Its your baby your life she will get over it you enjoy your new baby its your work to care for not hers just dont share lol
Don’t allow your mother inlaw to run the rules in your life. By the sound of it you will never satisfy her. If you want a baby shower DO IT. You married your man not your mother inlaw
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Have the shower! This is about the baby not her!
Have the baby shower. Tell MIL she can come but if she doesn’t that she’s not welcome to see the baby when he/she is born
Have the baby shower
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Do it for you my mother in law said no I’m the mother of three from her son never had a baby shower had to get my babies on own stuff thank God for the agency’s that help
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Wow, I think you should have the baby shower. This is about you and your new baby.
We call second showers Baby Sprinkle and I know alot of people who have them … I would have one if I was you
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have one and do not invite that bitch
have the shower its a great time and so much love is shown, tell mom o law to kiss your arse
Since you’re not supposed to know what she’s said, I’d just let it go. Let her have her nasty opinions. I’d ask SIL to not tell Me anything negative MIL is saying. She’s allowed to have her opjnion…even if it’s wrong 
Do your baby shower, have fun, and try not to let the monster get you down.
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Enjoy your baby shower, it is an opportunity for your friends and family share your joy with you. Just make sure you send written thankyou notes to show your sincere appreciation.
Girl. Have that baby shower
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Have the baby shower. They are fun gatherings. Its like everyone is there to welcome your bundle of joy with a gift
It’s your baby and your life. Have that baby shower and enjoy your self
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You have that shower and have a good time!! The heck with her!
Have the shower. If she thinks baby showers are just for gifts, she’s wrong.
Baby showers are to celebrate your baby with your friends and family, gifts are a bonus.
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It’s your baby have the shower!!!
Ignore this crabby old bat! Have the shower.
To me, baby showers are a celebration of life. Babies are expensive, so the gifts are meant to help you get started. And it’s so that when the baby does come, you have less to worry about and can focus on your baby.
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Tell her her invite is optional if she doesn’t like baby showers!
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Your MIL will not hate you more if you have a baby shower, and she won’t hate you less if you don’t have a baby shower. She has a personal problem that you have no control over. If your SIL wants to throw a shower for your baby, enjoy the celebration.
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Have your baby shower, do it as big or small as you like. Ask for allllll the ish you can think of, and smile and wave when she shows up and tries to take credit. 
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Congrats and well wishes to you and your expanding family.
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Do your baby shower and tell them instead of gift make a donation for a foundation
Your mother in law is ignorant ,Have one! People love helping and feeling like they’re part of your blessing.
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Don’t pay attention to your MIL Let your SIL do it
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Just have it and don’t invite her 
someone said let it go because it is something you obviously weren’t supposed to know… But some of us are petty 
when we find out we’ve been talked about or find out we’ve/anything we do or plan is being judged by someone/others family or not… Doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor, anyone can do a damn baby shower and sometimes they get thrown by friends of those who are pregnant. Family or not/inlaws, this lady needs to shush her mouth.
Don’t let her live YOUR life! I can’t stand controlling , disgusting people. Be happy and have that baby shower for your precious gift from God!
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From the sounds of it there is going to be a point where you are not going to care what a narrow minded woman thinks. Celebrate you and your baby, and have fun. I find older people have a very out of touch view on things to do with parenting. Dont let it ruin you day.
In all honesty have the shower don’t invite her and tell her to go f*** off
Have that baby shower dear they’re for everyone who wants one
Tell her that when gets pregnant again she shouldn’t have a baby shower…but as for you and her son there’s a baby shower invitation coming soon!
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Have a baby shower forget everything else
Have the baby shower!
Have your baby shower and tell him to move in with mammy.
Have the shower anyways? They are a lot of fun
Have the baby shower! It is to celebrate the birth of a new little one. Regardless if you are broke or not. People want to come together and celebrate and bring gifts. Same for bridal showers and wedding registries. It happened to me in this instance. I was asked if I wanted one, said yes of course- my first and only wedding. Created a wedding registry. Doesn’t matter if we are 40yr olds who lived for along time on our own.there were things we wanted and needed, and to be able,to have NEW. Items WE picked out and not our relatives had me downs was lovely! Regardless of other opinions. If you have not a lot of baby things, or you do, it doesn’t matter. And if you give them all away years ago, you have to start fresh, so why not have a party?it’s not like YOU are throwing it for yourself, you have a family member throwing it FOR you. MIL can either come, or not.she is not who matters here! Just make it clear to other family members that if she causes a scene at the shower should she show up, they will not tolerate it and ask her to leave. Nobody needs that crap- I’ve witnessed it at another bridal shower and it was awful!
Why do you care what others say or think 
Personally fuck all those who think they have a opinion on your pregnancy and life. Do what you want, if they ain’t f*cking you, financing you or feeding you, girl bye 
That’s bull! It’s a celebration of a new life and family. Have your shower!
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Your Mother Inlaw is wrong
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Your sister in law sucks for telling you this…she should keep that kinda bullshit to herself. Her mom venting to her should remain private so I’d be super pissed at her for intentionally bringing that drama to me.
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Who gives one fuck how ANY one but you and the father feel? Fuck her. Don’t invite her and when she throws a tantrum asking why…bring your sister in law face to face with her and tell her exactly why. She’ll know the reason AND your SIL will stop telling you this shit because she isn’t expecting you to call her out on it.
You shouldn’t even question yourself. It’s your baby, and if you want a baby shower go for it!
And also…forget doing things that make her love:hate you more. Don’t jump through hoops for her. Be yourself and SHE can decide if she’d like to be a part of y’all’s lives.
Put your foot down now or your in for a lifetime of her bullying and manipulating you and your kid.
Have one and put “we would love to have a traditional baby shower and would love to have you join us in our joy with or without a gift.” And then add a link to your baby shower registry. Then it’s a celebration of joy and nobody is REQUIRED to bring something, but everyone except your mother in law will!
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Have a baby shower. Don’t let other people control your life
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Sounds like your mother in law is a FIRST CLASS KAREN! Do YOU and have your baby shower and celebrate with your husband the blessing God has given you.
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If she doesn’t like for making her son happy… And for giving her all those grand babies… She probably never will. If she’s that negative and judgey… That’s HER character. Shame on her… Baby shower it up!! The baby shower is actually to show emotional support for the mom!! Google it. And too allow family and friends to welcome the baby before he/she comes.
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Every baby deserves to be celebrated! Even if it’s something small. Have the shower, but don’t invite MIL.
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Do it!! People who care about you want to celebrate you and the baby!
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Baby showers are a celebration. Go for it and enjoy!
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If people want to celebrate you and your growing family, then have a great time! Don’t let her stop you from having fun. People shouldn’t feel obligated to bring gifts, but people shouldn’t be deterred either.
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You do you!
Can’t stress while your pregnant. Have the baby shower and be HAPPY
Stuff the haters
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Have it and have fun.
Have your baby shower/ sprinkle let your friends and family that love you shower you with love. Don’t invite her old grumpy self and if she comes then let her be grumpy at a table alone. Enjoy your time!!
Do your shower, but don’t invite the MIL. She sounds toxic.
Baby showers are a way for family and fri ends honor the baby with gifts. The wise men came with gifts for the Christ child. That was a mean remark.
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Have the baby shower without his mom
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R u serious?! I wouldn’t b thinking about the mil!!! I would do what makes me n my husband happy!!! This is your pregnancy n if u want to have a baby shower then by all means have it!!! That’s crazy n unheard of saying a baby shower is for broke ppl!!! Well I guess it’s a lots of pregnant broke ppl n this world bc ppl of all backgrounds have baby showers!!! She sounds jealous n bitter bc she’s not getting all the attention that u r getting!!! Have your baby shower as plan n have a magnificent time with other family members n friends!!! Hope she’s on Facebook n u’re friends with her so she can see all of the nice gifts u n ur baby will receive!!! 
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Tell your husband to grow a pair of balls and stand up to his mother. He should be backing you and tell his mother to back off. It’s his baby too. Have the shower!!!
Your mother in law would be told to shut the f up if it were me. Have a shower. People love babies. You need baby’s stuff. Just do it.
Then tell her not to
Come
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It’s your life now, do what you want
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Have your baby shower! Enjoy yourself, enjoy your life, your husband and kids. Screw what anyone else thinks of you cause that doesn’t define who you are. How you enjoy the relationships you have and to celebrate a new life into this world is NOT for “poor people” it’s thrown for people who are loved and your friends and family want to celebrate that there’s going to be a new life being brought into your family.
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Have it. Just don’t invite her.
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Girl. The richest people have baby showers. You deserve one. Who cares what she thinks
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Your mother-in-law is crazy. It’s more than a baby shower? It’s a celebration with all the people who love you!
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Maybe they are and maybe they ain’t but if she thinks she’s better than the ones that have them she should keep her ass at home 
By the 3rd child you need a baby shower .
Have a baby shower 
Have your baby shower! They are to celebrate you as a new mum (I know you said you have children but each should be celebrated) and to celebrate welcoming a new life into your world! Celebrate and have fun! 
Have your baby shower,
Invite your MIL and leave it at that.
If she doesn’t come it’s her problem
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How ignorant and not true
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Have a baby shower, it won’t change her opinion of you if you don’t have one. She doesn’t like you baby shower won’t change it. You might as well have fun with those who are happy & excited for you.
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Mine hated me at first, as I stole her baby " only child" nothing was good enough, after our first child it got better, She will come around eventually it’s your life make it the way you want not your job to make her happy.
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Well I think a Baby Shower would be an awesome way for family and friends to celebrate this coming baby. As for “Monster in Law” and her unkind hateful remarks, you can choose to let this affect your well being in knowing it isn’t true, or dwell on it. Husband needs to step up, and straighten dear ole mommy out…Your Sister in Law needs to give “Monster in Law” a choice in attending this shower, or stay home. Along with a strong warning not to spoil it for you…So enjoy the moment…
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Your MIL is a bitch. Have a shower. Husband better tell her to change her attitude.
Have it and invite her, maybe because of her stuck up ways she may have never been to one? Show her that it’s not just for the gifts it’s about celebrating ur new baby.
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Have your baby shower!
Stuff what she thinks!
Your mil sounds like she’ll always have something to complain about. She will never be satisfied and don’t you bend over backwards trying to make her happy because she won’t be.
Live your life how you wish.
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She sounds like she’s already made her opinion of you. Some people are just judgmental and toxic no matter how great you may be towards them. They aren’t worth your energy trying to please them for nothing. No one sane will judge you for having a baby shower. Live your joy and if people dont like it its their problem. Show your current children and upcoming child…the healthy way to live if for yourself and for the people who care for you and your family not that judgey catty woman or types like her
So thats why megans famious friends threw her a shower before she and harry hand their little prince than hey…
Rich or poor enjoy the baby shower and celebrate. Congratulations!
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Its not her baby shower. Tell her to mind her business and if shes going to be like that tell her not to come. Problem solved
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Millionaires and Billionaires have baby showers. Ex: Kardashians. So, your mother-in-law is very much mistaken.
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She doesn’t have to participate!
You do you, honey!
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Have your shower! There is no reason not to. Hey if we’re a case of you being broke, the Kardashians must all be broke because they all had baby showers!!
Have your baby shower and enjoy every minute of it. I would suggest she not be invited and what she said is totally wrong I had baby showers for all three of my daughters and it is just a tradition not for only “broke” people. She sounds like someone I would stay away from.
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have the baby shower but do not tell her about it and ,eave her out od thing on family plans U plan pn doi mg or having then when she ask u why she was not tat the baby shpwer tell her what u heard bit not how told u then tell her what someone told u that she said about u , if u do nothing it will just keep on and on un til u hater her guts ect so get out in the open either now or when she ask why she was not at the shower, Just speaking from a friend said lol what to do what to do i know been there most ppl have
That choice is your and your husband’s
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I had a baby shower for each one of my four kids! I feel like the showers were a celebration for each of them!
Then have a gender reveal!!! Who is she to tell you anything??? Mil or not!!!
She’s just trying to manipulate you. Do what you want for the baby. Let your friends enjoy celebrating the baby with you and show their love for you and your family. 
Baby showers are to celebrate the new/soon arrival… Celebrate your new joy and congratulations!!!
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A baby shower is to celebrate a new life. Do it and celebrate your new baby. Don’t invite her
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Lesley, my feelings exactly. People who come will be delighted to celebrate with you. It isn’t about money. Continue to be respectful and pleasant to your MIL. Her true colors will show and yours will glow. Congratulations. Have a wonderful tim at your shower. PS get pleanty of rest before and after.
Its not about her. Its about you.
I wonder why your sister in law felt she needed to tell you what your mother in law said. If she hadn’t told you, you would still be excited about the shower and going forward. I would ignore what your sister in law said, and act toward your mother in law as if you never heard her statements. People have lots of opinions, but you don’t need to carry them, especially if they are hurtful. Ignore the mean-spirited people in your life and focus on what brings you joy. Good luck!
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