Tell her fk no sorry bout it ur grandkids need their rooms
Just say No, Go see a Therapist or a Minister tell them to. Call her and explain she cannot come and live with you if you cant say no to her. Why is she coming, let her contact a Real. Estate agent in your area and they can find her an apt. NoT you. If she wants to be near you. Do not let her in. If she is Truly Compassionate and Cares about you she will understand. If she controls you now, and she is not under your roof- (already moving your little girl out if her room) it will get worse once she is in there. You must say No’ for the Childrens sake. If you cant fight for yourself, fight for them. Say no.
first of all ur a grown ass woman put ur foot down…no one should be telling u they are moving in with u without your permission…if u have a good relationship she will understand that u have too much on ur plate right now
No judgement lovely but for your own wellbeing need to learn to say no.
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If she can take care of herself and her pets she is able to find a place and be closer and help you. From her own place. Not add more for you to deal with. If you are close you wont be for long if she is already calling the shot and doesn’t even live with you… there is a good reason daughters move out when the marry. Your husband needs to be king of his castle and she doesn’t feel awkward dictating from outside the castle she will do so even more after she is in it. You shouldn’t feel guilty for having to have your own home especially in a new marriage. If she gets angry and upset about that she will not be understand basic things that will create Bigger problems
Ummm its your house. Say no
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