Have the baby shower! If she doesn’t want to participate you probably are better off that she stays home.
have a baby shower and if she does,nt want to come oh well
If you give in now, youll always give in. Do what you and hubby want , shes not the one married to him, you are, its your life not hers! Maybe shes jealous of you because you are the woman in his life now!! It happens!!
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Have a baby shower She will get Over herself .
Go full swing 
may aswell hate on you for something worth doing make a show of it
Have your baby shower! And fuck your mother in law ignore her its your guys’ baby not hers
Sounds like your mother in law is a hateful bitch that needs to get laid. Most importantly you shouldn’t care what she thinks of you, you are married to her son and his opinion of you is the only one that should matter. Throw your own baby shower and don’t invite her. If you want to have a successful married stand your ground now before you become the door mat.
Have the shower. Be happy with friends and family wishing you well Celebrate and have fun. Make sure to invite MIL invite her to help plan or suggestions. Her choice
first off you‘re expecting a child, so there‘s no need to behave like one yourself. you‘re a grown woman that deserves to be respected since you clearly respect others too. secondly you got told your mother in law talked about you so you have to tell her about it and ask whether that‘s true or not so you can have a grown conversation and can clear things out. a baby shower is what you want to do and it‘s a fun thing. IF your MIL really thinks that way she doesn‘t need to come too, that‘s not a problem and the presents you‘ll get for the baby is none of her business also she doesn‘t have to understand what‘s going on in your life, it‘s not hers. but if you‘ll adress the issue you have with her talking behind your back in a proper way you‘ll show her that you respect her few on things and make it clear that nonetheless your a well mannerd adult who can have difficult conversations even if your opinions apart 
it‘s your life and your baby and whatever she has to say is her opinion and should not bother you that much. good luck 
and have fun at the baby shower
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Girl throw a baby shower and DO NOT invite her. Fk that. You better stand up for your self now or you will be mowed over the rest of your marriage by a momster inlaw
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Have the shower it’s not going to change how she feels about you. The gifts you may receive are for the baby anyway regardless of your financial statis and if she feels like this about gifts for a birth what is she going to say about birthday presents. Enjoy a party especially if your stuck on bed rest.
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have a shower its your baby not hers
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Well she doesn’t have to come to the baby shower. Baby showers are actually expensive and a poor person couldn’t afford everything required to throw one. Let’s hope her attitude changes for the sake of her new grand baby. Throw the baby shower. I didn’t have one with my son and he’s 5 and I regret that decision. Each baby deserves to be showered with love and attention. Don’t let her poor attitude influence your decisions. Life is too short.
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Wow she sounds terribly bitter … I had a grandmother like that and I just lived my life despite her opinion! Have a wonderful baby shower and congratulations 
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Have the baby shower
It’s totally up to you, do what you want!
Have the baby shower after baby is born as more of a “welcome to world” baby shower - people will still bring gifts but it will be to celebrate the arrival of baby
Do your baby shower, dont invite her. Her loss.
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First why do you care what your mother-in-law thinks this is your baby and your husband baby not hers have a damn baby shower and less she’s gonna buy everything for you it is now very expensive and another thing don’t call her baby shower there to make her happy call it  Baby announcement shower so she doesn’t get upset I guess I wouldn’t give two shits but OK
Have it and don’t invite her. She shouldn’t mind since she doesn’t think it is appropriate.
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Go ahead and have your baby shower. A baby shower is to celebrate the baby. The Kardashians/Jenners always have baby showers and they are definitely not broke. Please do not give in. If you do that now, she’s gonna walk all over you later. Your MIL just sounds so salty.
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A baby shower is to celebrate the arrival of a new member of a loving community of friends and relatives. Your mother in law is a sad, jealous, vindictive old woman. Ignore her and welcome the new baby with all the joy and happiness you both deserve.
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Baby Showers are so much fun !! Don’t cancel cuz of her, just go and don’t invite her, she will just spoil it !! Enjoy 
Have your baby shower! This is a time to celebrate! Your mother in law sounds like a bitter bitch!
Have a baby shower. It’s not for broke people it to celebrate a new life coming into everyone’s life. Mil will not like you either way. Don’t sweat her thoughts. Do what makes you happy an celebrate the new life coming in this world. Personally sounds like she is just a bitter person. Congrats on the new baby.
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She sounds like a miserable biter human. Have that shower. Being broke has nothing to do with having a shower.
Oh my girl are you in for it when you say he doesn’t want to offend his mother. You should be the only person in this situation that matters. Have your shower and enjoy it (without her)
You go ahead and have your baby shower it is a celebration of the new baby.your mil is wrong to say those things.
A baby shower is a celebration of a blessing. Have your baby shower and celebrate with your family and friends. Sometimes you will come across people who no matter what you do will never be satisfied. This sounds like your mother inlaw. She should be excited about having a grandchild and wanting to celebrate. Congrats on the baby!!!
I’m petty, I would do a full on shower. None of that sprinkle shit. Then I’d make the theme, “broke b¡tches.” Then put on the invitations “Please come support our child and baby needs because we clearly cannot” put the host as your MIL💁🏽♀️
Baby showers are not for the broke. It’s to celebrate the beautiful life you two created. It’s not an obligation to bring a gift either. Don’t let his mom ruin this opportunity and happiness for you.
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Baby showers are to celebrate the joy that is coming. Everyone wants to share in that. Or… don’t come.
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Tell her to shut up and celebrate her grandchild every baby deserves to be celebrated
A Baby shower is for everyone to be happy for you, and get stuff for the baby to Congratulate you xxxxx
Have that baby shower. I know of NO ONE in my life who could afford all that a newborn requires. MIL doesn’t need to be there if she is against having one. 99% of this country has them, ENJOY and share all the excitement with the family and friends who would love to be there. And, CONGRATULATIONS on the blessed event about to happen.
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You don’t need her approval. This is your child and your decision.
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Have that baby shower, she doesn’t seem to get it that it’s too celebrate the coming of the new baby and it lets family and friends be a part of it. Invite her but let it come from the host since they are direct family it wouldn’t hurt for you to sit down with the mother n law, sister n law and your husband and get this straightened out before hand.
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Have a baby shower but don’t invite your MIL.
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Baby shower=showering the baby=celebration! You are celebrating your child coming intonthis world and you as their mofher. If she wasn’t a negative Nancy, she could see that. Have that baby shower. Celebrate your baby. Don’t worry about your MIL, she’s going to have feelings regardless. Don’t let her get in your head and ruin something you want for your child. I’d tell him that he needs to stop worrying about offending her- it isn’t her child and she is a grown ass woman. She can handle her own emotions.
Don’t listen to her I had 2 since we had lots of relatives and wasn’t broke.sometimes you get a gift you may have never thought of or someone made a special blanket.
Have your shower, but don’t invite her.
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You’re not offending his mother by celebrating the life of your own child, his mom sounds like a hater. 
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Have the baby shower, And Hope She Never Talks 2 You Again ,That Would Be A Blessing 4 You
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DEFINITELY have your “BABY SHOWER”!!! Have a blast and enjoy every second of every minute!!! 
Tell your mother in law to wind her neck in. If she doesn’t like baby showers she doesn’t need to attend yours. Don’t let her bully you because she will make your life miserable. I speak from experience . It took me 23 years before I had the courage to tell my m-i-l where to go in short jerky movements.
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Your baby deserves a beautiful welcome to your family and extended family , so as far as your mother inlaw gos any time anyone buys a gift for a child to welcome them to the world is beautiful, she sounds like, a snob and let her know your having one and she is welcome to be there,if you don’t stop it at the gate well maybe there won’t be any birthday partys because it’s for the poor trying to get gifts,it’s a celebration of another year these things make everyone happy and is very good for your child, you can’t cave because this will have bad roll over effects throughout your marriage,she will take over believe me I learned to late,you are a married couple you are your own boss’s you make your own decisions ,after all these years I now please me and she actually likes me now live your life, always invite and if she makes comment you need to politely say please can you respect our wishes and let us learn our lives, god bless you and your new baby and hubby,please don’t let anyone rain on your parade
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A baby shower is not just about getting stuff for the baby, it’s to have your loved ones come and celebrate a new life in your family. People bring stuff to you out of love and sometimes they have personal items like custom items they want to give you.
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Have the baby shower and invite/involve her. She might change her mind.
Just don’t let her mind set ruin your special time.
Have a Baby Shower!!
You need to stop thinking about what she says she wants and she does. Have a beautiful baby shower enjoy yourselves and let her be miserable
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Then she should just buy it all , with that attitude
Girl have YOUR baby shower! She will
Get over it. Sounds like a rude woman anyways!
Baby showers are to celebrate a baby but should be given by a friend or family member not the mother.
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So, all these celebrities who have showers are broke? It’s about cele the baby, not always about gifts. Have your shower and you can invite her or not. But at least you know now how she feels, so you can act accordingly when around her. Believe that people are who they show themselves to be the FIRST time
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Stop worrying about what other people think and just do you.
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Have the baby shower Ive birthed 3 kids and had a large baby shower for all
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Don’t invite her. If she has issues with Baby showers that’s her problem. Don’t let her ruin your day.
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You have a baby shower and enjoy your day. Don’t let her rudeness dictate your life. If she gets her way now she will never stop trying to control your life.
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Is it your mother-in-law or sister-in-law that is stirring things up? She.may be jealous? If you want a baby shower have one. Don’t let anyone add more stress to you. Just let your sister-in-law know that you don’t want to hear any of this.
Get a new mother in law!
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Have YOUR babyshower and make sure she stays far away, simple. Stop worrying about pleasing her, she’s no concern of yours 
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Baby showers are given by a friend or family member. Not the mother of the baby. It is to honor the mother and new baby. If mil doesn’t like you it is going to matter what you do. It won’t change her.
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Don’t let your Mother in law interfere mine did and she found my husband a new wife. Thank what’s best for you and your child
Have your baby 
shower… rename it…“Getting Through the Canal Party”!! Be prepared, I think this is only the beginning of several unpleasant encounters with her!!
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Who is giving birth to this child you or her? I say do what you want because it’s your baby! NEVER allow ANYONE mainly family tell you what to do when it comes to your marriage & your children unless you or your children are being harmed in some way. Good Luck!!
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Have your baby shower, invite her anyway. If she wants to show, she will. If not, don’t worry. It’s a shower for you, your husband, and the baby y’all created. Have fun no matter who is or isn’t there. Also, tell your husband he married you, not his mom so he needs to support you in whatever you decide and not let his mom run YOUR marriage.
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Have the baby shower. Enjoy the happy occasion. You are not lazy. You are under doctors orders to rest. Your mother in law will find fault with everything. Just ignore her. She is just being a snob. You and your family have a blessed time.
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Ummm yeah, forget about this toxic b†**h and let SIL plan the baby shower!! They are for celebrating the new baby!!
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Girl, have a baby shower for that baby. Everyone I know, rich and poor have baby shower. Do not let her take that from you.
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Have your shower, she already seems to have issues anyways, might as well get gifts at least. Plus Kim Kardashian had a baby shower for her 4th baby via surrogacy, last I checked they aren’t broke, so…… no, baby showers are for anyone.
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Tell the MIL to get over her self and grow up and do what u want to do if she don’t like u oh well u didn’t marry her she don’t have to come around don’t worry about her opinion and ur husband needs to inform him mom that she don’t need to be bad mouthing u that ur his wife and soon to be mother of his child
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Every baby every mother deserves to be celebrated. Have the shower if you’re sister in law wants to host it go for it. Do not let your mother-in-law ruin a memory for you and your husband.
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The best thing is get hubby to take his mother out anywhere else whilst you and your sis in laws and best mates all gather for your wonderful baby shower, it’s more about a great vibe of happy expectation for the baby than the gifts and if your Mother in Law feels so strongly, let her put her hand up to buy the most expensive, durable baby items firstly for HER grandchild! You’ll never please her nor measure up no matter WHAT you do, that’s on her. Just be YOU, that’s all you and hubby need worry about.
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Have the baby shower.
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Have your baby shower this isn’t about her this is to celebrate your baby if she don’t like it she don’t have to go
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Y’all I know this kind of MIL. I had one for 25 years until she passed. RUN.
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Baby showers aren’t for broke ppl for god sakes kim Kardashian had this lavish baby shower tell your mother in law to stfu and mind her own damn business…have your baby shower and enjoy your friends and family and who tf cares what she says especially if she doesn’t like you why would you even care what she thought
Have that baby shower! I hope one of your close friends does it for you. If you mother in law doesn’t support it, leave her out of it. Second, why did your sister in law find it necessary to tell you what she did? If you’re having a difficult pregnancy, you don’t need the added stress.
My feeling on telling someone that kind of information is DON’T. If it isn’t helpful, will hurt their feelings or add stress, keep it to yourself.
Enjoy that baby shower and especially that new baby!
Just do it. It’s for the baby not for the poor but it does help either way! It’s celebrating the baby not getting money or present those are a plus to everything. For me it’s about the games and the time spent with everyone else before the mom and dad has their hands full with a baby. If his mother doesn’t like it then she doesn’t have to come but leave it open for her to come so she can’t say you didn’t invite her.
Don’t invite her and make she knows you know…, stop worrying abt who likes u it not…u like u
Its a time to celebrate the mother to be and expecting baby. Screw her and have that baby shower!
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Have your baby shower!!! She doesn’t have to attend if she doesn’t want to!! It’s about the baby!!!
Have the baby shower. You don’t have to please , your mother in law.
Have the baby shower and celebrate your new bundle of joy!
Baby shorts are important for everyone. It brings people who love each other together to celebrate an event to be a positive life changing event. Mother in law sounds like a snob. Ignore her thoughts and if she does not want to participate let her sulk alone and tell her you live her anyway because you love her son.
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let your sister in law do the shower and she doesn’t have to come if she is against it.
Have the baby shower! This is your child, and your future family. Let her be salty somewhere else. If she doesn’t want to come that’s on her… she’s missing out, not you.
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HAVE that baby shower! not much you do is gonna change how you’re MiL thinks of you. Thank God your SiL loves you and wants to do for you. Your Mil will either get over it, or won’t, that’s NOT ON you!. I wish you all the luck (Y) .
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Have the shower, she doesn’t need to come if she is a negative Nelly
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Go ahead and let some of your friends have you a baby shower. Everyone gets baby showers. If they have one sex the first time and have a different sex the second time they have them 2 baby showers. You haven’t had a baby in a long time and if your friends want to have a shower let them have one for you. They even had one for Prince Harry’s wife and they sure are not poor. It is none of your mil’s business. If she doesn’t want you having a shower tell her she can buy all the things you need for your baby and buy it’s clothes as it grows up. That might shut her up.
Enjoy your baby shower. She needs to mind her own business. If you give in to this, she will think she can control you!!!
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Have the baby shower.
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Have the shower a baby is a gift from God and something to be celebrated
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Have your baby shower. Let her be mad. If your sister in law wants to have a shower do it. Invite your mother in law. If doesn’t come that is on her. She can’t say you didn’t invite her.
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Start sticking up for your self have the shower. It is none of her Business.
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First of all, you & your husband both need to have a talk with her & be truthful about everything that she said is bothering you. Baby Showers are not for poor people since my wife has been to many a shower where money is not a problem for them!! She said it is a formal way together to celebrate the birth of your child!! It is both fun & exciting!! I would also say a pray for your mother-in-law…sounds like she needs all the help she can get!!!
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Be careful what you tolerate. Have the baby shower and celebrate your new little one.
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Who care what that old bat thinks. Literally IGNORE HER.
You must have a Shower!
Tell your Mother in Law, its a celebration , 
Showers of Happiness…
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Have a BIGGER baby shower with pinatas and games with tons of food a bill for a photog 
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