It definitely could have been meant for her by the universe placing him in your life. You have to ask yourself if you REALLY had feelings for him or do you just feel jealousy that he liked her more🤷🏻♀️
I went thru a similar situation with my oldest daughters dad. I didn’t want him, but I WANTED HIM TO WANT ME. LOL I realized this and I got over it!
Nope. Cut ties 
. Funny your sister took your leftovers
I wouldn’t go until you discuss your concerns with your sister.
If he broke up with you to be with your sister?! Hell nah… I wouldn’t go.
Family can be toxic too, delete.
I’d refuse to go and never speak to her again. That’s just beyond low
I wouldnt go especially if you cant be happy for your sister
Ok so you weren’t the one he wanted go find yourself another to love an move on
Depends on how long you were with him.
Don’t go i feel you i had similar satu tch calmer is a bitch move on with your life look back an see how calmer work you deserve better they deserve each other just watch the space take care you get better 
He is your ex… now your sister’s soon to be husband. And father of your two niece’s or nephew’s. So no matter what you do he will always be apart of your life. So my advice would be…get over it.
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I’m glad some of yall are not my sister. Some lines you don’t cross. If I have boned a man then he is off limits especially to close family & friends & vice versa.
Suck it up. If they’re happy together, let them be. Don’t be jealous just cause he didn’t do that with you.
Get his best friend or family member to go with you as a date.
Darcee Victor Soto this crazy.
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Wtf? What . The . Fuck. What the actual F U C K ??? I- how ? I cannot. This whole post and comment section is a joke right ? Copypasta? Bait ? The amount of disrespect that people put up with for “family”
I could NEVER . Both of y’all dead to me . Call me bitter , call me petty , call me whatever you want . This is fucking disgusting . I could and would NEVER ever ever ever EVER touch a man my sister has been with . Thats fucking disgusting . Clearly neither of them respect you at all and they’re both selfish and nasty . You better stay far away from your sister because when you DO find the love of your life ,clearly she has no problem crossing boundaries that should never be crossed. I hope for you that you find a man that would rash her life and then tell you exactly what she did immediately after , because HE respects YOU . The amount of comments that can relate to this and are REALLY OKAY with it are alarming asf . This literally made me see red . I need a fucking cigarette:eyes: I refuse to believe so many people have such little self respect and that this many people have no respect at all for their family and would actually do this .
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Nope wouldn’t go just make other plans
No. Nope. Don’t think so… I wouldn’t have nothing for either of them anymore… Just my opinion🤷
Fuxk his Dad and make him your stepson 
But seriously do what feels right in your heart
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They have two kids. Move on
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Blood is not always thicker than water.
I wouldn’t forgive her
Wish them well & move far away
Do th right thing now, (go) but leave if u feel you’ll loose your cool. God will bless good choices in th future.(He can heal your broken/betrayed heart too) Be blessed.
I truely believe you can’t help who you fall in love with. i hope it was well after your break up, Even tho you once loved the same guy. He wasn’t the one for you. You shouldn’t matter who is wife will be. Maybe it bothers you because you want to be married? In any case like i said i hope their love came along long after you two were together. Go to the wedding enjoy the family food and fun. Don’t get stupid drunk and them something happens that other wise wouldn’t have happen.
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You broke up for a reason. You need to deal with it and get over it as it has obviously been some time that they’ve been together. Why lose a sister over a guy you broke up with
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You have the right to be hurt when it happened but at which point do you move on and forgive. I urge you to find peace in your heart because it’s clearly been a while now. You got to let it go. Forgive and move on. This is unnecessary pain that you are causing yourself.
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Get over it. He picked her not you. Obviously with 2 kids together. Assuming they are not twins so they have been together a while. Be there for your sister, you don’t have to like your new brother in law. Just put up with him if he hurt you that bad.
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You say he is your ex, so why care if your sister or anyone else got together with him. Let it go. Enjoy the wedding and be friends with your sister. Be happy for her.
I feel like support her. Obviously it didn’t work out between you and the guy but that dosnt mean your sister dosnt deserve happiness no matter who she found it with. I wouldn’t waste time being bitter.
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She will always will have to wonder if he will cheat on her since he did it to her own sister, whenever he does something that he doesn’t do what he says and is late, who is he with will be her first thought . Go have fun, just wait. She is crazy to do what she already did, let a lone marry him.
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I’d pass an send her a sympathy card be cause if he would do it with her he will do it to her
Stay away far away.
I’ve lived a similar situation for decades.Do not make yourself bitter over this. They will never see the pain or ugliness they cause. Only how you are. Let them learn their own fates
Nowhere near enough information here (how long was relationship? Why did you break up? What was sister’s relationship with him prior to the breakup?)
This will likely be an unpopular opinion but under general circumstances I don’t see why a friend or sister dating an ex is any different to a stranger dating them. Even if you love someone, if they don’t love you why on earth would you want them to not have a loving relationship regardless of who it’s with? I could never stop a friend or relative dating an ex, because you never know, they might be the best couple!
Why did you break up? This is all 1 sided. I need more information
No way would i go once a dog always a dog think urself lucky she only has ur leftovers haha 
The whole situation is just gross, why would you want to sleep with someone a family member has slept with? Id tell her good riddance and to have fun with your sloppy seconds, what a little nasty.
Sounds to me like you are being petty.
Now if there had been some cheating involved or he had been abusive/physically hurt you etc then her taking up with him is unforgivable.
Know your own peace, if you cant face their wedding, then dont. Theres kids involved now who are a mashup of your pain in their faces and it’s okay if being around them is too painful as well. Just dont go being in the business of spreading misery because you are unhappy, no one needs to go about life being a black cloud in everyone else’s day.
I say f her and don’t go. Go have fun with some friends or with someone else. They all trash or you could wreck their wedding for the fuc of it. Be petty🤣
Enjoy the free food and drink and the rest of your family. Make her ex your +1.
Family reunions are going to be fun…
They already have 2 kids together. So its not surprising they would get married. Once an ex is an ex I have already moved on. If you don’t want to go to the wedding just wish her well and tell her you cannot make it.