Have it and don’t include her simple fix
Screw her… but usually you don’t throw your own! Loved ones and friends do it for you to gather and celebrate the birth and shower the new parents with gifts of love to celebrate the new birth…,. She is dead wrong and hateful
Doesn’t want to offend his mother? Lol, what!!? Go ahead with the baby shower, this is for you … not her.
My lord, does she have any idea how much it can cost to have the baby shower? Renting a space, invites, food for a large crowd, and games/prizes? Lol. Have your shower don’t invite her.
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Let your sil gift your family with a bb shower invite mil too and maybe include a lil gift for her, and one for each sibling, after all she is getting a new grandchild.
Ignore negative comments unless they come directly from a source.
Build bridges to build a big family.
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Screw the mother…baby showers are to celebrate a new baby…what she thinks or says doesn’t matter.
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Omg smh. Have a baby shower. It’s a celebration of a baby not for poor people. Smh. So sorry you have to deal with that kind of ignorance. Best wishes and congratulations.
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It’s a celebration of a new life. Have the shower
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Baby stuff is expensive. If you have the money great but hand me downs or gifts are so helpful.
I didnt read but the first part of the post. Ignore me.
Let your sister-n-law have you the shower! Celebrate your new baby together and with those that are so excited for you!
It’s a party for a baby. Gifts literally aren’t required. For an occasion. Do it anyway. The mother in law will either get over herself and come, or she can deal with not being part of something for her grandchild. And if her behavior continues of gets worse she can just not be around all together 
Don’t invite the mother in law. It’s your child, if you want to do a baby shower, do it!
What?? Have the baby shower! They are to celebrate new life.
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Have a baby shower. Dont invite her.
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Have the baby shower
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Let the sister-in-law do it. Guess it would be called a Sprinkle now since it is a third child😂 momsie doesn’t have to go! Her loss!
Baby showers are fun! Have fun! Don’t worry about what anyone thinks. 
Well, if it were me she wouldn’t like me anyway because I would show her! I would throw the biggest baby shower that I could, not invite her and send her pictures.
You’re not married to her, do what makes you happy.
Don’t invite his mother?
Take control of your own life! It’s your baby and your family, screw what she thinks!
Oh man sounds like shes scared her baby is having a baby and youll be needing to set some boundaries in the near future
She sounds like nightmare!!! Just have the shower to celebrate your baby,
Your mother-in-law doesn’t have no right to say if you have a baby shower or not. It is your husband’s and your baby. Let’s your sister-in-law throw you a shower you will have so much fun. Congratulations
Have it it’s your life don’t allow her to control you .
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I have never heard such a thing. If you let your mother-in-law dictate this, she will try and dictate the rest of your life. What about your own mother? If you have a living mother and/or YOUR side of the family, who may be wanting to joyously celebrate this new life with you and your family. Your mother in law is petty, and shame on your sister-in-law, who should never have told you such a hurtful thing. She sounds like a pot stirrer. I wouldn’t trust her either.
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Have your Baby shower and enjoy 
Sounds like she’s the broke one who doesnt want to shower her soon to be grandchild and own child with gifts and a party… my friends threw me one …who cares what that lady says …have someone else throw you one
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Have the baby and pretend like you didn’t hear anything. Then she’ll talk shit to everyone else she told and it’ll spark drama . Avoid the drama. If she attends, great, and if not, that’s fine. Don’t react. Mom in laws will say and do lots of things. Your husband will have to speak to her whenever she’s getting over board and you keep attending to your life. But he has to be the one to take care of any issues when they arrise.
Live & let live. Let people carry their own problems. Don’t make them yours. Be happy doing what makes you happy. You only live once. And you & your baby deserve the baby’s celebration of life, that’s what baby showers are meant to be about. Congratulations.
Have your baby shower and don’t worry about what his mom thinks . If you let her take that from you she will continue to run all over you in the future . And congrats on the new baby
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Do it anyhow and don’t invite her
You do want you want anyone else’s opinion shouldn’t bother you it’s YOUR life
She’s an idiot. That is so far from the truth. Let people spoil you and that sweet baby. Having a baby shower honestly isn’t going to make her hate or like you anymore then she already does, she just sounds like an awful person as is. I’m sorry. Just allow yourself to be happy, do it and enjoy every minute 
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Why are you letting her bully you,you worry about this your life will be hell until she dies,Have the shower, invite her but tell her you will understand her not coming.Enjoy your baby and ignore her let your husband handle it
Celebrate your baby, have the shower. Could be bitter cause she’s no longer in child bearing age? 
I mean, I’ve never heard only broke people have showers… what are all these celebs doing then? It sounds like it’s a HER problem. I would celebrate and not invite her.
Let the chips fall where they may. Have your baby shower. Be happy and congrats.
Have the baby shower. YOU control YOUR life. DO NOT let her tell you anything, she had her children now it’s YOUR turn. She doesn’t need to be involved… ESPECIALLY if she’s a negative nasty person.
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She’s done calling the shots sweetheart when you decide she is. If you continue to let her it will stay that way 
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Have the most amazing baby shower ever. If your Mother-in-law chooses not to attend that’s her problem.
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Have one invite her but she starts trouble kindly ask her the leave
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I would do it and she wouldn’t be invited xx
Tell her kiss your ass and have that baby shower
Dont invite this vile woman. You deserve a baby shower, it’s your life, your baby. Do not allow this selfish, controlling,judgemental woman to your well deserved day 
Don’t let her steal your joy. A baby shower is about celebrating the new life you’re bringing into the world. Just don’t invite the hateful hag
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Have one and don’t invite her…. I said what I said if that’s her feeling she don’t have to be included baby showers aren’t for poor people they are to celebrate the soon birth of a child.
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You have that baby shower and be Blessed with every gift that family and friends want to give you…you Don t have to invite her if that’s the way she feels!!
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Do Always what You want, don’t go through life pleasing other people. She will try to control every thing you do ,and she should be shame for talking bad about you.<3.
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Sounds more like the MIL is just a selfish, loveless old gal . I agree with your SIL , you should have a baby shower, and I hope it’s a BIG one !! 
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Oh good lord quit let other people define you… if u want a baby shower then have one, it’s that simple…
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Do it, invite her so nicely, dote on all the cool stuff you get right Infront of her
Not broke people do it because it’s its fun, social and supportive and a way people can participate who are so excited for you and a new one.
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Have the baby shower and celebrate your baby. That is what it is for. If mil don’t like it she don’t need to go.
Have the baby shower and invite her. Either she comes or she doesn’t. It’s your life
Baby showers are not for broke people. They are a way to celebrate your pregnancy and especially your first baby!
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Congratulations & have your baby shower:tada:
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Have the shower & don’t invite your MIL. Put her in her damn place & exclude her.
Have the baby shower! You deserve to celebrate your new baby. I would be leaving her off the guest list though 
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HAVE THE SHOWER!! If mother in law brings up the subject negatively, let her have right between the eyes with both barrels!
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Have your baby shower. We only get one life. Don’t let someone’s opinion you rob you of an experience you desire. She can simply not attend.
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Your mother in law is going to be offended by anything and she is a total bitch. Baby showers are a tradition and lovely. You need to show your mother in law who is in control and that her mouth isn’t going to influence your life and decisions. What a troublemaker she is 
. That’s too bad. You better make sure your mother in law know who’s boss and do it early. Please yourself, follow your doctor’s orders. Ignore her idiocy and gossip. She is totally out of control and hoping she can make you cower and worry about what she thinks. Don’t give her that power.
If you don’t have the baby shower, good chance MIL will find something else to complain about. Do what is right for you and your husband.
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yes rich people have baby showers they just dont invite poor people this is why your mother in law does not know about it she is poor in character and unconditional love, look it up on line and if you are FB friends with her start sharing those photos I mean over load it and you can share with just her and no one else on your friends list. I do believe. so go bomb her page with those rich & famous baby showers…
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The hell with mil lol
It’s a way for friends and family to celebrate the new baby and the mother! I have never heard that baby showers are for broke people. Let them throw you a shower!
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Your mil is a trouble making, backstabbing, opinionated idiot and if you don’t want her nose in your business forever you need to stop her in her tracks from the gate
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Start giving zero F’s about other people’s opinions and do what makes you happy, life will get a lot better after that
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Definitely not for broke people lol we had one and we were perfectly capable (and still are) of affording everything we got at the shower. I would have the shower, you’ll regret it if you don’t. It’s your life, your pregnancy and your happiness. If she doesn’t like it she doesn’t have to be part of it. please don’t limit what you do because of her, you deserve a beautiful baby shower. I’m sorry about bed rest I know that’s probably hard. You’re in my thoughts
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Your MIL sounds like a bitch. The baby shower decision is between YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND. Don’t invite her and definitely don’t feel bad when she comes around crying about it later. F that
If your mother in law is talking bad about you any way, then why skip a baby shower? It seems like no matter what you do, she is going to find a reason to dislike your decisions. Baby showers are to celebrate a new life. People of all social classes have them. Not just “poor people”. Thats the most bizarre thing I’ve ever heard.
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Also does she not follow any celebrity news?? Baby showers and reveals galore!!
I wish somebody had told me this, or that i could have realized this and made peace with it sooner: No matter how many hoops you jump through she will NEVER like you and you will never be good enough for her son in her eyes
The sooner you make peace with this the better your life will be. Live your life for your own joy.
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The only people you need to satisfy is yourself and your spouse. If you want a baby shower, you have one. Don’t ever care about what others think. Live for you and your spouse, and make sure you have fun and do what yous want.
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She’s not giving you the shower, have the shower! It be good memories for your baby to see you happy that day. Be strong and enjoy it.
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Have the shower and don’t invite the witch!
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Have the baby shower and don’t invite her. You are the only one giving her the power to hurt you. Stand up for yourself and also your husband should be standing up for you! This will only get worse when the baby is born if you don’t set boundaries. That is your husband now not just her son. And that baby is yours. Just because she’s the grandma does not mean she’s entitled to your child. Especially when she is being disrespectful to you!
Nope! You better have that baby shower! Forget what she says! Oh, and don’t invite her either.
She seems judgy and jealous lol If you and your SO want to habe a baby shower…
I’m. Not. Gonna. Say. Anything. About. Her. Cause. I’d. Be. In. Trouble. With. FB. BUT!!! She. has. The. Mega. Nerve. To. Say. That. Shit!! Just. Do. The. Shower. “She. Don’t. Need to. Show. Up the. B”#! That’s. Uncalled for
Have your baby shower be your own woman. If she don’t like it she don’t have to go
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Have the baby shower. Your mil sounds bitter and is going to harbor negative feelings towards you no matter what you do. Ignore her and live your life the way you want.
Tell her to buy everything since she ain’t broke!
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Have the baby shower
Toxic people will be toxic regardless of what you do. Do what YOU want and fck what she thinks. It’s your child, not hers. Take it from someone with an extremely toxic ex-MIL! Nothing you do will please her if she’s already made her mind up. Just live your life and do what you and ur husband want to do. Don’t take it to heart!
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Have your baby shower and don’t invite her!
I had a coming home party that was like a wedding. Over 300 ladies attended with entertainment and games and dinner…we all had a blast. Plus i wasnt prego anymore so i danced to sweat the baby fat off…lol…i had a rough pregnancy so baby shower i couldnt do. Do what you want to do…thats what i did and give an invite. They wanna come good they dont thats good too.
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Not a good idea to give in to mil. You’ll be doing it all your life. Stand up for yourself, and ignore her. It won’t make her like you anymore than she does.
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have your baby shower & DON’T INVITE THAT MOTHER-IN-LAW. meanspirited woman…
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A baby shower is a time to enjoy with friends and loved ones while honoring the baby. Definitely not just for poor people. He’ll, Meghan Markle had a shower thrown by Serena Williams (doesn’t get much richer than that). Let people “shower” you and your baby with love. It’s your mil who needs to change her ways, not you.
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Do the fun thing and be good to your Mother inlaw anyway.
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Don’t invite the mother in law 
I’d personally be pissed
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What an odd position for your mother in law to take. Typically, a baby shower is thrown for the mom to be by her friends and family to welcome the impending arrival. There is no socio-economic means test to have one.
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Celebrate your baby together and enjoy it. Everyone has baby showers. It’s a time to gather, to celebrate you and your baby, and there’s nothing wrong with it.
Also, tell her if she’d like to purchase all of the things you’ll need for when the baby arrives, then please do. I’m sure she’ll keep her mouth quiet after that.
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Have the shower. Enjoy the celebration. Don’t give your MIL that power.
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Have the baby shower! I have never heard anything so stupid! Famous ppl have baby showers!!!
Your MIL sounds like a real winner 
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I wouldn’t invite her …
You have a baby shower to celebrate the birth of your child .sounds like a very jealous person …she don’t want you to have it because the party would be about you and your child not her …
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celebrate your babyand have the baby shower.
Ridiculous !!! Mean Lady !
Have the baby shower anyway
Don’t call it a baby shower! Call it a baby celebration!
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A baby shower is to celebrate the new baby and yes, to help them out a bit (imo). If MIL is so hateful, then she doesn’t have to attend.
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