Well that’s an odd take on baby showers. Any shower is to help you celebrate your new beginning!
She need not to attend the shower or be apart of any celebration that she thinks declasses her .
Godspeed
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HELL NO DO NOT 
NOT let some salty old woman make you think you don’t deserve a baby shower screw what she thinks and have your shower and don’t I repeat don’t invite her you will regret it if you do because I’m sure she will ruin your day
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Have the baby shower, its nice to see everyone get together for a happy occasion, and it is not to please her, and he will be happy with what you do. So have it and have fun.
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Just don’t invite her
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Your mother in law is a HATER ass Karen.
I would nicely ask your sister in-law to not tell you any of the negative shit her mother says.
Have your baby shower!
Tell your MIL Kylie Kardashian/Jenner had a baby shower, I’m pretty sure she’s not broke! Duh… what a silly comment from her. It’s a celebration.
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That’s only her opinion, don’t let her change yours!
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Throw one just dont tell her if she find out just say something like you weren’t invited cuz we weren’t sure if you would attend a broke person’s celebration 
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Bay showers are a celebration
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Your mother in law can go kick rocks. A shower is to celebrate the baby
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Lol don’t invite the mother in law problem is here period
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Baby showers are Not for poor people. Your mom in law sounds like a we’ll never mind! Let them give you a baby shower… I see one as a celebration! 
enjoy
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Have the shower, she sounds horrid. Let your husband tell her… you do your thing and celebrate that baby
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She must be broke then don’t invite her . This is a happy moment fore you an your husband just wow. My cousin having her first baby and shower in July she ain’t broke what kind of comment is that lol. Don’t let her get you down do you an yours
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That’s alot of crap. Have your shower.
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Have your baby shower.
just have a baby shower and dont worry about your mother in law
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Tell your mother in law to fuck off
Have the baby shower enjoy the celebration and don’t let her ruin it!
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I’m sorry but… screw her. Have your baby shower! If it were me she wouldn’t be invited 
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Girl F**K his mother and have your baby shower who cares what she thinks
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If you would like a baby shower, have a baby shower, don’t let anyone put a downer on your pregnancy. Enjoy the party and social occasion.
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Have the shower & if she hates you more, her loss. I think you’d be better off without her in your life.
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Don’t let her control your life. If you give in now she will realize she can control you and it will never end. Your husband needs to rowand pair and stand up to her. You are the woman he plans to spend the rest of his life with. Not his mother. He needs to make that clear to her. Enjoy your shower!!
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Ignore your MIL and have a baby shower! Its a celebration of life 
Terrible person I feel sorry for her to be that mean
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I hope your Sister in law still gives you a baby shower… I believe mother in law will get over it… I don’t like that she is talking bad about you . I guess she doesn’t care about her Grandchild an extension of her Family… I hope you have a wonderful birth and enjoy what you want to do. God Bless you
I’m a mother-in-law and don’t know where this one came from, but time for her to go back. Baby showers are a great way to celebrate and get together with friends before your little one is born. She has the option of not going and it will be her loss. Enjoy your shower and your friends.
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Have your baby shower and worry about the problem she’s going to create after the baby is born. You need to put her in her place NOW
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After I said everyone gets a baby shower no one had us a baby shower with any of our 4 girls and only my husband’s side of the family had us a wedding shower. One couple that we went to church with did get our last baby a little pink dress. Our neighbor that I grew up by got us a set of pillow cases. That was all we ever received. So good luck on your shower and enjoy it.
Have your baby shower. It’s a celebration for your new baby. So your friends and family can enjoy with you a blessing from God. And invite your mother-in-law too. This is a about you and your baby not her. No disrespect intended.
the shower is a celebration of the baby. Mother in law won’t dislike you anymore than she does now, Congrats on the new baby
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All babies should be celebrated. Nothing to do with having money or not. Have that shower!!!
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She’ll be too posh for an invite then won’t she
Screw her ! That’s not true at all !! It’s a ceremony to honor Mother & Baby !! Don’t you dare let her sh!t on you & her grandchild … If she doesn’t want to be a part of the ceremony that’s her loss but be sure she’s invited so if she doesn’t participate it’s on her not you or your sister !!
A baby shower is a Celebration of a new life!!! Don’t worry about what anyone else says!! Enjoy your shower and good luck on having a healthy beautiful new addition to your life!!
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What do YOU wanna do? Screw what the mother in law thinks…its not her baby…it’s yours…and correct me if I’m wrong but I’ve seen plenty of stupidly rich people have baby showers sooooo
…do it
Have your shower . You baby deserves one . A word of advice . Stop worrying about what people may think about you . Live your life for you and your immediate family , never mind what others think . At the end of the day love yourself . You are the only one to please .
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If it offends her tell her to buy what the baby needs then there wouldn’t be no baby shower…Please yourself & your family…She be negative with anything you do …Never let her walk all over you & don’t start now …
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Have the shower, it’s about you, your husband and baby.
His mother shouldn’t be offended. That’s weird. Have the baby shower. You’ll regret it if you don’t.
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Mother inlaws are here to make our lives a living misery lol especially to daughter inlaws who have children pror to marryimg her son, you must remember there is no love greater than a son and mother love, and trust when you become a mother in law you too will bscome a miserable mother in law lol don’t be offended just roll with the punches
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Have it a don’t invite her. And when she tries to act offended just tell her you heard how she feels about them and didn’t want to make her feel uncomfortable or catch your brokeness.
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Have you a baby shower I had four for all four boys that I had and my mother-in-law had nothing to do with it
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Do your own thing, life is waaay to short to worry about others opinions!
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Have the baby shower. It’s you and your hubby’s baby, not your mother-in-law
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You shouldn’t GAF what his mother has to say. I know I wouldn’t. Have your baby shower & invite her anyways. If she don’t show up then the hell with her. You know where you stand with her. The most part you need to worry about is how she’s going to treat you & your baby when it’s born…
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Tell your mother in law to g fly a kite. Have your baby shower.
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She’s rude and ignorant…a baby shower is to celebrate the coming of a new baby…to shower the baby with tokens of love !!!
Come on !!! Your mother in law should not dictate your life , if she is against a baby shower she can just NOT GO , she already hates you anyway… so fuck her and what she thinks .
Even extremely rich people have baby showers , it’s not for broke people , is a way to celebrate a new life with the person who love you and your family.
So just do itttttttttttt
Don’t invite her, watch her really get mad, as long as your husband loves you & children love you nothing else matters
Have the baby shower don’t invite her she just wants to make you unhappy that is what shower is for things for you for the baby have fun
Who pays the bills in your home? Mother-in-law? I am guessing NO!!
It is your home, your marriage, your baby… Do what you want! If she cannot accept that, it is her loss. But she will get over it. And if it takes time, well so be it.
Don’t invite the mother in law…then make sure she sees pictures of how good it was…have your baby shower sweetheart…we started having them in England 
and they are brilliant…all about the mum to be …good luck and don’t let her dampen your special day
Have the shower and don’t invite her
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Go big and let her go home
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First of all STOP WORRYING,baby showers are great and fun for mom. Who cares what she says!
You should stop worrying about his mom. She’s not your husband and she’s irrelevant. Also, don’t be dumb and invite her to your baby shower.
Whether you have the shower or not will not change her already biased opinion of you
Your mother in-law is negative and opinionated. Have your sister in-law do the shower. Also, ask your sister in-law not to repeat what the mother in-law tells her. Repeating gossip promotes division, which is the last thing to bring into your relationship with your mother in-law. It’s a difficult relationship between daughter’s in-laws and their husbands mother, throughout history.
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Have a baby shower. It’s your baby not hers
No ma’am they are not only for broke people!!
Tell her the Kardashian’s even have baby showers 
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Have that baby shower if she doesn’t want to come she can stay home I have to say I had the best mother in law
Mother in laws CAN be Hard
It is ur baby that you are carrying not ur mother inlaw. It is up to you what u want to do . I am 73 years old and i never heard of people only having baby showers because they were broke. The baby is getting showered with gifts NOT YOUR MOTHER INLAW. I have been to many many baby showers. Your mother-in-law does not like u and probably never will. There is nothing u can do about it. Let your sisterinlaw give u the baby shower and be sure ur mother inlaw gets an invite. If she comes fine thank her for coming. If she does not come say nothing to her. If u start allowing ur mother inlaw to run ur life now you will have an awful time for the rest of your life.Best of luck to u and your family.
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Have a baby shower & don’t invite your mil
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Have the darn shower if you want to! It’s your baby, your business! Mother-in-law would definitely NOT be on the guest list!!
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Prince Harry’s wife flew to NYC from England for her lavish shower.
Have the baby shower and tell her she doesn’t have to come if it offends her.
Oh noooo it’s not for broke parents it’s showing support and welcoming a miracle
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Your life your baby , enjoy having your baby don’t let her take your joy
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Baby shower is a chance for family and friends to show support to the expecting parents, to create loving memories of the special time in preparation for the miracle of birth 
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You do what you need to do. Lots of people have showers even those with “money”. Her generation may have done things differently but that’s her deal not yours. She can always not come as well if she’s feeling whatever about it. Enjoy yourself.
Have the shower!!!
Have the shower. Screw her. She sounds snooty, toxic, and judgemental.
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To offend his mother… wtf
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Baby showers are for anyone that wants to come. It’s not for broke people.
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Go ahead with the shower it’s not her decision . Her option is all that it is.
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Have the shower, don’t invite the mother in law. It’s a celebration not a charity event🙄
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Ummm so who is having the baby!?! You or your mother in law?!
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Have the shower, get a corsage for your MIL , make her feel special and a part of the festivities, introduce her to everyone and enjoy yourself.
Baby showers are given with love and it’s your baby not hers. Trust me when I tell you that if you start focusing on her wants you will end up very unhappy! Life is for living, not for dealing with drama.that isn’t necessary, you are being blessed with a child, enjoy this time and your shower and simply send her a card that says… I understand you have different ideas about baby showers than I do,.but it is OUR baby and we want to enjoy having people around us that want to share in that joy,.thus we are having a baby shower. If you feel so strongly that it’s for poor people and you can’t enjoy it with us, then we will accept that and enjoy it ourselves.
You have the shower and forget her and when she comes around to see her “new” grandchild hope she has a gift since she wasn’t at the shower.
That’s bs…its for family and friends to welcome a new life into the world! Have the baby shower!
Why would your sister in law tell you that?
You should do what makes you happy. If you’re agonizing over this and the baby isn’t even born yet it’s gonna be a long, miserable relationship with her. So go ahead and decide now to make yourself and your baby happy despite what anyone says.
do what u want not what ur mother in law wants forget her and DO UR OWN THING HAVE A BABY SHOWER
I have never heard that before.
Is the sister-in-law your husband’s sister?? Let her have the baby shower and she can decide whether she wants to invite the grouchy grandma. I wouldn’t worry about making sure she is part of the baby’s life.
Bullshit, a baby shower is a celebration for your new arrival, she doesn’t have to attend and it’s really none of her business…
HAVE THE SHOWER!! ENJOY YOUR DAY!!! Block out the negativity
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Alot of people must be broke in the world then ! 
thats rubbish if you want one dont be put of just dont invite her if thats her attitude
I always thought baby showers were a chance for family and friends to get together to celebrate the new baby coming and also show support with gifts/items/money if they’d like to. No Offense but your mother in law sounds hateful for no reason
Don’t invite her or even tell her about the baby shower. I have 3 kids and had a shower each time. And especially b/c you are basically starting over and need everything. Baby stuff is not cheap!!!
Have the baby shower. Your baby and your life. Congratulations!
GIRL HAVE THAT BABY SHOWER SCREW HER!!! you’ll regret it in the long run if you don’t
I always think of a baby shower as an expression of joy that you want to share with your family and friends. If your sister-in-law is still willing to do the shower, invite those you want and also your Mother-in-law…it can be her decision if she wants to come or not. And try to ignore comments…there will always be comments. This is for you and your husbands first baby together. Glad he has also welcomed your first 2. Rest and keep you and that baby well.
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If your sister in law wants to give you a baby shower than have one. Your husband should tell his mother to back off and that it’s none of her business. Then he should tell her If she comes to it than she had better behave her leave. I know what it’s like to give away everything than discover your pregnant. A baby shower would be fantastic.
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Have you watched the Kardashians? They are incredibly rich. They have baby showers for there family like 100’s more rich families. For F!@$ sake the first lady probably has baby showers. The reality is she is trying to find reasons to make you look bad, and cant find much so she comes up with the most dumbest and ridicolouse shit. Like baby showers are for the poor wtf no its to gather family and friends and celebrate the baby you created.
I’d say do the baby shower and not invite her do to her poor attitude. I don’t have a relationship with my mother in law because of how she talked about me when I first met her. If your sister in law wants to do the baby shower then let her. And your husband needs to get over “hurting” his moms feelings. It’s not about his mom it’s about you and your husband and what you guys want. If she’s going to throw a fit then let her and exclude her from the baby shower
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