If you don’t go next door and slap those words back in her mouth!! I know something
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I’d go to the neighbors door and ask why they did what the did. Then u can’t get a civil answer then call the police. So if they keep doing this it will be a record on file.
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If I heard that, I’d go out side and say the same thing back at them. It’s mid day and kids will be kids….outside noise is expected at that time of day. If they have a concern they should address it with you!
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Did it work? Did your kids stop fighting and arguing? I don’t necessarily agree with dropping an F-bomb; but sometimes it’s good for kids to get yelled at by another adult that isn’t in their household. It teaches them that not everyone thinks their attitudes are “cute”
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She must be older,the neighbor. I would never say the F word to children. You know this neighbor?
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Sounds to me that your neighbour has finally had enough and is fed up with the noise.
Remember your neighbours have the right to quiet enjoyment of their home and yard also.
Maybe a compromise is the way to go.
Which means your kids need to lighten down a bit and cool some of their behaviour, learn to use their inside voices more, and your neighbour may have to learn to be a bit more tolerant of the sound of children bickering and fighting all the time.
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No one would ever have the right to talk to my kids like that apart from me and their dad.
I would of been banging on that door straight away.
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And this is what is wrong with the world today, maybe they do this everyday, maybe she works night, maybe she is sick, maybe she has asked them not to be so loud, maybe she is facing other problems, maybe she has kids and does not want them to act like that, when you moved in were you advised that you were the only one that counted and could make life miserable for your neighbors? Why not try to get along? You wonder why there is so much bulling so much hate
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The neighbor may work nights and is sleeping or has a sleeping baby or she is sick. My cousins’ neighbors were very loud when they knew her husband was fighting cancer. Who knows. I would ask first, apologize if necessary and talk to my kids about being respectful. They should also apologize, with no ifs ands or buts at the end of the apology. If they need to get that loud maybe they should go to the park. Either way she is an adult and they need to listen to her. You may want to ask the neighbor to refrain from swearing at them but I agree sometimes kids need to hear it from another adult not just their parents. It takes a village.
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Neighbor should address you with their concerns. You should address your children to be considerate of neighbors. Make sure they listen.
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I would confront her about it. If she was having issues with your kids being loud she should’ve come to you and let you as the mother handle it.
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First Put yourself in your neighbors shoes, was the kids to loud and she trying to sleep because of her work schedule, Was she trying to work from home and couldn’t hear, was she watching her show and couldn’t hear it etc… or was she just being a bitch? Good luck 
I would have yelled back “No you shut the F up” 
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Record a tantrum, leave town, play it on repeat for the entirety of the noise ordinance like 8am-10pm I think. Have it turn off like an hour before you return and never speak of it again. If you have any further issues just go on vacation and do it again. Put a camera next to the speaker so you can get a trespass if they get adventurous
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LMAO I dare a neighbor to tell my kids that 
I would confront them. Grown ass adults acting like children themselves:rofl:
Lol! I like your neighbor! Maybe she was sick & tired of hearing your kids yell and scream at each other. I guess she figured if you weren’t going to handle it….maybe she should.
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I mean go see if your neighbor is just having a bad day, if not handle it like adults and tell the bitch not to yell at your kids
Yelling aggressively I wouldn’t tolerate but I also wouldn’t let my child be a noise nuisance to the neighbors either. Could be trying to work, relax or entertain and thats pretty rude to let them yell it out like that. They should have asked nicely, but maki.g the kids feel uneasy with aggression isn’t okay either. I’d have a sit down with all of them.
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I would of told her to shut the f up, but thats just me.
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I would have immediately went outside and said some shit I can promise you that!!
Tell her to shut the f up, they are your kids not hers and they have every right to play, yell and battle all they want as long as it’s in your yard…noise ordinance is 10pm…
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Lol sounds like she did what you couldn’t
Hope that makes em be nicer to each other
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I would definitely say something it is not her place to say anything to your kids and the language
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Sweetie, you said so yourself… you gave up yelling at them. Someone’s gotta do it. They still need to be respectful of neighbors regardless of what time it is. I’d have to say, she was in her right to tell them
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That’s why I can’t live next to a bunch of yelling screaming kids! The lady was probably at her wits end
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Tell her she needs to discuss it with u, she has no right to be cussing at ur kids like that
It’s your yard tell her shut her doors and windows haha
Oh hell no I’d knock NOW
She shouldn’t be using the F word but if they are constantly yelling I could see that being an issue. She should have talked to you first. Has there been issues before with you and this neighbor?
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Hang a passive Agreesive sing on your fence thag says “YOU shut the fuck up” hahah
I would knock on her door for real
Absolutely show your ass. No one is to cuss at your children like that. Except you. Disrespectful as hell and I wouldn’t stand the disrespect.
Use it to teach your kids to be aware of other people. Maybe it will help you in the long run. I’m sure your tired of the fighting, so having a 3rd party say something might give them something to think about.
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Squirt them with water guns or spray them with a garden hose 
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Stay on your own side simple as that
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I would definitely be going over there!! Just say I heard u yelling… what’s up?
omg I remember as a kid our old lady neighbor would go crazy over everything that happened in our yards can not blame her with 8 kids she would bang on the fence and if you want to be petty like my sister and me we made a song up about her bang on the fence after a few hour she gave up and a 6/8 yrs old bet her at her own game lol mind you its better to talk and get a 3 party as a go in between if it happens again
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I would not say anything this time but if it happens again I would tell her to mind her own business my kids are at home
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Yeah she should have chosen better words but at the same time you need to wear ur big girl panties and start disciplining them…be a parent not their friend
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I bet they stfu tho 
She should have asked you nicely 1st but I would ignore it but be outside with the boys so when she does it again you can return with a response
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Get your fists ready.
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You people in these comments are ridiculous
Kids are kids they’re outside
If they were inside you people would be like omg teach your children to use indoor voices
They’re little kids lol
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I would go over there and tell her not to swear at your children If she has a issue she can come to you or your partner. I would be so mad if I was you lol.
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Mayb they’d listen if it’s someone else yelling at them !! Ask her to come over and tell your boys how annoying it is !!
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Sorry, Judy, can’t agree. I always let mine figure out their own problems (within reason) and that woman should never use profanity to children!
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She shouldn’t be cussing them I lived in a trailor park years ago and had two pretty rowdy girls.The elderly lady next door had my girls sitting on her porch in no time.Telling them stories,reading Bible books and always had treats.They were like different kids.They looked forward to seeing her and sitting on her porch.They called her Nana Rose.She made my girls better.When we bought a home and moved away and they got a lil rowdy I would do what Nana Rose did and it worked like a charm.One person CAN make a difference.
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Ignore and have your kids be quietter
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boys will be boys and kids will be kids. pull up your big girl panties and head on over, there is no need to be cursing at the kids, for playing outside. sounds like your neighbour has anger problems
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Kids will be kids. She has no business tell her she is not to talk to your kids that way. That she can let u know next time and hand her your number
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Knock on her door and yell that at her. Or hire an intimidating looking biker to do it…
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Call the cops if she verbally assaults you or your kids lol, its YOUR HOME. FUCK THAT BITCH! If it’s THAT much of an issue then maybe she should move. Good for you though, I would have kicked her teeth in. Kids fight, its part of it. She needs to eat shit and keep her trap shit if she has a problem. If you cant be an adult and be civil then you get the backlash.
she shouldnt be cussing at someone else’s kids. and kids are told to be quiet in the house so when they go outside they should be able to be kids yeah the arguing was prbably annoying but no reason to cuss them like that
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I would’ve told her to go jump in front of a bus!!! Kids have EVERY right to play in their own backyard!!!
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Tell the kids to be louder. There ain’t a damn thing she can do about it.
Or
Yell back and tell her next time she wants to cuss at your kids she is gonna get throat punched.
I believe she should have come to you and said something but at the same time, you’ve given up and maybe she’s just tired of hearing it. Has she said anything to you about it? If so then the ball was in your court and it was up to you to put a stop to it. You need to respect your neighbors desire for peace and quiet, it’s awesome you can tune it out but not everyone can do that. Let this be a clue that she’s fed up with your kids arguing and put a stop to it outside of the house.
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If I heard my neighbor dropping the F bomb to my kids, I’d ask them to refrain from directing that type of language at children. I’d also let them know that I understand their frustration. To be honest, I wouldn’t want to listen to other people’s kids fighting, nor would I want others to have to deal with mine. On the flip side, kids will be kids. They should be able to use outdoor voices when they’re in fact, outdoors. If your neighbor works nights and needs sleep, they should probably convey that to you. That way your kids can still enjoy being outside without interfering with their sleep schedule.
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I’d be at that bit** door. I’d prob jump the fence. Ask what her prob is? They are kids. If she has an issue she can come talk to you not talk at your kids especially cuss at them which is very inappropriate and childish
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Omggg go for gold how dare she I went of went ape s**t
With dignity and grace stay calm and ask Her To Please Do not speak to my child like that. Come to Me I’ll deal with them. Thank You
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They are kids on their own property not hurting anyone you could be petty n call the cops saying she using vulgar words to be annoying or you can get louder put a speaker out there n play it while they are playing I mean they are outside n using their outside voices lol petty won’t get u put in jail lol but throwing hands or trespassing onto her property could.
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Tell her not to use profanity around your children in NO uncertain terms. She can tell them to keep it down but that’s it.
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Give them bullhorns 
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Oh honey I’m going over there and starting all the shit
I had two brothers that did the same but we had no rude neighbors.She shouldn’t be using vulgarity to your CHILDREN!My Dad got the boys boxing gloves and hung a punching bag in the garage.The boys took their aggression out on the bag !If the boys boxed one another,it could only be when Dad was home so he could referee it for safety.It actually worked and their issues diminished !When our son started getting angry we did the same thing hung a punching bag with boxing gloves it works give it a try!?
She shouldn’t have used that language. However she deserves to have some peace and quiet as well. Maybe if they are that loud they should be asked to come indoors. It must have gone on quite awhile and very loud to get that upset.
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It takes a village sometimes lol! If you had given up on it, then let someone else step in. I bet they stopped lol!
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It takes a village sometimes lol! If you had given up on it, then let someone else step in. I bet they stopped lol!
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Sounds like the kids were probably fighting abd she’d heard enough probably wondering why you’re not out there breaking it up. Maybe the kids listens and will stop fighting as much outside… I’d let it go
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I can’t help answer that because I will be in FB jail or real jail 
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Give her a pay check for doing your job for you.
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Dear “OP” please tell your neighbor to come by my house as well… I have some VERY annoying twenty something year olds drinking, partying and yelling in the parking lot outside my door. (My apartments are set up side by side) I have asked them more than once to keep it to a dull roar. Please do not let your kids to grow up and be this ignorant. Tell your neighbor “she is not alone”
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If she doesn’t want to be able to hear other people going about their business on their own property, she should move to the country 
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Call police. If u got good cops. They will be helpful
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Handle your children 1st!!
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Maybe keep a closer eye on the noise level of your kids?
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Kids can be so loud and annoying. I know! I have two of them and tell them to be quiet indoors all the time. However, although not illegal, they need to learn to be considerate of the neighbors and learn how to behave outdoors. Mine dont scream or behave like feral animals outside. Use it as a teaching and learning opportunity that there is a place and time for everything.
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Go tell her you will knock her head off if she cusses at your child again
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Were your kids telling each other to shut the f up? I don’t think they should have yelled at your kids but I also don’t think you should allow your kids to do whatever they want unless it comes to blows. I lived next to someone like that and those little monsters are a nightmare.
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They are YOUR kids in THEIR yard. She has no business doing that.
She’s tired of hearing them bicker too and if you’re not going to parent them she might as well
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Ignore her hun. Ask the kids to play away from her fence, to be respectful of neighbors ( they may be under some strain at home ). Maybe if you know her, you could pop over and let her know. I apologise for the kids the other day.
Are you Ok?
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If you’re kids can’t act civil then they don’t go outside. Your neighbor has as much right to enjoy her yard as your kids do. Their constant arguing is disrupting her enjoyment. Teach your kids respect for themselves, each other & others. It sounds like they haven’t been taught any respect.
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I’m not comfortable with the reaction of cussing out children. I also try my best to keep my children’s noise level low. I would do my best to keep my children quiet but also ask her not to cuss out my kids for any reason she should have come to you to find a resolution to the issue
Buy them megaphones
If they were being a little extra loud, or maybe she isn’t feeling well whatever…that’s not how you address children.
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I wish someone would that be they last time
What happen to playing outside and being able to be loud? Y’all are awful. Kids fight especially brothers. It has nothing to do with her parenting. If it’s the middle of the day she needs to shut the f up.
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Why anyone in todays world would think it’s okay to cuss at a 6 & 9 year old is the problem. But I’m not shocked because that is todays world!!
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Tell ur kids to tell her to shut the f up if she says that to them again 
You say at this point you gave up trying to stop it… so you’ve had years to deal with it, and now you are ignoring it. And you expect your neighbor to do the same?
Maybe someone else telling them, will help you make it stop
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Let sleeping dog lie. Pick your battles. Maybe the kids will think twice about fighting next time.
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By being yelled at by people other than their parents - who they probably feel are always yelling at them - might help them understand how their actions affect others
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Teach your boys to be respectful and not so loud
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I’d have respect for a neighbour for knocking on my door and telling me they had a problem with my children being noisy. If they cussed at my son over the fence I’d be going around and loosing my shit.
Yeah no I would have jumped the fence and lost my shit 
How did your kids react to it? Did they care or did they just laugh or ignore her? I don’t think your neighbor should have done that but if it’s a continuous thing like someone constantly letting their dog bark I can see her frustration. I would use this as a teaching moment to show your son’s that their actions are rude and disruptive and that fighting is ok but sometimes you can over do it and that’s not ok. Just letting kids do whatever they want and not teaching them self awareness or respecting others leads to entitlement and that’s a big problem and adds fuel to the fire. If the fighting is getting that much out of control which it sounds like it is since you’ve said you’ve pretty much given up on dealing with it unless someone gets hurt then maybe something else needs to get done and that’s the bigger picture 
giving up and not dealing with it isn’t going to solve anything. They are kids, you are the adult
Well, seems like a tough spot. Since you said you gave up and ignore it does not mean the world can ignore it.
You don’t know if she was ill, worked an overnight shift, just got bad news, etc…
I’m not saying any of these things justify her using curse words towards your children, BUT she may have been in her lane telling them to shut it.
If the kids are going to argue then they need to play separately. Not only for your sake, and the neighborhood, but also for life because the way they are treating each other and being allowed is showing them a kind of normal- and you don’t want them to be jerks later in life (no offense by that please just trying to make a point).
Probably by the neighbor shouting at them it will make them quit. Maybe you need to thank her for stopping something you couldn’t.
In the end, unless it happens again or something worse is said- let it go. 