How old are you? Your sister may have ulterior motives but it takes two to tangle. If your mom is around have a talk with her. Some guys just
get weird when their mate is pregnant
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I think you are right find some. One to talk with. Set limits
Sounds like neither of them care about how your feeling and they aren’t respecting your feelings either. I would try talking to them again and if that doesn’t work there’s no way I would keep tolerating that behaviour! If he can’t be respectful towards you then is he even worth having around?
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They’re interested in each other.
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Were they friends before you two started dating? I ask because I married my best friends older brother. My best friend and I hung out all the time. He would come to family events with me cause my boyfriend worked a lot and everyone thought that my best friend was my actual boyfriend. Even his mom would joke around asking him (my best friend) how he let his brother have me. My best friend and I don’t look at each other in any sexual way at all. We still hang out quite a bit and I’ve been with his brother for 20 years now. A male and a female can be just friends. You may also be a little more sensitive because of hormones. Have they ever given you a reason to believe that more is going on besides him doing this ha with her that he won’t do with you? Maybe all 3 of you should sit down and talk. Hope it all works out for you.
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Trust your intuition 100% this is far from okay!! I’d tell them both straight and if they can’t respect you and how you’re feeling about all of this then bye to the both of them!!!
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That’s BS, your sister and BF are completely over stepping. You are not over reacting. They both need to be respecting you and your feelings!
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Ya my first hubby did that then i found out he was sleeping with her
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Nope not right at all… Put ur foot down and if they don’t respect it then kick him to the curb and tell ur sister she wrong wrong fr… Believe me. If he doing things with her that he don’t do with u then nope f**k that
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Girl bye beat ya sister ass and leave him period lol uh uhhhhhhhhhh
Check both of them …i propose violence if they’re not listening…tell ur sister to go home and stop being so thirsty…in need of your baby daddys attention…tell him to find time for you ir someone besiiidddeesss your sister. Its inappropriate…if you feel that way …they both are in the wrong…
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Communicate with him and if he’s not willing to at least change and spend sometime with you and do things together that you will leave because he’s putting your sister above you and your relationship with him.
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Not cool! Let him be with her then!
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Whats the chemistry between them? Does it feel like friendship or does it feel like they are interested in each other. Either way, its wrong on both their parts if you’ve said you’re uncomfortable with their relationship. Im sorry…
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Get away from him/them immediately. After you have your baby beat the snot out of your sister. Wait a week and beat her up again.
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Reality show stuff, sister wives.
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Ive been married almost 9 years now and have two kids together i can tell you my husband is my best friend and would rather spend every boring ass moment with me than anyone else in the world . your man doesnt love you that much and probably likes your sister more . dump him like rotten potatoes and tell your sister shes a slut
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My older sister won't stop hanging out with my boyfriend: Help!
Sounds like your boyfriend enjoys your sisters company more than yours. If you brought it up to both of them and nothing had changed, then there is your answer. You did not state how old your sister was though besides younger. Maybe he enjoys spending time with her but finds you more attractive.
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Listen…
I don’t even want to say it…
But, listen to your gut. You were given instincts and intuition to guide you through life, do not ignore the signs and the feelings. They are manipulating you and blaming your feelings on you. Sister or not, that’s completely inappropriate and not okay. They are both wrong and letting them off the hook is a promise that it will continue.
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That sounds like a bad friend not a sister. I’m sorry, I would take myself out of the situation completely. Just block out the both of them until they understand that it’s really an issue for you mentally and you and baby don’t need that type of stress. Seems very inconsiderate on their part.
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If you have told them both you don’t like them hanging out so Much and they continue to do it major red flag and so disrespectful weather something is going on or not there is a huge issue here!
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That’s inappropriate. Ask HER to stop. She’s your family. Then ask your parents to intervene.
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I just found out my husband was fucking my little sister. You’re intuition is not wrong. I felt the same way about their weird relationship, and it was obviously for a very good reason. And we have TWO kids.
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Big red flag!!! 
it’s hard but listen to that gut girl!
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If your intuition is telling you something is wrong, THEN SOMETHING IS WRONG!
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hes definitely with her in some way I dont wanna out right say it but he is more interested in your sister than you I’d give up and move on it isn’t worth it.
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I had a boyfriend in high school cheat on me with one of my younger sisters. And my first “love” ended up getting my other sister pregnant with her first child. Your guts never wrong. You can cut them both off or wish them the best and move on. You just need to do what’s best for that baby and it seems to me that it’s neither of them.
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It well could be the pregnancy hormones enhancing these feelings however trust your gut put you and that baby first walk with your head held high go get what you deserve x
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You sound young so I’m going to give you the same advice I’d give my younger self. He’s not worth it. Your sister will be your sister forever he’s not going to be your boyfriend forever. If he was then he wouldn’t let her take his time like that. If he truly loved you he would be spending time with you. Leave the relationship. Unfortunately he will probably get with your sister but at least you won’t be wasting your time on him. Life is so short and time doesn’t stop. You will find someone who will give you the time and respect you deserve. I hope the best for you
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Kick them out of your life! So much disrespect. Do it now it will just get worse . And they will start making it like your crazy… trust me
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Be careful my sister stold my boyfriend in 8th grade I was really hurt … it took many years to get over
This happened with my twin sisters. They are 24 . Well one had a boyfriend but he continued to hang out with the other one because je said they were friends. Well my sister lost her vig***** to him then shortly after he broke up with her and asked to date my other sister . The 9ther twin. My sister said no if course but damn the nerve he had blew me away I just couldn’t believe it.
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Ummm it’s crazy to think your own sister wouldn’t respect you….I would feel like shit if I made my sister feel like that
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Listen to your gut. Either way, they both suck for not chilling when u ask them to.
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Your sister should make you feel comfortable and back off. And that’s a red flag no sister should be hanging out with there siblings boyfriend/ husband unless you are around. That’s so odd on so many levels there’s definitely something more going on this is very disturbing. I couldn’t ever see myself hanging out with anyone’s bf alone that’s so weird
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You over thinking it. They probably just have a lot in common and he feel safer hanging with her instead of some other girl. You should have more trust
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He not your boyfriend he’s her now you may be having his baby but this is no never mind for either one of these two they don’t have a concern for you or your child
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Neither one will acknowledge your feelings or show your relationship respect. That’s not okay in any kind of way. I would give them and ultimatum. Me and this baby or my sister and if he doesn’t choose you and y’all’s baby, well then obviously there’s more happening here.
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Whether something is going on or not, there’s a huge issue here that needs to be addressed: their lack of respect for you. It is blatantly clear that neither of them acknowledge or respect your boundaries or your feelings. Address them both separately or together. If need be, being the attention of the issue to your parents, if they are in the picture. If they continue, I would recommend reconsidering the roles they both play in your life. There are almost 8 billion other people on Earth. They can find others to hang out with.
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Here’s the deal. A classic narcissist will tell you you’re crazy for feeling the way you do. Red flag number one. Red flag number 2 is you asked them to stop and they refused. I don’t even talk to other men out of respect for my partner, let alone hang out with other men when he isn’t there. Red flags all over the place. Trust your gut.
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That’s a red flag and disrespectfull towards you from both of them!
He can also refuse to hang out with her. Y’all gonna have to stay away from her.
There screwing each other. Might as well say it to you straight. Leave.
Just straight up tell them to respect your wishes or your done.
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Oh honey child they are definitely up to no good 
If your gut is telling u something isnt right then trust it x
Your sister is probably doing your baby daddy.
I don’t have one of my own around cause I don’t trust
I think they are messing around
Yea thats weird af and a huge red flag!!!
Don’t let them push your buttons:+1: If you think you are right 
Do yall all live together. If so id get u and ur man a place immediately! And i think its very disrespectful of them to continue to do so after knowing that it bothers u. If it bothers u there is nothing wrong with how u feel. Dnt necessarily mean there is something going on but it still shouldn’t be like it is
Girl baby or not, move on…
My sister used to do this. Turns out she was in fact sleeping with him
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Sisters share clothes not men. 
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Welllll. I say listen to your gut cuz that’s def weird and would rub me the wrong way to.
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Never trust any women with your man !ever.kuck her to the curb and save ypur relationship.
Honey, they’re sleeping together.
Their relationship is completely inappropriate and disrespectful… he’s supposed to be caring for you even more while pregnant‼️
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Sister or not id be furious. And honestly its not unheard of for sisters to be shady asf either. I’d just call it out now and say you dont feel comfortable with it and if he likes her so much then he can go be with her!!! Tell her to butt out of your relationship and shes overstepping boundries. Do it now, and if they keep on doing it. Id seriously be suspicious!!! Some females are so lonely they will be eyeballing your life and your man pretending to be your ‘friend’, then once they get the chance they are way to cool with your man and next thing you know they get drunk or something and hook up…seen it or heard of it happening a MILLION times. sister or not!! idk what kind of sister would hangout with her sisters bd/bf like that to begin with…sounds like she needs to get her own life
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Sisters should have that boundary and if not then shame on your sister. She should of said “ I wont do this to my sister even if he approached her. If your sister approached him then remind your sister of the boundary between sisters … good luck! Neither one have any respect for themselves
I don’t like to be the female who says run or automatically assume the worst, but something isn’t right here and both are on the wrong.
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Kick him to the street girl hes not worth your time or energy
She is a shit sister for doing that. She must definitely have feelings for him.
He’s cheating and she’s a shithead that is very jealous of you. Get him for child support and dump his pansy ass
I feel ur pain girl. Idk… hugs
Leave him now. Let her have the trash.
Kesha Steen what kinda sister’s these ppl got bc mine would NEVERRRRR
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Sumpin fishy goin on here…
Yep thr moosing 
get rid of that hoe !!
That’s super inappropriate.
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You have every right to be upset. Why can’t you be with them ?
PS your sister sucks.
Let her have him… U can do better girl… Don’t put urself through no BS !
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Sadly, I’m on everyone else’s side here. This is a huge red flag. Take your baby and run!
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That’s weird af. They shouldn’t be hanging out all the time with you not around. Definitely seems like somethings going on. Or that they’ve possibly got their own thing going on together. I’d get out of there asap, it sucks cause your pregnant but it’s only going to leave you hurt staying with someone like that.
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Dam girl, cut them both off they are 1000093939% shagging and disrespecting you and your unborn baby, know your worth cuz it ain’t to be treated like you are, keep head high and concentrate on baby xx
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Im sorry to hear this, since u are pregnant
Try to understand whats the problem and does he hangout with until late? Do u guys live together? Is he ur sister age!
Next time they going out tell them u coming with and see what happens
If they refuse to take u with them
Dump him & put him on child support so he learns its not a game & free ride!
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I’m best mates with my Sisters fiancé. We used to work together. Call him brother bear. My sister is sister bear. He is just part of the family.
Doesn’t always have to be a bad thing !
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Get out while you can pack your s*** take your baby and go Something Fishy going on here and I know you see it I don’t know why you have to ask Facebook about it you know what you need to do do you get out
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My younger sister did this to me. Turned out she was actually seeing him but I only found out years after I had broke up with my fiancee. What was worse is my parents were aware she was spending time with him an thought I knew but never thought to ask 
I forgave but then other things since happened and turns out they’re all toxic. Can’t always trust your family x
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Urrrrmmmm I’d be like… go have a relationship with my sister and then go find you someone that’s gunna put you first
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Start setting boundaries. Does she come to your house, or call/text? If she comes to your house, tell her she is out of bounds.
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The way you have written this makes me think they are playing you and they do have something going on… Woman to Woman trust your instinct if u think something ain’t right it usually isn’t… Its normally that instinct that’s your 1st sign… If you would feel better having proof find a way to catch them out… Then you will have your evidence and your answer… Or you will have put your mind at peace… Good Luck!!!
Bit out of order really, could you confront them and tell them how you feel about it…
Him spending more time with your sister than you just isn’t right
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Everyone I’ve known someone who’s boyfriend hung out with a female close to the girlfriend alone the girlfriend ends up being cheated on. Not in every case obviously but in the ones I’ve known.
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Cut them both off they definitely doing the dirty behind your back. 
you can do better. And you’ll be a great mama, trust your gut xxxx
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Do you all live together? Were they friends before you started dating?
I have so many questions!
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Sorry sweet but they are definitely shagging… get out be a fab mummy you’ve got this. Xx
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They are both out of order,its nice that they get on but if he is spending more time with your sister and both of them not taking your feelings into account,they should be ashamed.
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Whattttt…. I’d be pissed to! Get him told how weird 
I wonder if it’s something as simple as them throwing her a surprise baby shower and that’s why they’re brushing it off lol. I know it’s happened to me
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This is weird. You’re pregnant with his child but he spends more time with her? Also, when you try to talk to them about it they call you crazy? That’s a little scary. My ex would do this stuff then call me crazy. I got really sick and he took off to be with someone else.
You start being friendly with his best friend. See how he reacts.
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Get the sister on her own and tell her u have been told about the kiss she had with your boyfriend see how she reacts cant look at u ect them u know the truth
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If you try to fix it and it’s not working you allow them…
If he loves you he will come back and If he doesn’t it’s difficult to leave but it’s better leaving than holding on to something that hurts…
For the fact you are pregnant just don’t think about it much just try making yourself happy it’s difficult but try for the love of your unborn baby
He is defo rooting her mate. So to test this theory try rooting him after he come back from hanging out with your sis and if he is floppy that’s your answer.
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Sounds like they are together to me
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How old are you guys, and was this baby planned? He sounds like he,s not ready to settle yet.