. The pics are one the, the caption is another
Sounds like his mother is jealous of you for some reason smh…
Don’t react. That’s what she wants. Ignore and block. You got the guy, that’s what counts
Krista Edwards Mitchell, even if you did post a pic of him before, you’d never be like this and I wouldn’t feel hurt if you did post a pic of your son before Matthew and I got together. I couldn’t have ever asked for a better MIL. I miss you and love you!! Thank you for loving me as much as you do.
You should both block her. She’ll either stop, or she won’t, but you won’t have to see it and maybe she’ll get the hint.
Take him up on it. Have him talk to his mom. Shut it down.
Kissed a few frogs, ha. Shut that down.
Be Boss.
If she’s doing it to tick you off, make comments about how cute your husband is and compliment the gf. Maybe she’ll stop. If she cared how your husband feels she wouldn’t have done it to begin with.
You mother in law doesn’t like you
Send her a message and say that if she doesn’t stop you and your husband will have to block her on fb…tell her you havent got time for her games and you are busy being happy with your husband …I have a vile mother in law and we dont want her in our life.
Switch your phone off and do something good for yourself.
Block her. Tell your husband it’s his job to Stand up for you. And that he needs to put her in her place. Ask him how he would feel if your mom kept posting pictures of you with your ex. And ask yourself if you would ignore it or deal with it because it was hurting his feelings. Because if he won’t stand for you he will always be against you and you should throw his ass out. JS.
I think she just likes the pictures of her kid, and doesn’t think an old girlfriend will bother you. It’s his history i don’t see the big deal, especially if y’all are solid
Don’t ads to their pain/ stress.
Post a picture of you and your hubby and label it “We are happiest when WE are together.”
id be the sort to start posting pictures of your husband and your mother together on his social media accounts- possibly with tags like “my hubby thinks my mom is the Best Mom ever”, and blasting her page with them too (or even just pictures of you hugging/cuddling/kissing him…) but thats just me…
Is it memories from like formal or a event ? If so then I’d say no biggie but I wouldn’t be happy if it wasn’t to do with a event/milestone
Can she not crop photos? It sounds like she’s got a problem and needs to grow up.
The mil liked the other one better! Let it go
Girl she needs a life. Buy her some puzzles and a checker set.
Why hasn’t your husband said anything to her? If he won’t do that, why want him anyway?
Sounds like my MIL!
Don’t let people rent space in your head for free send her on
Like it or not that was his life and what made him who he is for u. You are being petty. Get over it.
Just don’t do anything. It hurts people more when you ignore them she is a bitch and stay away from her there’s no point in trying to be friends if she does this sort of thing .
Eff her…block that lunatic and don’t give her the time of day, unless she is apologizing for her horrible behavior. Cleary sounds like she doesn’t deserve either of you…move on and be happy, that is the best revenge!!! I’m very sorry you’re going through this, that sucks!!
She’s doing it to get a negative reaction.
If you ever need to react, say the same kind of thing that your hubby did: yes, he’s finally found the best!
Maintain a united front, and don’t allow her gaslighted cause you two to have problems (())
If they’re not terribly close, those pics may be the last ones she took of him. Perhaps they’re cherished memories from a time when she was closer to her son, and she’s sharing them out of nostalgia, or in an attempt to connect with him over memories…
Or maybe she’s just a bitch who’s using them to needle her daughter-in-law. Idk
Yeah that’s rude as hell! I’d snap. My boyfriends mom has nothing to do with me or my baby. Isn’t even friends with me on Facebook. Yet she is friends with his ex and ALWAYS likes all of her post and photos. I think it’s bcuz they’re both fat lol.
Your husband should say something as it should bother bother him more than it bothers you. As for the monster in law… we’ll block the bitch and keep her out of both your life’s. Neither of you need someone trying to cause issues or drama in your marriage. My mother in law is not really part of our life’s. Rare phone call when my husband calls his young half siblings and that’s it. He loves her but loves her from a distance as he doesn’t need the drama of it all. Your marriage is between the two of you and if she can’t accept that your together and her son is happy then she sure as hell doesn’t deserve to be in etiquette life’s. As for photos well… just post your own of how happy you are. X
When people go low you go higher, show your happy on your social media, show it doesn’t affect you, make little comments or like her posts saying yes he was cute she will hate it if you act like it doesn’t bother you. Be the bigger person and don’t let a negative person being you down.
Kayla Ryan…of course the MIL is interfering…showing fotos of her son and his ex at every opportunity…is bloody blatant and rude and ignorant…how do you think you would react if that was you in her position…
Well obviously she’s the one with the issues period. He really should say something in the Mother-in-law needs to stop… Or be eliminated… But it sounds like she’s eliminating herself anyway
That mother is in love with her son and she is jealous that he chose you over her
Your husband should tell her off. What wrong with the idiot husband?
Make a bunch of reactional memes out pics of both of you together to use in the comment section. Like “nice pic” or “cute couple”.
Block the wench !! That’s all you don’t have to speak to her! She want to hump her son or what
Just a bit of a bitch. I would be pissed off too. But do not let her rock your boat
Not worth it♡
Sounds like she doesn’t like you. She is being disrespectful.
It is time for your husband to step up and tell her to stop. Cut her out of your life and see how she reacts to that
Maybe she losing her mind…?
Put photo of you 2 humping. “#MINENOW” Then block her
Post pictures of adult diapers and tag her…
Who the **** took over this page
Unfollow her, or block her.
Block her & move on.
Block her stay friends but block her
Unfollow her, best thing you can do. Her posts are not adding to your life so why continue to see her posts. Give yourself a healthy break. Do not give her the power to uoset you.
I would just have him speak with her
Unfollow the insensitive old hag!
Ignore her childish acts
Start taking pictures of her when she’s not looking her best and post them and tag her
Flood you an your husband’s pictures all over than forget it an go on like you don’t even see any of her post because as long as u an your husband have a good relationship that’s all that matters
No. You are definitely not overreacting!
“mom always liked you best” The Smothers Brothers Tommy
This is totally inappropriate and plain weird. You are right to be annoyed.
We all come with a past. All the pieces and parts of that past are us who we are. Those exes helped shape your husband into the man you fell in love with. We can erase the past. Maybe try telling mom if she ever sees those gals to thank them for dumping him and helping to make him perfect for you. Maybe after a few times she’ll give up.
I am trying to see this from all 3 prospectives. The DIL is hurt and angry… as she should be. The MIL is either upset that the son chose her to be with or she simply misses her son. And the husband, who maybe has his own issues with mom. The only thing I would suggest is blocking her from social media. If she is really trying to upset the two of them (or one of them), the posts will stop because she won’t be able to reach her targeted audience. I would keep moving on with my life and not let it bother me too much. If your husband is truly happy, you both won anyways!
Apparently she’s not well I would just ignore her not worth hurting yr happiness block her so u don’t see any of her foolishness
Sounds like hubby needs to take the bull by the horns and tell mom to knock it off with the disrespect. Kinda wondering why it doesn’t bother him, cause that level of disrespect and vindictive narcissism should at least hit the “concern” level on the radar. Concern enough to give her the talk and then the block.
She shows all of his growing up time. Moms do that when they are proud of their son’s. Maybe she thinks you don’t like her because she brags about her son. Do you even try to talk to her about her and how happy you two are. Be nice, no rolling of the eyes. Take her out together for dinner. When she starts about the past , change the subject to something in the present. Like new pics of your lives together, things you do together. Bring your phone with new pics on it. Talk about how handsome he is, and or he looks like his mom too, with a smile on your face not forced. BE NICE. Take the time , and she will like you. Call her, ask her how she is doing, Ask her to come over for dinner at your house, and just be nice. We all have a past or we wouldn’t be here. Let it go. I don’t understand why she is pushing the both of you away unless she is sick and it is starting to show on her. Stop assuming things , like she doesn’t like you.