I would telly mom he said that to see if that how she feels too.
First step is figuring out if you actually believe him on your momâs behalf. Than take it from there.
Sounds like youâre leaving something out. Thereâs tension, why? Whereâs the conflict you need to give more context
Give them their space. They love you very much but everyone needs space.
Especially if shes always watching your sisterâs kids, she probably just wants to enjoy her home in peace.
If youâre bored during the day, maybe you can help with your sisterâs kids and you could take them to visit your parents once a week? That way your mom gets her peace in her home, your sister has a safe person to leave her kids with, and you arent left with boredom. AND you still get to go visit your parents but without overstaying your welcome.
Either way, Iâm sorry it hurts your feelings but your mama loves you. She just needs some peace and some empty space in her home. And thatâs okay 
Parents deserve to have a life too and may just want to enjoy time together. It wouldnât matter who it was, I wouldnât want someone hanging around regularly. If theyâre already watching the sisterâs kids, they may just want time alone. Visiting to say hello is one thing, to spend your days over there is kinda weird to me.
Sounds like itâs your step dad saying it. He doesnât want you to tell your mom.
You are using them. What do you expect? So rude. You visit parents because you care and to spend time with them. Not to go and do your hair because you are bored. My god
My mum would be sad if I didnât visit
Talk to your mom!!!
Talk to your mom about it.
What about getting a job? That would occupy your day.
My mommaâs house as well as my auntsâ houses were ALWAYS open to ALL the children in the family. We were always a very closeknit family on my dadâs side as well as my momâs side. I would definitely speak to my mom if anyone other than her told me not to come to her house!
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Talk to your mom. My guess is she has no clue what he did behind her back
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I know this feeling. My mom used to keep my sisterâs kids but never mine & I really think it was to do with one of my kids being disabled but who truly knows. Iâll pray for you!. If theyâre gonna be like that, me being me, Iâd probably not see them hardly ever after this.
I think they just want privacy. Maybe they want to have sex or walk around naked without having to worry about having someone around. I think you should make ur place feel more safe and stop going over as much. Let them miss you a little bit
I would mention it to your mom in the most loving way possible. Sounds almost like he doesnât want you there and mom has no clue he said that 
My husband works offshore so the weeks he is gone my mom and I hang out almost daily, unless one of us is having a hard day or just not feeling well then we stay home. Iâm sorry youâre dealing with this. Itâs never easy to be told youâre not wanted around. But Iâd definitely discuss it with your momma and make sure. If sheâs in agreement then she should talk to you about it. Set up boundaries of what is felt appropriate or not. But if itâs what they want then you should respect that.
You should not feel bad going over there. I would never tell my kids to not come see me. My door is open 24/7 for my kids and grandkids.
I would talk to your mom. Chances are she donât even know he said that. Chances are your mom never said anything like that to him.
Also if there ever was a man in my life that said that to my children, he would be gone.
Wherever I am itâs home to my children and that will never change.
Talk to your mama darlin. Talk to your mama.
Donât listen to anyone who tells you that you did something wrong. They are wrong for saying that.
Everyone needs time alone so if itâs a daily thing, I can understand. When youâre there, are you doing things to help them? Are you helping with meals, cleaning, gardening, etc? Iâm not sure how old your parents are but helping them might make things more palatable
My step mom did the same thing to me and my sister. So as of to this day I donât go over there unless my dad asks us to come over. I did tell my dad what she told me and my sister. And its sad my little boy doesnât even know his grandpa.
Tell mom mommyâs never say that to there kids ever in less that mad but thay donât mean it if u any kind of a mom she never said that
If he is your step dad Iâd 100% speak up and say something to your mom. Fuck that shit. No parent is ever going to truly tell their kid to stay away. If he has a problem with it thatâs on him. This baffles me. I am a step mom and i would NEVER tell my child she couldnât come over. Especially if she felt unsafe while being alone where she lived. Iâd pick her up every day personally.
Could really be nothing. Older folks like naps, peace and quiet.
Bring it up to ur mom n then stay away from them
in my experience, learn to live with out them
Step dad ? Heâs not eve ur real dad pffffttttt go right over that fools head and tell ur mother what he said
Creep trying to push u away
Not on my watch 
Id be asking my mom wtf regardless of what he has to say
Talk to your Mom. Anytime someone says ''Dont tell so n soâŚtell so n so
Definitely go to mom.