Get out before you or one of your kids gets hurt. May prayers are with you.
Flee as fast and far as you can. Don’t look back!!!
That is a narcissist. They do not and will not change. Go to YouTube or Tik Tok and lookup mentalhealness with Lee Hammock. He is a diagnosed narcissist and has used his diagnosis to help women find the courage and strength to leave these toxic relationships.
Get out and away from him!
The first sentence has the problem right there in it. Never never move in with someone before you get married, and if you do, absolutely do not have children before you were married! If you weren’t good enough to marry, you’re not good nothing their eyes to be treated with a modicum of respect. What you need to do is contact an attorney, and you need to figure out how to extricate yourself for the situation. You also need desperately to seek professional counseling.
You will never have happiness without having joy. Joy is that sense one gets from living for a purpose, usually God. I suggest that you work on your faith, your family, your friends, and determine a way to leave the situation. I wish you the best
With all that your still with him???
Gabby Petitos story is out there just for women like you. I don’t care how much you love him. Love yourself more and walk away.
This is one of the best posts I’ve read about woman… Please read it completely… it’s worth it…
WOMAN. . . . . . . . .
When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day…
An angel came by and asked." Why spend so much time on her?"
The lord answered. “Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her?”
She must function on all kinds of situations,
She must be able to embrace several kids at the same time,
Have a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart,
She must do all this with only two hands,"
She cures herself when sick and can work 18 hours a day"
THE ANGEL was impressed" Just two hands…impossible!
And this is the standard model?"
The Angel came closer and touched the woman"
“But you have made her so soft, Lord”.
“She is soft”, said the Lord,
“But I have made her strong. You can’t imagine what she can endure and overcome”
“Can she think?” The Angel asked…
The Lord answered. “Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate”
The Angel touched her cheeks…
“Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her”
“She is not leaking…it is a tear” The Lord corrected the Angel…
“What’s it for?” Asked the Angel… .
The Lord said. “Tears are her way of expressing her grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”…
This made a big impression on the Angel,
“Lord, you are a genius. You thought of everything.
A woman is indeed marvellous”
Lord said."Indeed she is.
She has strength that amazes a man.
She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.
She holds happiness, love and opinions.
She smiles when she feels like screaming.
She sings when she feels like crying, cries when happy and laughs when afraid.
She fights for what she believes in.
Her love is unconditional.
Her heart is broken when a next-of-kin or a friend dies but she finds strength to get on with life"
The Angel asked: So she is a perfect being?
The lord replied: No. She has just one drawback
“She often forgets what she is worth”.
This guy is not just abusing you but also the kids …he’s teaching son or daughter what is acceptable behavior that they are expected to dish out and or take in a relationship…. Is this the kind of person you want your son or daughter to become??? You are the one person that they have left to protect them from anyone or anything in this life !!! You knew your children before they came into this world … you put your life on the line to bring them into this world n you’re to continue to do so until they can do it themselves… be their warrior as well as your own !!!
Run before your dead