You have YOUR shower! Don’t invite motherzilla. Would you have canceled your wedding just cause she ran her mouth? Didn’t think so.
Tell your mother in law to zip it… do what you want girl♥️
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I would that lady say she not invited
Don’t invite her 
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Have the Baby Shower! And if she dosen’t want to go that’s her problem!
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Ignore MIL ! Tell her nothing ! Ask some girlfriends to help you , I had showers with both of my boys and my own mother didn’t participate. Had a surprise one they threw me at work , let your friends help .
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Do not live for people to like you! If someone doesn’t like you that is their problem and their problem alone! Have the baby shower,enjoy it, tell mil she is welcome to come but it’s ok if decides not to. I feel sorry for your situation bc it sounds like you’re in for quite a ride with this woman.
Have the shower and don’t invite her lol
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Have the baby shower. It is for your baby, not that hateful woman.
Baby Shower and enjoy yourself, judgmental people gonna judge whatever you do.
Stop worrying about what your MIL thinks and gave your baby shower. There’s nothing wrong with having a baby shower and even socialites and celebrities do it. Baby showers have moved away from being all about gifts. They are more for celebrating your new baby.
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HAVE that baby shower !! If you let her control this choice she will be taking over everything from here out !
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Have a baby shower. They aren’t for broke people, what an ignorant comment for her to make. They’re meant to celebrate the baby, and if your sis in law wants to host it then she should. I’d honestly not invite my MIL if she said that stuff about me/my baby.
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Fuck her, she’s acting like a cunt. If she feels that way, she doesn’t have to come.
Is she gonna buy everything the baby needs? The only choice she’d have was whether or not she was coming
Have your baby shower !! It’s a celebration of the life you’re bringing in this world - how rude of her to say these things !!
Sis-in-law should throw you a baby shower. Celebrating new baby…If your MIL doesn’t approve that’s on her. You can’t make her like you just go on about your business…
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Have your sister in law throw you one and don’t invite the mother in law
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100% do the Baby Shower!! Your friends and family want to celebrate and honor you and this little human – there is zero socio-economic litmus test for having a shower. If YOU would like to have one – DO IT!!! Let your people celebrate with you. 
She is not going to like you less because you do or don’t have a shower – and if she does that’s on her not you. If she is embarrassed, or what have you, she doesn’t have to come. 
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I’d go through with the baby shower and just not invite her. Hit her with that “baby showers are for broke people and I didn’t want to make you uncomfortable in that kind of setting”.
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Yes yes have a baby shower, I have a feeling you is going to be like that anyway. If you start out letting her rule , it will keep on and on. Baby shower’s are away family and friends get to together and know each other. It is your right of passage as well.
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You mother in law sounds like a peach! Good luck with her 
Baby showers are a way of letting everyone celebrate with you. Have your shower. And start practicing how to not let her her get in your head.
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Have your shower and if she does not like she can stay home
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You better let your sister inlaw through you your baby shower.It doesn’t matter who like it or doesn’t like it.In life you will learn that as long as you and your kids are ok and happy f**k everyone else.
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Hav the baby shower it’s not to get free stuff it’s to congratulate new parents & welcome a precious life to the family the husband needs to stay by his wife the mother will come around if not she is trying to control everyone hav the shower
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If you don’t need stuff for your baby have a baby shower to the max. But have all the gifts be for a local rescue or shelter. Plus by to the max I mean do it costume style and have the women dress like babys, animals their husband… but party down as much as you can just to piss her off and shut her mouth down now. Otherwise she will continue to run her mouth.
Well if that was the case why do famous people have baby showers? To celebrate their babies 
tell ur mil to sit rhe heck down
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He’s married to you, not his mother. He wants to make you happy. Have the baby shower. Your mother in law needs to learn that her opinion is just that–an opinion–y’all as a couple need to establish boundaries with her now, or you will never be happy.
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Have the shower. Celebrate this baby.
Take care of you.
Love your family.
Cherish sis in law
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Have the shower and don’t invite the grumpy old bitch.
Its so she doesn’t have to get you anything
Have the baby shower & don’t invite MIL!
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Mine didn’t do this to us and was excited to help plan ours. However, over the years we have learned to just do what we want and ignore anything anyone else has to say. 
I understand it’s hard to do that straight off the bat just like it was hard for us to learn that. But like… we wouldn’t even be married or have anything we do have if we listened to everyone that told us what to do. I say, if she wants to be that nasty about it don’t invite her. And if for some reason yall just invite her anyway just to keep peace, don’t be afraid to ask her to leave if she starts something. Your baby shower is about celebrating y’all baby and bringing them into the world. Not a place for drama or disrespect.
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Have the baby shower. Don’t invite the mother in law. If she asks, tell her you didn’t invite her because you didn’t want to offend her by having her attend an event she thinks is for broke people. you figured she wouldn’t want to come so you were doing her a favor. 
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effffffff ur MIL. shes jealous and bored with her own life. if your husband is supportive…do what YOU want. the second u start allowing her childish negatively to control ur life…ur done sis
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You’ll never make her happy due to she’s a unhappy person obviously. Have one snyways and enjoy life and just ignore her!!
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Have the baby shower.!
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You have that baby shower and just ignore the rude comments of your MIL. Don’t hate back or anything negative. Be happy and stay true to yourself. Congratulations on your new baby and I wish you both well
Eh… who cares what she thinks? I’d let your sister in law do it
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Have a baby shower, if she doesn’t want to go then she don’t have to go. Or just don’t invite her!
If you want a baby shower then have one. It’s your choice love. It doesn’t matter what people say about you. They are not the ones carrying and raising your kids that’s all you. I didn’t get to have one for my first due to covid and I was very upset. I might have one for this baby I haven’t decided yet. I don’t have any of my baby stuff I gave it to my sister after my son grew out of it since she was having a baby.
Screw them. Have a baby shower! I got enough diapers to last a year. Lol
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Celebrities have baby showers tf lol
Do one and don’t invite her 
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Do a “sprinkle”, invite her. But have a shower, with no invite You do you
Screw your monster in law be and have one anyway. Don’t let her dictate your life!
Tell your MIL to eat one and unless she’s paying for this baby to mind her own 
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Some people are just miserable. Do what makes you and your husband happy and ignore her rude comments. Best of luck to you all and that beautiful baby
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The last 6 sentences is your answer. SIL wants to do it (you have supportive family). Your husband wants you to be happy (he counts most). Do it!
This is my philosophy about family: When a man leaves his home and takes a wife… they become united as ONE! The children between that union become a nuclear family. EVERYONE outside that union becomes extended family. Your MIL may not respect those boundaries and it’s up to your husband to deal with his mother. I understand you wanting her blessing but you may never get it (who knows why).
What’s most important is you and yours from the core out—>> starting with your husband and children. Not everyone gets the same access to you (boundaries). Soak up the love and support you get that flows freely and dismiss the rest. Have a wonderful baby shower! Congratulations! 
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have that baby shower!!!
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First of all
If you feel like she hates tou let it be! Fuck if she hates you more! Shes toxic!
Second. Have the babyshower and DO NOT INVITE HER!
Have the baby shower. She’ll get over it
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This is about you and your family. Have a shower and enjoy every minute of it
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Have one and don’t invite her 
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Have a damn baby shower! Don’t invite her snooty rude self. That baby deserves to be celebrated.
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A baby shower is for anyone having a baby tell your MIL if she doesn’t like it she can stay home …she sounds like a miserable cow
Baby Showers are created to shower the new baby with love and congratulations! 
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Why are you worried what your Mother-in-law thinks. It’s your baby and your life. Live it. If she doesn’t want to be a part of it and have a nasty attitude then that’s on her. Live your life love!
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DO IT, she’s jealous!!,
Tell her ur on bed rest staying home due to dr orders & save ur baby’s life!! & ur hubby won’t let u work!!
Just do it. It should only matter what you and your husband wants. Others opinions need not apply. Don’t invite her
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I’m sorry, in laws are shit. Do what makes you happy. Speaking from 17 years of experience. Don’t miss out on things because of what the in laws think. I didn’t do so much and now, I can’t have anymore, so my one precious boy is my everything.
If you are on bedrest, maybe a shower shortly after the baby arrives would be better. Mother-in-law would have a chance to bond with the new arrival.?!?!?
Have the shower and quit stressing the mother in law sounds like she doesn’t like you already if she is talking down about you sounds like sister in law likes drama take what she says with a grain of salt have the shower your in love with her son not the whole family
Have your baby shower Darling it’s about your new baby and your family ie you your husband and the children celebrating the new arrival,as for MIL if she has nothing nice to say best she says nothing at all.She doesn’t have to like you or you her she’s not married to you.Your happiness is all that matters and you have one life.I would invite her and if she chooses not to come that’s her perogative.I hope it’s a beautiful day for you and you enjoy it and congratulations and best wishes 
Xxxx
Have the baby shower! They are not for broke people they are to celebrate your baby and people want to buy things for your baby let them!!! Your MIL doesn’t have to come 
Id bring up in a conversation how you like the pink/blue color theme “insert whatever rich celebrity” had for thier baby shower everytime you see her. Show her pics of the lavish baby showers celebrities have and ask her her toughts on the colors, ect. Basically proving the richest of people still have baby showers.
Have your baby shower. Baby showers are to celebrate your baby. It’s not your mother in laws baby so who cares what she thinks. She’s obviously not a decent person. Do what makes you happy…
What a bunch of crap ! I know people who are very financially well off and still have showers. Have your baby shower and tell her she wants to ignorant about it then tell her not to bother to come.
Have the baby shower. This is a special moment for you and your husband don’t let someone ruin that for you.
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Have your baby shower she’s going to talked shit matter what just saying
Have a shower & let her sulk
Have the shower and tell her that her that her presence is optional. As others have pointed out, this is sharing love for this new life
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With all do respect, F his mother. Why do y’all care what other people think? Life is much easier and less stressful when you stop caring what people that 1) aren’t feeding you 2) aren’t financing you 3) aren’t sleeping with you - think about you have the baby shower and don’t invite her. Tell her you’re not broke, this is a celebration of a new baby & you don’t need her gifts
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I feel like baby showers are for people coming together who love you, and want to celebrate the life of a baby that they will love, a baby shower where friends and family can bring something small as a reminder of them when the children use the things rich people have them I mean kardashions have them all the time it’s a celebration not a status thing
Do your baby shower. It’s for your baby as a celebration of life family coming together and etc don’t worry what anyone thinks this is for you and the baby send her an invite if she comes great if not oh well it’s your dau
Nothing wrong with having a baby shower. Have one
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Nah, this is such an amazingly happy occasion that needs to be celebrated! Don’t let anybody’ s negativity to place a nasty shadow on your joy! Don’t give so much power to anyone!
Have your baby shower. It is a joy to be able to spend time with friends and family who really appreciate you. If your mother in law does not like it she has a personal problem and needs to get over it. Your husband needs to support you whether he offends her or not. The Bible says when you marry you leave your mother and father and cling to your wife.
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Have the baby shower
Through the biggest damn babyshower humanly possible.
Screw the old hag.
Hell with her. Baby shower if she don’t come! So be it
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Damn, well do your baby shower and tell her she’s not invited it’s only for “broke people “
Do the baby shower. It’s not just about getting gifts. It’s a celebration for the pregnancy. I probably wouldn’t invite the MIL but I would definitely have the shower. And baby showers are not for poor people. And for her to say that was incredibly inconsiderate and hurtful.
Have the damn baby shower. This will start a precedent of you doing what you want instead of listening to her poison. You don’t throw yourself a baby shower. Friends and family do out of the kindness of their hearts.
Ffff his mother don’t even invite her.
Post like this irritate me so much you’re not married to his mother your husband should tell his mother to shut up and mind her business and the sister-in-law needs to stop coming back repeating whatever is said you don’t need that drama if you’re already on bed rest
Have a baby shower & don’t even invite her! It’s YOUR child. YOUR life. Who gives a shit what she has to say? And if it does offend her, oh well. Cry a river tell her
My boss is having her second and she had what is called a “sprinkle” instead of a shower. She can definitely afford anything she needs but it’s more of a celebration of birth, just as one would have a birthday party. Sounds like this woman is judgmental and I wouldnt allow that to bother me. Address the situation with her as an adult and be open and explain how it makes you feel. But most importantly have your dam party 
Tell your monster in law to kick rocks! Let your sister in law throw you one.
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Lol offend his mother.
Have a baby shower.
Don’t invite her. Haha
If this is something that’s gonna bug her, and you don’t want her upset because of a party for your baby and you(not her at all)
you’re going to be walking on egg shells when that baby comes.
it’s your baby, your parenting, don’t let her bully you.
Seriously, I get wanting your in laws to like you,
But stand up for yourself and what you want. Or raising your first baby is going to be hell.
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Stop letting his mother rule you ,have one it’s for your baby
if she’s gonna be like that about it i would be like “so you gonna pay for everything i need then okay🥰”
Hmmmm
I would definitely have the shower.
I’d have an absolute blast too.
Then I’d put the pics everywhere she can see them thanking everyone for their gifts .
Oh …and she won’t be invited of course.
Burn baby burn 
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I personally would call the MIL and address this clearly. Tell her your excited to gather your friends and family and celebrate your new baby. Ask her what on earth gives her the impression that baby showers are for “broke” people because that couldn’t be further from the truth. What a load of crap.
Please do not take into consideration what your mother-in-law says especially if she’s not going to be supportive and celebrate you all’s baby. You do what you want to do and she can either come to the baby shower or not but don’t let that worry you and just go ahead and have your baby shower. Neither of you need to put too much stock on each other’s parents or family especially if they’re going to be toxic and disrespectful you two just do what is best for you to as a family and as a couple. Everyone else can come along with whatever you guys decide if they don’t want to it’s their problem. I have news for you don’t spend your relationship trying to please your mother-in-law we’re trying to get her to like you because the truth of the matter is she doesn’t like like or respect you for reasons that are hers and that’s not going to change no matter what you do so just do what makes you happy and clearly you want to have a baby shower so go ahead and have your baby shower.
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Have the shower and celebrate this baby. Screw your MIL. She sounds like she looks for reasons to be nasty
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No they’re not! That’s just silly.
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Have a welcoming party. Don’t call it a shower. Those who want to bring a gift can. Those who don’t want to, don’t have to. Invite people to tour the nursery, have a name it jar, so people can suggest names, and honor the grandparents on both sides. Also celebrate the baby’s siblings., Draw the family together. Separating everyone over this issue will only bring hardship to all involved.
Have the baby shower. Shame on her.
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A baby shower is for people who want to celebrate a baby and the mother…phoney on the MIL
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