Ur sister in law wants to do it let her put it on for u n hubby nvm what she wants
every child is a blessing to be celibrated
Have a shower! Celebrate your baby n let your friends n family show their 
love!!!
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You cannot please some folks no matter what you do, if you have someone to have it, go for it.
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Call it --Celebration of New Life , (gifts optional) or a get together to-- Welcome a new Child, (gifts optional)!! Would love to see all of you. Just suggestions and I wish you a happy parenthood!
Have it anyway she don’t like it she don’t need to come
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Mother-in-laws are designed to fck with their daughter-in-laws and break them down. Have your baby shower. If it were me…I’d save her the “embarrassment” and not invite her. You’ll have more fun!!! I’m a btch, though!! 
it’s a celebration - people who don’t want to celebrate don’t have to come!! it’s a very happy time for you and your friends!
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Absolutely have the shower! It’s to celebrate the birth of your baby, she sounds more like a monster in law!
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If someone wants to have a baby shower for you let them it’s not like you’re asking for the gift she is asking for the gifts for you because it’s a new baby and a beginning of a new family, Everyone’s excited for you and wants to be there . if your mother in law is not going because it will make her feel uncomfortable it’s her choice not to go and share in this happy evevt
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Baby showers and wedding showers are a celebration of the event and has nothing to do with your financial status. Your MIL should mind her own business and allow your family & friends to give you the gifts as a token of their joy for this occasion. Don’t worry about her liking you, it’s her son that matters.
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Baby shower is to celebrate the soon to be Mama and their baby. I have never felt “oh they are having a baby shower they must be broke”! Wow! doffr3emt mindset i guess💖
Its a wonderful celebration about what is soon to be coming. Do not make anyone make you think otherwise. You prego mama and your baby certainly deserve to be spoiled💖
Forget about her, it’s you special moment. Enjoy it. Let her be entitled to her opinion as that’s all it is…her opinion. Congratulations and best wishes for you all.
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having a baby shower i feel is up to the person whom is having the b aby - if your friends or friends want to give u a baby shower - let them , it’s always nice to have something new for the baby and mom to be! you never know what a baby shower and god will have waiting for u ! honey i would say go for the baby shower - AND NO IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT U R POOR -
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Have the shower. It’s a celebration
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Mother In Laws are wild, man.
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honey what u could also do is have your baby shower - and 2-3 days have your mother-in-law over to celebrate the new arrival before it’s born - this way u won’t be affending your husband’s mom!
Shame on her. Yes a baby shower is important. It is a big step being a mother. Everything is just so expensive. Wish you well and hope you get your baby shower.
It definitely isn’t! I had a baby shower and told people not to bring anything just to come celebrate- they didn’t listen of course but still that’s not at all why everyone has them
It’s a celebration for baby
Ask a friend to host your shower. You can pay for the refreshments. Mother in law doesn’t need invited.
Have the baby shower but don’t invite her. Or, if you do, give her a “special” gift that will make her feel super bad
It’s ur day not hers
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Well I heard baby showers are only for the 1st child. However that being said, I didn’t get one at all and I only have 1 child.
I have had four kids and never had a baby shower I so wish I did though you’re celebrating the creation of life tell Karen to sit her judgmental arse down and be sure not to invite her lol
Have your baby shower! If she has so much money she should buy everything the baby needs!
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Don’t worry about the MIL, ITS NOT HER LIFE! She sounds bitter that her son is happy and not up her bum anymore. Have the shower, live your life unapologetically, and to you and your husbands standards, not your MIL’s.
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Definitely have the baby shower, it is to celebrate you and your baby, nor to placate her. Others attend to show how happy they are for you, your mother-in-law doesn’t have to attend if she chooses not to. Don’t let her spoil your day of fun and happiness. Your husband should realize this is for his baby, how others are welcoming his new addition to his family. It has nothing to do with how well he provides for his family. Others brings gifts after the birth when they visit, what is the difference. It is a CELEBRATION, enjoy…
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Have a baby shower. She already dislikes you. Don’t give her the power. First it’s a baby shower, then it will be something else she doesn’t want you to do. JMO Good luck .
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Have a baby shower! The ones who feel the same will come to it. If they don’t feel the same way then they can just stay away…
Most family and friends I know want to help celebrate the life of a child coming into the world. If someone has an issue with giving the baby something it needs then buy something personal like a T that says I love gma or auntie or something that you want to see them wear or use that may not otherwise get purchased. I went right to “I guess no birthday either” since people buy stuff for the kid…Right??
She’s ridiculous in my opinion🙄
Baby showers are to show love and support of you having this baby. Got nothing to do being broke or not. Rich and famous ppl have baby showers to.
This is about celebrating your new baby. Have a shower and if she don’t like it she don’t have to show up.
Ask your sister in law to throw you a surprise baby shower . She can let her mother know it’s her idea and that she wants to celebrate her new niece/nephew.
It’s YOUR baby and YOUR Shower, not hers!!! She had her turn – now it’s YOUR turn! What’s wrong with your SIL and Husband that they can’t reason with the old bat and tell her to be gracious??? Have your shower, celebrate your child, if she comes okay - if not, it’s on her head!!! BTW, Congratulations!!!
You have that baby shower in honor of the new addition- your mother in law doesn’t have to come she can stay home - you do it with that hubby that’s going to be a daddy for the first time let him experience the fun and the welcome of others welcoming his new addition - stand your ground don’t give into her or have her nasty words get you down - sounds like your sister in law and hubby are happy with it so girl go for it!’ And enjoy 
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The baby shower is not for your mother in law, it’s a time for people who love you to shower you with gifts and you go girl except you sister in law who wants to do it.
PS if you cater to her domination now, it will only get worse.
Let your sister in-law give you a shower. Invite all family members so none are slighted. I don’t like ones that are held in halls or restaurants. In someone’s living room, den or backyard, where all will feel comfy. I don’t like registries at stores but let your sister in-law have a list of what you need. Maybe she could help your sister in-law with the planning so she would feel like a part of it. Don’t think that she doesn’t like you - that hasn’t been said. Maybe she needs to get to really know you better. Maybe she’s afraid that she won’t be a part of her grandchild’s life. Some people will put up a negative wall so as not to be hurt. I’ve lived my life and have seen this before. Call her and tell her that you are on bed rest and why. Ask her what she would like her new grand baby to call her…get a conversation going. Get rid of anyone’s negative comments. Good luck.
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You crazy? Have the baby shower and a big smile and you make your you are enjoying it
Have one with the sister in law and don’t invite the mother in law.
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baby showers are for the first baby in a relationship. don’t listen mil. she doesn’t know what she’s talking about
Just do it. Don’t invite the mother in law and when she has a fit tell her what you were told.
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All over second hand family petty BS…STAY ABOVE the fray…she wins if you grovel in the gutter and try to appease or go head to head…move forward…have your shower and invite as many POSITIVE people around you as you can…this malcontent Mother in-law…and their a lot of them…can either board the happy train or get left at the station…stand up for your right to be unburdened by this family social virus…
MIL needs to get with the program or she won’t be seeing the grandkid.
Go ahead and have the shower. Your mother in law is wrong.
Don’t even worry about the stupid sh!t she says. Baby showers aren’t for “broke people”. They’re a tradition. They’re suppose to be fun. Don’t let the monster in law take that from you from her ignorance.
Ignore the negative words, if you want to hold a baby shower no one has the right to tell you otherwise
Baby showers are to celebrate the new life that you are welcoming into your life.
Honestly I bought most the stuff for my third but definitely loved my coworkers, family, and friends getting items for my baby as well.
Have one and don’t invite her. When she asks why you can tell her you heard that she didn’t believe in baby showers.
You should not worry about what others think and do what you feel. Baby showers are for others as much as you and the baby. I personally love buying baby gifts since I can’t have anymore.
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I think you should have one. My grandson’s wife will have her 3rd soon. They are not broke far from it. But it does give family friends and younger siblings a chance to celebrate the new life and the mother new things for her baby.
Have your baby shower… let her think what she wants she’s going to anyway, baby showers are for celebrating the new addition/s that are about to come into the world and join the family also they can be turned in gender reveals as well so two in one. Don’t let her spoil your happy time because she’s miserable and negative.
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Have a baby shower!!! Showers are to celebrate your new baby and ppl love buying for babies and it’s a time for everyone to get together before the baby comes and have a little fun together!! Your MIL sounds bossy and like she jealous of you!! I would have it and if a shower is going to cause her to “hate” you more then she don’t even need to be apart of anything she should be happy and celebrating with y’all instead of downing you!!!ypu can’t go back and redo it later in life so have it and if she wants to be apart let her if she don’t then leave her out but do it for you, your husband your other kids and the new precious one on its way!! Best wishes and I know you don’t know me and I don’t even know where you’re from but if you was close to me in WV I would def help you have a baby shower!! 
It’s your sister in law doing it not you let her do it xx
if you give up wanting a baby shower and all the fun things that go on in one, and give in to her pressure… you will be doing this same thing the rest of the time you spend with your husband. This is YOUR life and Your Family not hers. she already had hers.
Your mother-in-law is a dumb. Baby showers are a nice thing people do for people they love when they have children. She sounds like a b****. let whoever wants to throw you a shower throw you a shower and don’t invites your mother-in-law lol. When she asks why she wasn’t invited say “bc u said u didn’t like the idea” some ppl are just hateful
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Fuck her and her feelings
Congratulations and do what makes you happy.
Do it ! She’ll find something else to complain about if you don’t so who cares ? It’s your life - make the memories!
Have that baby shower and if your mother in law doesn’t like it guess what, she doesn’t hafta show up
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If someone has a surprise baby shower for you, that you know nothing about,what’s her problem.
Do we u want baby showerd r for ppl to come celebrate a new life u can even put on invite gifts not required if that will make u feel better but ur people will be there for u not because they have to buy u things and so what u save some money in the end … kids r freaking expensive
Have the shower and don’t invite the MIL
Have it. Ignore her. If she is being a negative person you don’t need that. Register at different stores and have the diaper raffle. Enjoying you and your husband day . My daughter’s make very good money and they got beautiful present from there friends.
No offense.
But FUCK your mother in law.
This isn’t about her! Girl, this is about you and your new bundle of joy.
This about your little family!
Should see if you can get a refund on the MIL.
Do not live your life to please a hate filled MIL! It will never end this will only be the first of many. Your husband needs to step in NOW and let his mother know she has hurt you and he won’t tolerate it. IF he doesn’t this will not be the last of the dreaded Meddling Mother In Law Syndrome.
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Yes have your shower, if she does not like u already what’s the difference . With or without the shower she still will dislike u, so have it. Enjoy it 
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Have the shower and don’t invite her.
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Actually, you don’t give yourself a baby or wedding shower.
Have you’re baby shower! It’s what you want. You know your not broke people. That’s your mother in-law way of thinking 
Do what makes you both happy. Please!! 
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have the shower, sounds like you and your husband want it so do what makes you happy, you can’t please everyone so do what you guys want, better to ask forgiveness tHAN asK pemission, YOU GIVE INTO HER AND SHE WILL KEEP TRYING TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF,
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Don’t waste your time and tears on toxic people.
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Who cares what she thinks, that’s her opinion. Have one and have fun.
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Do it and dont invite MIL sounds like she wont be their to celebrate you and you dong need that drama and negativity
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Not only would I have a baby shower I would have a huge lots of people / decorations ,tons of games in your face baby shower
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Have the baby shower & don’t invite her.
Have the baby shower and don’t invite the mother in law!!! That’s the stupidest thing I’ve heard! My son and his wife are expecting and she has a 10 year old from a previous relationship but that don’t change the fact that’s their first baby together and they will also have a baby shower! My daughter is expecting to and I’m already planning hers! Just didn’t want to step on my son’s wife’s family incase one of them wanted to do hers! If they don’t then I will! You have your baby shower and enjoy it!
A baby shower is for others to show you and your spouse how happy they are for you by gifting you with things you will need. Don’t worry about the mother in law
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What you want. A shower is a celebration.
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It’s only gonna get worse, run while you still can!
Do it, the best decision and who cares. If people bring a gift, it’s a gift. They aren’t looking to spend a fortune, but it will help you out with things.
Absolutely have a baby shower!
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Sounds like she has issues spending a little money on her grandchild. Have your shower and enjoy it! She is the one that has issues.
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Leave the hate behind and do you - it’s a celebration of a new life! Have the shower and enjoy!
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Have the shower and don’t invite her. It’s about you, your husband and a new life you created. Screw MIL.
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Its a tradition…have the baby shower.
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It’s not his mom his with. Jeeze how petty of her to degrade you. Do what makes you happy. And Do Not invite her!
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Have the baby shower - don’t invite MIL though
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She can stay home lol
Have a baby shower!!! Don’t let her try to control you! Sounds like a bit of jealousy on her end if you ask me 
Do what makes YOU happy!
Have your “baby shower”, don’t let a cantankerous, bitchy mother-in-law put you off, and don’t invite her,seeing that you are broke, lazy and whatever else she is accusing you of.
Coming from someone who appeased her mother in law for 15yrs at the detriment of my own happiness and mental health…fuck your mother in law, she had her turn, now it’s yours, use it wisely baby and do YOU not HER 
Good luck and hopefully, Happy Baby Shower 
Go for it. It’s fun with friends and family. Please your self dont worry about what others say.
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Have a baby shower but don’t invite your mother-in-law. Have to start putting what you and your husband want for your life and your child before what your mother-in-law wants.
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Hold your head high & have the shower to celebrate the blessing of the coming of a new child. Your mother-in-law should be invited & if she doesn’t want to attend, pity her for missing out on an important day for your family & her new grandchild. Be bigger than her & ignore her bad behavior. She sounds as if she carries some heavy personal baggage. Good luck during your pregnancy.
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