My older sister won't stop hanging out with my boyfriend: Help!

Leave your phone on record go out for few hours see what’s saved on your phone.

100% something is going on. Take your baby and walk away

Get a new sister and boyfriend

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Actions speak louder than words…

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Get a grip and dont stand for it. Let them both know you mean business.

He is 100% having an affair

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Your sister has no respect for you nor that man!!!

I say concentrate on ur health. Dumb issue u let God handles. Ur friend is very disrespectful to u.

How long have they been like this. Having a baby wont make it better…

Throw the whole man out xoxo

Thats weird asf! Seems fishy.

Run while u have the chance

Yeah this is a shitty situation and one I know far too fucking well :roll_eyes:

Take a step back
Don’t communicate much
Their Reactions should be your answer! :raised_hands:t3:

Grow up? :woman_shrugging: You’d think she’d be pleased he was getting on well with her family

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Ewwwwwww thats wrong. They doing the dodge 100%

Somebody is definitely a side piece, I just don’t know if it’s you or your sister.

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Your sister is a trader.

Wait until after you have your baby and she gets pregnant he’ll probably come back around to you…

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They re definitely fucking no doubt about it

You are the side piece.

Make her get stuck in the sink or washing machine and see what happens :joy::joy::joy:

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Farida Biba زفيرة نتاعهم :joy::joy::joy:

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You stay with him… don’t be a fool

You’re pregnant, being taken for mug and being gaslighted. Get the fuck out of there.

That’s weird… dump his ass and hers

Deck your sister and fuck the dude off :person_shrugging: they clearly have no respect for you girl. Major red flags everywhere, be strong and let them both go :heart:

Tell your sister to sort her self out. What sort of sister wants to go after her younger sister fella anyway? Has she not got a bloke of her own? If she really cared about you as her sister then she’d understand where you came from and stay well away. Weird.

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Tell him you want to invite sis in for a 3sum. If they both agree then you know they been bangin!

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There is something wrong when your sister and your bf both ignore your boundaries and feelings. It’s time to reevaluate your relationship

What sort of sister does that it’s discusting and I deffo think somethings going on sorry both rats

My late sister and hung out with all of my exes and it was a blessing in disguise.
With her they could do all the things I loathed. Like fishing, video games etc.

In your case. If you have told them straight up you don’t like it then she needs to back off but I think your reading too much into it.
Not everything between male and female is sexual.
Trust issues maybe?
Being pregnant puts your hormones all out of whack.
Maybe I’m different, I couldn’t stand having him around 24/7 , it got annoying.

Your gut intuition is NEVER wrong.

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Cut them both off, move out and think about yourself and baby x

Sorry love but your best without him, move on and your child comes first before that idiot…

Trust your instincts. Sorry to say but they are definitely sleeping together

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Girl if they are doing it to you now can you imagine when you can’t have sex with him :pregnant_woman:because your giving birth :breast_feeding: to your baby​:baby:t2:. They will both bleam you if anything happens between them. If it hasn’t already :woman_shrugging:

Sounds like he fucked the wrong sister

Dump them both and you concentrate on you and baby

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Saw this on red tube

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Yeah they’re at it girl. Leave.

kick your sister’s ass

Na they’re the ones out of their mind. U need a new boyfriend and a new sister lmao

Leave, they are lying.

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Shouldn’t be impregnated by a boyfriend. If he loves you he would marry you and not let you have a bastard.

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Inappropriate…. Period

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Get rid of the bloke

Most likely they are sleeping with each other sorry to say but it’s true. Dump him and disown her. Just worry about the baby and don’t sweat the betrayers.

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No no and no. Smh. So wrong

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if your intuition says its Fuckery, then girl, it is Fuckery…Kick him to the curb

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If they can’t respect ur feelings walk away with ur head held high cuz they will be the ones to regret it. I had the same issue and trust me didnt end well. Ur sister for sure should respect u on it and not make anything harder. If she hasn’t stopped already after talking to her she never will and there is probably more than what u think going on.

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Thats not right urr sister should know bettwr

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I don’t know what you should do but Pray it isn’t right. I was sick for a while and my husband started hanging out with one of our daughter’s like that. It looked bad, and made me feel bad, plus people were talking. Every one told him about it, if I said something he would get mad. Nothing happened inappropriate but it was not right, when he had an accident, she found a boyfriend it broke his heart. Mostly because his accident was to his brain, he later passed from the injuries, but he was crazy about her boyfriend and didn’t know many of us. It is not good. He should be with you or out the door. If you wants her instead be honest, so you are not being put under pressure while pregnant.

Sounds like they will be starting something soon if not already. You need to cut them both off

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Yeah that’s sketchy as hell, why arnt you invited to go with them to hang out? This all around has a BAD feeling in my stomach.

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Dump him n cut her out, (if she was a real sister, she’d be helping you get ready for the baby n be supportive) n it sounds like she can’t get a man of her own so she’s hot to trot after yours. And as for him, chuck him to the curve and the trash man will take him away.
Get an attorney now so when the baby comes you can get the court dates for both visitation and child support AND DON’T BACK DOWN or let him give you some bullshit sob story. (Which he more than likely will) He’s doing this now, trust me, ain’t gonna change. Also be ready for the ever famous “How do I know it’s mine” line, talk to your attorney about a DNA test, it’ll be hard at first, but your baby needs you n you’ll realize that your stronger than you know. Hold your head up high, your little one is going to be your whole life. (Btw, I was unfortunately, married to a narcissist pig n he put the kids n I thru the wringer, but here we are, killin it without him n things couldn’t be better.
Good luck n your gonna be a great mum!!:four_leaf_clover::bouquet:

Trust your intuition!! It’s never wrong girl!! Sad to say but that exactly what it seems…smh!! There should be boundaries. Next thing you know she taken over trying to play wife and mom!!! Look at body language, watch them when they are walking alone!! Or watch when you leave them alone?? You can tell if they are!!! I am starting to dislike Men especially this generation of guys!! Fuckboy fazes, fuckboy mentality, ughh

I would try to get proof so you know one way or the other. I do think.they are out of order though and they should care about how you feel about it

Same thing happened too me x

Name and shame then go