Have your sister-in-law give the shower! It won’t matter, she doesn’t like you anyway
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A baby shower is to celebrate a new life. Also to help the parents to be. Not because they are “broke” but because having a baby is an amazingly overwhelming experience and by having a shower for the new mother we are able, as her village, to take some of the stress off of her shoulders. So we can allow the new father one less thing to worry about.
Your Mil doesn’t like you already. If you don’t have the shower she isn’t magically going to like you. So let Sil throw the party and enjoy it. She’ll feel the same way about you anyway.
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Have the shower! Celebrate the new life of the baby. Your family and friends want to celebrate with you.
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Ouch! My brain hurts reading that! Baby showers are for poor stupid people? Seriously!? That’s new.
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Maybe your mil should stay home than 
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Have your baby shower and have fun. MiL dosn’t have to attend.
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Have the baby shower sounds like a jealous MIL to me!! It’s about your family not you mother in law!!!
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You’re having a baby shower and she is not invited!
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Have a shower most mother in laws are evil regardless of what you do. Just do you and gave fun she’s gonna comment on whatever you do
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Showers are to help the people you love enjoy the coming baby with gifts!
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Baby showers are a time for family and friends to come together to celebrate a new life. It isn’t limited to people with specific tax brackets…Maybe I’m petty but…Easy fix tell her she is too rich to come to your shower. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
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Wow. We all know how expensive a baby is. Especially now with inflation. It’s to help new parents with the quarter million dollar human they just birthed. Have a baby shower. It’s not your mother in laws baby.
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Pfft your mil sounds like. B!!ch. it’s not for broke people who can’t afford anything. That’s the most close minded ignorant thing I’ve ever heard.
Have your baby shower! And don’t invite the mil. You deserve it at least once right?! Screw what that old bat thinks.
It’s to get together with family and celebrate the new life that’ll be coming into the world and the family. And if she’s going to think and be like that then she can just stay home on her own and miss out on the celebration. You do what YOU want to do not what others reckon you should or shouldn’t do.
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Have your baby shower to celebrate the beautiful new life that God is blessing you with sweetie. God blessed the Virgin Mother Mary with the most precious baby that came to save all of us and in a sense she was given a shower with gifts brought by the Three Wise Men. 
You poor thing having a mother in law like that my mother in law doesn’t like me but doesn’t bother me at all I only care how she treats my kids she won’t even visit if I’m home that’s how silly the situation is, don’t live your life around your mother in law just do what makes you happy
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Really have your. Aby shower enjoy have fun you and your husband deserve it It’ll be fine when all see the ew wonderful gifts mom dad and baby get to enjoy
Kiss you mother in law on the cheek and turn the other ear… Baby Showers are to celebrate with your friends the coming of the new baby.
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Have the baby shower… the more control you give her now the more of it you’ll lose to her over time… hubby’s on board then you’re good to go!
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Have one, fxk what ur MIL says, stop being a kiss ass. The more you do in favour of her the more she’ll expect.
Your sister in law is rude for telling you. Mother in laws always have sh*t to say. Ignore it as best you can. Have the shower. Get the stuff you need. One day you should say to her ‘oh I feel sorry for my father-in-law. He had to work so hard to support you’ 
. Or something along those lines. Dish it back!!
Have the shower your MIL doesn’t have to attend if she don’t want to.
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Then just don’t invite her.
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Have a baby shower. Don’t let her control your happiness.
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If it wasn’t the baby shower it will be something else. And honestly why did the sister in law say that to you?! Not that Im defending the MIL but I’d rather not know what was said.
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Aunt Jill , well said !
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It’s not up to her. Every baby should be celebrated. If a baby shower offends her then she has problems way beyond anything to do with you. Instead of worrying about offending his mother, your husband should be defending you and telling her to quit saying crap about you.
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Screw that beotch. Who cares what she thinks. This is your happy time. She doesn’t like it then she shouldn’t be invited. Too many people think that toxic people get to be toxic to them because they are family. No if they are toxic then don’t let them in your life.
Forget about mother-in- law…have the baby shower…you are your own person…I’m hoping that you are…
Being on bedrest is SO rough! You definitely didn’t need to know that your mother-in-law made these comments. While that was horrible of her to say these things it was not very thoughtful of your sister-in-law to tell you about it.
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Your MIL sounds like a pearl clutching “see (C) you (U) next (N) Tuesday (T)”!! Celebrate your new baby of you want! She doesn’t have to participate if she doesn’t like it!
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Do it. Trust me, she not gonna like you anymore if you don’t have one. In fact she will dislike you just as much, not matter what you choose to do. Listen to hubby and do what makes you happy… stop trying to please your MIL she’ll never be satisfied
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Wow she sounds horrible baby showers are to celebrate the life of a beautiful precious innocent baby don’t listen to her let your sister in law throw you a baby shower if mother in law doesn’t come who cares probably will have more fun without her praying everything works out for you
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Have the baby shower and tell the mother in law if she don’t want to injoy it then shut the hell up and get in her place
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If she doesn’t like u it’s not because of the shower.She’s got other issues her son needs to put her in check …. Have ur shower !!!
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F her!!! Have one …and don’t invite herrrrrrrrr
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Have one and let her miserable ass sit at home by herself.
Do you believe its for broke people? Thats all that matters… congratulations and all the best by the way. Live by your truth, do not get caught up in other dramas… you got better things to do than that… like have a lovely baby shower 
have hosted and had one myself and makes for awesome memories… piece of advise, note down what and who gave hahaaha i got mommy brain and lucky a friend wrote it down for me:wink:
Your mother-in-laws issues are really not about you but they are about her. Don’t own them. Baby showers are for anyone who is having a baby. It is a wonderful and exciting way of sharing this wonderful time with friends and family. If she is a wet blanket she should just hang out with her own friends.
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You are with HIM not his mother. If she has such an issue she better not play shocked when she just isn’t invited!
Mother in Law’s have a place, yours MIL doesn’t understand her place. Since I have 8 children, I have 8 sons and daughters that I love like my own children. I am not perfect but my roll I do understand. Show up, shut up and be their best cheerleader! I don’t always agree but I do my best to be positive! Have the shower! You deserve to have an enjoyable time! Invite her! If she shows up or not that is her choice! Enjoy celebrating your new little ones life! Bless you!
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Tell her to get,over it.Let sister in law give it anyway. Ask your husband who he sleeps with. He needs to man up and tell his mother to leave you alone 
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She is a bitc# and always will be. Start as you plan to continue…IE enjoy your life.
Thank your sister in law for hosting your shower. Let her know that you will understand if the mother in law doesn’t want to come!
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Have the shower. Screw her and what she thinks! I just had a baby girl last year after not having a baby (I have two older girls) in 6 years! Didn’t have anything left from them. Then turned around and had another baby this time a boy 2 months ago and had another shower. You get to have a shower.
And we are not “broke”
To each their own. Look at you not do it because someone won’t like you. So what if she doesn’t? Still wana impress someone who speaks ill of you.
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Screw what that cow said
You go ahead with your baby shower
But don’t invite her
Just have it celebrate the baby coming and after a hard pregnancy it will be fun x
everyone and their mother (cept your mother in law) has fucking baby showers.
Have the shower. Celebrate the baby. Don’t invite your mother in law she will be a party pooper! Enjoy your baby and congratulations !
Have the baby shower. It is a time to celebrate. And people want to celebrate with you.
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yor not related to your mother inlawjust go aheasd this is you and yor husband not her good luck go for it
Have it , invite her, then it’s up to her if she wants to come.
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Do not let her ruin this for you.
Definitely have a baby shower, it’s not about her and what she thinks
Oh too bad the mother inlaw doesn’t like you etc. Go ahead an have the baby shower an remember the saying- a son will ‘leave’ his mother an ‘cleave to his wife’…
Have the baby shower and don’t invite the old shrew who cares what she thinks
Just have your baby shower! It’s completely acceptable and so much fun…
What a load of rubbish. It’s a lovely time to get together with your nearest and dearest friends and rellies and celebrate your baby. I love the tradition! And they can be as laid back or fancy as you like.
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Do the baby shower. F*** that hag.
Have the baby shower give the mil and invite then it’s up to her to show up or not … but enjoy your baby shower regardless… and you on bed rest is ensuring the safe arrival of the baby so.i would just disregard what your Mil says and enjoy your pregnancy journey with your husband and family who are supporting you both
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It’s a bit of fun and people like getting baby gifts for their friends and also like being a part of it all. Do it xx
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Have the baby shower and enjoy YOUR day. I would let MIL know you’re aware that she doesn’t agree with baby showers and that you completely understand that she may not want to attend and to not feel obligated
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Have one and do not invite her.
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Girl! You celebrate your precious family and this beautiful new baby! If she dislikes it… She doesn’t have to come!
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Your baby, your choice and it’s a lovely day for you and all your guests.
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Have the baby shower, have fun and don’t invite her
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DON’T INVITE the mother-in-law( so as not to offend her!)!Have the shower for sure!
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Have that babyshower it’s not for people who are broke its a celebration of a life coming into this world bugger what she says you have that baby shower and if she doesn’t want to be there or have nothing to do with it then that’s fine ,don’t let her dictate in what should happen ,maybe she’s just jealous well that’s my thought anyway xxxx
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Have one so many people came to myn my best friend made my cake we played games it was a great day
Your sister in law probably shouldn’t have told you what she said. Ignorance is bliss. Enjoy your baby shower
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Have the baby shower!!! My husband and I are not broke, and we had one. It’s a time to CELEBRATE new life, you and your baby!!! Every baby shower I have been to, it was never because they were “poor” or “broke” and it was a pity thing. It was there’s a new baby coming- let’s help mom out and give her items so she doesn’t have to stress about getting them herself.
good luck mama.
Just fyi my MIL didn’t come to my shower, and that’s okay. We had a great time, and we were surrounded by people who loved us. Worry about taking care of yourself and that little baby. Not about ignorant people.
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Do the baby shower. Screw her
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Some people give their loved ones showers regardless of whether its the first or last and its up to whoever is invited to give if they love ya enough God bless
Ask your Mother in law if she actually said that. Do not take sister in laws word for it.
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your mother in law sounds like a sour puss have the baby shower every one does
Fuck it…! If you want one and ur husband wants one… have one…! MIL will get over herself and what her perception of a baby shower is… it isnt necessarily the only one… I had a baby shower to enjoy with family play games and them have a gud day with us getting pissed… their company is all I request… I had all I needed before I was even 6mnths … if people choose to bring gifts thats totally up to them thats awesome… don’t let someone else’s perception of that type of celebration put you off and dampen ur guys shine… its bout you 2 and the baby… first baby together at that… not everyone thinks the same as her… and dont be too worried bout MIL not liking you it’s her problem not urs… 
A baby shower is a celebration of a new baby. It shouldn’t be denied you. Just don’t invite the old B**CH. By the way I’m 70 and still likes a good baby shower and try to think young.
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have the baby shower , its your celebration with your friends and family for this new little 1 in all off your lives,
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Girl have this baby shower! If she gets her way she’ll only try to dictate the rest of your life/marriage. Congratulations! Baby showers are not for broke ppl! It’s a celebration of life!
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You have your baby shower and be happy don’t worry about things good luck
And luck with your baby
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Have the baby shower!
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Have a shower and don’t invite her
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Have your baby shower, and be happy about it , you cant please everybody. If your mother in law loves you it won’t make any difference. When you love someone you want them to be happy. Not control them.
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Do it screw his mother.
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Mother in law is obviously jealous of you and her son’s attention directed for his family, as it should be! Sounds like a personal problem for her! Enjoy your baby shower and the celebration it brings! Congratulations by the way!!
Well, your MIL is unlikely to change her opinion, if there are items you need, go ahead with the shower. If you’re not registered anywhere, recommend gift cards from places you shop. Returning duplicates is a chore. I don’t understand why families can’t just get along. My daughter went missing for 10days and was found dead 8 months ago. Not one person in my family has yet to acknowledge my child is dead. Lesson learned, never expect anything and you’ll never be disappointed. Life moves on.
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I would have a baby shower and make it a point to tell her all the things you registered for and then add, because I’m CLEARLY broke. 
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if you want one , have it…nothing to do with his mum…
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Do the baby shower. Fuck her.
Have the baby shower and don’t invite mother in law
A baby shower is a fabulous memory for you and your husband, if your mother in law is having a sulk and comments don’t invite her along. Let her know how you feel and are hurt in the remarks that she is saying.
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There is nothing wrong with baby showers and as it’s surprise to be fir broke people I know several well of friends who have had baby showers she living in the past and take no notice you gave your baby shower and enjoy every moment at the end of the day she doesn’t have to go to it if she feels like that end of:+1:
Have the baby shower! Life’s to short to worry about what other people think, family or not if you wanna do it then do it!
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Husband needs to support you and your family. You do you.
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That is not right. Baby showers is a celebration. Can not believe she said that to you.
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