Idk why you’re still waiting. Kick his ass out… Especially if you’re the one already paying for everything and he doesn’t treat your kid good… What’s keeping him there?
Why are you with this guy??? If you really wanted to stand up for your son, you would have never put him in this situation. I’d be damned if anyone treated my kid that way, they’d be shown the door real quick!
Oh mama. You shouldn’t have to do it all. Much less tell him how to treat your kid. I’d definitely put my food down and tell him to contribute all around or he can go elsewhere.
Boy bye (and I emphasize boy here, because your SO is a literal child)!
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Kick him to the curb
LEAVE HIM!! Kids 1st ALWAYS!!!
time for that fool to go. he should have been gone at the first sign of disrespect to your child.
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Get him the hell out of your lives. Hes only going to make things worse when your baby comes. Head up shoulders back you got this
Nope, you should’ve shut the shit down the first time it happened
No way would I let him treat my son like that. He would be gone! Evil cunt.
Nobody comes before the kids … we are their protectors … I’ll fight their own dad if he wasn’t doing right by them … foh
Why you still there? You could’ve done had his shit or yours packed by now.
You identified key areas of concern. Are you okay continuing to live under those circumstances?
Dealt with the same thing. Leave! You and your son deserve better
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He sure sounds like an SO… something else. I’m sorry but it sounds like you and your son deserve much better than that.
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RUN AND DON’T LOOK BACK. If you won’t make a stand for your son NO ONE else will. Allowing him to treat you that way is your choice, your kid on the other hand doesn’t have a choice. If you allow this to continue your son will grow up believing he is less than, and it will really start to show when the new baby arrives
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He’s a lil bitch!! I’d get tf away from him…it WON’T GET ANY BETTER!! When the new baby comes your boy will only be pushed further away by him…if a man can’t respect my children…FUCK HIM! Plz don’t keep that sweet boy in that…he’s only 9…just a baby!! That litterly brings tears to my eyes to even think about how his little heart hurts…he’s human and has feelings and if that pos can’t love your child how tf can he love you. You apparently are all your baby boy has so don’t let him down!! Pack your shit and get tf away from that asshole!! Put your child first!!
I think he sounds like a pos and needs to not have bonus kids
Sometimes men don’t appreciate what they have until they lose everything that brings meaning to their life if his family means anything to him he might change if not your better off without him
As a child (14) that grew up being raised by my moms boyfriend this brings back so many bad memories like one Christmas he spent 300 dollars on his grandkids buying barbie playsets and hotwheels, and myself and my 2 younger brothers were given coats as gifts. Don’t choose a man over your kids.
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Any your having this mans baby why? And you allowing your son to live with a man who treats him like this why? Your living with a man that calls you that why?
I think you need to think about things relatively quickly and make a decision. It is very difficult I definitely understand that and none of us are in your house day to day but when my wife and I got together we had very serious talks about her daughter and that she wanted me to have a good relationship with her. Been five years and things are good and we have come a long way. That attitude concerns me about what life your new child will have too? Maybe counseling idk some very serious decisions and things to think about for you. Don’t be rash but your child is your child and I would never expect a woman to not want the best for her child. I would not even want to be with that woman to be honest!!
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Where,s the mother of HIS kids? I’m glad you are kind to his kids but anybody who is not accepting of my kids is GONE!
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Why is it just now bothering you??? You should have left way before you got pregnant. Tell him to leave. Put your child first.
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Its time for this to be over. It is only going to get worse. All of the kids yours amd his will feel the babys’ presence and he wont be any better to your kids.
He does that, because you allow it. Don’t “about to”…actually DO IT. Leave! That is verbal abuse against your son!
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U allow it sooo💁… Otherwise change yr environment…
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Your last sentence is exactly what you need to do. That man is awful. 
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Id leave his ass/kick his ass out, in a heartbeat. You and your child(ren) deserve better than that. Hes not contributing to the house than he doesn’t need to stay. Never allow someone to treat your child that way, it’s unacceptable.
Your kid comes first.
Maybe some parenting classes and/or counselling would be beneficial.
Your kids come first. You need to be standing up for them. That TX is a form of abuse
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Okay it’s time for him to man up or get the fuck out! He needs to treat your son with the same respect you do for his kids! He lives there makes bills there time for him to pay half and no go blow it on shit that isn’t important to help your family grow! If he can’t then kick him to the curb. Get a DNA test after that baby is born too so he can’t deny that little one. Seems like the type that would deny a baby. Check also to make sure he is not cheating on you with someone from work.
In the case of his daughter why did she call Dad to talk to you and not her own mother? Something just doesn’t add up here with this whole thing.
Sneak out the back Jack
… so he calls you names… treats your kids bad… and you’re asking for advice… Pack your things and get out. It will only get worse
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For the sake of your son, you need to leave. It’s easy for me to say because I’m not there nor am I pregnant.
Time for a wake up! Kick him to the curb now before it gets worse. Your son and you deserve better !
Maybe thats what you should have said to him… Just sayin’ ! He’d be gone from any of my spaces … Period!
No go girly. Your baby comes first and no one should ever make a child feel unwanted. I would give a hug all day every day to any child. Sounds like he resents him for some reason but no matter what it’s your responsibility to protect him and surround him with love.
Nope, sorry. My child is an extension of me. Treat him fairly or I’m out. You do not want your son growing up thinking he is not good enough.
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When my niece asked me about a similar situation with her boyfriend and asked me why he would do this. I answered Because he can.
Hmmm sounds like a hard no for me
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Are you kidding me?! I couldn’t hold back tears for your little boy… I am in shock. I also have a blended family… I would have never allowed it from the start… Let ALONE have a baby with him if he is like that towards “my kids”… I would leave… Talk to him… Tell him why… And leave… Pick your kids over anything and anyone… Sorry your kids have to go through this.
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Why have you stayed this long? You are helping him abuse your son.leave leave leave
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Next time u take out the trash leave him out there too.
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get rid, your son comes first, my son’s stepfather was amazing and didn’t treat him any different to his own two Daughters
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Do it he won’t change
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Why are you even with a Dead Beat Man??
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Get rid of that jerk for your son’s sake and yours. Why do you need him? You don’t! Wake up.
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Are y’all married? If not, then leave. If you have a good support system then you don’t need him forreal. I will be damned if the man in my life isn’t all about my kids like I am. Sorry your going threw a rough time, it will get easier
Never let a man treat your kids badly. Especially if hes good to his own. That just shows he goes out of the way to be nasty to your kids. Id tell him straight, he has X amount of time to start helping pay bills, clean and treat your kids like they deserve, or he can hit the highway. Or just go ahead and send him on. Let someone else take care of him and his kids.
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Kick him to the curb
Simple…
Kick him to the curb NOW!!!
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Nope. Pregnant or not, I’d be so out of there.
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You answered your own question. Duhhh.
But why are you with him please, if you can takecare of his kids {sometimes)together with him and yours better you lessen the burden honey 
get away from him please.The man can’t claim to love you and hate your kids nope.let him go please and save yourself from that stress please
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What they all said ^^^^
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You’re enabling Him
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And u r with him why 
and bow having his baby clearly this has been going on for awhile and you allow it to happen
I’m sorry, how could you have not seen this before you got knocked up by him? Your priority is and always should first be your kids not the urge between your legs. This is all your fault to begin with, for choosing a man first before you kids. Now put your mom panties on and be a mom to your kids and move on. Regardless of your hope and dreams this relationship is and will destroy your relationship with your kids when they get older. You need to move on and away from him period.
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Lady you need to grow a set and put him on the road. I know where you are coming from and you don’t need him
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First sign of name calling and disrespect…bye 
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I’m so sorry to hear your going through this, get out now while you still can
I think you need to reread what you wrote. Cause it is pretty obvious what you should do. What he is doing is not ok. When he chose to be with you and make another baby he chose to blend your family and become a dad to your son and build together. You are supporting him and his kids (when they are there) as well as your own on your income. You do not need him. Your son does not need him.
I know it will hurt because you obviously care about his other children very much.
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You’re raising an overgrown man child on top of the children. He will never change. He doesn’t see you or the kids as equals. You need to kick him to the curb. He obviously doesn’t support you in any way.
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You’re going to end up hating him, hopefully soon! Throw that a$$hole to the curb!
You already know what you need to do … you dont need us to tell u 
You deserve better and so do your children 
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Run fast and far away!!
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I wouldn’t be with someone who didn’t make my son feel loved.
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Your sons comes first. Sad that it has to be said
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I wouldnt have married him. Sooo grow a pair, pack your shit and leave with your kids
Get this guy OUT of you and your sons lives asap
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I would treat him like he treats your son. Tell him I’m going to treat. U like. U treat my son.
Tell him to make like a set of big titties and bounce. You don’t need that dead weight and the emotional abuse he is putting on your son is going to have permanent effects of you don’t show him that it is unacceptable behavior.
I’d leave. Right away.
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Wow, holy shit, get away from him.
How long have yall been together? Between my husband and I we have 6 kids. 3 mine and 3 his. We have no kids together and arent having anymore. We had a similar situation in the beginning but he never called me any names. His kids mother was upset about him living with my kids full time and had mentioned something like “you are being a dad to her kids and our kids see it and it upsets them.” So he started being cold twards my kids without me knowing why, until I told him he needs to tell me whats going on or we can move out. This statement came fully from his ex and not from his kids. His kids love being with us and would stay given the chance. That was years ago and we have never let anyone else put in their opinion about how we run our household and we treat all the kiddos like they are brothers and sisters equally. I would see if there is something else going on thats causing him to act that way and if he doesnt stop it will only get worse for your kids when the new baby is born and in that case id get far away. But if yall are starting another family, you and your kids deserve his respect and dont settle for anything less! Best of luck💜
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He would be out by his next meal!!! 
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You teach people how to treat you by what you accept. I’d put him out of my home and before he was allowed back there would be rules! He would not only contribute financially but he would help with chores and parenting. If he decided he wasn’t willing to do those simple things he wouldnt be in my life in any capacity beyond parenting his child. Sometimes that wake up call is all a man needs but sometimes you find out who he really is and you’ll be grateful you haven’t wasted more of your precious life with him.
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Run as fast and far as your feet will carry you 
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Tell his mooching ass bye!
I’m gonna be harsh but there is absolutely no hope here. This is not a good relationship for you or your son. Your son will have internal issues if this continues. I know this first hand both in my experience with my moms SO and then my son’s fathers ex treated my son like he should have never been born. Seriously it will hurt him. And him being one way with finances and help around the house will mentally destroy you after while as well. If you need to talk please message me.
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Sounds like you know what to do. Kick his butt out. Your kids are your number one priority. Their mental health is more important.
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Let him go, it’s only going to get worse. You have your son and the baby to worry about without supporting a complete other set of people on your income without as much as a thank you or appreciation and understanding. He will end up pushing your son out of the house and that’s not okay, you know in your heart the answer already let him go and take care of his own family with his money. Be strong you are a awesome mom.
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I hope you take these ladies advice
Kick him out! He’s abusing you and your children.
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Talk your child and unborn baby and leave. I’m in a blended family. I had a child and my husband had a child. They have and where always treated equal. Then we had two more children together. We both work , we both pay equal for the bills. There is no his money, my money. You are in a toxic relationship. Either sit down and lay it out to him like you said on here. Or get out. You and your son deserve so much better then this. How he is treating your son is wrong.
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Please leave him. Your children don’t deserve this. Your kids should always come first before any man who isn’t willing to accept your boys.
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Ew, leave. He doesnt respect you or your children.
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His shit would be in a trashbag on the porch when he got back from partying!
FUCK THAT. Might as well be a single mom with how much you spend on everyone else. Youd still have enough money for you, your son, and baby. There is help out there for single moms with single incomes. It’s not impossible. since you say he is mean to your son. First things first any man be mean to my son leaving him would be the nice way out if I didnt bite his head off first. You dont need that shit. I’d pack my bags a be gone. Peace out. I would never stay anywhere where my son is getting treated like shit
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Tell him to leave because he is NOT going to change. Really, what are you waiting for? You’ve spoken to him on more than one occasion, you have pointed out how his treatment is different to your kids, you’ve witnessed the hurt in your children’s eyes, you’ve given him chances to be different and he hasn’t changed. You are right… he doesn’t care. Say whatever you want and he still doesn’t care. Cut your losses and tell him go. Your kids deserve better than that from the man in their mom’s life. Don’t put this man who clearly doesn’t care what you say or do above your flesh and blood!
As far as the food shopping and paying for it… does he pay for other things like electric, water, gas, rent, etc?
Sorry … but it’s over! Your kid comes first… pregnant or not … I’d kick him to the curb. It’s more than likely only going to get worse. You will be healing your sons wounds from this man when he’s an adult … so just walk away now .
If he isn’t helping you and treats you and your son like shit then why keep him around?? He’s taking advantage of you and probably doesn’t even care about either of you. No good man wants to see any of his children or the woman he loves hurt. Especially, by him.
That story reminds me of what I’ve been through. Almost the exact same except I’m not having no baby
How can you be with a man that mistreats your son.
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He is using you, and sounds like mistreating you’re children. Unfortunate for the child on the way, but sounds like you need to part ways.
If he doesn’t accept your kids, you need to kick him to the curb. There are plenty of men out there. Kids come first
What is taking you so long to see the light? First time he made a difference with his kids and mine would have been decision time with me. Get your son out of that toxic environment before he is scarred. Seek and find him a better father figurer. Don’t wait until the baby comes for your kid to see the difference he make with it. When he call me the B word would have been another factor.
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Don’t put anyone before your kids. Your kids will love you forever. If he cannot accept your kids then he needs to go.
Coming from someone who grew up in a household like this, get out of this relationship. My father allowed my stepmom to treat me like a second class citizen my entire childhood from 10 on. They had a child together and she used to tell me that he was more her kids sibling than he was mine because she carried him. She was nasty and as a child I couldn’t understand why she didn’t like me, why she didn’t want me and why she treated me that way. I’m now 31 with a 2 year old and I don’t speak to my father or his wife and haven’t for many years. Your son being treated like that will impact his entire life and his entire self so please for his sake, get out.
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